 Dizkashun tinywa ni Kukutu mga t nonetheless kukutu mga nina kankutu wa gajama kolkutu wakizu naita hiti wa kuikukutu kukutu mga tata Kukutu mga mawa mwa mawa mawa mga mawa mwa mawa mawa kukutu mawa mawa mawa mawa kukutu, bw schedules But it's different because maybe you are married and that is for all couples Yeah and just got married And your asking and I can tell you that I'm just angry I said it I have a z graffiti I said it I told you that my name has a z graffiti I'm going to buy it and then you can chat and then you can choose but you have to ask people a question you can't ask them a question You are watchingjukama welcoming to another episode of friends vibe right here on espionbas subscribe guys subscribe the conversations are right here on this set zikomoto sana my name is miss kithingi and I am joined by nice update skirio skirio yam na skirio rembu Ina maboujoho low budget. What are some of the insensitive things, what are some of the things we find normal, in quotes, that should actually not be acceptable or make people feel bad? What are some of those things? What are some of the things we find normal, in quotes, that should actually not be acceptable or make people feel bad? What are some of the things we find normal, in quotes, that should actually not be acceptable or make people feel bad? What are some of the things we find normal, in quotes, that should actually not be acceptable or make people feel bad? What are some of the things we find normal, in quotes, that should actually not be acceptable or make people feel bad? What are some of the things we find normal, in quotes, that should actually not be acceptable or make people feel bad? What are some of the things we find normal, in quotes, that should actually not be acceptable or make people feel bad? What are some of the things we find normal, in quotes, that should actually not be acceptable or make people feel bad? What are some of the things we find normal, in quotes, that should actually not be acceptable or make people feel bad? What are some of the things we find normal, in quotes, that should actually not be acceptable or make people feel bad? Ujia wa ihama. For instance, bado kwa kwa bed-sita. Bado ujia mulida kama. Ujia ito kwa bed-sita. Ujia ihama huku. So nuku manisha nafa. Atoke kwa iyo bed-sita. Labda aende kwa one bedroom mama to bedroom mama. Atoke one bedroom mama. Exactly. In short, why you not upgrading. Why you still there? You know people are going through things that you might not know about. So inginia priorities are all. Labda na jenga usha guku kwa wana jenga wa zazi. No, na nuliza nao na chukwa na kulipa rent. Imagine. Una nuliza na mimi nao na chukwa na kulipa rent. Kulipa mogi. Kwa kwa kwa five bedroom lahimi are struggling with lom. Iyo kwa malakini na segizana kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa iwa na dudrumia mama bed-sita. But if I'm comfortable, why? But how will you know how uncomfortable they are going through some? They just can't afford. But let me ask you a question. Priority in bens. Priority. You have to accept that we have we have different priorities in life. Urona. I need to find a better house we are moving to a better house before you upgrade your car. That's your priority. High priority. Kutega kwa boardroom. Kutega tender kwa boardroom. Daki na tababa five bedroom ya ke nama tattoo kwa boardroom. Una na. Laki na kengia packing lots nama CDs. Priority is bana. Upgrade. Kwa mali go comfortable. Malimi na kwa niko comfortable. Neza lipa rentiangu po lipo. Na mimi na nansin. I mean they are paying the rent comfortable. They are comfortable. They are comfortable. That is what they can afford. Una joe na Nairobi venye nyumba ni expensive. Una kama liya kuna packing. Wale mo kupita wana kojo apu. Wazio wa tribasite mera. Labda tageti ya ke ni Kutega madem na yo range rover. Uza nkulizia ukuna masidizuna pack inje. Una isi maliya kuna da packing. Na imbora ni kama unengiliya na ibawako anyway. Na imbora ni kama unengiliya na ibawako anyway. This is two personal. Naisayos. Mine is a few. One point in like take a while. One is asking women monopati mumba. Uta salini. Why? Kusia it's different because now maybe you are married. Uko oreni upo kwa marriage. And also that's all couples. Just got married. No, that's not it kido. Getting a child is not a problem. Kus maybe them that's even struggling to find a child. I'm a mere woman. I'm struggling to get pregnant. I'm struggling to conceive. That is so insensitive to a woman. You don't have like stop asking women. But I'm asking people who are married. When are you getting another child? Una sa idea at times. Una sa idea nini kido shuwali. Una sa idea nini kido shuwali. I said idea at all. Let me say at this. Kuna mstiyana mga graduatea kuna presa kumakazi. But because of pressure I'm zazi. Ule ule we. Ana ule wa. Ana jwa in real sense. Next week kuna divorce you boy. Chali le sim. Chali a kuna doha zata na mga presa. Ana we mstiyana. PR2. I don't advocate for please the parents or those things. I don't advocate for please the parents or those things. Let them deal with their own issues. I have decided me and my partner we are going to start having kids after like 5 years. That's our decision. Me getting a child is my decision. I've said me and my partner we have talked about it. We are moving to a kana and it's official to make a waza zi towards the life. What's better? You may come to Kana we will have a 5 years plan. But this is an agreement I've said this is an agreement between me and our partner. And these are things it's an agreement between if you have agreed this is what we are going to do. Ama it could be we are struggling. Like any women a third party should not come and as the people stop it I must stop. We have many people in Kana who are different and you are asking me about mind In Kana ma waza zi the two of you have said we will have a 5 years plan. It's an agreement between me and my partner we will have a 5 years plan. So, there is nothing that she can do. It's very insensitive, but it's not okay. There is nothing she can do, by the way. It's not related. So, kumuliza aja ulohuna taka afani? They're just concerned. Bro! Let me tell you. And no wonder people hire people from here to go back home. And please their parents. And please their parents. So, what's that? That's a lot. Honestly. Exactly. You should know. At a marriage. But can I ask you a question? Can I ask you a question? I'm an adult. Like, I'm an adult. I can think. I know. I have plans. Excuse me. But what does she want for herself? But what do I want exactly? What does she want for herself? Let me tell you. If you say about my parents, I'm an adult. I know what I want for myself, not for my parents, because my parents live their lives. Your parents should be happy. They should help me to clarify my choices, but not choose things for me. Because at the end of the day, things that your parents choose for you na wewukuna taka. In years to come, these things show na utitakata at the end of the day. Actually, I believe your parents should be happy for your decisions. They should be happy with the decisions you make. That is what they should stick to. Not decided for you. Because you're an adult. Everyone is like... When you're speaking about this, this is for adults. People who are from 21, I believe that is an adult. And I believe as you are growing up also, you had your visions and where you wanna be and what kind of life you want to have. Hapitam na hbindu hibu. Hapitam na hbindu hibu wainu kwa zee. Hwenda na hlopi nga 1 chilbe na peresim. Hapitam na hlopi wainu kuja kwa hivanda maqha kwa kwa kwa hivanda maqha kwa? Hah.. Hapitam na hlopi maqha kwa hivanda maqha kwa kwa hivanda maqha kwa? Hwanda mkha kuja, wainu nga kwtia? Nkwa faultsi hwanda maqha kwa nga hii? Nkwa kwa kwa kwa nga nikua? Ah.. Nkwa kwa kwa kwa nga kwa? anashes n standardized neighbors at na muna sko mimi lunch na muna sko mimi rent that should not be a business Jusa sa, squeezy, awatu wa izoka ziza bank si mimi ni doctori, mimi ni accountant mimi ni mua limu mimi, those things are not there anymore some people are earning from being motivational speakers Imaji, muna mimi amchua si mimi ni influencer influencer agen influencer ni mimi ni wapombe wapombe by the way na kulipa siya na kulisha ina Nairobi but you start explaining to someone and also if you don't it looks like it's ruined so just stop asking me this question ya avoid being lied to cos you know I'll just look at it na fanyanga marketing you will not understand what I do msa ziwangu msa ziwangu bisha ba jwa, nga jua nga fanyanga ni nga hita bisho umuna na uhuru na muna na hajakwa ya nga nga bumata a kya baby it's hard to explain mba ya bandoza nga youtube it's so hard to explain is this hard nisa kama mti dipa mkanga ya ni conductor wu conductor na tengene za pesa kule komiti muenyako kwa bank ata kuna kwa beti na kwa mkanga waga risa isili Ata ku danganya julabda, ata ki umjaj Laki ni Anna gengiam zazwa ke naeo pesa Kus mostly when people ask in such questions It's not genuine, like I wanna know Most of the time Yeah, most of the time it's not genuine It's just I wanna put you on a pedestal I know where I can How to treat you Yeah and what respect to give you What kind of I mean I mean Yes I'm confused So I'm not joking My next May next ni Ule exwako alietnga wapi Sasa Sasa What you wanna kwa mwogo ije? Ibu ask such question A tula exwa kumonye muliku A lafona kuliza labda, mkwana your current Isosasa ni mambo kani No but actually But you're not even just your friend Someone new new you from social media Labda muliku amuna postiana Achi, achi, e Umipata mwingine Nga ula mhina lienda wapi No na juwaje Tulia chana You can see clearly I have a new one What is like honestly Ibu mawa kwa na ni ufanya ni mkigene New relationship Mu na tu postia mwotokia status Sasa mtu wasi kwa proudo Kwa mwotokia na tuwake Nga tuwambii That's why I don't know what my problem is Ukiwa chana na kliboma na nani Nga ni haje It is done No but still But we can notice Naa, but kido If I've introduced This is my Common sense If I introduce someone else The other one is no longer in the picture That is where you're not okay In your head And also that is just petty Aba aji Miliona Xwako sasa wukimona Miliona Xwako That is a very important information A very useless point That's it Miliona Xwako I can go on with my life without knowing that There's no point of you telling me that If you see them, that's okay So, alafu nidu That helped your life Mungo nabariki ni ni Kwa chakusubi e piya jini mungu maali Skrizi ni wunanga kido wa kwa America Kwa ibo? E, ama, niliwona Xwako sdi wa li pandishwa So what? Nia, na kumbe ni kwa suki kwa ma Imagini Xwaka na fanya pa le kwa ma li idi And then you know some people just come to tell you to make you feel some type away They don't come there to tell you just because Kwa ni they want you to It's not from a good place It's not from a good place No, some things are unnecessary kido Kido, why would you tell me that? Alafu ni ni saidi aje Like in your thinking, it's on saidi aje Nisa your next My other point is Asking people about their weight Nime konda sana skrizum na nona Kitambi bro Nia It's not okay People might be going Nuna pacham to maybe Ameanza kukonda Maybe it's because of stress Nia No, ataukinu liza evo ni kikwambia ita kusahidi aje Very true It's really unnecessary information When you're talking about someone's weight Ati e skrizum na konda I'm sick maybe I have cancer I have serious issues going on Ama na nona jubu because I have some Siku na apia Because you guys saw about Selena Gomez vini Like I don't know what is that This is called anafura Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah People by the Kenyans are very insensitive E buda una nona skrizum Kitambi Ume pura-pura mauso Sa surely Exactly, but that is not You don't have to ask someone Because if I started training to you It's not okay But you know kiddo sometimes Kukwana kitambi ita condition Sometimes you don't even want that kitambi It's maybe a medical condition That you intend to work on So the moment you start training Inakwa una mwingiliya Like self-esteem ya ke And not just even Not just even You know, the kunona na kukonda Ati e Na wu na kwa ngam fupi Na wu na kwa ngam refu Do you know ati kuna Kuna demugene besiangu ni mrefu sana Like kuna joma de mamezo siwa refu So here ni mrefu So here na taking your offensive action Na wu ni mrefu Na wu ni mrefu na wu ni demugene Una patanga charli Sa ni do Sa sa afanya ni ni Wu ni mfupi Una taka what exactly do you want them to do Ya just leave people with their boy And sometimes you will find people correcting you Whatever atawa unezawa correct Now wa feel vibaya Double standard smash Let's avoid asking those questions Because honestly they don't concern you Most of the time it's not coming from a good place Ya this question is not coming from a good place Kuku chamba chamba tu Kido you have another one Ya one more Awja Maliza you ni Oh I was going to tell them That's true That's true Actually I'm very This is so personal to me And if you come to me ask me This question again Ju honestly What do you mean? I'm struggling with peace I'm also struggling with a lot of things Honestly Why would you ask me about U come and graduate Kwae li by the way Sometimes Sometimes ineza kuata Ato kuende your college Juli kwa sa school fees Kwae fom tui ni na ineza kuza Nambunu wu kwae ineza college Kwae mbonu wu jajoin Mi ato wu jain tumia pesea Puket mani atake dobo But you're very entitled to ask me Amu li graduate na Izo ni wu kwa necessary kabisa kabisa ni Di shugulisha na iako kabisa Honestly ya And also if you're not paying for anything Of mine you shouldn't You don't have any entitlement to ask me that question Kwae you're not paying for anything You're not doing for me anything Ato ni wu kwa mbe vo ita kusai Di amo tantaftia kazi Kwae mbonu wu kwae ineza Sasa alafu wewe Kama mzazi aja uliza Wewe aza that party What is your concern? Ono juk tuka nyumbani Ume changiwa mbifiza rambi Ume sindikizu Kama uli changiwa pia You're answerable Kama uli changiwa pia Kama uli changiwa you're answerable Kama uli changiwa you're answerable You're accountable So you're not accountable for усi changed You feel you've tripped No but even juizazi, nyumu tumaine Tuna jua like hea na jua Like he's paying for Like of kus I have to be accountable Where the money is going But just a random person From the video jamah Not even just a random person Me, kwantai get this question a lot And I'm actually very embarrassed It's not okay, why you asking me Are you paying my feelings Nanda tumianga puketmangi ama, diwa nagemi ya job? Do you have one more? Dereya, nimakumuka ya kitu fila niya. Kutimanda suhne nukpe kazi. Naata ukimali za watafutia. Ukwa denginen. One more last one iko. There are people who adopt kids. Ya? Maybe they were not able to conceive of whatever reason they have. Atimbo na uli adopt. Bo na uli adopt wa kutaka kuzawa ko. Kutimanda suhne za pata. Mtumunya yuko aja conceive. Una mwambia. Siu adoptum toto. Ya. Really? As in, those are things muwachani tu nazo kabisa. Kabisa kabisa kabisa. Ya ni wachani tu. Another one. When you see someone with acne on their face, stop asking uli kaaje wuso. Ni acne, it's a hormono imbalance. Maybe something happened to their face. Ya ni, just stop it. Wachani ni na nyuso za watu. Ya, kwa ni hajioni. An owner. They know, they get it. It's just maybe something going on and they can't help it. It's not up to them honestly. Nia. Alright guys, so down on the comment section, let us know some of other insensitive comments that you've heard about. We need to go because my voice is going away. Thank you for watching. Make sure you subscribe. This was Friends Vibe. My name is Miss Kithingi. Nisa abdi. Until next time. Wachana ni. Bye.