 When the narcissist wants you back The narcissist treated you as though you were worthless or beneath their consideration And then they finally left But now they're messaging you Calling you or they're on your social media They're coming to your house or even the place where you work After they treated you as though you were nothing As though you were useless to them yet. They have now decided to come back It can be very confusing when they do this But the reason why the narcissist has come back Is because they knew that you were a good source of supply in the past You were susceptible to their manipulation You believed in their illusions and lies When the narcissist wants you back It is because they believe that you can be that person again You can respond to them in the same way as you did back then That is what they believe and That is what they are expecting When they want you back They don't want you to move on with your life They don't want you to heal and be happy without them. They want you to need them They want you to be dependent on them It allows them to have a source of stability and security Someone who is always there to fulfill their needs But they don't really care about you It's all an act It isn't genuine They will come back acting as though they care about you or they are interested in you But really they're just coming back for their own needs They are self-absorbed and lack empathy They don't care about you as a person They don't care about what you want or how you feel All they care about is their own needs and their own feelings Even if they have to meet them at your expense They don't care about how it affects you They don't care about your well-being When the narcissist tries to come back Don't let them in Don't let them control you They want to be in control of you They want to trick you into giving your power to them So that they can then be able to influence and direct your behavior on the course of events They want to maintain their influence and authority over you It is very beneficial for them and they will then use you to fulfill their needs and regulate their emotions Leaving you miserable depressed and even broke in the process Because they don't care about you They don't care about how their behavior affects you All they care about is their own emotions and their own needs That is why you should not let the narcissist come back into your life It is not going to help you. It is not going to make you feel any better. It is only going to make your life worse Narcissists only make people's lives worse You can either build someone up or break them down and Narcissists definitely break people down if you let them back into your life That is exactly what they are going to do to you They always leave you worse off than before you met them because they only come back to take something from you Without giving you anything in return They are very needy negative people They are very insecure. They constantly need emotional support They are lacking the necessities of life So if you let them back in They're only going to take away your emotional strength They're only going to take away your necessities of life To replenish theirs, which is why you should not let them back in You should avoid them. Go no contact with them Keep your own power and use it to rebuild everything that the narcissist tried to destroy Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonated with you Please like comment share and subscribe Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description CoachingInquiries, you can hear my me at www.coachingatyuma.com Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon