 If you keep running around in the street, hey, sorry, I have a little question for you, I'm Superman. If you think, go away, you stupid, in your blue tights. It's okay to laugh actually in my presentation, so don't be, just laugh if you want. I like it to laughing, so. Right, second thing is you will say, I don't have time. I say, oh yeah, I actually don't have time too, I'm there with my friends. Yeah, I have to, but you are actually the problem. I'm now late for work, you know. I get fired of you. She will laugh, so it's good to laugh because you feel when you're laughing, you relax. When you really, really are laughing, muscles don't do it anymore. You really like, lol, is laughing on the floor or something? Laughing out loud. Laughing out loud, yeah, you also have a roller for something? Yeah, rolling on the floor. Yeah, so that's the thing, if you really start really ecstatically laughing, you can't control your muscles anymore. You start going on the floor. You ever have this in your life that you did this? Like, ecstatically laughing and you fell on the floor, you couldn't stay anymore? That's a real good experience. When she laugh, because she will be nervous too, maybe even more nervous than you. Probably she will be more nervous than you. You know why? Because you knew what is going to happen. You knew you're just some random guy and you don't want to take her purse or you don't want to rape her somewhere in the bushes. You just want to have a nice experience, maybe 10 minutes to drink. That's all. People lead in the media all the time and especially girls about men who rape women. You don't see things in the paper like Thomas met a girl, 25 years old. They went for a drink for 10 minutes. They had a nice time. You don't read this in the paper. You read the shit in the paper about shitty men who do wrong things, who aren't in this conference. So you have to take care of one thing. What mostly overlooked in pickup is security. In pickup it's like comfort. But mostly it's actually the security. If a woman feels secure with you, you can do everything you put her. Third thing is, I have a boyfriend. She will say this a lot. About 7 out of 10 will say they have a boyfriend, especially at first. You know why? Trying to scare you off. Mostly you're not doing approach that good. You can watch DVD at home because it's online for free. Mostly you're doing that good. You're probably too fast. Just repeat what I said. Sorry I have a little question for you. I saw you walking on the street. Pause, thank you. Two things. Don't really know what to do. Nervous drink. Somewhere that's the basic outline. And somewhere you should find your own outline. That's the thing. She will say she has a boyfriend. You can do whatever you want with it. There are some good lines for that too. I mostly say thank you. Now you think I see you're looking at why he says thank you. What the fuck? She will think the same. She will invest. And of course there are some people who say investment is good within pickup. She will invest in thinking about you, why he says thank you. And she probably verbalized that in why you say thank you. It's very easy you say. You say hey I just wanted to go for a 10 minutes drink and you're already thinking about a relationship with me. That's a good thing I think. I look like a supermodel or something. You always can say of course you have a boyfriend. You look super nice. How did you meet? You can go into the boyfriend thing. And then you can ask somewhat later how long do you know your boyfriend. And when it's not a real boyfriend you will say like two days. Say okay you're going to marry this guy after two days or you're still free to go with other guys. So don't go for like hey you don't have time. I have a boyfriend because then you lose like 90% of all sets. After a while you get stronger with your warmth and respect. You get the vibe going because I can get into state if you would like. Like with the warmth and respect. I can concentrate on the nervousness. I can do it right. So it looks like a very benign approach and it is actually. I don't want to hurt her. I'm curious about her. I'm curious about her voice, what she is like. And I want to actually cure the curiosity in me.