 Some of the people you need boundaries for the most are the ones you keep telling yourself are well-meaning people. You keep justifying their rudeness, justifying their violation of your boundaries because she's just, she's well-meaning. She's got a good heart. A good heart can still kill you. I love my mom, she's well-meaning. Yes, some of you, your mom's killing you because she's toxic. Or your dad, or whatever it may be. Blood is not thicker than your mental health. When we decide someone's nice or well-meaning, we choose to suffer it out. We suffer it out. Stop suffering it out because you've said this person's well-meaning when what the truth is, they are a boundary violating human in your life and you need to stop suffering it out, draw a line and cut that energy out of your life.