 I did one for the ladies, now for the guys. Don't settle for a woman that's not passionate about God or eternal things. Don't settle for a woman that's contentious with her father. Don't settle for a woman who flaunts herself immodestly on social media. Don't settle for a woman that's fueled off male validation and attention. Look, it doesn't mean that she has to have everything together and you should be aware of your own weaknesses too. But you need to know that you can't fix her and you can't mold her into what you want her to be. That's God's job. He's going to mold her. It's your job to be patient. And then when you meet her, God will be in it.