 Right, so you want to be specific. You're making an appointment just for this lump and not for your yearly exam. So focus on your breast and not, oh I also have an earache and I might have a cold today, can you look at that. Focus on your lump and your breast. Tell him or her how long it's been there. Do you have a family history of breast cancer? When was your last mammogram? And that I do breast exams every month and this is new or you know I just saw a show and I saw on this breast exam and this has been there maybe just a week or two.