 When the narcissist knows you're gone for good. When they know you're not coming back, you don't desire to be around them anymore. And why? Because you're fed up of being abused. You're fed up of being insulted and put down. Yeah, you're fed up of all of that. You're fed up of being used, manipulated, whether it's for money, sex, whatever it may be. You're fed up of being mistreated. Because that's pretty much what it was all along. I mean, to them it was as though they were trying to help you. They were trying to do all of these things for you. That's what they led you to believe. And of course that is what we call the illusion. Yes, that is what we call that. And yeah, they made you believe that they were about all of these things. They lied to you, they future faked, they showed you a dream. And many of you I know, as I did, you believed in it. You bought into it because you genuinely believe that this person was about it for real. And in time you realized that no, that wasn't true after all. You got that wrong. And what they were actually about is themselves. Because yes, as we know, narcissists, they only care about themselves. They don't care about you or anyone else. And the reason why is because they're self-absorbed and they lack empathy. And another thing they lack as well is self-awareness. A lot of the times they don't even look at the things they do and they're just thinking about, I want this, I want it now. So I'm going to go out and get it. Yeah, they're thinking like that. They're not even thinking about, what about you? How do you feel about this? What do you want and when do you want it? No, they're not thinking like that. They're thinking, I just woke up today and I want this. So I'm going to go and take it from you. And at some point you get fed up of it. You've had enough of being used and abused, being mistreated, of being lied to, manipulated, future faked, exploited, deceived. You've had enough of these things because you know that these things are not real. You're starting to wake up to that now. And yeah, at that point you're going for goods. You're not coming back and they know it. They know you are no longer susceptible to their manipulation. And they know you're not susceptible to it because they've tried to manipulate you. They've tried to return to the love-bombing phase. They've tried to deceive you again. And what are you doing? You're still walking away. You're still going along your own path. You're still doing what you want to do. Because you realize that they're not about you, they're only about themselves. They're only about themselves. And that is why you stay gone for good. And you think that by doing that, by realizing, oh, this person isn't about anything. They haven't got anything of value to give to me, other than an illusion which actually, in reality, that doesn't hold any value anyway. So, yeah, you realize that you've got to move on and you think that they're just going to let you move on because you figured it out. If you're thinking that way, you must not realize who you're dealing with. Because if you know what you're dealing with and you know that it is real, yes, one thing that is real is that you are dealing with a narcissist. And if you realize that, you will also realize that you figuring them out, you catching on to what they're doing, you maybe confronting them, exposing them but that's not just going to make them scratch their head. Okay, you got me, you caught me out. Now I'm going to suddenly change and be everything you want me to be. No narcissist thinks like that. They might use that to manipulate you, yes, but soon as you start catching on, you figure them out, that is going to hurt them. That's really going to wind them up. And yes, they will lash out at you. They will want to bring you down. And that is actually what they will do when they know that you're going for good and when they know that you're not coming back. They will do everything in their limited power to destroy you. They will do everything they can to bring you down. And if they begin with something small, yes, they may attack you psychologically. They may insult you and put you down, try to target your self-esteem, try to make you lose confidence in yourself so that you don't think that you're good for anyone else. Yes, they may try to do that. I'm sure they've done that already. In most situations, they've already devalued you. And yes, that devaluation will continue after you've left them for good. They will still try to come back to do that. And not only that, but they will spread rumors about you. They will triangulate you with other people. And they will enforce their fly monkeys and start a smear campaign against you. They will gossip about you to everyone. They will label you as this bad person who couldn't do anything right. As though it was all you, everything was your fault. That's how you know something's not right. Because for one thing, it's never just one person to blame. There's always someone else involved. But that's what they do when it's over. That's what they do every time. When it's over and you move on, the first thing they're going to do is blame you for everything. They're going to blame you for everything. They're not going to take accountability for anything. They're not going to do that. Because they already know that that would put them in a very unfavorable position. They wouldn't have a leg to stand on after that. Because they've done so many things in their lives, they wouldn't know where to start. They've got so many skeletons in the closet. So when they know that you're gone for goods, they kind of left to their own devices after that. They kind of left to introspect the limited amount that they can. To the limited amount that they can look inside themselves. They kind of left to do that and to look at what they've become, to look at what they've done to you. And that is enough to trigger a narcissist all on its own. After that, of course, they're going to come out and get you. They're going to come out and bring you down because of what you're reflecting back to them. Because of how you're making them feel by you trying to move on. So yes, they will do all of these things. They will do everything in their limited amount of power to destroy you. Because they look at it like... If I can't have you, if I can't have you to myself and in the way that I want you, and where you're listening to me and where you're susceptible to my manipulation and you're constantly running on this hamster wheel, trying to meet my unrealistic expectations. This is how the narcissist is thinking. If I can't get you to do all of that, then I don't want anyone to have you. I don't want anyone to have that. This is how these crazy people think in their minds. This is how they think. And it is the saddest thing it really is. If they can't have you the way they want, under their control, under their spell, where they pull the wool over your eyes and you just do whatever they want, whatever they want you to do it. If they can't have you like that, they just don't even care what happens to you. They really don't. They will go out and try to damage you to really fuck you up. That's what they will try to do. Because they look at it like, okay, you're not going to be mine. You're not going to do what I want you to do. And the last thing they want to see is this person they've already invested so much of their time, effort, energy into controlling you and trying to keep you all theirs because they're extremely envious and jealous of you and anyone who tries to take you away from them. So that's why they're so deeply involved in all of this power and control. They're trying to control this thing that they are deeply envious of. Because they don't look at people the way we do. They don't look at people's uniqueness and strengths and individuality. And they don't want to see people move on with their lives and be happy with someone who could actually be good for them and treat them right. And also that person could do the same for someone else as well. But they don't care about that because they're narcissists. They're completely self-absorbed. They lack empathy. All they care about is themselves and what they want and what they want is to control you. They just want to keep you all to themselves. So no, they're not just going to let you get away. If they can't have you all to themselves, yes, they will try to destroy you. And I have experienced that in my own life where I have tried to get away from certain narcissists. And yes, by doing that, I ended up in some very bad situations. I did situations as you know in the past where at one point I even tried to take my own life because I was so destroyed by the things that were being said to me, by the things that were being done to me. And at other times I lost a lot of money. I even ended up in jail at one point. And this is all because I'm trying to escape from these narcissists. And that's exactly what they're going to do. They're going to get you trapped. They're going to try and abuse you financially so that you can't physically move on. Because of course you're going to need some money to do that and they're aware of this. So even if you have a job, they're trying to get you fired from your job. They're trying to steal your money away from you. And they're trying to turn everyone against you so that you've got nowhere else to go. That's another thing they'll do. And another thing is they will make false accusations against you. Try and get you in trouble with the police, in trouble with the law. Even though you may not have done anything wrong. Because they want to label you as a criminal, a bad person. Someone who does not deserve anyone. And that's kind of what they want to drill inside your head is that you don't deserve anyone or anything good. I can tell you that right now, that is not right. We all deserve good things. Even people who have done things wrong, they deserve good things more than anyone else. And clearly you can see that. So don't let them brainwash you. Don't let them make you think like that. No matter what they're saying that you've done. They may be saying that you're abandoning them. You're leaving them because they lack self awareness. They're not looking up their actions and everything they've done to you. They don't even care about that. And that's how they can just return to the love bombing phase so easily. As you notice, they go back and forth between the love bombing, the devaluation, the discard, the hoovering. They can just go back and forth like that because it doesn't mean anything to them. It's all just a false reality anyway. It's all fake and they're giving you a false character. And then they're switching back and forth between the false and the real character. So it's all just fantasy to them anyway. All of these things they do to you, they inflict harm on you. They make false accusations against you, they turn everyone against you. They steal your money, they do all of these things, they get you fired from your job. In their minds, none of this is real anyway. That's how they think. And of course it's not going to be real. Once you get to the point where there's no looking back and you don't want to be around them anymore and there's nothing that they can do to sway you. Of course nothing's real after that, is it? Because they know you're not coming back. They know you want nothing to do with them. Now that you know that they're not real. Now that you know that of course you don't want anything to do with them. Because you're about good things. That's what you're about. And I can tell you that there is nothing wrong with that. There is nothing wrong with being about good things. We should all decide to have good things in our life. So yeah. But this is what they will do to you. And I know how crazy this may sound. I am fully aware of that. But yes, despite everything they've already done to you. After they love bombed you from the very beginning, they tricked you, they manipulated you. They brought you into this relationship knowing fully well that they weren't about anything for real. But they lied to you, they future faked. And then when you started to catch on and you were thinking, hold on a minute. All of these things that you promised me, where are they? That's when they began to devalue you and make you feel like you're not good enough for it anyway. You don't deserve it. That's when they tried to make you feel like that. And then maybe they discarded you, maybe they returned back for the love bombing again. Or they discarded you and then they hoovered you. They put you for the cycle so many times. Because you know what, it actually gets boring for them after a while. When they love bombing you all the time, they've been ablating you. That gets boring. And then when they devalue you, they put you down and something new. That gets boring as well. And then when they discard you, they cut you off. They're bored again so they hoover you. That's why they have to switch through all of these different phases. Because they get bored after a while. They're very dysfunctional. They can't sustain anything for a long period of time. So yeah, they put you through the ringer pretty much. They put you for the cycles. They take you to the cleaners. They do all of these things to you. And when it's all said and done, and you just get to the point where you're like, okay, I get it. I'm a piece of shit. I'm garbage. I'm not worth anything. You don't want me. Okay, I understand that. Now just let me go. Just let me move on. And maybe I can find someone who I can be good for. No, they're not going to let you do that. They love you the most when you've got one foot out the door. And when they can see that you've moved on, you've gone for goods, they get very envious, jealous and competitive. Because it makes them feel very insecure. They're not looking at all the crazy things they've done to you. It just instantly makes them question themselves and they're thinking, Hold on a minute. That means I'm not good enough. That's how they're thinking in their minds when they try to control you. Because it directly affects their self-esteem. So they see you getting away. And now they've got to reel you in. They've got to pull you right back in. Because it's triggering them. When they see you getting away. It's like there's crabs in the bucket mentality. They see you climbing out the bucket. They've got to pull you right back in. They can't let you get further ahead than them. Because then that makes them feel small. But they don't want to do the work to actually build something for real. Because a lot of them, they already know that they can't. They already know that they're missing that key ingredient. Empathy and without that, nothing's going to last anyway. Because you need to be able to empathize and understand other people. You need to be able to understand their situation and their feelings. Otherwise nothing's going to last. If you don't have that. But guess what? They do know that you have that. And that is one of the main reasons why they don't want to let you get away. Because you know, if they know you're not about anything. If they know that you don't have the tools to build anything for real. Why would they even bother trying to control you? If you're not that special. And if you don't have the tools to move on and find something for real. Why would they do that? It's because they know they can't. But they also know that you can. That's why they will go out of their way, track you down and try to control you. Because they know that they can't but you can. That is why. And if that isn't enough. After they've put you through the ring so many times. They've love bombed you, devalued you, discarded you, hoovered you. And you've probably lost count of how many times they've done that. They might have been doing that for years, 10 years, 20 years, 30 years. You may have lost count of how long it's been. And despite all of that and you try to move on and then they go out and try to destroy you. And then once you've lost everything, maybe you've lost your job. You've lost all your friends, your family members, all of your support. By this point, no one wants anything to do with you. Because they've smeared your name, they've made you look like a bad person. And yes, you may have lost your job, they may have targeted you financially, you've got no money. You don't get anything. And you think, okay, they have manipulated me, deceived me, lied to me, future faked me, kept me holding on for such a long time. And when I started to catch on, they devalued me, they made me feel like I'm nothing. Then they discarded me, then they came back, then they discarded me again, came back again. So many times until I finally got the picture, then it moved on myself. And then they went out of their way to try to destroy me, to destroy everything in my life. Every relationship, money, job, everything. Many of you may not even have a place to stay. And after all of that, you would think it's finally over. But no, they lack self-awareness, object constancy. So they're not looking at all the crazy things they've done to you. What they're looking at is you trying to get away. And when they see that you are in this hopeless and helpless situation, where you assume that it's all over for you, they're just looking at it like, great, this is the perfect opportunity for me to come back and to start the cycle all over again. Which is exactly what they will do if they have succeeded in destroying you. What they're going to do is they're going to come back, manipulate you all over again, start with a love bomb and phase. Once they get bored of that, they'll devalue you again, insult you, put you down, make you feel like shit. And then they'll discard you all over again. And then they'll come back with a hoover. And this can go on for the rest of your life until one of you dies. It really can. Because it is very unlikely that they're going to find someone else like you. Because if you've been watching my videos long enough, yes, you are very special. You really are. And I have talked to many of you, my clients in the sessions, and I'm not just talking about physically, although, yes, many of my clients, they are very beautiful people. But I'm not just talking about that. Narcissists, they target the best of the best. This is common knowledge. They don't want average people. And I'm not just talking about physically. I'm talking about people who have a purpose in life. They're striving towards something. And not only that, but they have a heart. That's one thing that pretty much every target of a narcissist has, is they have empathy. They have empathy. And in this world, that is actually, believe it or not, an extremely rare trait. It really is. And even a lot of the people who do have empathy, their own need and desires override it. They override it. So yes, you are actually a very special person. And that is why they had to go out of their way so hard to trick you, to devalue you, to make you believe that actually you're nothing. Actually, you're a bad person. And they label you, they make false accusations against you. They turn everyone against you to get caught in the law. They do all of that to convince you that you're a bad person. So that you're going to assume that you're no good for anyone. You're not even going to try because that's what they want us to do. They want us to stay alone, to stay isolated, to not engage with anyone, to think that we're not good for anyone. We don't deserve anyone. That's how they went to think. And of course, we don't think like that on this channel. This channel is about not only self-awareness and take responsibility, but also building confidence in ourselves, recognizing that yes, we are special. And that is why we were targeted by these narcissists. That is why they spend so much time around us. They go out of their way to track you down and to contain you in this box. They don't want you to be free. That is the last thing that they want. They want to take away your God-given free will, your ability to make your own choices and decisions. And they will do that in a variety of ways. By manipulating and controlling you, deceiving you, valuing you, putting you down. And also by trying to shame you, by making you think that actually, no, no, there's something wrong with your choices or your decisions. There's something wrong with that now. And so you shouldn't be doing that. No, that is exactly what you should be doing. Whatever they told you, you should not do. You need to go out and do that right now. Well, maybe not right now, but you need to take the time to heal from everything they put you through. And then in your own time, when you're ready, when you feel like the time is right, yes, you do need to move on. And you know, a lot of people who have been through this, they really do believe that it's all over for them. They believe that this is as good as it gets. There's nothing more for them after that. No one else is going to want them. Because that's how analysis makes you think, isn't it? They want to leave you in a state where you are no good for anyone else. That's how they want to leave you. Because yes, that is what this is about. It is about you trying to move on and develop a relationship with someone else. That is what they are deeply afraid of because they're very envious, jealous and competitive. So yes, that is one thing that would bother them the most. To see that, to see you not only move on and you're happy without them, but to see that you've also done something they can't, which is develop a healthy functional relationship with someone else. Because then that really reveals who the problem was. If you're able to move on and do that, then that tells people everything they need to know. Once you've achieved that, then it's indeniable after that point. And of course they want to maintain the illusion, the false narrative. So the last thing they want you to do is that they don't want you to move on because of everything that tells them about themselves. Just by yes, that is the last thing they want you to do. And they will do everything in their power to pull you back in to prevent you from moving on. But yes, so what you need to do after you've been through this with these narcissists, you need to develop your self-confidence because of course they brought your confidence down. They made you believe as though you're not deserving of what you think you are. You're not who you say you are. These things that you desire, these things that you want, yeah, you can want that all you want, but that doesn't mean that you should get it. This is how they want you to think. And they want you to beat yourself up. They want you to walk around with your head down. You can't even look anyone in the eye anymore. Because by this point you just feel like you're worth nothing. That's exactly how they want you to think. That does not mean that's who you are. This is the identity that they've given to you. And in actuality it really has nothing to do with you at all. Yes, as you can see it is raining now. I'm stuck out here with no umbrella. The crazy thing is I actually did bring an umbrella too and I left it in the car. It was so sunny when I came out as you probably can see at the beginning of the video. So I didn't expect it to come down like this. Luckily there is shade under these trees so that it should keep me dry a little bit. Hopefully it will stop soon. But yeah, I know a lot of you. It really breaks my heart. When I see, I read some of the emails, some of the comments, I speak to the clients and I hear some of you, you can't even because you were afraid. You've taken away your confidence in yourself. I know they targeted you. They always wanted to be around you because they're selfish. They just want to keep it to themselves. And yes, I hear from a lot of you lost all that confidence in yourself. You're afraid to go out and talk to people. You walk around with your head down. Some of you, you don't even want to leave your own house. You don't even want to leave your own house. It's gotten to that point where you just feel so much shame about yourself and for no reason at all. For no reason at all. Because it's not even you. It is them. They did all of these things to you. They targeted your self-esteem. They made you feel small. They made you feel like you're not good for anyone. And that is the thing that quite honestly brings me the most pain. When I read these stories from people and I speak to my clients that's what really irritates me the most. It really does. Because it's that loss of potential. What it could have been. What you could have had. And not only that but what someone else could have had with you. And sadly, we may never know what you could have had in the past. We may never know that. But you just got to see it as though being with a narcissist. Now it's made you more aware of yourself. And now you can strengthen yourself. You can recognize your weaknesses and you can deal with that now. Because that's all these narcissists, these haters do. They just expose your vulnerabilities and once they're exposed to you then you can take care of it. And you could be better for someone else. That's what you can do. So don't think of it as though it's all gone. Think of it as though it's just preparing you for a better future with someone else. That's how you've got to see it. But you do have to be aware. You do have to protect yourself because they're not going to want to see you do that. That's why it's because they already know they're not going to have that. They're never going to have that at all. And of course you should be able to recognize that by their actions. I mean if someone is really happy with their lives if someone is really happy with that with their job with whatever they've got maybe they've moved on, found new supply if they're really happy with that do you really think they're going to go out of their way to try to destroy you to try to manipulate you again? Of course not. I mean just put yourself in their shoes. If you moved on and things got better for you you found someone else that you liked you think you're going to be thinking about them again? Of course not. You're going to forget all about them. That's what you're going to do. So of course they've got to control you because they don't want to see you moving on and have something that they already know they are never going to have. Never. And yes it should be completely obvious by now that they will never have that. You're going to know that because of how they treated you of how they treated you that they ever care about you that they ever considered you. No they didn't they loved bombs you they belated you to get you under their control and then they devalued you they future faked. Nothing ever came into reality the way that they put it out to you it was just all future faking and now in the end what have you got? You've got nothing from them all you got was abuse and revelation, deception lies and now you've got this crazy person coming after you trying to destroy you trying to bring you down again that's what you got that's what you got you got everything you didn't want and yet at the beginning they made you believe that they were about that for real but they were never about that for real they just wanted you to think that so that they could get what they wanted from you that's all they wanted to do that's all they wanted to do but yeah when you realise this you do need to become aware you do need to recognise everything that they've done everything that they're trying to do you do need to try and recognise all of that so that you can protect yourself in the future use these things these experiences to make you wiser more knowledgeable less naive as we were before because a lot of us yes we were foolish when we first met them for even giving them a chance we should have walked away from the very beginning so in a way that is on us we should take responsibility for that and yes just use this information to become wiser it could potentially help you to find your soulmate the person that you belong with but first you need to build yourself back up you need to heal because if it's your real soulmate I can tell you that they are not going to be like the narcissist they're not going to be anything like that they're not going to be insecure they're going to have everything that they need yes they may desire a relationship but that's the way that a healthy relationship should work it's not two people coming together to complete each other that is not a healthy relationship and that will fall apart at the end a healthy relationship is two complete people coming together two people who are already happy on their own but what do the narcissist do to you? they try to make you feel insecure for being alone as though that was the wrong thing for you to do because that's how they think because they always need supply and of course just that mindset alone it should already tell you where they're going to go it should already tell you that they're never going to have a type of relationship that you desire and to be honest they don't really care about that so much I mean you've got to think these people they lack empathy even if they did decide to have empathy it would only be so that they could manipulate you even more and you've got to look at that by the how that's all they've ever been trying to do anyway never trying to develop anything authentic with you because all they're about is their relationship they don't really care about empathy so much it doesn't do anything for them but they like it when you show empathy for them because then they can use that to control you they're getting you to feel guilty to feel bad for them to overlook all of the things they did to you in the past but yes you've just got to try you know it's not it's not going to be pretty it's not all sunshine and rainbows when you do try to move on they will try and bring you down pull you back in they will try to do that but you've just got to keep moving cut your losses yes you may lose a lot of things but then you just got to ask yourself at the end of the day what do I really want you've got to ask yourself that and recognize that yes at the beginning when you first met them you wanted something you wanted a real relationship you wanted marriage children you wanted a future with someone a healthy relationship that was what you wanted all along and they made you believe that they were about that but they weren't they weren't about that for real and they may have even tried to make you feel bad for wanting that but guess when you heal and you move on things will get a lot better for you and you can find that for real don't let anyone tell you that you can't and don't let anyone try to stop you if you have this desire so much in your heart for a real relationship a real connection true intimacy there is of course a reason for that because as we know not everyone desires that they're just looking to intimidate people to take advantage so there is a reason why you have this desire and you need to follow that desire let it take you to where you need to go because you know you may have thought it was good the love bombing phase even though it was fake it wasn't real imagine having that for real with someone else someone who is about it for real and you just gotta look at yourself imagine someone caring about you the way that you care about other people the way that you cared about the narcissist imagine someone loving you the way that you loved the narcissist just imagine that and when you imagine it you will know that it has to exist it has to because you're that person you were that person who gave your entire life to the narcissist you gave them everything give them all of your love, energy and attention so just take a moment to imagine that to imagine someone loving you the way that you love someone caring about you the way that you care and just knowing that you have that yes it must exist within someone else it must but of course you don't want to continue the health of the unhealthy dynamic you can't just go running into another relationship now just after you've moved on because obviously then you're going to be more dependent on someone else the way narcissist will see you in a weak position and take advantage of you that's not going to be good that's not going to be what you want because remember you wanted something more you wanted a real relationship you wanted true intimacy and if that's what you really want you've got to hold on you've got to take time to heal yourself and yes it will take time it might take six months it might take one year but however long it takes I can promise you that it will be worth it when you take the time to heal yourself and you become a complete person on your own you're fine being on your own you don't mind it you don't mind sleeping alone in your bed at night that's fine you're not long enough you're in it for anyone you're okay by yourself and guess what there's someone else out there who is exactly like you someone who is complete on their own no they don't need to exploit you they don't need to take advantage of you they don't need to do any of that but when you find each other it's just going to feel right it's going to feel amazing and I know that you're going to love it I know that you're going to love that and yes kind of goes back to this loss of potential that we talked about yes I hate that and I guess that is why I want this so much for you when you do get to heal and move on and you do find this person as we talked about yes it is very rare but once you become whole and complete within yourself you will be able to attract this type of person into your life and yes it will be an incredible feeling for you when you do find this person who loves the way that you love they care the way that you care you've got to be able to perceive of it first and to do that yes you do have to heal it's very important that you take time out it's very important that you do that and believe it or not sometimes these narcissists do create the perfect environment for us to do just that because they isolate us they turn everyone against us maybe it's all a plan all along to prepare you for what is really meant for you that's who you've got to think about it and yes that can be your reality and it's very rare if I'm honest I do hear these types of success stories unfortunately yes people move on they become happier they do better without the narcissist but it is extremely rare that I've heard anyone say they've moved on and found someone who loves and cares the way that they love and care it is very rare that I hear that but yes I do offer one-on-one coaching where I can guide you along your healing journey towards that because I've been and done it myself I mean you've seen enough times already in my videos I've made hundreds of videos I'm always alone and I'm happy on my own I can honestly say that but I'm also waiting for my time and I have a feeling that it is coming soon when I will meet someone who is complete within themselves someone who won't be so dependent on me they won't need me but they may desire me and we can be complete together so yes I am waiting for that time myself but I believe that I've already got to the point where I feel healthy I feel good on my own I feel happy 90% of the time because of course yes there are ups and downs I'm not dependent on anyone else's validation I don't need anyone to validate my reality I can validate it myself and at this point I don't think any narcissist is going to be able to manipulate me I can see it a mile away because I've been through it enough times and I've had time away to heal from that and I'd like you to get to that point as well and do well in time as I said I do offer one-on-one coaching which is available it's booked for my website anytime it's Narxifyva.co.uk so yes you can book a session through there and I will guide you I will give you the support that you need to get to where you need to be because as I said there is nothing that makes me happier especially for people who they have that loss of potential in their lives they were kept down for such a long time they thought they could never get back up nothing more amazing for me than to see a person like that finally finding the strength and confidence in themselves and being able to move on and to find out for real that real relationship, that real intimacy that feeling when you look into someone else's eyes and you know you have this connection because yes I have experienced that already a few times and it's the most amazing feeling in the world it really is I think that's why we cure we cure to connect and unfortunately a lot of people don't have the ability to do that they're just all about themselves they're all about getting something from you they're all about short term things they don't even care to get to know you they just want to have sex they just want to spend your money but we all come together on cure because we want something more we want something more and yes I'd love to be your guide on that I'd love to be the person who helps you to get there I'd love to be that for you but yes that's it for the video I'm actually quite hungry now I'm going to go and get something to eat hopefully I'll find something good but as always I'd just like to thank you all for joining me on another NARC's Highway Live video we do have 102 people watching this video right now only 34 thumbs ups so please do show some love give that thumbs up button down below support our community support my work this message it would mean a lot to me and share the video let me know your thoughts down in the comment section let me know if you agree with it or not let me know your experience if 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