 Welcome to Psychic Medium, Tony Green. I'm Tony Green, the Psychic Medium. And I want to thank you for being here with me today on New Year's Day. First and foremost, if anybody reaches out to you, just please know it's not me. I do not reach out to people and say, hey, you need this or that or the other thing. Just not me. I don't get scammed. My website is tonig.info. If you want a reading or hypnosis or a healing that is the place to go or to call my business number, which is also on my website. And if you are calling in today, please be patient. I can only take one call at a time. And I will take that. I will let you know when to call in. And then I will take that caller. And then when I'm done with that caller, I'll let the next person know to call in. I'm really sorry. I'm not in control of blog talk. There's nothing I can do about that. We're just going to kind of muddle through whatever the way we can. And we've done this the past couple weeks. While blog talk is fixing their situation, we'll get through it again today, right? Okay. So I'm going to do names. I'm going to do the show like I always do. I'm going to do names. I'm going to do songs. And then I might do a little channeling. And then I will take some questions. This is the way I've always done the show. I'm going to continue to do that today. I have to tell you this song has been in my head all, all morning. Okay. So it's, hey, sexy lady. Something, something you've got me balling out of control. I don't even know. I know we've all heard the song. I don't really know the song. And again, my one and only warning. I cannot sing on tune, on beat, in tune, in beat, or at all. So I apologize, but this is the way spirit brings it through. The next song is all night long. All night. All night. I can't dance either, but it doesn't stop me. Just do things you can't do until you can do them. Now, there's a disclaimer with that. I will probably never be able to sing. That is not one of my gifts. And I am okay with that. I'm so okay with that. The next song, okay, the songs, I just jumped right into songs there. The songs can be a song, your loved one, loved or new. It reminds you of them. A song that answers your question, or you love or no. It's just like a confirmation for you. The songs are confirmations for you. The next song is, oh, the song comes through every single time. Oh my gosh. Let me love you. I'm not even going to sing it. I'm hearing a group, the fray. I know that's a group. I couldn't tell you what they sing, the fray. And then that song, I give up forever to touch you something. And you feel the same way. Oh, I don't know. I don't know. Come on. Don't stop now. They're waiting. I'm trying to get to the chorus, everybody. If you know that song, put it in the chat. I'm sorry. I think that song, I'd give up forever to touch you. I think those words, if you know that song, you know that song. I think that is part of the chorus though. It could be part of the chorus. It could be. It just might. Okay. The next song is, oh, that song just makes me cry. I can't even sing it. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. I can't even hear it. It just makes me cry. It's by Eric Clapton here in heaven by Eric Clapton. That song just, that song just makes me cry. I mean, I can't even hear that song just makes me lose. I can be like in the best space. And that song will take me like, because it says, and I know I don't belong here in heaven. Like, and I know that song was written for his very young son that passed away. So that song is so, yeah, Eric Clapton, tears in heaven. Thank you, Aloha Jay, tears in heaven. Do not listen to that song until you have a moment to listen to that song. Okay, the next song is, fresh monkey. Monkey junkie. I know most of these words are wrong. But if you know, you know. The Beastie Boys are so funny, though, aren't they funny? The Beastie Boys are freaking hilarious. Their songs are just so funny. For the era that they, for the time frame that they came out to do that music and do it, excuse me, in such a funny way. Oh my goodness. Okay, the next song is by LL Cool J, or just, they're just saying LL Cool J. And I'm hearing the song round, round, round away girl, round the way girl, round the way girl. The next song is by, it might not be songs, it might just be the artist or the group Lil Wayne. Lil Wayne, I could not tell you not one of his songs. If I heard his song, I would probably know it. I wouldn't know it was Lil Wayne. But somebody, you know what we have? And then I'm hearing Young Thug. Okay, this is for one specific person. All these groups are for one specific person. I feel like, maybe not, but I feel like somebody, somebody who just, who maybe recently went home, this was their genre. Okay, okay. I'm going to go to names now because I just had a flash of something that happened, and it possibly happened over the weekend, but we're, okay. If somebody lost somebody, and I have goosebumps coming up my, coming up my legs into my soul, that's not a song anybody would know, because I'm just making it up as I go. I feel like over this weekend that there may have been a pew pew. I can't actually say the words because my show will get flagged and taken down like Charlie Brown. Topics like this make me nervous. And I get really ridiculous when I try to talk about super serious topics, because I try to stay composed. So I'm not making a light of what happened. I'm just trying to get through what happened. I feel like this weekend there might have been some pew pew, pew pew going on, and for whomever this, this is for probably more than one person went home this weekend due to the pew pews. I feel like this had a lot of, a lot to do with that life, if you will. And the feeling from whomever this is is also coming in. So, and then I'm hearing the song, I'm in love with a thug. Thank you. I needed that. Thank you. I so needed that right now. And they're just one of the, I feel like this is a meal coming through. He was a little bit bigger. Big boy. Any saying mama, you were right, mama, you were right, mama, you were right. And that it was, I wasn't ready. It wasn't supposed to be my time. Well, you know, FAFO, if you're about that life, if you're about that life, sorry. One of the things that's coming through from this person is if I have, I'm not going to be able to talk like they're talking, but if I had to do it all over again, I hope I would make better choices, but probably not. But I get the feeling this person is trying to say that their moms, their moms, their moms really tried to save them. Their moms really tried to pull them out at every turn, at every turn their moms was pulling them out. I am going to say this, this person has very dark skin and their hair is like dreaded or braided. And I would never use a word dreaded because I'm not even sure what that means. So that must be a fact. At some time, sometimes their hair was like that. And then other times not, but they were like kind of a big boy too. They were kind of a big boy. Okay, we're going to let that go now. And there was, I feel like some people that might have been innocent that were victims in this whole weekend shy yet show. And I, my hair goes out to everybody about, okay, now I'm going to go to, I'm going to go to, I'm going to go to names. We're going to Gerard Dwayne. Okay, let me finish first folks. Let me tell them what the names are about. If you're new to the show, welcome to the no longer, I am no longer in control of my mouth. Welcome aboard. Names could be the names of loved ones on the other side. It could be your name, their name. It could be a name of somebody you both, you both know. Okay, so the first name we already did two of them Rico Santiago, Jesse, Jesse, Jesse, Jay, Jesse, come on folks. I don't even know now. They're all like, there's this big group of people hanging right here that are like, um, yeah, okay. Maria one. Again, I'm hearing Wayne, like Dwayne, Wayne, Lil Wayne, all of that is coming through. So you know what, we're just going to, we're going to go into some, a different aspect of the show. Now I'm going to go to the next part of the show, which is the channeling part of the show. Not that these names are not important or not, not needed. I'm just going to go to the next point. And then when I take callers or answer questions online, whoever everybody wants to talk to is who we will talk to and where we will go. Okay, here we go. I'm going to channel just a bit for the new year. And I think what's going to come through today is a little bit about how to create your new year, how to have your best new year. Are you guys ready? Because I'm ready. If you're ready, I'm ready. Okay, as you enter into this new year, it is imperative for you to know that everything is within your controls and your confines. There are no exterior controls over you. The only controls that are there are the ones that are in your mind. This is past programming, past beliefs, past teachings. We are asking you to look at things in a new way. If you've always done something in one way, we are asking you now to do it in a new way. We are asking you to have a new thought. If you've always gone to work and been at work and this no longer fits you, find a new way, find what does fit you. We are asking you to don't believe. We are asking you to have a new belief on how things can work. We are asking you if you've had this belief and it's always gotten you or taken you to the same place with the same result to change the belief itself. And as soon as you change the belief of this is how it's supposed to be done. This is how I should do it. This is how life is. As soon as you change that belief, everything within you, every ounce, every cell, every molecule will start to change in the direction of you doing it in a new way automatically without even trying. Many... Ah, give me a second. I'm so sorry everybody. Many who have changed the world, many who have changed their life and the lives of many others have just formed a new belief, which formed a new program, which formed a new way of living. These are the ways for prosperity. I'm so sorry everybody. Every time they say a word, like, I'm like, does that make sense? Instead of just letting it flow today, I don't know why I'm so in my head about the channeling. I really am sorry. I'm gonna try to go just a little bit deeper and let them continue. I seriously do apologize. As you start with a small belief, something like maybe I need my coffee every morning to get going. Maybe you say, I need this instead, honey instead. And you have a new belief and you start to change your beliefs incrementally. Every belief will incrementally change automatically without you doing anything about it. Prosperity is yours. Prosperity was always yours. You were put here to have a happy harmony. The struggle and the suffering is caused by the choices that you make and argue with us and say, it's not my choices. It is the choice of what happens or who came in and they did this and they did that. We did not tell you to stay with them. We did not tell you to stay in a situation where somebody is not bringing a harmonious situation. Having that experience is an experience. You can have that experience for however long you choose. If you go to work every day and begrudgingly there is a boss or a co-worker that is annoying, walk away. First find something different, but to walk away. It is your choice to not tell somebody to please walk away. It is your choice to not walk away. And you may say, but we need the security, we need the money. There is plenty of other positions. There are plenty of other monies and there are positions with even more money than what you are bringing in now, but you choose to stay. And in choosing to stay in situations that do not make you happy is where the misery comes from and the suffering comes from and the unhappiness comes from. You are put here to create and co-create. If you are in a situation where you are mundane day after day after day after day after day after day after day doing the exact same thing, you of course, that it's not why your soul is here. That will not fulfill you. Now maybe you have to have the position at work where you are going every day and doing the same thing, but then after work in your time of not working, you must find things that allow you to create sitting down in front of something and watching it for hours on end. It is not what is going to bring you fulfillment in your times when you are not being paid to do a certain task. You must be being in yourself to create the task, to create what you want to be in that space of everything that you want. It is your choice to start something new and to have the belief that the something new will work and it will be prosperous and it will continue or just to do it because you want to know if you can do it. Just to do it to want to know that it can go forward and then to move forward with it. So for the new year, for this year, we ask you one belief at a time, challenge them. Allow them to become new knowings instead of old beliefs. Most of your beliefs were taught to you when you were very, very young by watching your family dynamic by listening to what people said, watching what they did and then you picked it up like a program, like a habit, like this is the way life is supposed to be. That is the way life was supposed to be for them. You were supposed to forge your own way. Okay guys, that's what we have for the channeling today. I hope you enjoyed it. Can everybody hear me okay? I just want to make sure everybody can hear me okay. I feel like you can. Okay, I'm going to take the first caller and as soon as I get the first caller, then everybody, when I take the second caller, then the next person who wants to call in can call in the numbers 414-897-2869. Again, the numbers 414-897-2869. Go ahead and call in and the first person who gets through is the person I will take first. I know there are some questions in the chat. In between callers, I will take chat. Okay, this is, hey Jay, welcome to the show. How are you? Good, how are you? Hey, welcome to the new year. Hey, happy new year. Yeah, if I didn't say that to everybody, happy new year. How are you, Jay? Yeah, I'm doing great. I'm just looking forward to this year of creating, well it's going to be chaos as you know, but I'm grateful for the messages from Spirit because I'm 24. Okay, so I think some of the channeling really really took care of that. One of the things I'm getting for 2024, that's going to be really important and I think most of my people do not do this, but turn things off. Oh, yes. I know most of my people already do that. Everybody that I talk to, we don't watch the TV hardly at all unless it's something empowering and beautiful and creative. We don't do a lot of that, but the biggest thing I'm getting this year is not only to turn off things like that, but to, unless of course if you're on TV watching my show on TV because I air on very many channels, that's okay. You can watch for that otherwise. But otherwise, like even turning off the words and the thoughts and the programs of others, this is the year and in the first month, this is the time to really figure out how do you want life to look and to run forward with that. So I'm going to say this and Jay, thank you for asking this. We're going to do a clearing and I did a couple of clearings on TikTok this morning, so please go and enjoy those. One was for, I think like the new year letting go of anything holding us back for the new year, but right now I'm going to do this and this is a big one. So everybody asks, when I start to say it, just take a really big slow, very slow deep breath in and then hold it and when I finish saying it, let that breath go and tell me if that makes a difference in how we do this. So I'm going to start saying it now. Let's clear any old programs and thoughts and beliefs that no longer serve our path and our highest good. Okay, you can release that and here we go. All that caused, all that caused and kept this as my cleared yield. We're going to take all of that out. We're going to push it away. We're going to pull it completely out of us and then I'm going to do a second one. We are now creating beliefs programs that are in alignment with our path and our goals. So we're going to clear that to a yes and we have everything we need to do this. I get a yes, of course we do. So I'm going to strengthen that. I'm going to strengthen that and you know Matthew who is, he listens, he's working right now but Matthew is a really avid listener of the show and he's also a client and Matthew Matthew did a session the other day and he said, hey Tony, can you make sure my god center, my god code, whatever you call god source creator, don't let one word mess this up for you is you know activated in place and as strong as it can be. So let's do that one right now also we're going to make sure everybody is fully activated with their inner knowing their inner god their inner their inner self or higher whatever you want to go. I don't care what you call it please don't let a word like oh my god I can't put that away for this year like get rid of that right there get rid of being hooked on oh my god they used a word I didn't like just get rid of all of that all the top of my head is tingling everybody and here we go. You know when I was growing up and please don't come at me but if you grew up in my era there was no like one of the things that my mom said to me all the time was words don't hurt people do so if you hear a word just ignore it like unless somebody like puts hands on you you just walk on just walk on so um here we go and we need that we need to know that like a word or a statement can't take us down because if if that means other people can control you if a word if a statement especially if somebody says something unintentionally and it takes you down that means everybody has control over you and you don't have control over yourself that anybody at any time can take you down over a word or a statement and don't let that happen be we have to be so strong within ourselves that that doesn't happen okay so those are the clearings and clearly the channeling that's coming through and jay um the other thing they would want to say with this year is they don't care what it is if if you have not and whether this is for you personally or somebody else listening start something on the side a hobby a business a project started on the side get your mind into that place of creation because you never know where it's going to take you who okay jay that's what i have for you well i'm grateful that way and um yeah absolutely and what i want to say too is you know allow things to expand and grow don't be afraid of growth let everything grow um and if you're doing something collaborate with others you don't have to give them what you're doing but um maybe collaborate or look at what others are doing and see where you can grow from there okay thank you jay so much and happy new year many blesses to you absolutely thank you so much jay happy new year until wednesday thanks okay guys um i'm going to answer michelle's question and then i'm going to take another caller so please um hold on don't call in yet um but um i've been hearing a lot of songs michelle lee says i've been hearing a lot of songs uh that remind me of my brother i think he's been with me this last week yeah michelle you know what absolutely um absolutely one million percent and near the holidays they do they come in so strong and they hang out with us i'm hearing the name rinaldo i don't i don't believe that's your brother i'm just hearing that name for somebody out there i'm going to tell you uh your brother is always around you but over the holiday because we're thinking so much more of them we see the signs and we get the signs so much clearly in our normal day to day we might not be thinking so much of them and this goes back into i'm going to say this i'm going to turn this into another um creation message around the holidays when we really think of our loved ones on the other side and we get those we get those messages we get those signs we get those songs we get those confirmations and we see feel hear them more in through through music through um nature through whatever it is it's the exact same when we're working on our future so if we're working on um excuse me if we're working on or focusing on or thinking about a project a creation something a business um whatever it is it's going to come to us it's just it's going to come flooding into us come flooding right into us um and uh so yes michelle he's always around you're just picking up on it more now okay i want to remind everybody uh february second 2024 i am going to be in Daytona at the cinematique doing an event a show answering your questions connecting you to loved ones on the other side we'll be doing clearings i'll be i'll bring so i'll have some of my um i'll have um some of my books with me so i can you know if you have a book one of my books and you're attending you can bring it and i will um sign it for you this is uh what if a transformational guide and this page says uh what if your magic can and does change the world are you using your thoughts and words to change it for the better i love that and i can say that because this whole book was channeled this whole book was channeled i want to read that again because it's it's amazing that i just these pages are not even numbered and you guys saw i just flipped it to like a page and it says what if your magic and we all have magic in us we are magic we are the magic you are the magic it's how you're using your magic are you letting it sit dormant are you running away with it are you creating every word we say is a spell that we cast every thought that we think is a spell think about it that way and not in a do source or sort of way but every time we think something all of a sudden the universe starts to organize to bring it to fruition okay so you are the magic and you are putting you out there your words your thoughts your actions out there and this is you know i need reminders on this too folks i do i need reminders on this okay i'm going to read this one again one more time what if your magic can and does change the world and it does again whatever you're putting out there is whatever is coming back are you using your thoughts and words to change it for the better okay so the way this book was designed is that you can write your you you read the question and then you write um what you come on page turn page turn the page you write your answer but i always tell everybody the first time you go through the book and this is an amazing book for couples families to go through together and get perspectives you find out a lot about the way people view themselves and the world with this book but because it's a transformational journey just because they think that way the first time it doesn't mean they're going to feel or think that way the next time they read it so the first time write it in a different notebook and then the second or the third time you can write it in this book because by that time everything will be different so the what if is if this is true how would i do things differently and then just start doing that okay i'll have my books with me so February 2nd February 2nd at the Cinematique in Daytona and i i want to say i'm really honored and blessed and and just just so grateful to be there and then i've had some clients from Canada and other places say they might fly in to see me there and that that just overwhelms me with so much joy and love that i like i know they're coming for the work and we're going to do work on that day too during the show we're going to do work and we're going to we're going to connect and i'm going to answer questions and it's it's going to be beautiful and amazing i just i can feel it okay um okay michelle i hope that's helpful i really do um so many people are in the chat hey karen how are you so if you'd like to call in and ask a question 4148972869 again i'm going to take the first caller and then i'll let you know when to call in again and again hopefully you know i had shows set up through mid mid january in blog talk and i noticed that my my next two weeks worth of shows are gone and maybe that's because it's not going to be fixed until like my next show that i that i scheduled is the 15th and i thought i of course i set up shows for the you know twice a week um until the whatever date but i went on this morning and i'm like wait a minute what what happened to my next two weeks worth of shows so i don't know if that's their prediction date for getting things fixed or what but i'm going to go on today and put in the rest of my shows 4148972869 happy new year and happy new year everyone um let's see isabella hey isabella hi tony happy new year does my dad dug have any messages for me in 2024 yes isabella and please let me know if this makes sense as i'm saying it the first thing i'm hearing is um let them love you let let love find you let them love you so if you've been putting off or pushing away love on some level your dad is saying it's time to fix that so you know what i'm going to do right now another healing or clearing anything stopping or blocking us from accepting and giving love equally we're going to clear heal release that along with all that caused and kept it and these are past hurts typically we put a little guard up that causes all these past hurts and so we need to now take that down clear it out and have it be oh my goodness i'm released from us and have it go hey amy hold on hey amy what's up good good good i keep forgetting to put it on speaker i'm so sorry hey amy what's good happy new year happy new year so how what what do you have for me today what can i answer for you i've been curious if my sister-in-law chris christine has any um had anything for us or if i should just stop trying to talk to her because the last few times i feel like she didn't really have much no that you know after a while when somebody's on the other side for a little bit of time um you have to ask them new questions their their thing is i'm not going to keep having the same conversation with you just like they wouldn't know okay so if you've already asked them in some way they have answered whether you accepted that answer or not that's on you that's how that's how they say it to me like i asked my mom questions and my my max and bella who were my little furless babies and then my friend jair bear i asked them questions all the time and if i'm asking them the same questions they literally do this amy i hope you're watching the screen they literally go but yeah i'm not i can't see the screen because i'm on my phone but okay well they literally just i like really really give me something new and at some point they want you to get out of you questions and go into expansion questions and for you and everybody listening this is so important if you're still asking your loved one like do you still do you miss me are you still around there let me answer that for you they are always with you you're taking a poop on the toilet they're sitting there going yeah and by the way you know they're right they're there they're they're watching you take a deuces dude they're they're with you in your deuces okay they are there there there's no place else for them to be and that's the thing everybody thinks heaven is this place that is you know beyond the stars and in a way it is but it is not it intersects with us and their energy is all encompassing they can be with you and me and the other person at the same time who this is a lot of channeling the folks know i'm channeling right now now at some point they want to answer questions about expansion and the world and and where can i go what's the best way for me to do my business how can i how can i do this how can i do that what what can i this is where they want to go with you so that we can change the world so if and when we reincarnate we come i'm going to tell you i'm going to tell you this let me tell you this when i heard this statement it shooketh me i would i was shook i was shooketh i was if you believe in reincarnation if you don't it's okay i'm not about changing anybody's belief or anybody's mind it comes to you when it comes to you and if it comes to you and i'm not saying that that just because i'm saying this it makes it real or true okay whether i come back or whether it's just the lineage of my nieces and nephews that have this world either way but where you what where you leave off is where you begin so when i heard that statement i understood it to mean that if there's reincarnation wherever i leave this world however i leave this world whatever i've done to this world is what i'm going to drop right back into wow boy did i clean up my life after that i was like no let me swim to the shore now let me get out of the drowning water and the illusion and let me get serious about poop now yeah because if that is true now here's the bigger thing i have nieces and nephews i absolutely adore i just i could just hug them and love them forever and they're going to have children and they're going to have children so whatever i do now it's the ripple in the water whatever we are doing now we're rippling the water for them and it's not like if i'm a bad person they're going to pay my bad no no no no get out of that thinking put put that in the garbage you know put it in the big garbage bag and let them take it to the dump because get out of that thinking this is the way we think from this moment on all the good that we do will expand okay and all of the the the the how we how we perceive the world and the the actions that we take to oh my god this is going to be so mind i love this statement about to come out how we perceive the world good or bad and the actions that we take towards that are what we are creating so if so many people tell me this is a place of he l l i don't feel that way i don't i feel like this is this is a place where we get to it's a freaking playground where we can we can jump in and we can play and create what we want now we can create good we can create bad we can create destruction we can create love love what i'm going to say to you is what you're perceiving and where you're going whatever that means for you is also what you're leaving behind or if you believe in coming back coming back to and that is something that when i heard that the first time i heard that i did everything i could to start creating this existence that would be good for my you know nieces nephews and all of their children and if i do you know happen to come back on this plane that it will be a better place now let me explain this we can come back to this plane and have and i'm just gonna use names that that people kind of i'm gonna try to do this in a way that is very understandable for everybody we can come back and have a life of of ease or we can come back and have a life of of whatever so so and this could go i could do like literally three hours on some of the people who are higher up in power right now i have to be very careful not to get flagged and and what their next thing might look like but let's not go there let's just go us we can come back and be placed in a place of comfort and ease or a place of discomfort and ease and that is not because we are you know leaving bad things necessarily behind it's all in intention what was was it your intention to harm or was it your intention to help and in that intention of putting good out and doing good and that doesn't mean leaving all of your you know whatever it means in my heart i truly meant and i truly loved that's it i mean if i could break it down to the simplest thing in my heart with my soul i truly loved and i truly cared that's it we are human and we will have those moments where we you know say you know what i hope you trip over your shoelace and fall on your well i don't even want to finish that statement because i know my words have power in one time before i realized how powerful my words were somebody did end up in a hospital after something i said and after that i learned to shut my mouth just don't cross me folks that's all i'm saying is don't cross i'm kidding i would never i didn't even realize at that but what i'm saying is our words and our intention have so much power and we have to be in that space where we are only creating what we want and f everything we don't it doesn't exist in our world somebody f's us over they don't exist in our world move on to what you want when we hold on to what didn't work we're stuck in that what didn't work when we can just say okay that that no longer exists in my world i'm i'm doing the min and black mind wipe and i'm moving i'm only going to think about what i do want okay i'm only going to think about what i do want and in those moments those things will start to envelop you and take you on a whole new ride a whole new journey into a whole new future okay so i'm gonna i does that make sense amy does that help i know you call to ask about your sister and one this whole big channel link yeah well i'm not i mean so i guess i don't know if a question would be um in order to achieve this like the advancement that i'm looking for kind of like do i need to reconcile with some family members and no no no no no that's that's not even a thing no here's a thing it's never and let me oh thank you so much oh my god i love you amy i love you oh thank you because this is what people think this is what people think it's what i would think and then spirit would go boom on my booty boom on my booty listen no that's not it it's never about another person take it no no no no amy think about that it's never ever about another person it's always about us so right here right now i'm gonna we're going to the angels are going to come in or whatever you believe in is going to come in and we're going to clear heal release all inner conflict i can already feel it take all inner conflict clear it release it all that caused and kept it clear it release it now here's a thing we're not at war with another person they're not even thinking of us they're moving on having their latte patate they're moving on having their you know their their their chicken and i can't say that on air they're they're moving on having their whole life they may never ever think of us again it's in our mind of i feel this about this situation i feel bad because i'm in conflict i feel guilt because this isn't harmonious it's all what you feel inside of you it's the inner conflict that will as long as we have that and we feel that it's either going to hold us back or propel us forward we are not meant to be having everybody in our life for our whole life sometimes either because of what they did or maybe because of what we did we're not put down here as saints as as we never ever make a mistake as a matter of fact part of being here is having the experience of a mistake or saying something so that we don't judge others when they do because we there's not one person that has not i'm just going to use the word mistake has not made mistakes has not said or done something that they look back at and say man i could have handled that better and here's the thing that's where you know you grew because you can look back at it you can say maybe i didn't handle that maybe i didn't say it the right way maybe i shouldn't have said anything maybe i should have done it but that's when you know okay i've learned and i've grown and that's what it's really about so the conflict is inner conflict and once all the inner conflict is cleared there's no external conflict and if we can have enough people on this plane clear their inner conflict we will have a plane of peace and people think now let people think oh it's about i keep hearing this we're going into a new world we're going to 5g we were put here to try to get here okay i'm sorry for everybody who is believing this it's okay you can have that we were put here to make this we were put on this plane with the ability to create love and light and happiness or not and then live in what we create not to think oh this place is a total disaster and i need to get out of it because if it's a total disaster that is what we created and we need to fix it and we fix it in the mind we get rid of inner conflict because again once we get rid of this inner conflict which comes from guilt which comes from shame which comes from all these things and let's clear all of that all the emotions holding this with us let's clear it and then we hold on to it we literally hold on to this because we think if we hold on to this it won't happen again i'm protected i'm not going to let this go because this is going to remind me to never let this happen again it's like when you have a partner that cheats on you you hold on to that for dear life so it never happens again but instead because that's what you're thinking that's what you're bringing and our thoughts have to be on only what is good and what we want okay does that help oh my goodness okay so no you the short answer is no you don't have to you don't you don't have to make peace with them you have to make peace with yourself about it you have to be at peace with where you are in the situation and then everything else will fall into place okay cool okay and some people that hurt us they're not supposed to be allowed to be in our life some people that are unhealthy for us are not supposed to be allowed in our life okay sometimes and this um this this this russian guy said this to me once and i never thought about it this way and it it literally changed the way because i always thought it's my responsibility that everything is my fault i need to fix everything and he looked at me and he said but tony sometimes the lesson is theirs sometimes they need to learn the lesson and you apologizing for something you didn't do wrong isn't allowing them to learn the lesson making peace in a situation where they have not brought peace to the table and they will continue to have conflict is not allowing them to learn their lesson and one of the most detrimental thing you can do to another soul is deprive them of their lesson and evolutionary process because in order to evolve we have to stop our jackassery and learn and move up and if we don't stop if we don't learn the lesson from our jackassery like behaving badly because everybody else is coddling us and telling us it's not bad or trying to work overtime to make it work then guess what we're never going to evolve okay amy on that note i have like 60 seconds left and then so i'm gonna i'm gonna disconnect you now i love you girl thank you so much for calling in happy new year my friend happy new year so amy and i know each other outside of this also amy's an acupuncture she's amazing and so thank you amy for those amazing questions and jay that my everybody today thank you for allowing me to elaborate on everything i love you so much i'm going to be back wednesday at 7 p.m central time um and and just let's let's start this new year with new thoughts and new ways of being i love you all so much thank you thank you thank you thank you