 believe in that. So the problem is most people that I've met, so I've been looking for a girlfriend for a while. Yes, so before Kamene left, Kamene. What's up guys, welcome to SPM Buzz. My good name is Miss Kithingi and guys if you haven't subscribed there, we are heading to 150k subscribers. Make sure you subscribe to our channel. And right about now on Buzz's Taz, I have bumped into Oga Obinath, a controversial radio presenter. I'm not controversial. Controversy just follows me. Trust me, sometimes I even just don't want to say anything. I think it's just your opinions that don't sit well with so many people. No, among the elite few, the woke few, the majority is lost. So when I speak they don't relate, but the few who relate always sit down and go like, if I don't meet them, I'm like, Obeena, you said you will say my point, you actually say me it kind of makes sense. But the majority who, some are brainwashed, some are just misinformed, some are not informed. They look at you like, huh? It's like sometimes when you see something happening on the social space, then I write like a paragraph. I'm like, dad, so you explain. When someone talks like that, you already know which category they are in. They are not welcoming information that they don't have. They just see a paragraph, then they hate it. They don't know what it's about. Someone is like, listen, that's not the point. The point is I'm trying to educate you. I'm trying to give you a lifeline. But that's what happens. You know, right now, we are sitting on a very posh car. It's a German machine. I've had this car for a while. How many months? I don't know. When we drive by this car, it's been a minute. It's been a minute? It's been hours. Okay. You know, we saw on the blogs that they say that Uli Baiwa is a car of a mother. The end justifies the means. And it's not just a dope machine. Yes. It's a V6 engine. It's an E350. 2015. Oh, that's what's up. That's what's up. That's what's up. That's what's up. That's what's up. Did you get this car for yourself? I got it from my mother. Where did your mother go? She went to the hospital. But you have no problem with them? I have no problem. I have three children, my mother and my mother. I have three children, my mother and my mother. I have three children, my mother and my mother. How is your mother? Thank you. The ones you've just mentioned are baby mamas. Who do you think is the sponsor? I don't know. Who do you think is the sponsor? You know the problem with Kenyans is anytime something happens in someone's life, people always want to try and understand. And what people don't know, there's a lot of things that you don't know. Do you know there's something you don't know that you don't know? Yes, very true. Yes. And there's some things you know, but whatever you know is misinformed. And some people know things because someone said and that's what they picked and then they moved. Especially the bloggers. That's why we have issues with Kenyans and the rest. When they find any negative news, instead of checking if it's real, if it's true, and then you write about it, you write about it for clicks. And then now everybody says, Do you know how many shows I do on my digital platform? Online. Yes. Do you know how many shows I do physical? That's what I do at the event. That's what I do at work. Then I'm on radio. Then I'm on TV. Then I have a couple of companies that I do business with that people have no business knowing about. And then someone goes and says, Me? I don't know. I'm from China. My mother said I'm in 350. Am I mad? Yes, you're mad. My mother said I'm rich. Yes. I told my mother that I'm rich. Me, right now the car that I really want is a Range Rover Sport 2014. Yes. I'm a 2015. I don't know how many shows I do. I think it's 9 million, 10 million. It depends on the car. Yes. There's a long wheel, there's a short wheel. Yes. There's a VCR. Yes. Panoramic sunroof. White. Amadak gray. Yes. Metallic gray. And then it's beige interior. Yes. That is what I'm looking for. I want very big rims. Yes. Then I want it to have, for lack of a better mavla. Yes. That's what I want. That is what I want. My mother said, Yes. Yes. When you're rich, Yes. That is what I want. Yes. Not this easy. This a shopping basket. Yes. You know, I was talking to your boss a few minutes ago I'm sure you heard. Yes. I just told them if artists could come together trust me, we would be here. You see your boss has a lot of money but I have only a mother. Yes. But I made you. Yes. So, we would be coming like this and this Range Rover Sport that is Jaguar 2020. that is Agile, that is whatever we'd be having like big machines and big investments if only artists would come together you see now we are like five six here all of us would be here with like big machines if you would come together but because of greed and selfishness and insecurity and misinformation and we have that divide and rule that other people doing up there on Afghira this is your enemy where you people can put your ninis together and make more money together we are driving this useless shopping baskets and then I pick up before I can you know I'm not saying don't celebrate small wins like myself always celebrate each win I get I'm like I worked for this celebrate them but we would be better the only problem is small minds are impressed by small things and we're like yo my god take it in his hand not only by many bends it 350 bro these cars are useless you guys are bragging about me I just bought a building what 200 million or I'm building what something what 500 million or something but because that is where we are it is what it is man I'd like to know what are your thoughts about you know just men dating older women than them I don't have a problem with it yeah this what I always say personally I believe in love and I always say whoever you love love them I'll not judge you I'll not say oh you if if an older man let's say a 40 year old man can date a lady who is like 24 25 I don't have the problem if it's vice versa if it's a man who's 24 25 and is with a lady who is 40 years come on come on provided it makes sense and you're not wasting time and if you're in love like I always say love is is free but if you're there for the financial gain then that's entirely also up to you because there are people to do that even from ladies not only men we have a lot of ladies who have all but me I know trust me yeah three quarters or not even three quarters 99 percent of women in Nairobi will make on our Baba 99 the one percent 99 percent of women in Nairobi will make on our Baba 99% no no no you are maybe you are in the one percent but 99% of make on our Baba by your Baba I don't mean someone old I mean either a boyfriend or a sponsor or someone or your uncle or your dad but someone is giving you money to pay your rent to do your makeup do everything because you lady how we've it's like 50 G's do you know how hard it is to get 50 G's then I can I phone 14 do you know how much is I phone 14 then handbag I'm a baby then high heels I'm a pig and my friend and for a man for a boy for someone like me to achieve that and I don't feel anything I need to have really worked really hard set you see so for lady to do that and not feel anything there is somewhere she's getting the money easily yes so now trust me I know them I meet them I most of I get in a club like this you see a shorty then sometimes when I meet some of my big boys you meet she's sitting there innocently I'm like so that's miss get in here but miss was to me was a I'll say I like I don't know you hi how are you I'm Obina miss get in here we know you I'm like oh nice to meet you because he wanted to make a co-collect me make a book for the bishara oh there's this event I want it there's this product I'm launching there's what what what salamiya mama salamiya mama to pick a story mama to listen you know being honest but I only see him on TV but I know you then Keshon sorry we're manifesting beach the beach is calling do you think that is that easy I come home but then another English point my friend what to see what we know we just don't want to spoil for you however your setting but what I always tell most ladies and even some men who probably in such situations maximize on that chance that you have there's someone more beautiful than you there's someone more handsome than you there's someone more capable than you who deserves that chance better than you so the minute you have it and all the money you're being given you want to apply pressure who couldn't come but I'm telling everything tomorrow so as much as you're buying that iPhone 14 as much as you want to go for that holiday mama talking about love and financial gain of being a that it's hard for a man to know if a woman is genuinely in love with them when they have money is that from experience or have you just seen your friends go through the same thing it's from experience so I how do I say this so I function well when I'm in love oh yes and like most people they become very unproductive no no no I'm not talking about okay let's let's agree to disagree on that part but you know you can be unproductive still even if you're by yourself it's true but myself when I normally have someone who grounds me I am more of a family oriented type of person like I always want to see my kids in one place when I know like now if I call how's he and I'm like is they do other things I'm happy I'm a cool I'm a lala I know the in some some place if I have a woman and I know this is my woman and I know how how a day was she knows how my day was have a bad day I look for her I talk a lot in case you haven't noticed yeah so I always want to talk about my day my day was like this this person piss me off this thing was good I'm planning this I'm a talker and then I get someone you know you can't talk to everybody and then they listen to you then they give you advice then you guys plan together she tells you her plans you tell her your plans I believe in that okay so the problem is most people that I've met so I've been looking for a girlfriend for a while yes so before Kamene left Kamene we were supposed to do a show we're gonna do a show try to find me a girlfriend I don't know the progress with that but maybe it might still happen so we're supposed to call a couple of ladies then Kamene knows my spec then I was supposed to now start deleting who you I want someone with brains let's talk when you when you start talking work my name is let's talk work and by the way you know Trump there's some images for Trump that are doing you're like sharp woman yeah smart girl but Trump so I've been looking the problem is when you look you don't find when you look you don't find trust me I've been there these streets for a minute the once you meet there's always something that is off I might not tell you but the minute we meet even in an event like this I talk with you for like 30 minutes in mind I'm like this one hell no yeah or we do coffee or we do lunch I'm just like where because now me I look at a couple of things first of all with my kids like this person number two does this person like kids yes because you might get someone who doesn't want to have kids then I'm like I don't even then I'm gonna play come talk on who taught another person how to talk games you know because you know huh I'm a someone who don't appear I've had my with that one so when you look you don't find then the once I find every person I meet when I'm a bina the minute they start talking you're like because I can't meet you today we talk then tomorrow you ask for a favor and it's financial I might help yeah because maybe I'm in a position too but I help and that's it I'm like I don't have 10 I have five yeah I'm like okay so I send the five but I'm like I'm like at least most of the time when people assume or when people know that you have money nearly everybody even friends not only relationship even the friends around you are there for gain someone is waiting for you to give them a tender someone is waiting for you to give them a handle someone is waiting for you to pay the bill someone is waiting for you to make the hair someone is waiting for you to introduce them to your friends there's always financial gain when you have money when they know yeah and like when they don't know like myself when I normally go to places like like I enjoy because I'm like I'm like no I don't want that type of nonsense just say hi to me like a normal human being and then after saying hi to me like a normal human being let's have different conversations I'm like this is nice company that is good even when you go and meet someone who doesn't know your miski thingy and they happen to be in love with you that's the perfect person but the person who comes as miski thingy was SPM because there's always I said this thing when I posted and Sammy boy responded he's like oh you have to groom your dragon yeah you don't groom love you don't teach love love is more of an expression that is natural if someone loves you you don't have to teach them how to behave they will learn because they want if they love you they want to please you and if you love them you want to please them so when you're around you're like the minute you ask someone the favorite color forget about it so they'll remember the special dates special occasions your likes your dislikes they'll not do them and stuff like that one because love is giving love is never taking and by the way because they always feel ashamed there's too many fears even if she really needs it and the same also applies to men and women when your man loves you you'll see is in a situation job wise whatever there's a tender that's not going right whatever but I'm thinking so give you this money that I've saved you're going to yeah because it was a loan but if someone is just in there to own my woman he put in he put in he put here that person does not love you they're gaining they love the value you're adding to their life instead of loving whatever it is instead of loving the value they are adding to your life the person who loves you lollies want to see you happy they'll always hey babe okay but you see also Sami boy was kind of portraying that you could probably not have the ability to choose a woman who has a future mindset that you can tell just a few times of interacting with him is that true you can't tell a future mindset by just meeting someone you're not god trust me I've met the most brilliant and most beautiful women ever when you speak one-on-one you're like yep wife material you meet a day too yep then after like a month of talking on and off you realize she had given a front okay we may also meet such men all the time you meet me today have these bends tomorrow have the jaguar the following day you're like yo hey you know there are men who always work with cash in their pocket we're like oh it's because you fell for the package you fell for what they had sold same thing happens with ladies when you meet them you look very nice until you remove the corset you look very nice until you remove the bra you look very nice until you wash off the makeup you look very nice until you remove your high heels and I'm like oh come here and I'll kick your it happens it is it is a con that a lot of people are running in it's very hard to tell a genuine person just from meeting them and talking to them you have to experience them so what some boys says you know you can't trust me you can't tell and then some people even you meet people who don't even have their mindset for the future but you will make them have it that's what I said love is giving you meet someone who doesn't know a couple of things you teach them she doesn't know how to drive you teach her she doesn't know how to talk and don't gang at all and be able to figure out place what's your mother who's sitting babe don't talk like this you make each other better you can't find the perfect person if you find the perfect person someone has groomed them someone made them that way and trust me all of us we're all damaged everybody is somebody's ex and someone's next you know we're gonna make it work it it's not easy to tell it takes a lot of time a lot of patience a lot of understanding and persistence that is how you learn each other then you grow together then after a period of time you're like ah that is my person that's why most people never know when they have love until they lose it yeah with this person you guys just vibing in any you meet one shitty bang bang once in a while in any good vibes good vibes and then one time she leaves you or you leave her that's the one the other person that realizes your now talking about all this that has been going on we saw you you attended umber race gender reveal party but i'm just here wondering have you guys made up because the last time we saw you guys were fighting no we've not made up i got there then you know because i got there late i was doing another event so i got there late that was the seat that was there so i sat there uh when i was i got there before then went for the event then went back after so i was eating and he was eating so like okay i focused on important matters yes i focused on important matters yeah those important matters are they was this just a video that you guys were taking or is there something going on no there's nothing going on at the moment but at the moment i would love to know she's fine she's been a friend of mine for a very long time like juzi i saw a picture that we took with her a long while ago and it was the same same way like took your cotananga we just vibed and she's a nice person but we are not dating we've not even thought of dating okay i have thought of dating i don't know she's a lot of dating she's my spec yeah but that day it was it was just a fun video we're just having fun yeah yeah now you see as a media personality obina i think it's important if i ask you about the protest that we have you know ongoing from azimio and but um you know the government doesn't seem to agree with the protest like any baba may say my monday na thursday me protest and monday is the matter of all demonstrations that is what they have said what are your thoughts about that we're wasting time we're wasting resources give the government time to work it's a new government they just took over a dilapidated economy yeah and uh they're trying to make things they're trying to restructure the house you know when you move into a new house you're cleaning you see protesting is allowed you're allowed to protest but when you protest and you start spoiling uh public properties some things that the government has created the infrastructure and everything that means we'll have to look for some money elsewhere come and rectify the mistake you've made before we can progress so South africans were protesting they were just singing and dancing on the road they didn't come and start doing uh because somebody has to be found somewhere to do that thing again so as much as you're protesting it is valid to them whatever they're protesting for because like i said there are some things we don't know that we don't know and personally from where i'm standing where i'm standing there's some things i know that most people don't know so when people are protesting you you think you're protesting because this mic is red but me who's told you let's protest because this mic is red that's not my agenda me i'm trying to push an agenda but you're my food soldier because you're gonna be doing this you see we've just imported uh maize and rice so in about maybe like 10 days or so unga is going to reduce you see it's a plan that's ongoing and we just we're just from a very serious farming it was serious drought and other countries that have maize are not selling they're not willing to sell so the seers for agriculture lean tourists really working hard to try and make sure that this is working but you're not allowing you no matter the person who had won if it's baba or or wajakoya or whoever had won you don't do things overnight it's not magic it takes time we prayed for rain and everything now it's raining it takes time now that it's raining you see the fertilizer is already subsidized now the farmers are gonna take the fertilizer and plant and everything I'm also a farmer part time then in six months or seven or eight or ten depends on your planting cycle we're gonna start getting the fruits and the same thing is gonna happen to fuel with time when whatever needs to be done is gonna be done the fuel the fuel is going to one minute that's my daughter she wants password for tiktok you're not here what's up talk to me I give me a few I'm finishing an interview then I send you the password yeah so sorry about that yeah so fuel is going to come down but with time okay because there's a process of importing fuel there's a process of getting fuel from uh uh uh what's it called from uh this uh what is the country no no no no no it's not about a country so there's a lot that happens behind for fuel there's bidding that happens there's uh why am I forgetting the name of this place so the place where people who sell fuel go and put the prizes okay then someone goes I'm just summarizing the idea then can't just go there to bid and say me I want to work with the supplier then the supplier now brings the fuel it takes about three weeks you know now you go and go with the cheapest so as it is we've been buying fuel from the most expensive person from Russia and other people yes but now there's Saudi Arabia there's whoever whoever wants to have fuel that we can get cheaply so with the time with the plans being made we might be able to get that one and fuel come down and if fuel comes down electricity goes down production costs go down and everything but it takes time also with time with agriculture and everything with linturi over there the CS we're gonna see milk uh the prices are gonna drop down because as it is milk was being bought at around I think 36 both from the farmers per liter then it sold at about 100 shillings per liter but with time all that is going to be organized because finally we have a person who is not from the system a person who is from who is external who's coming in like listen me I want to change ABCD so there's a couple of moves that are being played on the chess board that most people don't understand but remember sometimes you don't need to understand everything like myself I don't explain to my kids everything that you know I'm doing this I'm like no no no no let's do this let's do this let's do this but I have the best interest at heart for them if they're patient they will see if they are not they'll start oh that you make adults on a tv me I'm like I want you to go play downstairs because when you play downstairs you strengthen your bones you make new friends da da da da then you come back and see watch tv after watching tv for 30 minutes you get on tiktok for like 30 minutes and then you do something else you see but sometimes even as a president you don't need to explain to everybody everything you're doing because also people who will still undermine the same same system and the same process that you're doing you see so people are going to the street because they're impatient because they're like oh no times are tough times are tough everywhere even in the states I think they're about to go to for a session or something and times are tough all around but because of impatience and then a little bit of hungry man is an angry man and you want to demonstrate yes police are there to protect us but you start agitating the police they're gonna have to defend themselves you see so it's just been things happening on top of each other and back and now it's just becoming a big deal and it's not that big if only you could have been patient for a while yes that's that's my feel I just feel we could have just been patient we are not and we are going to a ribu before we even make do you think it's possible for kenyans to actually how hold a peaceful demonstration yes it is the problem is the guns that are always in there you know there are people also benefit from them so as much as you and I will go on the street peacefully there's someone and someone else who've been told where 20 but I was in the campaign trail y'all guys were stealing from people in the campaign trail like I mean the truck then I see me and I'm like y'all and this is campaign it's a peaceful thing like guys are supposed to we are together we're supporting this person that's why we come to listen I'm gonna come for handout or something but they are stealing because now that's their job there's no employment and everything but that was then okay yeah so it might it can be peaceful but it needs a lot of guidance and a lot of condemning it's like I always say I'm championing for boy child I'm always telling people let's stop gender-based violence against men but how does this work men let's stop laughing at each other it's not funny stop laughing about what what's so funny instead of telling bro trust me three quarters of men in this country but three quarters wanna pick one of them why because you can't fight back you saw the situation that happened to tumbili if tumbili had done that to the wife saying you can't meet me but because it's the wife who did that to him nobody has touched and nobody did nothing I spoke about it now I'm looking for people to sign the petition but nobody cares nobody gives a shit why it is boy child and the same same boy child are the ones who are coming to laugh at each other like we are a big one of them those jokes we meet in our circle like this even some comedians start like y'all don't do it it's not funny support the person he needs a shoulder to lean on he needs someone to talk to he needs guidance he needs love he needs assurance he's been through a lot and the reason why he didn't fight back is because of the kids yeah because also in life we also have people who are just human personally I can't see someone's blood if I see even red bloodshot eyes I always start to tear if I see someone's tears my tears come that's me but the someone who now those bloodshot eyes are the turn on it jazzing them those tears they're like yo now that's what jazzes me it's like we have people who watch horror movies and they love them I can't watch horror movie I'm like no it's devilish and it scares me and everything but that's the way people are but how do you condition them condition them by talking to them talking about them and if we get more men coming out and talking oh bro trust me my dm is full like this man bro I took me to police stations and all the police would do was to laugh at us and these are the police who are supposed to help you but how do we stop this by starting to condemn it you see so that is a process that even is going in the demos and everything when you know the people who are looting the people who are hooligans you point them out you're like a b c d they're locked up so that others know let's not do this nonsense let's go to the street let's let's let's walk let's protest whatever wonderful let's make our voices heard but if we start breaking and entering other people's property like you saw the hotel in kisumu that was broken into that was not the police yeah you go that hotel that was looted in tazia that people are not returning the goods they sold goods above 15 million that was not the police but people using that opportunity to do some evil deeds okay get it I got it I get it kabisa now going back to this tumbili story because I did an interview with him guys in case you didn't catch this that interview with comedian tumbili please make sure you do now the baby mama was accusing you of kua ribu tumbili what do you have to say about that I don't need to address her I don't need to justify myself I don't need to explain anything there's a time I was involved with the woman and I tried to explain myself and the more I would talk the more would dig myself deeper so I'm not going to engage with her because I sat down with her and tumbili and I have the whole recording and I tried to solve issues amicably and before that a lot had been happening for me to even sit down with them like I'd seen this happen time and time and time and time again that and where I found tumbili and where he is now according to me and most people can see I've improved his livelihood including his house like I'm always like bro at home when I go to do my shopping when I go shopping when I go home what do you do at school what changes you learn what changes you learn better bro bro stop dressing like this dress like this even I think there's some interviews I asked him I did the color cool I was like why don't you dress like the money you have I'm like you are addressed how you dress look good smell good you know then be respectful be kind take care of your family you know that those are the values I've always been instilling but whoever feels different that's okay I don't need to explain myself to you already you know but I think I think I know where that is coming from it's coming from the point where I opened his eyes because you know I was in such a situation and then I left and somehow I managed for a while so when he was going through I was like you know you can actually leave but you're like you know no no so when everything happened and then he finally when that big fight happened and I went and I spoke about it it's like she was like oh finally they discovered I'll be manipulating this girl along oh my con has been my con there's a lot of stories that people don't know that happened after that story man I wish I wish to really would be able to talk about them it's not my place but people are very evil that's what I would say like do you know there was someone who was calling her and prepping her on what to say I'm telling her oh so go somewhere record a video say to me it was beating you and then you're defending yourself no no no and then she would record and then send the video to that someone and then someone she went and she did a bandage or not and we were being given all these things with evidence and I was with two billion some other people and we're just looking we're just like yo you mean this is what this person wants for you and that other person is was someone who was close to me and I'm like so you're trying to do this and you know this person wanted to kill this person a couple of times but you're still helping them spoil the CV and you're trying to spoil my CV so just you can get off on it and you do know that if you spoil my CV and shit is the fun it's my kids who are going to me I can survive I can sleep in to really sitting room whoever to boot it up whoever you know a couple of people but I can't come to someone sitting room with my kids so if shit is the fun it's my kids who are gonna suffer because now I'll have to readjust and the life they're used to will not happen so when things happen you look at people like hey human beings are evil that's what I learned and I said I'm gonna keep my mouth shut whatever is happening I'll fight them through courts and whatever happens there life goes on because you see these people online we've been watching this nobody gives a shit you think they care about me they don't they're here for entertainment and to judge you and to diss you and to laugh at you and to mock you and to wait and to wait and see you fall and when you achieve something and when you're fired over yes yes we knew it like people celebrate failure and when you start winning they don't feel good because some wish they were in your position or some are surprised how you always passing the hurdles they've been throwing your way they're like this idiot I said this idiot happy surviving again they're shocked they are amazed and sadly most of these people are in your inner circle they are next to you the next person who's going to kill you or spread malice about against you is your best friend or your best friend's best friend or someone in your inner circle it starts from within because if you're from outside they don't know you they pick things online but the ones who knows your weaknesses is the person who walks next to you all right Obina that was insightful you said the person who knows your weakness is the person who sits next to you your shadow okay yeah thank you so much Obina I'm gonna let you go we could keep on talking and talking and talking but thank you so much for talking to us my parting shot don't stay in an abusive situation ship whether it's marriage or relationship if you're a woman and the man shouts at you or slaps you leave if you are a man and a woman shouts at you or slaps you leave it gets worse that's normally the beginning that's normally the launching pad they'll shout they'll quarrel they'll they get there they're manipulating you leave before shit he's the fan because it gets worse and worse it doesn't get better later you realize you could have left sooner you could have maybe benefited more or you could have lived your life more and for the men who are in abusive relationships or the other men let's try and also help and champion and talk to boy child sign the petition go to change.org look for gender based violence against men you'll just see to Billy's picture there sign the petition let's get the government talking about this I'm working with my team I'm putting a call center where one man to be calling for free and just talking I'm working on creating that so very soon I'll be announcing so guys you can just have safe spaces to just vent and then we just let it out of our chest let's stop laughing at each other let's stop mocking each other let's stop gender based violence against women let's stop gender based violence against men for sure thank you so much guys make sure you check out that link and do the necessary thank you so much Obina Grazie all right thank you so much guys for watching make sure you leave a comment down below on the comment section how did you find this conversation what is it that Obina has clarified that you didn't know we are waiting to talk to you but thank you so much for watching Buzzard Stars my good name is miss Kephenji