 You've been on this channel for a while with me You know that I am a firm believer in the power of food The power of food being your medicine and being your spiritual source of an energy supply After all matter or nature is the Shakti of consciousness It is the Shakti and the expression of the soul if you've been on this channel for a while You know that I very much promote a plant-based diet along with the are you Vedic system of knowing what your actual dosha is? With that being said in my life in my adult life I have tried many many supplements before and you guys know that I am a huge fan of the a sea Redox supplement the liquid as well as the gel But did you also know that a sea has a vitamin line? 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The body is energy and food is energy and if we're giving our body the correct energy Just like you give your car the correct energy the correct gas Then your body your mind your well-being will work better for you now again Yes, there are lots of supplements out there that are frankly crap And I was not going to actually try the a sea of supplements when I first started using a sea Because I was help happy with the supplements. I had been taking but one day I was on their website and I was like, you know what? I'm actually just gonna try I'm gonna order these vitamins And I'm just gonna see how I like them. My boyfriend also is the same of me He himself is very skeptical of supplements He's been doing supplemental work for literally 30 years now. 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No questions asked All right you guys with that being said back to our show. Hello everybody and welcome back to esoteric Atlanta for our weekly shit chat Vinting whatever you want to call it My friend Catherine Edwards is my co-host as well. How are you today Catherine? I'm good I feel very good after our little Offscreen chat because I think sometimes it's really important for people to have things where they can really just get things off Their chest without everything being put, you know picked apart and one thing I did want to say is the reason we call these coffee chats It's because they're coffee chats. I'm trying to teach you something We're not time to we're just sharing our thoughts out loud as they come in and if they resonate with you great And if they don't equally great so long as they provoke Some sort of thought process some sort of curiosity some sort of oh, I wonder then we've served our own really Yeah, and it's and I feel like everybody who's watching they're sitting at the coffee table with us And so I want to reiterate that we're not like Bitching to you guys. We're we're trying to talk to you and have you respond back in the comment sections Like we are literally trying to figure out What what the solution is to some of these problems that we're facing in our world and especially in the community that we find ourselves in The quote-unquote truth or I freaking hate that I hate that word truth there because that implies that we know the truth and Nobody knows the truth. We're just seekers We're trying to figure out what's going on And so we appreciate all you guys that tune in and give your thoughts and your opinions in the comment section because we value What you have to say because we are all just human beings You know, I know people like to create conspiracies about those of us on YouTube But in reality anybody can open up a YouTube channel guys and I am filming in my bedroom There's nothing that's any different about me than anybody else watching right now We're all just human beings. We're all just walking each other home and speaking of that We were gonna kind of talk about today this term called cognitive Dissidence and so I am going to Share screen quickly in case you guys don't know what that means. This is a term used in psychotherapy Cognitive distance is a mental discomfort that results from holding two conflicting beliefs values or Attitudes and so let's talk about because we see a lot of that in the quote-unquote truth or community as well as from the other side of this So basically, you know a lot of psychiatrists or especially cult experts will kind of use this example So let's say that you've been taught something Let's use Scientology for example because I've heard people in Scientology speak of this before So if somebody in Scientology is labeled a suppressive person a Suppressive person in Scientology is like the Mac Daddy That's like the Hitlers the linens the you know the Ted Bundy's of the world These are suppressive people But it just so happens that anybody that speaks out against Scientology is labeled or declared a suppressive person an SP right and so a lot of these people who have come out of Scientology and have been whistleblowers are now labeled SP's and they've said many times before that when they were in Scientology There was there was kind of a cognitive dissidence right because if their brother or sister or friend spoke out was labeled an SP And they had to disconnect from that person There's a cognitive dissidence because they've been taught that if someone's labeled an SP that they must be like a serial killer Hitler type but the reality is they know that person. I know that's not true There's conflicting internal conflict between what you've been told is the true and what you see in the in the world around you If that makes sense Perfect sense. Absolutely. Perfect. And one of the ones I see, you know That is really obvious to to sort of almost everyone because regardless of what your beliefs on what you read It's like when you have the conversation with someone and they sort of say Yeah, I eat meat and humans are carnivores. They were meant to eat meat So I'm gonna eat them and then the next minute they'll be saying something against animal cruelty But they don't want to hear and you're awful if you actually show what goes on and a slaughterhouse Now the reason this is so important to understand cognitive difference in my Opinion and by way every single one of us has it every single person I don't think there's a single person on the planet that hasn't and sometimes you need other people To point it out to you But if you're aware of what it is you can say, ah, I can see what's going on there We were just having a discussion off-camera where I could see why I had cognitive dissonance about a certain situation But what happens is because it does cause this internal conflict So you're trying to sort of almost fight for your limitation So you're trying to fight for something that really deep down at a conscious or subconscious level You know, you don't really believe or you don't really agree with That leaves a pattern of stress in your body that will come out in some ways and it might come out in behavior and Aggression or judgment or some of those low vibration behaviors that we will have from time to time Or it might come out as a physical problem if you really do suppress it because there's so much research now to show How much suppressing your emotions and and attract emotions come out as physical ailments so Recognizing it is so so important because if you don't recognize it, you can't do anything about it Absolutely, and that's the basis of what we say critical thinking skills critical thinking skills I think sometimes people don't take the time to break down what that means Critical thinking skills is being able to critically Analysts do an analysis of your own belief system, right? So and that's in my opinion That's the basis of science anyway I mean Catherine you're a scientist isn't the basis of science is you have a theory and then you spend your whole career trying to Disprove your own theory, right? That's what it should be Unfortunately, it's gone very awry over the last set of 50 to 100 years and we all know why I think we don't need I think everyone watching this knows why but this is the problem and when you get So many areas of our life I mean that's a brilliant point You've just made because like most people think they understand what science is but because what they're seeing science Play out on the global scale is not behaving like that Then you really Confusing your mind and you're like wow, this is giving such Miss messages and particularly we all know as children were so programmable up to you know the year about seven I mean obviously it varies slightly for individuals, but generally speaking up into the year seven was so Influenced by all these programs that have been fed into us So, you know if you've got young children that have got a man with a beard but dressed as a woman with great big boobs They're gonna grow up with this level of cognitive difference where they've literally been made to believe that they can't believe their own senses Their own eyes That you can't trust yourself. Yeah, that's that's the one that's the thing too. It's it's like my favorite Aristotle quote It's a sign of an intelligent mind when you can entertain an idea without accepting it if we were able to even Do what Aristotle is suggesting? We wouldn't have as much cognitive dissonance because we're able to sit and actually contemplate the other side of whatever belief system We have you know, whatever that is and again, I just want to make that very clear Every single one of us experiences this in the minor aspects of our life to major acts aspects of our life Like we all go through this. This is not something I know we're using big examples But this is something every single human being is going to experience I've had cognitive dissonance many times in my life many and then once you realize what it is as Knowledge is power knowledge protects you can go back and start to understand why you're feeling a sense of confusion or Anxiety is what you're being told matching your intuition Matching what you're seeing And if so, why are you trusting what you're being told over what you're actually seeing one of the prime? Example of this in my opinion in my opinion is the whole the white hats are in charge To me, that's massive cognitive dissonance because what we're seeing in the world would tell you otherwise Yeah, but you're being told not to question to trust the plan right to not to question it And so you're saying oh all these horrific things happening in our world that are literally happening to people Are the white hats even though into intuition might tell you that's not true Right, I don't mean to like offend people by saying that but if it is that is triggering you then maybe that's a sign that there's some cognitive dissonance there and so um, yeah, so it's it's It's literally you you what you said it's beautifully Catherine. It's fighting for the limitations that you've been fed to belief Right, and it's so important because when I mean I don't think anyone watching this will not Realize how much cognitive difference there's been over the last few years particularly when it comes to being used as a pink cushion And that doesn't mean so if you want to be used as a pink cushion and you genuinely genuinely believe That that's the right thing to do then that's not cognitive dissonance But if you generally believe that and it's generally good for you and it generally protects you Then you wouldn't care if someone else has had that or not because you've been protected Right, so a great example of cognitive different dissonance is to have this Because you saying you really believe it but also to insist that everyone else has this so that they don't infect you When actually that's an oxymoron because if you really believe this works You wouldn't worry whether anyone here live and let live and all these signs are in there all the time For all of us, but what I think is really really important is for people to sort of ask the question Why what who whose interests would it be to believe? That to spread a rumor or even if it's your truth that the white hats are in control So let's say let's just play devil's advocate here by some say the white hats are completely in control Well, I'm going to say my intuition is saying well my god. This is really worrying them because my expectations of what the world would be like if the white hats were in control and Not what I'm seeing play out in reality in every every reality from our food from our water from our air from the wars from the horrendous things that are going on everywhere. So For me, I wouldn't have that cognitive difference But if someone's really arguing for that then how okay, that's fine How do you explain some of these atrocities that going on? Is this the type of leader that you want to be following that's lying to you and behaving like the dark side? Yeah, and and can you you know a healthy any type of healthy relationship within whether it's within your family Whether it's within your work whether it's within politics and dr. Yanya speaks speaks about this who's worked with our friend Kelly teal is transparency. Yeah, you're not allowed to question Then you're in a situation that's gonna foster things like cognitive dissidents Right so so if for my thing with people, okay, so if the white hats are in control then why can't you question their motives? Why can't you question people who say that they're in control? That's another clue that maybe there's some kind actually as Speaking of this I just pulled up psychology today And I'm gonna share this guys because what what cognitive dissidents really is and why this is why this is so Broad across the board is it's an inter like as Catherine was saying and it's an internal conflict It's an internal feeling. So what are the signs that you might be experiencing cognitive dissidents? General discomfort that has no obvious or clear source So somebody's telling you something so a lot of times it is subconscious where you're being told something But you get uncomfortable because maybe subconsciously your soul your mind whatever you believe in is trying to say hey Maybe this isn't I don't know if I believe this confused it confusion feeling conflicted over a disputed subject matter People saying you're being a hypocrite being aware of conflicting views or desires But not knowing what to do with them and they say developing a sense of inner conflict And I love this that doctor of Brenner here exists as Experiencing or developing a sense of inner conflict is a good thing to notice Because it can lead to rigid beliefs and sudden changes in beliefs and behaviors if competing values beliefs attitudes are not resolved or integrated It greatly inhabit inhibits the ability of groups to have constructive dialogue making it difficult If not impossible to arrive at a satisfactory compromise So if you go back up and show people the that list there Now when you look at that list, is it any surprise that so many young people are suffering from anxiety related disorders? Because when your whole world that you're living in is so full of cognitive dissonance behaviors from those that you're Taught as a child to respect and listen to and learn from Your intuition we talked so much about your intuition your intuition is not matching your environment And something inside you know something not right, but there's been so many Studies brilliant studies done and some really cruel studies done on how conformist most humans are and I was looking at one earlier about the ash line test and basically This was someone where the scientist surname of ash basically got a whole load of people in there And there were some actors I mean there's worse ones done with electric shocks and things like that But they had three lines on a board and it was very obvious that they were different lengths And they'd get the actors to sort of all say oh, no that one's the longest and some of them be right And then suddenly they'd swap to lie and the people who weren't in on the lie on the experiment over 33 percent of them and Well a huge percentage for a few times would actually just conform because they didn't want to stand out And that's what we see. This is why cognitive dissonance can be used as such a tool against us as individuals and collectiveness because Humans have this general desire to conform as a As a survival instinct And therefore when you've got people that are using some of these psychological tools deliberately Against you Then we're in real trouble because it's really hard for people to really follow their gut follow their intuition or stand up for their beliefs They're much more controllable Yeah, and I can say just from I know Catherine and I from our unique experiences of having a public platform Um and and finding ourselves in these roles It is hard to be the lone wolf that stands up and says something's not right because I mean I I think I've developed a form of PTSD just from being on youtube because of the amount of threats I've gotten just for questioning certain certain things, right? And so it is understandable why people would not Want a question, but that still doesn't mean you shouldn't question Right because the mind the the help of the mind literally is what can generate the health of everything in your life And so when your mind is in a state of not being healthy You're going to notice everything in your life is going to start to to to mirror that to you And I like how dr. Brenner said here, you know that having an inner conflict is a good thing because that's your that's your trigger That's saying something isn't right something. Yeah, right and again It's Aristotle's quote that says this is I have been an intelligent mind Who could entertain an idea without accepting it? So let's say you're somebody watching and you've needed to believe these last however many years the white hats are in charge Let's say you really need to believe that well. Can you for maybe 15 minutes just contemplate? What if they aren't? Doesn't mean you have to accept it It just means you're you're being you're critically looking at your own belief system And if we critic just because you ignore something doesn't mean it's going to go away. In fact what you resist will persist Right. So what what we're not what we're not What we're do if we're all living in cognitive dissidents, we're not actually finding the solution You know, we were saying kath and we've said this many times that we've noticed even within our own community that people love The salacious videos Oh, absolutely But they don't want to watch the videos about solutions. Yeah to the That's such a good example of cognitive different because you're saying you want the world to be a different place You're saying you want the world to change as long as it's not you that has to do it And this again, none of this is a criticism We're saying this because it happens to absolutely all of us But when we realize how controllable it makes us To be in this situation Then we can see it's not because you might genuinely believe the white hats and control I mean, it's not up for up to either of us And we can share what our beliefs are but you don't have to match them at all But if we can't have a civil calm intelligent conversation about it from either side Then the one who's unable to have that calm conversation about it Is without a shadow of a doubt suffering from some form of cognitive difference because if it's not something That you're bothered about I said it before, you know, if someone calls me a pink elephant I'm not going to get excited about it because it's pretty obvious. I'm not a pig elephant However, if someone says something that touches a nerve and is a bit closer to home Then I've got to look at why why that gives them reaction and and I think there's a lot of People have lost the art of contemplation as you touched on there now In you know, people say if someone makes let's this is just an example I know youtube is so unimportant the bigger scale of it But it's a resource that we all use to help expand our consciousness at the moment And it can have some brilliant information So let's say someone makes a comment under this video And let's say one of us responds to it with a different point of view That's not our censoring or that's not as that if you can't entertain a different point of view Then there's a level of cognitive dissonance in you if you can't sort of say well, that's interesting Let's see what they want to say about it Then there the issue is with you if you can't have that conversation and it's hard because obviously On youtube we're doing it in writing in comments Which isn't the same as having a backwards and forwards conversation But equally as adults we should all have that skill to be able to do it to be able to do it in written form in spoken form because Being unattached as you said to that idea and being able to say well, what if I wonder what if what what if I do Contemplate this and contemplate is just literally calmly thinking about something without being attached to the outcome in my understanding Yeah, it's finding that's the whole part. That's the whole crux of another crux of spirituality Is being able to stand up for what is right and to do what you can to protect yourself and what is right But also having equanimity With what is to come being at peace with whatever is going to be But you've done what you can and now you have to like give it to god or like let it just play itself out And you're right catheter. It's you know, we make fun of the other side of this Timeline war we're in whatever you want to call it because they all need safe spaces, right? Which I think is ridiculous. There were no safe spaces when I was a kid my parents found Skittin my knee they would say rubs. Did you die rub some dirt on it? You know, the kids today need that coddling. Well, so do people in this community They need coddling because of that cognitive distance. You're correct If somebody does not agree with you and has a different opinion than you It does not mean that they're trying to censor you or they're trying to just have a discussion with you That's what they're doing is we're trying to to see different perspectives in different points of view That's why in a perfect world in our government. We have what's called a balance of power You know, that's why I remember my mother who's a big time republican would tell us growing up We don't want all the seats filled by republicans We want a few democrats in there because we want to keep our our check our balance We want to be balanced and we want to make sure we're seeing all perspectives You know and so the same has to be true within every aspect of life Can you be can you can you critically? Can you step back? First of all, your thoughts are not you. They're just an experience for this moment So don't attach to them as something that is you Can you then look at that thought? and Critically analysis that can you look at it and say, okay, maybe I'm a little flawed here Maybe this this opinion is a little flawed. Let me look at other perspectives To see what other people have to say because they might there might be something more information that I need It's like I talked with tomorrow on Tuesday morning. We talked a lot about hollywood and one thing that's terrifying me like absolutely Terrifying me about the quote-unquote truth or community I know we're preaching to the choir right now Like I know a lot of people who watch these chats with us are very much are in line with what we're saying But I'm seeing a lot of extreme black and white thinking extreme dogma and extreme vigilante behaviors And that's scary really really scary It's terrifying and so we see people cast judgment on anybody who works in hollywood must be bad. Yeah That can be a form of cognitive dissonance And if we sit back logically And entertain the idea that not everybody in hollywood is bad It starts to make more sense right if you look at logically what the the bad guys do Let's talk about the religious we'll call them the religious practices of the bad guy We don't need to go into detail of what that is, but they're so horrific What they do that logically you have to understand they're not going to tell everyone Right. It's like our friend. Jamie Salay who was an athlete And we have people out there saying all athletes must be doing those these bad things So annoying. Yeah, I know a lot of top professional athletes quite a lot And it's just so frustrating when you tire everyone with the same brush and It's easy to do and it's tempting to do because it's sort of everyone's busy They're tired. They're frustrated, but it's never going to get you where you want to knife if you're The thing is about cognitive dissonance when you accept that we all have it in some areas When you then are aware to look for where it's affecting you It can relieve so much stress and anxiety in your life Because you're like, you know what? I don't necessarily need to say this But there's a reason why I'm feeling out of balance here And so I'm going to open myself up to more information because something is telling me if I'm being really honest with myself You know, if you've got any of those low vibe Emotions if you're if it's making you angry if it's making you frustrated if it's making you judgmental if it's making you jealous Um, then that's a sort of warning sign a little red sign to say, okay There's some more information I need here some things out of alignment my intuition And what I'm saying or behaving like is out of alignment Yeah, oh, absolutely. And that's where we get when we have people who are Big groups of people if you look throughout history when the biggest disasters have ever happened in our in our world Then you mainly like this the Salem witch trials or the witch hunt all over the world think about that It was a massive form of cognitive dissonance that was happening happening among of the collective And what's scary with that kind of mental disorder is that the table can get turned on you at any time Yeah, I mean Catherine. I have dealt with it Ridiculous like totally absolutely ridiculous stuff has been said about us. That's not true But because there's cognitive dissonance People are are going on this vigilante escapade to promote lies basically, right? And so, um, again, I was telling Catherine off camera. I'll just go ahead and say this I'm going to be doing an affiliate program with amazon because I I suggest a lot of books on my channel I always put the links down for the books and I thought you know what? I'm just going to create an affiliate link so I could put everything in one little Area so people can go and see past books books our friend kelly teal's books Anybody put on the channel that's written. I can just put all there in this one little section easy access for people and Catherine I were talking before I was like I am kind of nervous because I know people are going to get on And smear me because I'm doing it with amazon, but the reality of the situation is it's more complex than that We know that there are bad people in these corporations But are you telling me that every person who sells on amazon is a bad person? No So many people use Use platforms like amazon like our friend kelly who wrote an incredible book that can help people about their experience in nexium She uses amazon to get that Guys, I was with her last like yesterday. It'll be coming out next week But it's so important because it's everything you could say that about using zoom you can say that about youtube You know, why do you think we put so many videos on one? Rumble because we can't say it on here But anyone watching this is watching it on youtube. So It's this inherent Not labeling it's not always the tool that's bad. It's never the tool that's bad actually It's the intent and who's using it. So of course there's some good people that work on amazon Of course, there's a huge amount of problems with amazon But then so is there with where most people are working Let's look at where most people Any of you that are listening and can you hand on heart say, you know that Everyone within your organization if anyone's working for a big corporation, there's going to be issues with it Yeah, absolutely anybody and that's the thing. I was telling you Catherine people send me nasty emails about Yeah, about being you know doing you having instagram are you crazy stuff and I want to be like, well, where do you work? I mean, so how do they know you've got instagram? They can't know you've got instagram if they've not found you on instagram On instagram to find you I mean you have to laugh at these ironies if you're looking to pick a fault with something like that Then quite frankly, you're bloody sad and you should go and do some charity work because that's the level of consciousness That you're I mean Wayne Doe. I've said it no so many times before one of my favorite quotes I hear him is people will spend all day looking for things to be offended about Right, and if you're recognizing you're in that vibration Don't beat yourself up about it But recognize it and do something about it by going and doing Something good for someone else and take the the attention of why you're so bloody offended about everything And go and do something to help someone else Absolutely and even like with the whole you know amazon I think we use amazon a lot too because We have people watching this video right now from all over the world, which is so cool and amazing So for me as the and for captain for our our platforms. We're servicing We're we're communicating in one video to people from all over the world Yeah We're to put a link to a book from a store in atlanta. That was a mom pop shop And I would put that link there. They wouldn't be able to First of all, I don't know any book stores in atlanta that are left that are mom pop shops because they all got shut down Right, so if I want to share kelly's book for example with the greater world I'm going to put the amazon link because first of all Kelly who is my friend and katharine's friend gets a little kickback. She wrote the book It's her book. She deserves some kickback, right? Second of all Somebody in germany is going to be able to also order from amazon And as I was telling katharine if if someone from germany is watching right now It wants to order a book i promote and would rather read it in german Guess what amazon's going to be able to provide that for them To in their native language and so even though there might be a couple of people at the top of amazon That might not be that great guarantee you I would bet my life on it 99 of the people who work for amazon are just like you and me They're good people. They're trying to make a living. They're trying to do some good kelly's book Dr. Yanya's book i'm going to put up all these books were written for people to help themselves to better themselves And so it's that quote my teacher used to say everywhere looking god-seeing So if you're if you can't if you label things as such black and white Then that is a mental disorder and you need to go and see a professional because that is concerning And I will say same thing with therapy I get so much backlash from people because I promote therapy So you're telling me that every single human being on this planet Who went to medical school to become a therapist or a psychotherapist or a psychiatrist? You're telling me that every single one of them are all luciferians Sorry I mean i'm laughing because it's like Imagine if we all There's a saying put on your rose tinted grass glasses and I know both sides couldn't be too much But imagine and I've been trying this for the last sort of three or four months. I'm I don't stick to it all the time I'm not pretending. I stick to it all the time However, it's made a big personal difference to me where every single person in every situation I look for what's good in it. What's good in it first? Because everyone has got different inputs, you know, I can't possibly However empathetic I am I can't step into someone else's shoes because there'll be so much about their lives and their experiences that I won't ever know about however good friends we are And also even if I'd experienced the same experiences as them, we'd react differently to them because we've got different physiology We've got different souls, you know, so The the beauty is is if we if we go through life with sort of looking for what's good without making us cells vulnerable That doesn't mean you don't have strong boundaries. That doesn't mean you Invite dangerous people or narcissists or evil into your life But you can go through if you look at that if we if anyone and I think you know again We all preach into the converted but most of us believe in some sort of law of vibration and attraction And if you're vibrating at that level where you're looking for what's right in a situation You're going to attract a lot more of that into your life You are there's no way you can't So if we want to create this new world imagine if we did it by sort of saying let's have an experiment Let's all say if we could just be either Say something really nice Behave really nice or remove ourselves from this the situation If it's something that's not going to serve you without resorting to Bringing yourself back down to whoever's triggered you Oh, absolutely. As you're saying that I'm thinking that's brilliant You look at things like amazon affiliates that a lot of people do Isn't it that was the reason why I decided why I'm signing up to do it I'm in the process of creating the page right now So that my viewers you guys watching right now our friends watching right now Wow cool all of the books that she's ever promoted on this channel are all together in one section So I can see everything all organized. So I know where it is Same with Catherine if Catherine were to do something like that. Wow cool That's the positive side of that and now I can really see that if I buy Kelly's book She's going to get kicked back for that because Kelly's a good person is trying to can you look at it that way Versus saying you know amazon's bad because listen guys. I've said this before I'll say it again darkness can't create anything It can't it can only still from the light and invert it So can we look at ask Catherine saying can you look at the positive side? Yes, zoom is an application that we know it's used a lot for nefarious stuff. However It's just it's just a tool So it's also used for a lot of really good stuff too And if we make good stuff, yeah, and people have been able to communicate with loved ones all over the world because of this Um, and it's exciting, you know, we we talk about be the change and things like this And perhaps this is why things do take so long because we've got to learn to listen to things And look at things in a different way And we want to know how you've learned to look at things in a different way as well We want to know what works for you You know if if everyone shared a comment below About a really helpful tip of what works for them Then imagine how much benefit we could all get from that it would just be absolutely I would love that guys leave that down in the description box below like Where do you and what what have you done to try to stop the The train of thoughts that leads you into cognitive dissonance try to catch yourself before you fall off that edge And also I want to hear from people just so people feel more comfortable because I think it takes a big person to admit Like I've fallen for this before i'm catheter and I I think every week for like we fell for something wants to We fall for it all the time But I think for our for our audience watching right now and of course put whatever you're comfortable putting But maybe share a story of where you were in cognitive dissonance and what happened to make you realize That you were in that cognitive dissonance and how And again once you figure it out that that's what it is. There's such liberation Yeah, the bondage melts off of you and you can start to kind of relax a little bit And something people have said many times in my life and I think it's so true You're allowed in some situations in life. You're allowed to not have an opinion Like it's so freeing. It's so lovely. Just that saying I really don't know and then it might be something you're interested in finding out more about or it might not equally fine It's okay to not have an that was I've said this before I know a while ago I'll say it again That was one of the most liberating things I saw with my teacher david greegan philadelphia You know, he's one of the most sought after experience teachers in the world And he um is brilliant at philosophy and he would answer these questions about philosophy He would you know, just incredible teacher and somebody asked him a question in a conference once and he looked at the person He said, I don't know And to hear Him say that was like wow. Oh, okay. Well You're allowed not to have an opinion Like you don't have to rush to have an opinion Um, there are many stories that I've covered where at the end I say, I don't know I don't really have an opinion because I see both sides and so so maybe you know when it comes to political leaders or actors If you've been trained throughout this trained I say trained throughout this great awakening to label things people as satanist or label them as bad But maybe you feel like they might not be bad. Can you just be in that place of I don't know I don't know and that's okay. I don't know yet I I don't have an opinion over this person or over, you know, like it's very free So, um, so yes, so anyway, but anything you want to add to that Catherine I think just have a little bit of fun with this have a little bit fun If you've got good friends that you can have some of these conversations with And just start questioning each other and in a kind and open way Just because it can be really great because a lot of these ones these areas where we've got cognitive dissonance about They're so deep seated We don't know we really don't know and in an age where Everyone's just been so taught to have an opinion about everything and it's either this you're either on this side Or you're on that side and there's nothing in between Life's never like that. So, you know allowing yourself that flexibility having a bit of fun Imagine if we all opened up the art again have been able to have A really honest open conversations with people without getting offended without being abusive You know, that's one thing I just won't tolerate on my chat There's a big difference between censoring and tolerating abuse. It's called boundaries and if I so, you know, let's see if we can Um, you know, it's brilliant. That's that's why these sayings. Let's agree to disagree But you should be able to agree to disagree with someone and unless it's on something that you really I'll hold a file about still be able to go and have a beer with them Absolutely Actually, I'm gonna put so I can't I can't say too much about this yet But on Friday I went and had a two hour meeting with somebody Who is completely different from me on the completely different political aisle than I am And I was nervous about it But I did it and I learned so much from this person and I realized in that two hour conversation that we had more in common Then we had that were different and you know what this person respected my beliefs too He respected me and I can't that's all I can say about it now It's a pretty big pretty big big deal But I'll probably talk about it more later on but I'm gonna challenge people people if you're sitting here like If this conversation has struck some ideas in your head and If you want homework, you don't have to do this I'm gonna put out a challenge for you to find somebody in your life that you know Has a very different opinion about you Are about something like politics or religion and you know, you guys are very different I'm gonna challenge you Don't put yourself in a harmful situation like if this is an abusive person then don't I'm talking about your normal every day Let's say you're a staunch non-capacitive, right? Don't go into a narcissistic abusive situation I'm talking about let's see that let's say you support mr. T and one of your friend supports mr. B But you're good friends I'm gonna challenge you to call that friend up Invite them to lunch or get coffee or whatever and just say or just talk on the phone and just say I would like to hear Why you support x y and z? What are your reasonings behind this? I want to understand don't listen to respond Listen to understand And just see what you learn From hearing hearing that Love it. Thank you so much for anyone's assistance. I cannot wait to see all your ideas um, I can't wait to see You know, I love it. Some people are really good at coming up with phrases really good open questioning Anything that resonates with you that you can share that you think it's going to be helpful to everyone Us included please do share because we'd love to see Absolutely. I'd love to see it too because this is something that we're both working on as well. So Exactly Absolutely. Yeah, all right you guys and also just um, oh, but what's my my mother used to say Oh, but by the grace of god go I so when you feel the need to judge someone because they have an affiliate link with amazon Or because they shop at a big, um, you know change store for whatever reason maybe just Oh, but by the grace of god go I where in my life are am I still hooked up to the matrix because that's what it's a matrix world There's captain and I just because we're on youtube does not mean that we live on some distant planet where where we can avoid This group of people no we have to work with it because that's where we are right now on planet earth So judge not least you be judged and obeyed by the grace of god Go I and I hope you guys all have a wonderful thursday have a very safe Weekend very hot here in the united states right now. So stay cool and um, and yeah We'll talk to you soon next week Bye