 When you refuse the Narcissus control, when you're no longer susceptible to their manipulation, when their tactics no longer work, when you figure them out, when they've been exposed, when you refuse their control, Narcissus have a strong sense of entitlement, they're self-absorbed and they lack empathy, they're highly resistant to criticism, they're very disagreeable, they're unwilling to accept changes or new ideas, they're exploitative, so you should know that when you refuse the Narcissus control, they're not going to react well, because they value themselves based on other people's attention, admiration and validation, and if you don't give in to them, they will manipulate you, they will use force and threats, they will bully you, they will make you feel guilty or foolish, because they are shame-based people, doing everything they can to avoid reflecting on their shame, but to do that, they tend to engage in very shameful behaviors, they will devalue you, they will reject you, they will punish you, they will cheat on you, which will only push you away even more, but they don't like it when you refuse their control, so when that happens, they will try to get you back, they will love bomb you again, they will give you a fake apology and it will seem really believable, because in some ways they are actually sorry, but they're not sorry for what they've done, they're not sorry for the pain or trouble they've caused you, they're sorry for the consequences of their actions that they're going to face, they're sorry that you might leave them, they're sorry that you can now see them as they really are, but they will never take full accountability for their actions, they will always have some excuse, which is why even after they have apologized, they will go back to doing the same things again, or they will just find a different way of doing it, they will often do things that cause you to distance yourself from them, but they will tell you they don't know why you're so distant, they don't know why you're not talking to them, but they will always love you, they may even make threats against you, they may threaten to tell people what they think you're like, they will do anything to get you to return to them, but you need to remember how many incidents there were in the past, how many times they had to apologize to you, and how many times they continued to repeat those same behaviors again and again, they never changed before, so why would they change now, instead they will accuse you of doing something wrong, they will claim that you said or did something you didn't say or do, they will leave you doubting yourself, because they will get everyone on their side, they will isolate you from other people, by telling them they're worried about you, they will get them to stalk you and find out things about you, and they will use them to intimidate you, narcissists want to control how people see them, and they also want to control how people see their victims, they will manipulate you into taking responsibility for their actions, they will dump all of their guilt and shame on to you, they will make you feel bad for not being able to put up with everything you had to go through, it will make them angry that you're no longer willing to put up with it, because they're very entitled, they believe that you deserve it, they may become violent, they may damage your property, they may say damaging things about you to other people, they may withhold information or support from you, they will do anything to regain power and control over you, it's like they want to make you regret refusing their control, as though it was the wrong decision to make, they will find a way to create a trauma bond, where you are dependent on them or they are dependent on you, so that it makes it difficult for you to leave, thank you for watching, I hope this video resonates with you, please like, comment, share and subscribe, if you would like to donate, my paypal link is in the video description, coaching inquiries, you can email me at coaching.naxifier.uk, thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon