 When the Narcissist has finally been exposed, when their true objectionable nature has finally been revealed, Narcissists do everything they can to hide who they really are. They portray this image of being so kind and caring, as though they're just trying to help other people. When really, they're just looking out for themselves. They're only concerned with their own feelings and needs. But they act as though everything they're doing is in other people's best interests. And many people believe in the image that they are displaying. They validate the Narcissist's false self. Which is why in many situations, it may seem as though the Narcissist never gets exposed. It may seem as though they have a lot of support. They have enablers who make it possible for them to continue doing what they're doing. They may even protect the Narcissist from being exposed. Because they have been manipulated by the Narcissist. They believe in their false image. And in these situations, it may seem like there's nothing you can tell them. There's nothing you can do to get them to see the light. It's as if they have already made their minds up. Because they've already been groomed to be the Narcissist flying monkeys. And when that happens, there isn't much you can do to help them. Many people do not understand what a Narcissist is. And in these situations, the victims are left feeling invalidated. They are gaslighted by other people as well. Which is just further abuse for the victims. Because no one understands what they've experienced. But there are situations where people do understand. Where people do recognize that something is not right with the Narcissist. In some cases, the Narcissist will even expose themselves. When other people see the Narcissist for what they really are, there are a few things that might happen. The Narcissist may try to manipulate those people. They may try to get those people on their side. But if that doesn't work, they will just discredit them. Whether it's a family member, friend, therapist or authority figure. They will refuse to accept their views as being true or accurate. They will try to harm their good reputation. They will try to turn people against them. Because the Narcissist is only concerned with protecting their false self. They don't care about what is right or true. Their primary concern. Is the survival and the preservation of their false self. They don't care if what they're doing is wrong. As long as they don't have to face the consequences of their actions, it means nothing to them. All they care about is getting their desired result. Regardless of the effect it has on anyone around them. So they will discredit anyone who is on your side. Anyone who sees them for what they really are. They will try to harm the good reputation of those people. Or in some cases, they will just avoid them altogether. They won't want anything to do with them. Narcissists do not want any constructive criticism. They don't want to be around anyone who is trying to make them look at their own behavior. They will just cut those people off. And they will only associate themselves with people who do validate their false self. So even if the Narcissist has finally been exposed. They will just ignore those people. They will avoid them. And they will only engage with those who believe their version of events. Those people will become their flying monkeys. And that is how they end up with a team of people who value their every word. Because they just avoid and ignore anyone who doesn't validate the illusion. They just pretend like they don't exist. Or as though something is wrong with them. In the Narcissist world, there will always be something wrong with anyone who doesn't validate the illusion. With anyone who invalidates their false self. The Narcissist always has to be right. They have to be seen as good people who are always trying to do the right thing. Regardless of the damage they've caused. And they're just not going to entertain anyone who says anything different. So even if the Narcissist does finally get exposed. They're just going to pack up and go. The people who exposed them will probably never hear from them again. And they will be discredited. They will be labelled as crazy or misinformed. So that no one ever trusts a word they're saying. This is what happens when the Narcissist has finally been exposed. This is how they continue to protect and preserve their false self. They do not care about the truth or reality of the situation. Deep down they know what they're doing. They know they're at fault. They just don't care. They will deny the truth. They will evade reality. And they will continue existing in the illusion. That they have created for themselves. Where they can continue doing what they're doing. While pretending to be good people. 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