 Whoo, okay, that's testing testing testing What's going on you guys welcome to the single guy channel so in the title I have why you should never listen to women and It's pretty true Okay, so a lot of you guys listen to women in the wrong circumstances now I am not saying that you shouldn't pay attention to what women are saying when they're talking to you You should I mean that's that's the polite thing to do However, too many of you guys are taking what women say seriously and you're applying it to your own life And you really shouldn't be doing it So there are two areas that I would say that guys really take women what women say too seriously Okay, and the first one is when she says she's into you and then she does something else Okay, and then the second one is when women are actually giving advice about what they want in a guy And guys take that literally okay, so you shouldn't trust what a woman says in these areas You should go by what they do and in fact, I would recommend this if you're a woman watching this video You should never trust what a guy says you should watch what he does also Okay, that's a good rule for people in general people lie all the time And sometimes they do it when they're not even meaning to be like dishonest or more untruthful to you So in this video, that's what I'm gonna be covering I'm gonna be covering the the types of situations to not listen to what a woman's saying And how to look for her actions what actions should you look for that are actually gonna tell you on the truth Okay, cool. So before I get into this you guys I I'm speaking Tomorrow in Toronto 6 p.m. At the marata hotel if you want details to that I'm gonna put a link to the event Facebook event down below So far we have like 20 people that are gonna be attending or 15 people or something like that So if you want a chance to meet me in person for free get your questions answered This is a great time to do it would love to see you. Okay, cool. So let's talk about the two types of situations where Women say something, but they actually do something else Okay, the first one is when the girl says she likes you. Okay, this is pretty typical You'll get a lot of guys that are like well this girl says she wants to meet up This girl says she likes me this girl says she's attracted to me and Then the girl is not showing up on dates. She's constantly flaking. She's ghosting him. Okay You have to look at what a girl does in this situation And if she's not meeting up with you like if you try and make plans with this girl twice and she flakes She comes up with an excuse. There better be a super good reason Or she better be like really working with you to make that third date work or that third meet-up work Otherwise I'd say move on, you know and this the two strikes rule applies You need to have respect for yourself and you need to realize that you holding on to her individual words If she says she likes you or you know if occasionally she responds to your messages You're holding on to hope because you're in scarcity. Okay, you don't have a whole lot of options You don't have a whole lot of respect for yourself And so what you're doing is you're holding on to this little glimmer of hope that this girl is gonna be into you And she's gonna go out with you again You have to look at what she's doing and if she's not actually meeting up with you Then that's the sign that she's just not interested in you or who cares even if she is interested in you Okay, if she won't meet up with you. That's not the girl for you, man Find a girl who will meet up with you me in my life. I don't have time to deal with all that stuff I don't have time to deal with mixed messages and all of those things Okay, I have a lot of options of women that I can date and if a girl's doing that to me I'm just gonna move on to a girl who won't do that to me who is more my style and who is more like into me or You know, maybe it's not even the fact that she's into me. Maybe she just gets back to me She's just kind of that person. She's more responsible. Okay. I'm more into those girls Okay, and you should have the same respect for yourself too Okay, I love being persistent. I love all that stuff. But if you try to make plans that she's not playing ball Go play ball with somebody else. Okay. Now the second thing that guys look at a lot is They will look at the way a girl They pay attention to a lot about what women say they want in a guy, okay They'll a girl will say I want a nice guy who takes care of me who's supportive Is you know Always answers my text messages. She says good morning in the morning or something like that That's those are some of the answers that you'll hear from women and they do they do want a guy who does they you know Helps around the house not scared to Do that sort of stuff. Okay, they do want that stuff But really what they want more than all of that is they want a guy they desire Okay So when you see a girl say she says she wants all of these things in a guy and then she goes and fucks a guy Who doesn't do any of those things? Okay, she's not saying that she doesn't like those qualities But what she didn't tell you is that she's gonna go for the guy she desires Above all of those things she's gonna go for a guy who treats her like dirt and doesn't do any of that stuff Who she desires or she really wants to sleep with over a guy who possesses all of those qualities a multitude of great things But she doesn't desire okay So what you need to do is you need to look at men who have the qualities that they're going for okay? And find the qualities within them that you can emulate that you can and so sometimes when guys get into this and I did This the wrong way to is I emulated all the bad qualities that they have which they were succeeding Despite they were succeeding in spite of okay, so pay attention to this channel the qualities the skills everything that I talk about Are the actual things that women are into okay? Women are not into ass wholeness, but they are into assertiveness So if you can emulate the things that she says she wants well Don't emulate everything. She says she wants okay women say they want what they actually want are kind of two different things If you're bending over backwards to To to make her happy okay She's not gonna want to sleep with you and she's gonna go for the guy that doesn't do that So the important thing here is to not be always going for what women Say they want but go for the things that they actually respond to okay that they actually desire Okay, you need to be a person who they desire first and then on top of that it be nice to have all those good qualities So when you meet a girl that you're willing to do all that stuff for you know, that's that's great That'll be a girl that'll probably be your girlfriend or someone like that or maybe you'll see her for a long time If you're me but in the end you really shouldn't be paying attention to what women say they want even if they say They have a certain type You know I wouldn't even trust that I have plenty of women who say they have a certain type and then they go data completely different guy Okay, so you have to emulate certain things and find out what works for you and above all pay attention to what women do Not what they say man. All right, if you made it here and consider subscribing I come out with videos like this every single week I just had some spots opened up in my coaching program if you want to check below guys again I'm gonna be in Toronto This weekend on Friday. I'm giving a free talk which is tomorrow if you're interested in that Take a look at the link down below in my Facebook group and I'd love to see you. Thanks a lot you guys. Good luck out there