 And on the breakfast, Crystal and School Lagos break silence over sex scandal which force government to short all its branches. We will look at the parenting and some perspective on child's upbringing. These things. Also on the breakfast, what's the trust role in stemming the tide of domestic violence in the country? We seek answers from a clergyman. And as always, we'll review the biggest stories and making the headlines on the front pages of a national dailies. Good morning and welcome to the breakfast. I am Messi Bopo. And it's good to know that you are back at work and the holiday is over. Let's get back to business. Now, and as always, we set off with a top trending conversation. This morning, we'll be looking at, I mean, on the front burner of top trending, generating conversations and especially for football lovers and the fans of Cristiano Ronaldo. Cristiano Ronaldo announced the death of his newborn and as of last October, he had announced that they were expecting a twin. Unfortunately, one of the babies died and it's a boy. But that has also gotten a lot of football lovers across the entire world and especially fans of Ronaldo sending condolence messages and reaching out to him, including his club. I mean, you have the likes of Man United also putting out that message and standing with him at this particular time. It's a hard time for them, a hard time for him as well. And also Real Madrid as well, putting out that message really, really a hard time death. But it's okay. We'll also send our love and condolences as well. You know, the Christian Ronaldo. Another issue on top trending, this happens with the Nigerians sharing our experience in Tanzania, Zanzibar to be very precise. So Satin Young, I mean, the story is really lengthy if you ask me. It's a lengthy one, but a Nigerian who decided to visit Zanzibar and of course, you know that that's a tourist destination. You have a lot of people who trooping, I mean, on year on year on basis, visiting and just going because of all that they could get. But the spin several reviews as regards Tanzania, right? And so she actually talked about the fact that she was going to be turning 23 and she decided to go on a vacation and take in that holiday to celebrate herself when she turns 23 all the way from, I mean, Lagos Niger, she got in there. It was really beautiful. And then she met some friends, made some friends, but as time went on, it was time for her after all of the wishes. So you know how the bad things can actually be after all of the goodwill messages that actually would come from family friends and the new friends that she had met. She, according to her story, she went to bed, she slept. And unfortunately, she woke up in the middle of the night according to her report. She found that that there was someone touching some sensitive part of her body. I mean, private part of her body and she probably thought she was in dreamland. But only for her to wake up to the reality that there was really someone, you know, in her room. And according to Zainab, who said that, of course, her hotel room was locked, she turned off the light. She can't really explain and doesn't really understand how all of that happened. And so the story went on from her thinking what would have happened if the young man was going to strangle her. She couldn't even tell, I mean, just imagine yourself in that situation. But the young man or the man himself wasn't speaking English. And so Swahili, and then the only card she could play was the HIV card. Maybe, you know, the guy understood what HIV was. She kept on pressing the HIV story until the person or the accused here or suspect decided to take a leave and go get, you know, some safe measures so he can actually come back. These are all, I mean, one would actually begin to imagine what would you do if you were in such a situation. But according to Zainab, she decided to, you know, get out of the room, even if she was going to be killed or whatever was going to happen. She decided to go meet some Russian couple that she had met and getting to there. She got some kind of refuge. However, the issue was taken to the police and she reported that for me, it's the fact that she was very, I mean, if you read the stories, really lenty. So I'm here just trying to summarize her thoughts. And the issue was reported to the police. Now the police in Tanzania and Zanzibar. According to her, she suspected that the security men were also involved in this situation because at some point she saw the security men before she ran to the Russian couple that she had met during the day. But she couldn't, her instinct thought that they could also be part of the plot. And then she moved on to getting to the room. She got some refuge and safety until the case was reported. But she also explained that the way the situation was handled wasn't very professional and wasn't very pleasing as the hotel didn't really pay attention to everything. Now, long and short of the story, it's the fact that it's reported that the security guard is a suspect or was a suspect in the case. But she said, it felt like religion, whatever it was, they had to stand with their own. She didn't really understand, but she captured moments and she captured everything. But let's see if we can take you through the statement from the hotel. And that has also gotten a lot of people, not necessarily Nigerians reacting to all of that. Now the hotel decided to put out a statement recently. It's a popular hotel in Zanzibar where a lot of people would always patronize, especially if you're a tourist. And according to this hotel, they've gotten like 4,000 negative reviews and that's really not good for business. But I'm really going to take you through this part of the comments that was being made by the management of the hotel. He says, it is also true because the hotel had to acknowledge the fact that yes, there was a certain tourist who visited the country and of course was a guest in their hotel. And all of that was also acknowledged. They also acknowledged the fact that she reported the case of sexual assault or rape attempted rape at a time. And there as an organization or management decided to report the case. But this is what's getting a lot of people, not just Nigerians reacting. And I'm sure the reviews would continue for this particular hotel in Zanzibar. It is also true that she reported to our management that a male security personnel who is not our employee was posted at our hotel by security company and went to her room and attempted to have sexual intercourse with her. So people are reacting. I mean, this has gotten a lot of reaction and not just Nigerians right here, but we have people from different parts. And some people have corroborated the story saying, hey, it's very, very horrible. We're dealing with a lot. 90%, 95% of what she said is really true because it's really crazy here for us in Tanzia. But I would think that we need to do better. Now, so in the contents of these posts that's been put out, the hotel has also been held accountable for this kind of statement, which I think is not good. How do you say that the security personnel that's in your hotel was just posted to work in your hotel? So even if you have a company that's hired, a security company that you contracted to have provide services for you, it definitely means that they work for you. And so it just shows that the hotel itself is not even acting very responsible, refusing to take responsibility for the actions. I mean, if there was a confession that was made by this suspect, the hotel itself has refused to take responsibility. And also another issue is the issue of attempted to have sexual intercourse with her. That's gotten Nigerians and a lot of people, Africans also talking about the fact that we're talking about a case of attempted repair. And now you're saying sexual. So it portrays that Zainab was willing to have I mean, she conceded to whatever advanced it was. So it's not an issue of rape right here. It makes nonsense of all of the issues. And just to bring you up to speed with the fact that Zainab is saying that she decided to take sick help, probably has gone to rehab. You can only imagine what has happened to this young lady. You can never, never understand it until you are in this kind of situation. But it brings us back to the fact that with all of this that has happened, people say it is Africa. Africa will always be Africa. The story that you experienced from that Zainab has narrated how the police treated her and to how some persons have actually reacted to it is. It just shows that it might just be a continental issue. Let's not even talking about it being a global issue. The issue of rape first of all, how people would always accuse the victim all the time of a story and how a lot of people would downplay the story of the victim and not also listening. Now one thing that stands out for Zainab is the fact that she was very detailed about every report. She put out every receipt from the conversation to everything that she did. And we're only point that no one experienced this. But it boils down to the fact that as a people, as organization, we need to do better. We also need to constantly do better as a continent. We cannot constantly, we cannot just allow some certain culture take the front seat. For instance, the issue of rape and sexual assault always thrives in the culture of silence. And so silence would always be it. It would always have people wanting to conceal all of the experiences that have gone through. But it's a plus for Zainab that she has been able to come out and speak out about her experience. And it is really bad business for that hotel in Tanzania. We hope to do better. We also hope that everyone also learns that if you're in business, you're not just in business to make the money, but you should also look out for your clients and the consumers, your customers. That's the most important, especially for a tourist nation. Now, another thing also that several persons have talked about is the fact that we as a country need to do better. You will be tripped at the number of tourist destinations that we do have. How far have the Nigerian government paid attention to our tourist site and destinations that we have? Tourism, how far have we fed with it? How far have we developed and paid attention to it? But away from that, because we have all the issues to the top trending. And this one is really sad. I feel like a lot has actually happened for us as a country during this Easter period. So let's even go back to the genesis of it. The genesis of it is that during this period, you'll have, including my organization, I mean, put out all of the wishes, happy Easter celebration, his reason and all of that. So I will mention, because it's already in a public domain, so Stelling Bank decided to put out the post to, you'll commemorate and celebrate and also be part of the Easter celebration where everyone is celebrating. Christians, not just in Niger, across the entire world are celebrating. And so the post went like, like Aggege bread, he rose, happy Easter. And that got to a lot of people. I mean, you can imagine the reaction. People have reacted and said that this is horrible. As much as you're trying to be very creative, this is really horrible. So yes, following all of this complaint, then you have a response from the, the Advertising Practitioners Council of Nigeria and they decided to intervene in this particular issue. And he has the letter, Stelling Bank Aggege Bread Easter Advertisement. Some people are saying, it might just be another shenanigans. How far do we go with all of this? I mean, what will, you know, Apcon do with this particular case? How much sanction would Stelling Bank get for all of this? Now, so the letter from Apcon reads that the Advertising Practitioner Council of Nigeria has observed with displeasure the insensitive and provocative Easter celebration advertisement by Stelling Bank, PLC, which compared the rexerration of Jesus Christ or Christ with Aggege bread. The testful advertisement was submitted to approved exposure by the Advertising Standards Panel. The statutory panel charged with the responsibility of ensuring that advertisement confirmed with the prevailing laws of the Federation as well as the code of ethics of advertising in Nigeria. And so the Advertising Practitioners Council will take necessary actions to ensure that Stelling Bank's sanction is sanctioned for the exposure of such offensive advertisement according to law and that no religion, belief or faith ridiculed or any blasphemous advertisement exposed in any guise. I mean, this is a statement that's been put out following the fact that people have been very displeased. I've seen several comments where people say we are going to withdraw. I have like six accounts with this bank. I'm going to shut it all out. Some persons are saying, oh, I was going to open an account but I'm going to take it out. So a lot of people have been offended by this post. What meant to be good turned out to be very bad. I mean, you know, street planners will say very good won't become very bad. Very fortunate. But the moral of all of this is that we need to be very sensitive as a people. I say that and we cannot overemphasize the fact that we need to be very sensitive. We need to pay attention. The issue of religion is a very sensitive thing whether you have Christians, whether you have Muslims, whether you have Buddhism, whatever it is. We need to be very careful. And for a country as Nigeria, you understand that what father divides us is the issue of religion is the issue of culture. But the respect is what we need to understand that we cannot as trying to stay woke in the street patterns again. The what is to stay woke. The what is to catch up with the trend. Everything is not a joke. Just like people would always make nonsense of, you know, the issue of rape and those who are going through some kind of issues, especially rape cases, domestic violence and all of that. I mean, it's really, really sad. So it feels like constantly we're already drifting and we're losing it, we're our values. We just want to make a joke out of anything. We understand that we're trying to survive where happy people, but you also need to understand that there are a lot of people that might be offended by your actions. And so let's be more cautious as a people. Let's be more cautious as an organization. Now quickly, there's also another one. This is very interesting away from the bad, you know, not necessarily bad, but not very exciting story. It's the one that there's a video that's making around. It talks about a teacher that has gone viral over motivational skills. And I'm sure that we're able to run that particular video right there. It just brings us back to the fact that education, as we're evolving, we also need to find ways and means where we evolve as well. It should not be stereotype, teaching, skills of teaching, skills of, you know, lecturing. We can also devise means where we can get the attention of the people. Let's not forget the attention span of a human being is always limited. You find that the people get easily distracted. People get less interested in no time. So what would get people more interested? Could also the teacher and for what the teacher has done. We also encouraged that we become more creative, creative in a positive sense and creative in a sense that we get a lot of people get through. And that's it for top trending. We'll take a break right now. When we return, we'll be time for us to go through the pages of our national days.