 Hello everyone, welcome to another Narc Survival Live video. I've just been checking out these incredible views of these islands as many of you may know. I do enjoy a good view but let's get straight into this one. The Narcissist will regret what they did to you. Before I begin please give this video a thumbs up down below. It helps the YouTube algorithm to get this message out there so that other survivors will see this very important message. Because there is a lot of misinformation going on around YouTube where people say that these Narcissists just don't feel anything. They have no emotions and just no awareness of anything as though they can just forget everything they do to you and just move on. That is not the case at all. That is incorrect. I can tell you that yes in fact for the things they do to you and they know very well what they have done to you. For those things deep down yes they carry a lot of shame. They are haunted by their actions and it goes with them wherever they go it follows. They can't get rid of it and they may try to move on into other relationships, jobs, whatever it may be and they take that shame with them. The shame as a result of all the actions they did to you. That goes with them wherever they go and it's often the reason why they just can't sustain anything in their lives. They can't sustain a relationship, they can't sustain a job. I mean just look at how things went down with you. Look at how they treated you. All of the things they did to you. You know they just came in and they thought that they could just play with your emotions. That they could just come in and disrespect you by treating you as recreational use as though it's just for their entertainment, their own amusement and enjoyment and they could just play around with you as though you're not worthy of something more. But you know what by doing that they end up shooting themselves in the foot. They end up selling themselves short because they could have had your lifelong dedication, loyalty and commitment. Yeah they could have had all of that so really they just ended up playing themselves because they're not going to find anyone else like you, anyone else who actually cares, anyone else who would have supported them and been there for them because I know that's exactly what you were to them. You cared a lot about them. You had their best interest in mind and as I've said before most people in this world they're not going to have your best interest in mind. Yes they might give you this facade that they actually care about you but deep down they don't really care and that is the truth. As I've said in previous videos only one to two percent of the world's population are empaths so if they mess things up with you who do you think they're going to run into next? The odds are they're not going to find another empath again. They're just going to find another fake person, another person who's just like them so when you look at it they didn't really sell themselves short because that's exactly what they deserve anyway. We get a reflection of whatever we believe we deserve in life and that is why they haven't got you anymore because they already know deep down they do not deserve you and you know that you deserve better that's why things didn't work out because if they knew that they deserved you and if you knew that all that you deserved you probably still be with them right now but you're not with them because you know you deserve better. As I said we get reflection of what we believe we deserve and you deserve so much more to be treated like you're just a joke like you're just some fun for someone. You were so much more than that but that's what happens when you get around these types of people that's how they're going to treat you because that's how they see themselves. They objectify themselves so they're just going to objectify you they're just hose they're just prostituting themselves. I don't care if it was a man a woman whoever you're dealing with they are just hose they're just prostituting themselves to you there's no loyalty that's why of course when we leave them we end up doing far greater without them. I've run into so many narcissists over the last decade and they thought they could treat me like I'm just some hoe because that's what they are they think they can just prostitute themselves to me as though I'm not deserving of more and they got they got what they deserved they got stuck with nothing they got no loyalty no commitment out of me it was just a short time essentially they just put themselves on a plate to be used and discarded thrown away like they're nothing well as for me my life got so much greater I began this YouTube channel I've made over a million dollars I've traveled to so many countries around the world I've already lost count I mean I've done so much with my life and I don't want to get on here just to brag and boast about all of these things that I've done but it's to send a message to you that these narcissists yes they may seem so arrogant as though they know exactly what they're doing they've got it all planned out no they haven't all of these narcissists were like that with me now look at them now where are they or one of them the last time I checked she was working in the supermarket she had all of these plans all of these dreams when she was with me to become a nurse and then there was another girl as well she had all of these dreams to become a lawyer while we were dating at least then after she left me the last time I saw her she was very obese and she was smoking weed every day those are just two examples of course there are many more but after they left me and I moved on I became a millionaire I troward to so many countries around the world I've helped millions of people around the world I've changed so many lives so this is what they get and of course yes they do feel regret you know when you toy with someone like that when you treat them for a purpose that they are so much greater than of course it will affect you it will and it's even worse for narcissists of course I've done it myself I'm not perfect in the past I gave people less than what they truly deserved they should have got more for me than what I gave to them and if I could go back I would do everything I could to fix it of course now is too late luckily I do have a lot of self awareness so I'm able to resolve it but it never completely goes away it's always there in the back of your mind where you know that you have treated someone unfairly and it doesn't matter who you are if you're a narcissist a psychopath no one is immune to that shame that regrets we can try to avoid reflected on it but it's still there and it's even worse when you're not conscious or aware of it you're in denial and you're just pushing it away you're suppressing it that's even worse because then it dictates every thought every feeling every action and behavior that you make in your entire life from that point on and that's what makes it so toxic and bad for narcissists because they're not even aware of it they're not even conscious of their shame and regret that they're trying to suppress and of course that's just another reason why when they leave they discard us nothing ever goes right for them after that they never really experienced any long-term consistent success anything they get into it fails they just go from job-to-job relationship to relationship even while they've got all of these enablers and flying monkeys it doesn't matter nothing comes of it nothing ever does it never amounts to anything and the reason why despite what all of these other people are saying on YouTube forget about that listen to the professionals the doctors the people who have fully researched this and I have studied a lot of this information as well by the psychologists psychotherapists and I know that the disorders are shame-based they are shame-based people who are doing everything they can to avoid reflecting on their shame regardless of that the shame continues to grow within them and that shame it's really no different to regrets it's that feeling of them being a bad person and it just influences every thought every feeling every action and behavior that they make it literally the things that they have done to you and yes they know it's wrong everyone does have this internal compass of right and wrong even a psychopath we all have it we all just intrinsically know so there is no getting away from it everything they've done to you if you could see in their brains how it impacts it literally affects the rest of their lives how the rest of their life will pan out but I don't want to get too deep into the research right now I mean I do have a video coming up very soon it's gonna be my first pre-recorded video it should be up within the next few days and that is on the gang stalking and it's a lot about bullying and how actually the bully is at a 10 to 25 times risk more than their own victim of developing a psychiatric condition such as anti-social personality disorder which could be sociopathy or psychopathy as well as many other conditions as well so this is not just psychological theory this is psychological fact yes the things we do to other people the energy that we put out there it actually does come back it really does and it's so bad that even if someone is just witnessing these events and they're not actually involved even they get affected by it as well and it affects them very bad I would believe that the reason why is because they still get that shame of feeling like they could have done something but they didn't so I know what that's like because I'm a very self-aware person so of course yes I do recognize in my past when I could have stepped in and done more for someone like we could have we could have had more than what we did have together and I know it I feel it even today a look back and I recognize that yes I could have done so much more I'd even up until this day it still eats away at me it still affects me all of those times when I played with people's feelings their emotions I toyed with them I treated them unfairly yes it still affects me and I can come out and say that because I have this self-awareness and at this point in my life I mean I'm 34 now I'm actually quite comfortable with reflecting on my shame I mean of course it's still painful but I can do it I can sit in a space with it of course narcissists they can't do that they'll try to push it away deny it suppress it whatever they can do to avoid reflecting on it but it's still there and it's still influencing and affecting every choice and decision they make in their lives that's why everything they try to build goes to shit it always falls apart every relationship every job every endeavor whatever they try to do just never goes anywhere so deep down yes believe it or not the truth is they do actually regret what they did to you when they inevitably start to see that they could have had something really good with you instead of just settling for the crumbs they could have had the loaf they play themselves of course they look back and they realize that they don't really like to think about it consciously too much let me just having that thought could just destroy them because remember all they've got is the false self this false identity and it has to be sustained with lies and delusions that's the only way that they can survive emotionally by living in denial that's how we reality is so painful for them and I look back at my own experiences and my own life and I can see that yes every time the narcissist they settle for the crumbs they could have had the loaf they play themselves they saw themselves short but then I guess even without mindset it's like really they got what they deserved did they really deserve our loyalty our commitment did they really deserve the best of what we have to offer of course not if they did they'd probably still be here right now they'd still be getting what we have to offer like I said we get a reflection of what we believe we deserve and that's what they got in the end and it's what we get as well do we really biz really believe that we deserve some toxic abusive manipulative and deceptive narcissist do we really believe that if you really believe that you'd probably still be with them right now and if you are still with them well even then you probably won't be watching this video if you really believe that you deserved what you were getting from them you're watching this right now because you know you deserve more you know you deserve better and I can tell you that you are so much better than that you're so much greater than that so this is how it goes for us and the knocks what happens to us well we get better we grow we become the best versions of ourselves I mean I can honestly stand here right now as I'm looking out at this incredible view these islands I can honestly say at this point in my life I am more stronger and more powerful of a man than I have ever been in my life more wiser more intelligent more knowledgeable and in every situation I am always the star of the show I'm always the star and role in my own movie and on all these knocks just as you should see them they're just the cameo in your movie if that they're not even like in the background they're just they're just the audience a lot of times they're just the audience to your life and I would normally say make sure they're watching you have a good one but now I can't even say that because of course as we know you go on and you become the best version of yourself you go to live your best life or what happens they're gonna come back and try to sabotage it why again that is their shame that's their regrets if they weren't feeling shame and regrets to what they did to you why would they come back to abuse you remember when people abuse they can't abuse without shame they need to have that shame there first and this is what perpetuates the cycle of abuse with a narcissist it's the shame abuse cycle they feel shame so they abuse that perpetuates more shame and more abuse and it's a cycle they can't get out of because their shame is too painful for them to reflect on they're very different to us I mean if I did something bad I would instantly feel a lot of guilt and shame and then I would refrain from doing that again of course when you are an unaware self absorbed narcissist who lacks empathy and consciousness you're gonna be stuck in that cycle for the rest of your life and that is how it's so easy for me if you show me a narcissist I can quite easily show you the rest of their lives so I already know exactly how it's going to pan out well as far an empath there's really no telling which way it could go and that's why narcissists are so controlling and possessive of their victims it's like when you're around a narcissist they always have to constrain you there's never any freedom because it's very unpredictable you never know how things are gonna turn out how things are gonna go for you if they do not intervene that's why they always have to be there whereas for narcissists it's really just so predictable all they're gonna do is just manipulate and abuse people burn all the bridges at least with anyone who is actually real because they already know they don't belong around something like that to begin with at the end they become a collapsed narcissist where they really have no supply or it's either that or they're just surrounded by their enablers and flying monkeys I like the one supply they do have that's typically their enabler it's not grade A it's not like what we were to them because of course the supply that we have is very potent as empaths but it's very rare that a narcissist can even find an empath anyway they usually just settle for whatever they can find they're very lucky if they can get us I'd even then once an empath becomes awakened there's really no going back after that and they know it when we're never gonna see them in the same way ever again and then what typically happens once they've already blown it with an empath all they can do then is find a grandiose narcissist that's typically what they do because what they want to do then is show you and everyone else that you made a mistake you should have done more for them or whatever the narrative is and then they go off with this grandiose narcissist to portray this illusion as though they're so much happier and so much better off without you but of course that just isn't the case at all but it can be quite effective when they portray this illusion when they run off to find a grandiose knock who just manipulates them sells my dream and in that moment the narcissist is so gullible they go along with it they think that it's actually going to amount to something when they actually just get tricked in a very similar way to how they tricked you so that is how it typically goes for them and if you find this video helpful please give it a thumbs up down below it helps you YouTube algorithm to get this message out there again just enjoying these views here of these islands really beautiful place to be just enjoy my travels in Japan and it's really amazing I mean you want to see this immediately of course it does take time but with time you will see as you move on and you start achieving more things doing more stuff with your life and if you compare into their life and see maybe on their social media whatever it is after a few months a few years it's mad but they never actually go anywhere they never achieve anything it amounts to nothing I mean I don't even look at any other ex narcissist social media I don't even need to do that because I already know maybe they got married other single mothers they probably got divorced or maybe they never got married they just got used and abused by other knocks but other fake people just like them I already know that they did not become successful in relationships in their work life I don't even need to see anything I can already guarantee it because we all know narcissism is self-destructive these jerks these bitches these bitchy people that attitude and behavior doesn't lead them anywhere it really doesn't it never does but even in the rare case the extremely rare case well let's say the knock goes off maybe they find a grandiose knock someone who's extremely wealthy I don't know it could be someone with private jets super yachts mansions around the world they find something like that someone who's super attractive everything just everything you could ever imagine or they could ever imagine rather even if they did find something like that they would still find a way to mess it up or even then they'd just be presenting this false image to the world as though they're having such a great time and they're really happy when in reality they are still miserable now that's in the extremely rare case where they do find some grandiose knock who has everything of course that is extremely rare but even then either way they are never going to experience happiness they're never going to experience true love and they are never going to find peace within themselves they're never going to find or experience any of that which we can find and experience so very easily and we don't even need anyone to do that well as for them if they even come around someone like us someone who can experience real happiness and joy and we can find peace from within just for them to even be around something like that they just can't even act normal they can't just sit in a space and have a normal conversation with us you just look at them they're always playing on their phones they're always fidgeting with something they've always got to do or say something so stupid just to try and get under your skin just to try and wind you up like a child they can't sit in a space with you and share your happiness and joy share your peace they just can't do it but I'm sure many of you you know exactly what I'm talking about this is how it always is they come around you they just can't even be normal they can't even have a normal conversation with you and why because they can't be happy they can't experience joy they can't experience in a piece that's why whenever they come around you they've always got to play these stupid games they've always got to try and mess with you and get under your skin because they cannot be happy that is the reason why that's why it's like that and that's why it will always be that way with them it's never gonna be any different it's never going to change because they cannot generate their own happiness and peace from within like we can so whenever they come around us it's always this crazy show this performance that they have to put on these games this manipulation this nonsense which never seems to amount to anything it never goes anywhere because it's all fake it's all lies it's all manipulation the only thing that's real is you and that's why I'm talking to you right now because I know I'm giving value to you and you're gonna turn this value into something I like these narcissists anything you give to them it just goes into a void anyway it's never going to amount to anything you're just wasting your time take that energy and put it on yourself you can make something out of your own life just don't broadcast it to these knocks because as soon as they see that they will come back to sabotage it again and again the reason why is because they just cannot be happy they're never gonna find happy let's just look at how they behave when they are around you they act so childish and immature they're always trying to get under your skin they're always trying to irritate you they just can't sit in a space with you and have a normal conversation because they can't be happy they can't find peace or joy and guess what they are never going to find or have that you will I know you will get it you will have it if you haven't already gotten or had it already you will you will once you get away from now as I did as soon as I got away from these knocks I mean just look at it you can see it the evidence is all over YouTube I've got over 170,000 subscribers over 40 million views made over a million dollars got my tiktok as well this is all what I manifested after leaving these knocks who took me for granted and treated me with contempt and where are they now one still working in a supermarket doing nothing with her life the other one got pregnant and had an abortion with a drug dealer then she was obese smoking weed every day this is how they end up with a bunch of addictions whether addicted to people and on top of that also smoking drugs alcohol gambling shopping all of these mind-numbing activities because they just can't face reality they can't face you because you are reality you are the truth but they will regret what they did to you I can guarantee it I can promise you I can assure you they will regret it even if they never come to you and openly admit it I mean it's very unlikely they're gonna do that it takes a lot of strength for a narcissist to confront their own shame and to admit that they have a problem and to come to you and try to resolve it that takes a lot of strength and as we know most narcissists are very weak so the odds are they're just gonna remain in denial they're gonna try to suppress it that's just gonna perpetuate the shame even more the shame abuse cycle where whatever they get into they just abuse it they must treat it they must use it whether it's a relationship a job whatever it is that's just how it goes for them and honestly that is what they deserve it's not that they saw themselves short they did not deserve our loyalty and commitment as I said we do get a reflection of what we think we deserve that's why they didn't get us because we're so much better than that and because we know that again we get a reflection of what we believe we deserve and we deep down believe that we deserve better and to be abused and to be manipulated and to be lied to and to be future faked yes deep down we believe that we are far better than that far better than to be treated in that way and as I said we get a reflection of what we believe we deserve that is why these narks are not in our lives and if the nark is still in your life that is why you're watching this video right now because you already know you deserve so much better than that few of the islands the Sun is gonna start going down soon so I'm going to continue along my travels before it starts getting dark if you found this video helpful please give it a thumbs up down below it's very important as it helps the YouTube algorithm to get this message out there and you can also let me know your thoughts in the comment section I read your comments every day and if you would like to receive notifications my future videos all you have to do is hit that subscribe button down below and click the bell icon as well and if you'd like to book a one-one with me you can book it on my website it is 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