 Hey girl, how y'all doing? It's time to chit chat chit chat with my voice on raggedy Girl, I probably should not be talking to be quite honest. How about I talk like this? Yeah, see this is a Hold on You see yeah, my window is wiped by that street. Uh-oh Right by the street It is mid-september. It is officially the first day of fall The temperature has slowed down here in Phoenix, Arizona. Can y'all hear me? I feel like I'm whispering because I'm used to talking like this. All right The weather here is Girl, this is the weather where you want to stay inside Eat you some chowder, which I will be making a chowder today. I'm gonna make it in a crock pot I think I'm gonna make potato corn soup. Wait a minute for I really Let me just go ahead and take my Because last time I forgot to even do my hair child. I'm supposed to be moisturizing my hair today. I am serving you all bit of Alex Haley roots Y'all know I'm crazy. Um, so yeah, I know how we do this I'm gonna talk a little bit about what's going on in these YouTube streets was a bunch of foolery I want to talk about YouTube in general and Talk about what I've been watching on TV and Yeah, so y'all these YouTube streets first of all there is we That or behind-the-scenes Noticing so several things on this YouTube platform excuse the lighting I should probably get some hair clips, but I'm not To moisturize my hair I will be using the mesh leave-in conditioner and I've been using finnacreek oil Which will be a separate video But she's in this right here. Yeah, I should probably get some moisture. So let me go get my spray bottle that has water just a second y'all so One of the more popular YouTube channels Have been Under fire by the FTC now my son who is all bit of six years old going on 13 Absolutely love this little kid called Ryan's TV He used to like him more when he was younger, right used to always watch me on my nail My nail. Hold on. My nail is caught on something in my hair Yeah, this is my allergies. That's why I'm coughing Let me That ain't gonna do nothing. I need a nail file Ryan's TV is a kids channel that Um He reviews toys he's been on YouTube for a while the baby's like six years. No, he's seven. He's seven years old I think seven or eight and He basically opens up all these toys. He has tons of endorsements now you can see his No good toys at Walmart the reason why I say that because all those toys are cheap as hell But the kids still want them they buy them, right? So this is the problem with Ryan's TV as far as monetization goes goes and adds his car audience It's between the ages of three and five I remember when JB was around three and a half to four years old He really started watching this child. He's like, it's not fair He gets all these toys and his parents by him all these toys I said boo boo boo his parents do not buy him these toys These companies are sending him toys to review But my baby was only three and a half going on forward. There's no way he would be able to know that His parents were basically getting sponsorships. That is the problem Okay, so three three to five year old. Can I differentiate between a ad versus a sponsor versus? Okay, you really did by this product and now you're reviewing it on your channel That goes against FTC policy and then that falls into monetization So a lot of these family channels and kids channels are being a demonetized Then on the flip side you have people who are using foul language. There also be a demonetized. So what what does YouTube want? What what? Do you want us to be kid friendly or do you not want us to be kid friendly? So yeah, so that's kind of happening I'm not gonna get into more of the behind-the-scenes stuff I have shared my frustrations in the past when it comes to this new creative studio For those of us who have to edit our videos. It's a learning curve. It is what it is y'all Then there are these drama channels for the past three weeks Some of these drama channels and when I mean drama channels drama gossip tea channels like the James Caldwell The Sean Bradley I'm not gonna kind I'm not gonna put Shelly in there. Shelly. I'm not gonna put you in there cuz I like Shelly Pam view as a view. I don't think she's been doing much of that Faith a someone named Vs and Timothy Bradley. I don't know. There was some type of beef. Oh, there's someone named The J. Wilson Jot and King Josh Pastor Josh child some of these people I don't even know but what is really catching the reason why it's now serious drama as Apparently Timothy, which is an older gentleman. I love Timothy. He's funny to me But lately these videos have been happening like what the hell but I understand what he's coming from to a certain point Someone called him basically saying another person had his personal information his address What the hell? And I think shelly I saw your comment really stressing some concern for him rightfully so but I'm like People are having to get restraining orders on other youtubers Let me tell you something. There is nothing in my life that would make me go that far digging up dirt on someone These people have some serious Psychological issues looking up arrest warrants and stuff now if it's in a situation where there's someone who cannot help them So cuz I know as Hutchison's ex Hutchison Shelly has sometimes She has used her platform whatever you you say think about her like her like her lover Hater or lover whatever she has actually used her platform to help people who are in danger. That's totally different from I'm just gonna dig up some dirt on someone just because I want to eff with them. You know what I mean What the hell so yeah? Girl People getting restraining orders on other youtubers child Ain't that some mess? It's sad. Yeah, that's messed up. It really is so That's that sector that can get really nasty and the funny thing about it is that it'll go awful circle Like like catch this and two or three more months. Some of these people will be your back friends again You know what I mean? We ain't blowing. Oh I did post recently all of the upcoming videos. I'm going to be hopefully trying to Produce for you guys in the next few Weeks months Look don't tell me about no other Product line coming up someone asked me if I was gonna review Tracy's what's her name Diana Ross's daughter? Tracy Ellis Ross she has a new line car pattern. It looks beautiful. The you know packaging is wonderful girl No, I'm not reviewing that line No, I'm not I'm not there are a couple of more products that I am going to review I've been promising to review these for months. So I am going to get that out of the way. Okay What I'm watching on TV child, what am I not watching on TV first of all My favorite show right now, why am I clapping? My favorite show right now is why women kill when I tell you this show is giving me everything that I've ever wanted in life I love the show. I'm watching why women kill. I'm watching the black ladies get show And I'm of course, I'm watching Peaky Blinders with mr. Thomas Shelby So why women kill is this three part? Generational decade type of show basically is exactly what the title by these three women wives And they have these intertwining stories on why they eventually end up killing their husbands You have the late 50s 60s with this of course traditional Submissive housewife who doesn't work and her husband is cheating on her I'm not gonna give a lot if you want to watch it her husband is cheating on her with a waitress at a diner You then have the 80s wife who I'm all here for with is it Lisa Lou? Y'all when I tell you the storyline This is my favorite storyline So Lisa Lou is married to someone who is in the closet, but not really she catches him I guess she receives a photo of the lover, right? She decides to have an affair with an 18 year old boy down the street. The last one is My least favorite character because it's too much. I get it that every every storyline is an extreme But this is the extreme of the extreme You have this modern day African American feminist lawyer who is married to a white man to have an interracial relationship By the way, she is bisexual and they have an open marriage and they allow the other woman to live in I'm like if this is not the most extreme my my best friend absolutely despises that we always talk about it Because it's just you know, let's just get the most extreme Example as the modern day and let's roll with it, but I absolutely love it I don't know what channel it comes on because I watch everything on show box you guys So I do apologize, but the show itself is called again. Why women kill? Love it. I Am also watching The black woman sketch show It is mad TV Meets Angela Davis meets. I mean it is out there. It is her la ria. There's some of them that I'm like I don't know about that but this comes on is it HBO or stars y'all again I watch everything on show box, which is only on androids because I have my old cell phones But so far I'm digging it. It's really funny And it's a sketch show there are four women that play these characters And then they have their guests. They have celebrity guests that come on And fill in with certain roles absolutely hilarious. You have to check it out again. It's called the black woman sketch show Oh, did I spray y'all? Um age gaps All right y'all Age gaps, how do you guys feel about? age gaps Those you don't know my husband is 13 years my senior. I'm 39 do the math um That is not his real age and that's a long story because those you don't know a lot of people and who are born in their Royal royal areas and other countries. They're not born in hospitals. They're born at home. And so They just guessed his age If they were to guess really he's probably in his mid mid 40s mid to late 40s So he they're they're off by five or six years not only that but they have a different calendar than us We're not even gonna go go there. That's a whole different. I know some of y'all that different calendar Yes, there are other areas of the world where they're on a different calendar Then we are here in the states or in Western society, okay? Girl move on. So while we were at this hotel, there was one little girl. I shouldn't say little ball I didn't stop that There was one young lady that I befriended and she worked at the front desk at one of these hotels, right? Started to get to know her because the one thing I first thing that I immediately recognized me being a hair person I recognized her hair Then I recognized her beautiful face. She has long Beautiful wavy. I would probably say she's 3b3c black long hair and I mean long Her hair is is tailbone length Curly wavy and healthy and thick and to have all of that wrapped up and then have all this melanin She had was a beautiful thing. So I was getting to know her come to find out. She's multi multi culture girl She got everything up But basically she's Latino Girl don't never ask me a millennial with what their background is they'll tell you everything everything on their DNA profile But she's adorable. So we were just getting to know each other and talking every every other day that she was working Come to find out. She tells me that She'd not she let me mention her boyfriend And that he was a little older than her and I said, what are you about older? I mean my husband is you know ten years my senior. So what's a little older? She's like, oh, I say at 40s She didn't say anything. She so that maybe as soon that he was older. I Said 50s Basically, she never answered my question Mine you I've come to find that she's only 19 years old Now I do not blame her in my eyes even though she's quote-unquote an adult She's a child. I can have a 19 year old child 39 I could technically have a 19 year old child Okay, so when I hear something like this a 19 year old dating someone who's Possibly more than likely is old enough to be her father. I always think about him What would make him want to date someone who's young enough to be his child? I get it. There are certain situations where you can't control who you love, but I can't even look Yes, my husband's ten years older than me, but I don't find anything attractive at 39 I don't find anything attractive with a 25 26 year old let him own someone who's 19. So I don't really give advice to people. I'm not like that But she you know every now and then she will make a comment I'm not gonna get the young girls, you know all her her business up on here, but She really does love let me care for him and all this and my husband's like you need to be that little girl alone You know, there's some there's some mature That's his sweetheart She is mature for her age, but she's only 19 And as a woman she would change What she wants in life will change as she gets older. He's grown. He's lived two lifetimes He already knows what he wants. Okay, at least he should know it damn 50 something years old Well, you know girl, but what my point is that he has lived a life two lifetimes She's barely lived y'all come on. You cannot tell me a 19 year old. Absolutely definitely knows what she I Like the girl and she's a really sweet girl and I let her know I said look Take it for someone. I don't normally give out advice, but I like you you're a very beautiful attractive girl Y'all every time I went up there. There was a man up there just googly-eyed cuz she's stunning I mean she I saw her with and without makeup She is absolutely stunning. I said look you have options You have options you're 19 years old. I said honestly, I don't even think you should get serious talking my head and babies What's up? I Don't think you should get even get serious with someone until you in your 20s live and I literally know I said look Again, I like you Let you know this it is hard. It is extremely hard You have to be very careful who you have children with one to What you want as a woman will change when you're 19 to 25 to 35 to 40 and it should change because you shouldn't be the Same person at 19 that you are at 40 30, you know what I mean? You should be growing as an individual He know what he wants. He's already lived his life. You're still trying to figure that out So what you may want because we'll change it will change later on So just without verbatim verbatim saying I always want her to wait before getting serious. I want wait So what do I think about that? Do you think they'll work? Those of you who are married or you know looking for whatever, you know, what's the oldest you've ever dated? What's the oldest, you know, H cap, you know, what you ever do that mine you things are different now Then they work for us, you know what I mean even for me child by Not even interested. So y'all yeah, I'm not for that So let's talk about this H M H and M Add that y'all y'all help us are also rattled up about so let me tell you something first of all Shout out to Tam Cam T a M K a M She's a subscriber of mine, but she also has her own YouTube channel beautiful young lady. I love her hair She look like she's a 4b4 see her channel has all different types of stuff. I'll I'll link it down below Mm-hmm. She's from Louisiana says are you from Louisiana? I detect a Louisiana accent But she did a video on this that I watched this morning about the H and M Add that people would just grow fit to be tired about So, let me that people were clearly upset about in the African-American community, but this is the thing that This is the thing that trips me out about us my people and I'm talking to my people There is nothing wrong With that ad now a lot of us are quick to jump on the bandwagon instead of investigating and researching a story So we just fly off and yonder we're quick to share something. That's why I don't share a lot of stuff I don't work stuff. I don't do all that all the time. Okay. That's not my cup of tea speaking of hold on So H and M had this marketing campaign Where I was in a back to school or something girl And so the little girl African-American girl had her hair clearly she's girl. She was for Z for Z She had a little powerpuff pony tail pulled up and then back and the first thing I saw when I saw that picture I was like, oh, she's what she could fight You know y'all know I'm talking about that's the hairstyle and I'm gonna get to the serious point when I saw that Me being a silly guy, I'm like, oh She's the one that you gonna you gonna tell her after school who you gonna go beat up And she's gonna have your back. I didn't think anything else. Okay? You know, that's my silly initial assessment Then I was like, okay, why is the baby hair looking like this? But then I saw the other pictures of the others of the other kids and their hair was messy, too I don't see see this is the thing First of all, H and M knew what they were doing Meaning they knew to a certain degree that black black people would snap and it worked I bet you their cells are gonna be fabulous for this quarter, baby It worked because what are we doing? We're talking about it. Even my ass. We are talking about it. Okay? I personally don't shop at H number more power to you just cuz it's not my style. Okay? So the other children also have their hair messy. I didn't see anything wrong with it I kept seeing some comments, you know, maybe they should have laid down her edges use edge control I don't even use edge control It's for C4. It's come on. I don't care about them The only thing I will say that at least they should have moisturized her hair They could have moisturized her hair and attempted to put it on a sideburn a little Afro that was kind of messy or something, you know, I mean at least have the babies hair moisturized No, she didn't need she didn't need any gel or any edge control. She just needed some That's what she needed a little moisture. That's it. Yes, so Pick your battles. Okay, and they knew what they were doing The marketing play worked. Okay? We are the largest consumer those you heard not from here I'm letting you know even though we make up a small percentage overall make you as depending on what city you're in We are still the largest consumer We buy everything look look look around you and my and I look over here. Hold on. Look over here. Good example You see all that over there We bought everything to the point to where? We spend more money meaning African-Americans in this country. We spend more money than some countries do and No, y'all I think about that. Look it up girl. Google is free. So yeah y'all I can't write with that one Pick your battles. Like I said, I can't really write with that one. So y'all that's it for me My hair still is right at the back All right y'all take care bye