 Why don't you hear from the narcissist? This may be a question that many of you have. You may be wondering, where has the narcissist gone? Why did they suddenly disappear? Now one reason why you don't hear from the narcissist could be because they have new supply. Maybe they found someone else, someone else to be their punching bag, their emotional tampon, someone else to give them money or place to stay or whatever it was that you were doing for them. They found someone else to do that. And that's why you don't hear from them. Or at least that could be one possible reason because despite what you may hear on some of these videos that isn't the only reason why you don't hear from the narcissist. Another reason could be because they're busy plotting revenge against you. They could be working on some plot or scheme that is designed to affect you emotionally or financially and in some way it does give them supply because they're kind of visualizing the effects that it's going to have on you before they actually do it so they can kind of experience your feelings and reactions beforehand. So that may be something that they're busy doing. Another reason which isn't often talked about is that the narcissist may have taken a fall. They may be experiencing some form of failure. Now this could be relationship failure or financially maybe they lost their job. It could be anything but whatever it is it's not something to be proud of and it's not something that they want you to know about. They're very embarrassed about it and that's why they keep it hidden. Now the final reason I have for you of why you don't hear from the narcissist is that as hard as this may be to believe they think that it's a punishment. It may be a blessing to you that you finally have some peace. You finally have the energy to do the things that you want to do but in their warped minds they think that's a punishment. It's supposed to affect you because in their minds they're so arrogant and grandiose they think they're the best thing since life's bread so of course in the heads they think if they take themselves away from you you're supposed to be upset. That's how they think. They're so completely delusional and they completely overestimate themselves. They overlook all of the problems that they've brought to your life that they can't even conclude that you would be better off without them. They focus on the little things that they did for you and they think, ah, your life is going to be so hard without me. That's actually how they think. But yeah, I mean if you've watched my videos you know what the narcissist is about. I'm sure you're having a really good time without them. I know I was. So yeah, enjoy it while it lasts because although these narcissists don't really like to experience guilt in their warped minds they might be thinking, ah, give you another chance when they don't even realize how badly you just want to get away from them. It's crazy, it really is. It's just the arrogance. And if anything, if anything's going to make you upset it's just the way they're so arrogant and audacious about it. The way they force themselves onto you. When they come back with a hoover as though you're supposed to have missed them and as though you should be having a difficult time without their services when the reality is they just made your life hell. And they can't even see it sometimes because they have to present this image as though they're everything that you want and need. They just can't accept that they're the last thing you would ever need. And that is why when the narcissist finally leaves you alone your life will eventually just get better and better. And if you left them you would just wish you left sooner. If they left you you just wish that they had gone sooner because there's really no progress or elevation while these people are around. Any progress you make is made when they're not around. When your focus is on something other than them I guarantee it every time. In many exceptions where the victim does achieve something within the relationship I can guarantee it happened when they weren't thinking about the narcissist when they were occupied with something else because you cannot build anything with these types of people. You can't and it doesn't matter how much you try take those efforts and put it on yourself then you will achieve great things. Anyway, that's all I've got for you today. Please give the video a thumbs up if it helped you and let me know your thoughts in the comments. Thank you all for watching and I will talk to you in another live video very soon.