 Hello everyone welcome to another Narc Survivor Live video. As you can see today I am out here at this river by this cool bridge as well. It's quite sunny today but it's not too hot so it's not a bad day to make a video. As I said in this one we're going to be talking about does the narcissist recognise your worth after they leave you and I'm sure this is something that a lot of you think about a lot of you may wonder about this because of course it's very strange how they in the beginning they so desperately seek you out and hunt you down it's like they're on a mission it's like they can't think about anything else they just got to get to you they got to be around you and they've just got to be a part of your life in the beginning but then it's like as soon as they've got you they don't want you anymore they take you for granted it's like they're rather be anywhere else other than around you they'd rather be out with their friends somewhere maybe taking a girls trip or a boys trip they'd rather be at the bar at a nightclub playing golf they'd rather be doing all of these things other than spending time with you and naturally that is very strange considering that they made such an effort they went to great lengths to secure you to lock you down to get your attention and the crazy thing about it this is the funniest part is that when they first targeted you you might not have even noticed them you didn't even know they were there but they went out of their way to get you to notice them and they did all of these things to make you believe that they're about it for real but they weren't really about anything and you should know that by the inconsistency by how they do everything in their power to try and lock you down but then as soon as they've got you they don't want you anymore then it's like they don't even care about you it might be difficult to cure now there is a boat coming past just enjoy my beautiful view there enjoy that yeah it's crazy how they they make such an effort just to get your attention and lock you down and you may not have even noticed them you may not have even known that they were there your attention could have been on all these other things i'm sure you had far more important things going on in your life than that and they took your attention off all of those things that were more important to you and they got you to notice them they got you to focus on them they sold you a dream they future fake they lied they did all of these things they manipulated you and it's like yeah that's just how a narcissist thinks and behaves that's just exactly what they do because for them it's all about the chase they don't really want you i mean they do in the beginning but not so much long term it's more about their thinking in their minds do you want me am i worthy am i worth something am i beneficial and appropriate for a suitable purpose that's what they're thinking in their minds and they want you to validate that illusion they want you to want them that's how they get narcissistic supply by making people want them making people attached to them even though they don't properly attached to anyone but if they can get you to hold on to them then they can feed from you because you're given your attention and where your attention goes energy flows so what they really want is your energy but they want that energy from you in the beginning which is that pure desire so they have to make you want something because that's more closer to their vibrational level they constantly desire things they always want more they're never satisfied because of their ego and that's why as soon as they get you and then you lower your vibration down to their level of desire wait now you can have a great time now you get on really well with them now there's no problems no arguments the problem is when you feel good about yourself when you've got everything you need then it's a serious issue then because that tells them that you don't need them that they're unworthy and then they're the ones who are left to their own devices with all of this desire inside of them and on top of that a lot of shame feeling like they're not good enough they're not suitable for a purpose so these are all things for you to think about and consider these are all things that you need to understand if you want to know more about the mind and behind the behaviors of a narcissist but let's get deeper into the real meat of this topic because you want to know if the narcissist will recognize your worth after they've left you and really it's best to look at it as though there are two types of narcissists for this topic although there are many more you have a player type of narcissist and that's that type of person who many of us may know they never went to settle they always want more they're driven by their ego but not only that but they also have a lot of options you're not their only option they have plenty more maybe they're very physically attractive maybe they have a lot of money maybe they're very charismatic they've just got that something there's something about them that pulls people in and sometimes you don't know what it is but it's just they've got something that attracts people a lot of people so they don't just have to settle for you they're gonna have their cake and eat it too as you are probably aware of already and this type of narcissist well they're not going to be thinking about you much after they leave you if at all and I know that I may be upsetting a lot of people by saying this but as you should know by now I have to give it to you I have to give you the truth I need you to be aware of this and the truth is that no they're not going to be thinking about you much after they leave you this type of narcissist because they probably have a lot of options they've got a lot of other people it's not just you you're not that special important to them as you may think you hold an illusion of significance you guess this type of narcissist they may be all over you in the beginning because they want something from you but it won't be long until they're gone and then they've moved on to someone else and they're probably dealing with a lot of people at the same time as you telling them all the exact same things copying and pasting the same messages and you're reading this long paragraph from them thinking oh yes they do want me they do love me no they are sending that exact same message to everyone else and you don't even know it but you do now because I'm telling you I'm making you aware of it and yes that's what they will do as long as they have plenty of options especially if they're good options they're everything that they're looking for people who give them supply people who maybe give them money have sex with them these types of things it's what narcissists are mainly looking for they do target empathetic people but they're not really too concerned about that they want you to understand them and their illusion of course as we know narcissists like empathy so they're not trying to understand you they don't care about you and unless they can use that as a weapon against you but even then they're not really understanding you but yeah that's pretty much how it is with the player type of narcissist the one who has a lot of options no they're not going to recognize your value after they leave you they're not even going to care they're not even going to be bothered if they look on social media and they see you with someone else and you're having a good time somewhere met someone else a new person maybe you're going to disney land they're not going to care about that because of their minds they've got so many other better options so of course they're not going to value you but there is another type of narcissist on this topic of this video that i would like to talk about and that is a narcissist who doesn't have many options and there could be many reasons for that maybe they're not that attractive maybe they don't have that much money maybe they're not very charismatic they could be socially awkward self-conscious they could be insecure although all narcissists are insecure but outwardly insecure whether shy introverted they don't talk to people much these could be all reasons why or another reason is that you could just have extremely high standards like a sociopath or a psychopath these types of people they're not just going to settle for anyone they want the best the best they're not like narcissists at all there's a very big difference between them narcissists will settle for anything they don't care they will get in a relationship with anyone sociopaths and psychopaths yeah they might do one night one night stands but if if you're talking more long term they're not just going to settle for anyone it has to be what they want or at least what they think they want in the beginning and yeah with these types these more higher level narcissists these sociopaths psychopaths these types of people yes they are not just going to forget about you they're not just going to come around and bully you and intimidate you and then leave you alone or they move on to someone else no they're not going to do that these are the types of people who develop obsessions that dominate their minds and they can't just leave you alone these are the types of people who do that so so in some way yes yes they do recognize your value after they leave you believe it or not they actually do even though it may be unconscious in some way maybe in the back of their minds they don't it doesn't clearly register in their heads but of course they see something shiny they see a bright object and it's reflecting back to them their own insecurities and yeah after they leave you they a lot of them will realize that they underestimated you and if they can they will try to come back just to use and abuse you all over again and then discard you as soon as they think they found something better because they're always looking for the next shiny new toy the next bigger better deal and they always think the grass is greener on the other side so they live in this constant cycle where they're never truly vulnerable or intimate with you but what it is is like they attach to you somewhat but then they can't completely detach as well so you'll find that it is just this vicious endless cycle of idealization love bombing and then devaluation and it just switches back and forth back and forth and what also switches back and forth is the discard phase and the hoovering as well so it's like one minute you're being love bombed then you're being devalued love bombed again devalued then you're being discarded hoovered discarded hoovered and your head's just all over the place you're trying to figure out what is going on because you assume it has something to do with you and you're constantly trying to fix it you're constantly trying to make it right because when you're being love bombed all right everything's okay now i'm getting what i want i'm calm i'm cool i'm collected i feel at peace maybe they put you on a pedestal you're feeling good but then suddenly you come crashing down because they devalue you and they enjoy it they enjoy taking someone after they they will lift you up and put you on a pedestal just so that there's more distance from you and the ground so you will have a harder fall and then you'll really experience that crushing defeat so they will let you have that moment yes just so it hurts you even more when they put you back down to the ground and what they'll do with the discard yes they will discard you especially when they start to see you as a lost cause they think yes you figured us out now you know we're not real you know it's just an illusion all right we'll let you have that for now and then they know that once they leave you alone for a certain amount of time you're going to start to doubt yourself because you're going to feel lonely at some point you have to everyone does at some point everyone experiences loneliness this is normal so at some point you're going to start to question yourself and you may even feel regret you may think oh maybe i got it wrong maybe i was wrong about them you may remain hopeful you may think that they can change because you want to see the best in people you want to believe that people can change maybe you had a rough time in your past and you made some changes so you think that they can too so they discard you and then that's when they come back with the hoover to give you that hope to make you believe that yes this time is going to be different and then it kind of goes from the hoover or from the discard first then to the hoover and it just goes back around again straight to the love bombing devaluation again and then discard you're no good gone by and it's just this constant cycle love bombing devaluation discard hoover and wherever you are in the world it's the exact same thing every time why i'll be honest that's a question even i can't answer i would assume that it's wired in their brains it's just how people behave when they are emotionally dysregulated and they're just trying to survive i would assume that i mean some people do say that there is a a spiritual side to this i don't know i mean i haven't done too much research on that in the energy i do sense something dark something evil but i can't say too much about that because i haven't done enough research on it and yeah i wouldn't be surprised i wouldn't be surprised if that was the case i think this is maybe the first time i've ever said this in the five years but after all of my research and experience i honestly wouldn't be surprised if there is some kind of demonic possession behind it because you have to consider that there is a lack of consciousness and self-awareness which means that they are pretty much like zombies it's almost like they're under some kind of mind control but the mind control revolves around a desire there's always some type of desire there that's what motivates them if that was not there they could just sit under a tree and do nothing and be at peace and content with that as many of us do when we meditate no narcissists can't do that because they have this burning desire inside of them and that's what motivates them that's what fuels them that's what keeps them going and yeah i mean many of us have that but it's what is it for what is it for are you thinking more you were trying to develop a relationship with them marriage children these types of things that's good that's not nothing demonic about that but with narcissists what are they trying to do they're just trying to use you for their own benefit abuse you misuse you manipulate and confuse you they're trying to do all of these things which obviously behind it is an evil and harmful intent so the difference is the intent they are intending to harm you they are intending to do that and how much of this is actually conscious behavior and how much is not i would say that most of it is some of it is not some of it is habitual yes of course of course it is because as i've said before they do lack discipline and self control it's almost like they're on a conveyor belt and they're just going down they're going through the motions they're an autopilot they're just doing what they feel that they need to do to feel better in that moment but a lot of it yes it is conscious and deliberate behavior they do know exactly what they're doing they do understand the effects that it's having on you but they lack empathy and that is why they cannot stop because that is what stops people normal people if you see that someone is hurt they've got their head down they're crying if you are an empath you are going to feel something in your guts it's going to be screaming at you telling you no i have to stop this is not right doesn't matter who they are doesn't matter what they've done if you are an empath you will still have that feeling and it will stop you it will but narcissists no no they don't do that they don't have empathy or at least they lack it or they're they're such strong and unreasoning desire that overrides any empathy that they would otherwise have because their self motivations and interests are more important than anything often more important than their wives their husbands their children or what should be their purpose in life if they were meant to have one so that is why this cycle continues with them the love bombing devaluation discard the hoovering and it just goes on and on it never ends unless you put a stop to it because they're going to keep going as long as they're getting something out of it we are talking about weak stupid people here people who have no innocence of value people who get their value from harming and destroying innocent people and the key word here is innocent sometimes it may even be naive because a lot of us yes we did lack wisdom experience and knowledge when we were dealing with them if we didn't we may still have ended up with them but we wouldn't have stayed we wouldn't have stayed so yes many of us were naive but not only that the key word here is that we were innocent our innocence is what they targeted that is what it was and that is often what the the real value was in all of it because when they rob your innocence it regulates their emotions provides them with the sense of security and stability comforts it makes them feel comfortable and why why does it make them feel comfortable because they already know that they are corrupt they already know that they already know that something is wrong with them and they see you and you shine like this bright light of innocence and purity and in a way they kind of envy us of it but at the same time they want a piece of that they do because if they can take away your innocence it takes away that reflection that's coming back to them where they feel like hold on a minute you know when they witness the innocence in you then they feel inferior in comparison in a sense of because they know they're corrupt they know they're bad they know they're evil that's what it is they know that they are missing that they know that they are missing that love and compassion in their hearts which comes naturally to us i mean that's how we ended up with them in the first place we were trying to love them corrupt people do not love that's something innocent people do that's something innocent people do narcissists they rob us or at least they try to rob us of our innocence that's what it is normal people no we are not trying to do that what we do is um i mean it's it's actually very rare that an empath will come across another empath you know another innocent pure person but when we do the only thing that's going on in our minds is how can i protect and preserve it how can i protect and preserve it because you can see yes you are shining you are innocent you are pure and i don't want to harm it i don't want to ruin it because i have that as well so i want to protect and preserve it and i hope that you will protect and preserve what i have as well that is how a true genuine empath thinks that is how they think they think how can i protect and preserve it how can i improve it how can i change it into a superior form one that is more empathic more understanding that's how we think but narcissists are not on that same frequency they're not they look at it very differently they see it as though i mean yes they they recognize the value they recognize your purity and innocence but they're just trying to rob it from you they just want to snatch it and use it for their own gratification and then toss you aside when they're done with you once they've robbed it and then they'll come back once you've recharged that energy that sense of innocence then they'll come back and rape you all over again that's what they will do they'll just rape you all over again because that's what it is that's what this narcissistic abusive cycle is if you look at it the four stages love bombing devaluation discard hoovering it's just an endless cycle of rape of robbing your innocence and waiting for you to get it back so they can rob it all over again and it never ends it just keeps going so yeah i know that's obviously very deep and disturbing but this is exactly what it is so of course these types of narcissists do recognize your value it's in their nature they have to because they feel so bad evil and corrupt inside they know exactly what they are they know exactly what they are which is why they have to target you someone who is naive lacks experience wisdom and they have to rob your innocence that's why they have to do that and as i said as well there is a difference it doesn't mean that anyone who finds innocent people attractive is bad of course not that is not the case at all many of you have children they're innocent they're pure and you love them you want to protect and preserve their qualities which is a natural instinct as a parent that's just the way that it's designed to be and there's nothing wrong with that if you are drawn to the innocence and purity of your child because you want to protect preserve those qualities there's a big difference with narcissists who just want to harm and punish you that is not right that is wrong but narcissists they think it's okay they can't see anything wrong with that and they expect you to be okay with it as they rob you each and every time that they come around you they rob your energy that's what they do i don't know it's very sad it's not right but i also know that each and one each and every one of you yes you have had your innocence robbed from you i know that already because that is how you found my videos but you can get it back it will come back when you heal when you realign yourself with the natural energy and vibration of the universe and or when you submit to god and you trust god and you put your desires your needs in his hands when you have faith when you have that belief because that is really the power of belief it can change you often at a core level it's all whatever you want to believe it really is and i'm not saying that god or the power of the universe is only limited by our belief i'm not saying that at all that's not what i believe in but we should recognize the power of our beliefs because if you believe something long enough it may quite possibly become true but that doesn't mean it has to become true and definitely know it can still change if you want it to change so yes you can recover that innocence and purity that was robbed from you i'm not saying that it will be exactly the same as it was before but then you have to question would you want it to be the same as it was before would that really benefit you after what you went through because you have to remember that the reason why you went through it i mean of course yes we should hold the narcissist accountable for their actions but not only that it was because of our own innocence and naivety it was because we lacked wisdom knowledge and experience that's how we went through that that's what drove us down that's how that happened so although it may not be exactly the same as it was before would you want it anyway just so you can run into another one and go for the same thing all over again that's how you've got to look at it so even if you could go back exactly the way that you were before you probably shouldn't want that because it wouldn't serve you anyway but yeah that's um that's what i believe to be true about this topic i believe that yes they do the types of narcissists who either they have very high standards they're sociopathic or they just don't have many options those types of narcissists by nature of course they have to recognize your value if a narcissist has a ton of options well their standards are very low by nature they don't need to recognize your value this is based on how they survive their survival on getting their needs met so that determines how their brain functions so if they do have very high standards and they haven't got many options then of course yes they must still recognize your value whether you believe it or not they still do but that does not mean that they love you or miss you or that they have any empathy or compassion for you or that they can change they want to be to be different this time they want to be everything that you want them to be they want to reciprocate back to you no that doesn't mean any of that what that means is they want to rob you of your innocence and purity because they already know that they are bad wicked immoral and corrupt people they know that they lack innocence and purity they don't have it so they want it which is why they deliberately target people like us people who are more in the moment we're always in the present we're not thinking naturally so much about what we did yesterday or what we're going to have for dinner tonight we plan everything last minute because we're pure we're innocent unless the narcissist gets you inside your head and then you're worrying about everything there'll be two steps ahead of them other than that you're just going with the flow that's what you're doing so recognize it recognize your innocence your purity see it for what it is recognize that yes despite how they made try to make you feel guilty and shameful you are actually a very innocent person that is why they targeted you and because you're empathic because of course it tends to be that empathic people are innocent they are it's like that as we're then so without what we see in ourselves we tend to see in other people we tend to see the best in other people and you may not be able to think like this but if you really want to get into the into the mind of a narcissist they see other people how they see themselves but it's a mixture they recognize you as pure and innocent in the beginning but then you've got to think how can they go from that love bombing to then devaluing you the only way they can do that is if they they change this image of you in their minds to where you now become everything that they are they project it they deflect it on to you so now suddenly they're the innocent ones now they're not doing anything wrong no accountability nothing now you're the bad immoral and wicked one now you're corrupt but that is also no fun for them as well that's boring for the narcissist if it's just constantly they stay in the same roles you're the predator they're the prey they've got to switch it up all the time so that the movie never ends there has to be good parts bad parts and everything in between like an emotional roller coaster so they have to switch it up on you all the time it's like one minute you're the predator then you're the prey one minute you're bad corrupt and immoral then you're completely innocent and now they're going to rob you again welcome to the minds of a narcissist it's exactly how these sick twisted people think that's exactly how they think but just know that it's not true and i'm saying this to empower you because i want you to know that it is not you you are not the bad person you are not the corrupt one so you should not feel guilty or shameful even though that is exactly how they want you to feel and that is how they will make you feel once they've left you because how they feel and how they want you to feel is exactly how you will feel follow in the end of the relationship because they will project and deflect that onto you because they don't want to self-reflect they don't want to process it they can't deal with the pain and the shame so they push it on to you and then they want to watch you going through it because it's like a form of self-medication for them so yeah that's pretty much it that is what they do and as you can see yes they do recognize your value they always see some kind of value in you sometimes it's they see your innocence and purity and then once they've robbed that then they see the value in abusing you and destroying you bringing you down even more beneath them so there's always some purpose that's why they're always around you if they didn't see any value they wouldn't even be there they wouldn't even be there they would just go and never come back but even then actually in some cases someone asks us because they have so much pride and ego they will go and never come back even though they see your value but a baby because they feel inferior to you because they know you're not susceptible to their manipulation so yes in some cases even though they see your value they still don't want to be around you so it's not because of that so yeah so I just had to slip that in at the end as well just gonna have a look for the live chat here see the comments if you have any questions let me know and I will give you my response and we'll give you a detailed answer any question of your choice just let me know type it down in the live chat below roxy w says so innocent we cannot fathom that depth of evil yes that is very true that is actually something I was thinking about earlier today when I was reflecting on my past experiences it's like people say love makes us blind when you're at that higher vibration of love sometimes you don't even see that people are desiring something from you and it's like they want to bring you down they get envious and jealous until they pull you down they make you believe that you want something and then once you're at that same vibrational state of desire like they are then suddenly they calm down they don't want to fight anymore now it's like you could be friends you get on well but yes that innocence and it is actually at times just a lack of experience and understanding but yes we just we can't even comprehend it and even me now you know I've been doing this almost five years every day studying researching and of course I've got my own experiences an entire lifetime of narcissistic abuse so of course I recognize it now but there were times where I just couldn't understand it and I have done things myself that I'm not proud of in my past of course I can admit that even on live video right now I have done things that I do wonder I think was that the right thing to do and at times you know there's not always just a right or wrong answer but at times you know I do think did I harm someone there maybe I shouldn't have shouldn't have done that and with that in mind I do look back and think after everything that was done to me I just can't understand how there are some people out there who don't think like that they don't self reflect and wonder they don't try to understand the effects they have on other people but of course we know the reason why and it's because they lack empathy that's why their brains are wired differently a lot of them are sadistic they're wired to find pleasure in other people's pain suffering and misfortune whereas people like us empaths if I see someone hurt I can't just leave them down I have to give them a helping hand if I can I have to that's just something that I have to do if I have the means to do it but yeah it's on to the next comments here let's see what else people are saying Shani says they can't stand what we cultivate naturally our compassion our authenticity it's a reminder of what they lack yeah that's really it in a nutshell I mean just these natural gods giving qualities and abilities that we have which they don't have they are very envious and jealous of that because of course they can't do it like we do they can't do it naturally they have to come up with all of these tricks and games they have to do all of these silly things it's like a clown in a circus they have to do all of these things to manipulate you to get your attention but we can just do that naturally we don't have to play any games like that so yeah it's very true what you've said there just looking for the live chat treasurer treaser made of wood says they take your strengths and leave you as a shell of your old self and hate that you even exist after all that they have done very true they do take our strengths everything that makes us who we are they take that away from us but yes they leave us as a shell of who we used to be they leave us as a shell of that and you know what they want us to do they want us to just lay down and cry about it I feel like we can't get that back but you know what you should just use that as motivation to become something even better to become something even more because we do have the power to do that a lot of us do they want to take everything that you've got to make you feel small I mean that's all that it is is a game this is not reality that we're playing in here they're trying to trick you into feeling less than who you are by taking things away from you because they already know that's never going to play out naturally that's why they have to do it deliberately because if it just played out as it should be maybe as it was it'd be like survival of the fittest and they're weak so they already know you're going to win that's why they've got to control it and contain it that's why they've got to pull you down so that it doesn't play out naturally I'll ask the whole point they don't want it to play out naturally they don't want you to move on naturally with your qualities and abilities because they already know that you will achieve and become something great they already know that you will achieve and be that Kruger, Nowakie, sorry if I pronounced that wrong but they say I had a dream that I told them about themselves but I guess that's not the best idea because they will just deflect or deny and try to gas like me that's exactly right as you said that that is exactly what they will do and as I said earlier a lot of these behaviors to some extent they are conscious and deliberate but they're also unconscious at times as well because they are in survival mode they're doing everything they can to just uplift themselves and regulate their emotions because they're constantly experiencing pain misery and shame so of course when you try to confront them they're just going to push it away it's like no I don't want to deal with that pain I don't want to deal with the shame get that away from me and yeah it may look like they're running away from you but what they're actually doing is they are just running from themselves that true authentic version of themselves which they believe is not good enough the saddest thing is in a lot of cases that person was good enough all along they just needed to bring that person back and work with it more just build it up build a foundation more than anything because that's what a lot of them didn't have and then they could have actually become something for real but they didn't do that as we know narcissists they like to cut corners but when they do that they just end up going in around in circles they never achieve anything Shaniee says move in silence don't react say nothing yeah that has been my advice a lot of times you know you just go no contact be silent and yeah a lot of times that can be effective but you have to be aware of the consequences because that will really wind up a narcissist when you do that because the whole point the reason why they're saying these things and doing these things is to get a reaction out of you because they already know you're a good empathic person they know that you deep down you love and care for yourself your high value you don't want to go down in life of course they already know all of that so they will deliberately do and say these low value things to try and pull you down so that you end up just like them so that there's no difference between the two because they're seeing it like as I said earlier yes they know they're bad immoral corrupt they see things in black and white so automatically you're automatically an angel a saint you're everything that they could ever want to be everything that they want to take from you so they've got to change that up a bit now they've got to twist it around they're going to make you like them so that they can feel like they're like you what they're actually doing is they are in a way switching your identities reversing the roles they are becoming like you and you are becoming like them just so they can point the finger at you and blame you but you've got to switch that up on them by becoming the most incredible most righteous most good version of yourself that you can ever possibly be but again when you do that that's also a problem as well because then you will be constantly triggering the narcissist and then they'll want to jump on that they'll want to have some of that too they'll want to switch it around in you again so yeah I mean that's all they're really going to do is just constantly just switch it up on you it's like no matter what you try to be in life they will always try and steal that from you doesn't matter even if you try and get angry and you try and take revenge you try and you try and intimidate them they'll try and switch that around in you too they'll steal that from you as well it's like you can't have anything in your life whatever you try to build is your identity your personality this person who you are whatever you try to do it's always someone else or something else it's it always has to be taken away from you that is the pattern that you should know it's it always has to be taken away you're not allowed to have anything of your own unless they give it to you it has to be on their terms because what they're ultimately seeking is power and control because they're very weak and insecure and they have no inner sense of value they have no identity of their own so it's all about taking things from someone else and then using that as their source of power because they can't generate it from within they have no heart they have no love or compassion so they have no desire or motivation to build anything for real just been looking for the live chat thank you all for your comments 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make a big difference for our channel it will we need to get this information out there spread the awareness because we do have the power to make a difference in this world to make people aware of what toxic or narcissistic people are doing how they are trying to rob us of our innocence of our qualities and abilities and sometimes even our money but more than anything they are trying to rob us of our energy that's what they want because whatever it is it always comes back to energy when you look at it you don't really own anything in this life all you have is your energy that is the one thing that you possess and that is really the one thing that can be taken from you but it is also the one thing that you can replenish especially if you are an empathetic person you can generate that from within or you can generate it by giving value to other people but narcissists as you know no of course not they can't do any of that but what they can do is rob it from you which is why you need to protect and preserve not only other people's energy and innocence but you need to protect your own as well you need to recognize the value in yourself and that's really the message I want to finish with on this video instead of worried about does the narcissist recognize my value you the question you should be asking is do I recognize my value because that's more important than anything else it really is because when you recognize your value like I said the power is in your belief you are creating value and then you have value to give to other people and you need to pour into your own cup before you can pour into someone else's you can't give to someone else if you have nothing for yourself which is why it is very important for you to replenish yourself first because that means you will then be better for someone else and it is good to provide value to other people that's what I do every time that I come on here I give this information spread awareness so it is good to do that because that is how we build and grow together by sharing what we have with other people of course narcissists can't do that because they have a scarcity mindset and because they can't generate it from within they have to rob it from other people so of course they're going to hold on to it for dear life and they're going to try and get as much as they can out of you because as I said they are very weak stupid and insecure people and there's really not much you can do about that well all you can do really is try to match their vibration use your empathic psychic abilities that you have been gifted with tap in to where they are on the vibrational scale are they feeling shame are they feeling fear desire and if you want to make them feel more comfortable so that again as you can protect protect and preserve your innocence your energy just match their vibration in that moment and you will begin to feel more comfortable I can assure you of that but yeah I think that's enough for this one I don't want to get too deep I don't want to unload too much information in one go as I know it can be quite overwhelming with these types of things it's better to learn a little bit at a time give you some time to digest it and resonate with it so that it makes sense to you again I just like to thank you all for joining me as always I do appreciate your support and if this video was helpful for you you can give it a thumbs up down below let me know your thoughts in the comments let me know do you agree with what I've said in this video do you disagree I'd love to hear from you let me know I'm always looking to learn new things and share the video subscribe and for one-on-one coaching if you would like guidance and support along your healing journey you can book a session with me on my website it is narksviver.co.uk and also I do have an Instagram with new pictures and videos of my travels every day on there and we do have a video that has just gone viral too it's just about a hit one million 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