 It's important to remember that only telling someone yes and telling someone yes you're valid and only affirming them and only saying yes is not an act of love. That's not what love is. Love is not giving in to every whim and only saying yes. Love is putting up those boundaries and saying no and having to keep someone safe even when they might be upset at you for it. This is so sad to me the fact that we believe that love is always saying yes even though we see someone going down a harmful path especially from a parent. Your job is to protect your child and yet cheering them down this path that will ultimately be destructive for them. That's not love that's hate. God's desire for you is that you would wholly embrace the way that He made you and that in that you would glorify the God who made you.