 When the narcissist ignores you, do this, when they're around other people. Narcissists can be charming and charismatic, but behind closed doors they are disconnected. They are inconsiderate of your needs. They lack empathy, they're unable to share your feelings or perspective. The narcissist will ignore you when you need them the most, because they want supply. They want your reaction. It fuels them, but it's never enough. They always want more, which is why everything always has to be about them and it's why they ignore your needs, because it gives them your reaction, which feeds their soul and it makes them think that they have won, but those feelings of victory and triumph only last for a short period of time, which is why they have to keep you coming back, which is another reason why they ignore you. They love to see your persistency and determination. They love to see you continuing firmly and obstinately in your opinion and course of action in spite of its difficulty and opposition, it gratifies them, it brings them amusement and enjoyment, which is why they specifically target people who are kind and given, because those are the easiest targets for them to destroy and if you confront them on it, they will blame shift, they will gaslight, they will do anything they can to avoid accountability, because they don't want to resolve the issue. All they care about is supply, which is why they will ignore you to keep you coming back, to keep you wanting to engage in meaningful conversations, while they feel to fake, while they feed you false promises and lies, to keep you holding on, while they pretend to care about your needs, but everything they do is just so that they can feel needed, so that they can feel like they matter to someone, so that they can feel like they have a useful purpose, which is a very twisted way of going about it, but this is what they do, they will tell you whatever they think you want to care, but it will never come into fruition, because they never took the steps to make it a reality, they lied and promised something about your possible future, in order to get what they wanted in the present, they will only give you something if they believe they can get something back in return, and most often what they want is your attention, they want to be included and enmeshed with you, but they have an ulterior motive for doing that, they are very distrustful, they are opportunists, they are only looking to see what they can get, to cause drama and chaos, to gas like you, to deflect, to make you feel like you are bad or wrong, so that they can feel like they are in control, by leaving you in a state of disorder and confusion, because it gives them supply, they are the puppet master, they enjoy being in control of events and of other people's actions, it compensates for their lack of stability and security, they made an intentional decision to ignore you, because they are very petty and immature, and it is designed to test you, to see how you will react, but it is also meant to punish you for being more attractive or more intelligent than they are, because they are deeply envious of you, their lack of communication, it's meant to communicate to you that you are irrelevant, but it's also a test to make you seek an advantage from them, to make you win their attention, while they make excuses for their absence, but if you ignore them, it will frustrate them, because that's not what they wanted you to do, and they want to be in control, they want to dictate your actions, so if you ignore them, they may come back to love bomb you, while they're talking about you to other people behind your back, which is why when the narcissist ignores you, you need to ignore them, when you do that, they will see you as a threat, because they need your reaction to get supply, but it will make them very uncomfortable, it will show them that you're not willing to play their game, that you don't need them, that you're happier without them, and you should feel grateful that they're out of your life, because now you have an opportunity to make your life better and greater without them, thank you for watching, if you found this video helpful, please give it a thumbs up, share your thoughts in the comment section, hit the subscribe button to receive the notifications, if you would like to support the channel, you can donate at paypal.amie.org survivor, you can book a one-on-one with me on my website, it's narcsurviver.co.uk, thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.