 Y'all ain't I y'all know this one here this one he'll be a little fuzzy now. Let me see What I'm on hold on hold on it's gonna cut off and cut back on hold on Let me see what I see sometimes y'all hold on one second. I had to switch my Wi-Fi. Let me see if it work Did it come back on? I'm back on here y'all can hear me and y'all know the other one now boy look at that dog old YouTube, but they go Hey, I don't know if it's because of my Y'all give me one a second. I don't know if it's if you see that other chat Then you can put on there that I'm off of there. I moved it to private So it wouldn't show up, but um Let's give it a little second. Okay. Now listen, um, thank y'all for getting over here y'all y'all know YouTube be sitting there now. You don't never know what happened cuz People could be flagging you and all of that and they can make it shut down or it could be the Data on my phone my phone could be like it get hot or data Like it's backing up too much data been on there too long cuz I got low data on the phone Or it could be when my phone go into the sleep mode. Oh, that's probably what it is When my phone go in the sleep mode that could have cut it off So listen to me what I was telling you here mills I'm in college and The young lady, you know, she taking me home to her hometown showing me off Because I had that I have been the best thing that had happened to her and My daddy he said to me he said listen and so me getting to this relationship She wasn't somebody I would normally be attracted to but she was a nice person but she was you know lost like like the rest of us and My daddy he was like listen Tony. He was like you up there and Sometimes when you were in certain situations, he's like just like when a man go to prison He's like some men go to prison and they start doing stuff with them with the man who act like a lady or They might get into some stuff because they in prison and they say that's why they doing it He said the same thing when a man in the army or he in the service and he deployed he might start Sleeping with a woman in that country and he might be married back home He said sometimes as a man you do stuff because of your environment He was like so you with this young lady, but do you really think? Y'all on the same like level He was like what about when you come home if you bring her home and you walking around through the mall with her Are you gonna feel the same way you feel about her cuz I start trying to Fight for Because I had them fail for because she was spending money on me. Let me hold her car She was my company. So in that I learned that looks ain't everything I learned that your heart could actually fall for somebody and then I had so much pride That when she slept with my teammates, I Stayed with her for the rest of the school year Just so that they wouldn't win and they did it cuz I was I was cocky and arrogant I used to always clown them because I was on a full scholarship and they wasn't on a full scholarship and I used to fake injuries and so they had to go to practice and I'd be faking the injury Why they sweating and tired and I used to clown them in the locker room. So the guys really didn't like me They'll hang when we were cool, but deep down. They were mad at me and and They was going in the deadpan for college and my college was paid for and I was just young and dumb That's just how I was. I used to make I used to clown I Used to be You got the practice and Then if it be raining it'd be muddy I Look at the guys and I wink and I do my eye get my real I get the ball I hit the hole and when I hit that mud I fake silk and I I Faked like my hair strain was hurt because I wouldn't get no playing time Because when I started as a freshman, I fumbled a ball Two times in the same game and my coach his son was a fullback I was a tailback his phone his son was a fullback and it was his son senior year So when I fumbled a ball it gave him an excuse to let his son play tailback So when he stopped playing man, I'm like, I'm not finna be practicing Playing just poor character and it showed it with what I was doing with the ladies and I'm gonna tell you something It was this young lady that hadn't been found out about me. She hadn't heard about me So what was going around cuz my homeboys used to say stuff too cuz I'm a roommate He says something to a he said some one time to a young lady. He was like hey Hey girl, I give you a good time now My thing ain't such a such inches like Tony's own, but hey, I give you a good time I'm like what in the world? He just say I'm like, what do you say that I? Say so what's going on? So I didn't realize that I was being used for my body and That it was like an exploration for these young ladies because yeah women are used a man too for the experience and and I felt bad because These these young like these women was calling me that we grown we everybody 18 and up They was calling me over and it was one time. It was a young lady We was in the room My roommate gave me this different type of Protection and it said something on there like, you know longer time or something I didn't know what the thing do So when you put the thing on It got like a numbing agent. I guess so that The man go longer. Well at the same time it'll So the little soldier them laid down to go to sleep and I'm in there and and so nothing happened You know what the young lady and I'm like man such a game in this thing and I apologize The young lady got in relationship Now what was a nightmare of a man? A man nightmare is that his woman done slept with a man He know her boyfriend was on my team And he came to me one day. Oh, yeah, Tony. Um, I Want to ask you um, you wouldn't have happened to have ever done anything with such and such have you I Was like, oh no Absolutely not because I knew how that feel as a man And so but we really hadn't done anything and so and but when I came out that door, I Had a sticky note on the door From the young lady that I was dating the one I met in the library that took me to the room on the same night She said I know you in the room with such and such Give me a call when you done She didn't knock on the door. She ain't down on the door now listen. I'm a black man. I Come up around black women So The black women I knew they fought me The black women that I'm around they fought me Now the white women they was a little different They so that so I know if a black woman woman would have came to that door for one She would have either not came to the door and just been done with me or she would have had a knife or something Waitin on when I got back home or she would have bound on the door something She put a note on the door so at that point I'm like It was kind of scary and so now Wow, this right here is weird and this what's going on. So listen in my freshman year. I was with 28 Women in my freshman year college Men talk about who you with so my teammates the next Probably was five to seven Because my whole focus was women Even though I was a college football player my whole focus was women and When it came out, it was a it was a guy on my team from PG County He was from PG County and He didn't like me for whatever reason I do not know why he ain't like me He had a girlfriend. I think she was from up there, too in Maryland, but um 26 year old bro, uh-huh breathe good Appreciate you. You did it, right? So he said if your girl ain't cheated on you And your girl ain't cheated on you. I climbed to the top of that Steeple and let a man poke me in my booty now when he said that I said, uh-oh I said a man ain't finna say that now if if he don't know something He wanted to snitch so bad, but see he wanted he For some reason he didn't like me, but I didn't really know why because I was a running back and he was a corner back And so we was walking to the room and he just broke out of like you want to fight me. You want to fight me? I'm like, bro. What are you talking about? Like, why do I want to fight you? Like what's going on? but see That's how men are when a man feel like another man is Superior to him in some way he get jealous and he want to fight Cuz he walked funny. He used to walk funny. He walked like a little dumb and He and he had a fun little walk on and he was not fast as me and he was not strong as me He did not jump high as me. He did not jump far as me So I don't know if that made him mad or if he was mad because I was on full scholarship And I was not getting in the game and he was on no scholarship and he was playing about the whole game so God started to hate me and They start trying to get me kicked off they started telling the code Tony doing it Tony doing it because I was selling I was selling weed at dorm room So right after practice I asked you dinner go to the room and get off me a few sacks and Because they were smoking. I ain't smoke. So me. I'm you know, I'm a I'm an entrepreneur If y'all smoking, okay, I'm from Florida. I get it for the low So my cousins all my cousins growing it. So I'm finna get it for the low. Here you go So I'm what doesn't make him a little money So and they he they working out hard and so for some reason they like me and I told one of my homeboys from Florida. I Said hey, man, if you could touch my if you could touch my chick I bet you can't sleep with her. I was thinking I was naive I'm thinking that because she's spending money on me. I'm using her car And I'm doing all that that she was gonna be faithful even though I was cheap They ain't how that work. I Said so when I finally interrogated them, I put in first 48 and Now listen, I would talk sit now. I would talk sit now I'm first 48. I'm using every interrogation tactic Listen, I know everything. I'm gonna give you one more time to tell me the truth. Who you slept with? It took about a hour for she say the first name. She said the first name. I thought that was done I thought that was it But I kept lying saying I knew more come to find out it was more and more and more and more I was like what in the world? I cried like a baby. I Dove on the bed See a Man medicine a taste of his own medicine taste our own medicine might kill us. I Say what you did at far? She say I was intimidated, you know, he has tattoos that he has dreadlocks So I was intimidated. I Say why you let him run the train on here? And then she told me something that could have got my teammate kicked off the team But I ain't you know, I'm like listen, but that's on you then you need to go tell it That's what you want to do And so she told another story now listen now. She in front of me She don't know what I'm finna do so she say one of them she slept with and she say the other one forced her I Don't know if that's true Well, how many y'all have heard the story of men of black men Sleeping with a woman of another race and then that woman getting caught and then that woman saying that man took advantage of So I didn't know if it was true or not So them guys, you know, I looked at them. I really ain't talked to them, but she meant We have a guilty conscience So all of them started coming to me because they saw how I moved and they knew how I was with the ladies They knew it was not a secret and so they all my teammates started coming to me. Hey You sleep with my girl. Did you you slept with my girl? Hey, man, tell me the truth man. You slept with my girl Man, you ain't gonna sleep with my girl is you you ain't gonna sleep my girl to get back at me Man, tell me you slept with my girl And I just I let them wonder I say Take that up with your lady And so I feel bad because them young ladies probably got hands put on them Them young ladies probably got interrogated by them guys because a taste of our own medicine now by killer Them guy probably was so nervous That what they did to me I had did it to them, but I don't move like that. I don't move like that. I'm not nasty I'm not nasty person I never sleep with another man girlfriend or wife that they ain't in me the Bible say a man to kill you for that and Not me fortunately I went in that place because I didn't see her like that. I didn't see her like that But now if a man go to step on my territory and I'm married and he know it Then his life on the line That's just the truth for God his life on the land I know God say oh no take that up with your woman. No because because a man could not be doing right And his woman could want to tip out the dough But if you a man and you know this man got a woman you know this woman taking and then you won't slide in there No, that's that's the game that you got to be willing to lose lose your life. And so listen the young lady she broke up and She broke up and I Mean she went home for school and she said I want to come back to school to be with you And I knew I was done with the relationship Fortunately she flaunt out of school Unfortunate for her fortunate for me. So that got me out of relationship after that. I ain't want nothing to do With that's with the other side. I went At dark as I could fire on that campus and we ain't had nothing but one That I that I was halfway attracted to and I went down and this is another lesson for the ladies Teach your sons teach your sons how to cook Teach your sons how to clean Teach your sons how to wash his clothes. I also had to keep a woman because I Ain't really I grew up as an athlete. So I was spoiled. So I never had to do any like chores I've never really had to do much around the house Because of how boys are raised a lot of times boys we raise to be spoiled It's some moms and dads who don't do that But a lot of time boys is raised for you and then the girl have to do the daughter got to do all the Cooking and all the cleaning you got to teach your sons how to do this because when I got the college I had to keep a woman with me to get my clothes wash to get food to get all of that So the woman became like my mama, you know, like a wife basically and so I kept a woman with me 24 seven I never slept in my dorm room. I always was was in my girlfriend room and They would be in the eighth roommate would be gone or they would have a room to they sell So my roommate he had the room to himself One day I go to practice my roommate got my drawers on, you know, how you have your pants sagging See the boxes. We used to wear boxes back then and not underwear. We wore boxes They may have where my boxers That's how much I was gone from my room. This man started wearing my socks my drawers and my clothes I'm like, man, I could have had some you put them draws on what if I had some you'd be you to call it Thank God ain't had nothing and so listen to me this why I Shout a game Because I played the game and so when I come out the game. I met my wife at 21. I Was still no good. She broke up with me after a few months Six months later. We bumped back into each other. We hit it off again 10 months later. We got married Now when she left me it wasn't just all me it also she was getting a lot of pressure from her ex-boyfriend that she had broke up with and so We got back we got married when we got married I retired from the game Because I had told myself when I get married. I'm gonna be faithful But at that time that's when I saw my sister being taken advantage of and my mama falling for little games and that's why I Wrote that book and I wrote the book because my female friend my home girl She asked me to write the book and That's why I wrote the book and so what I'm trying to tell y'all today to y'all ladies be happy That is a few of us out here giving you the game Because the way men move I Remember like trying to brag about Being a ladies man and I had a homeboy who you know, he was like two or three shades darker than me His lips was like, you know twice as thick as my lips. His nose was twice as wide as my nose So he had a different look. He had a different look, but his look was not praised Because of colorism and because of just different stuff his look was not praised But we was grown at this time and I said young man I be doing this I be doing this and he said to me He said man ain't nothing you could do with a woman that I can't do he said a grown man is a grown man and After he said that I stopped feeling myself and I and I start to look around and realize I say man It really is guys out here That look like the bottom of a shoe And got a woman pulling her hat I Literally start to see guys of all races all skin colors all heights all features getting over on women and I say this crazy and And I'm gonna tell you like I coach women I Coach women and the stuff that I hear it made me sick to my stomach Like it made me want to throw up Like the stuff I hear women going through it made me want to throw up like I literally be like oh my goodness I'll be getting ready to retire from this and just go into just do real estate just do ghost writing just do you know Investments in companies and just do something else and then I hear all these stories And that's why I'm giving away the game. So women always ask Why is man telling women what to do in a relationship? It's because Women are the ones losing That's why men not losing men ain't losing The only time we see a man go through something is when he a check when he is a sponsor and Then he want to talk about all women ain't nothing man. You knew you was a sponsor You know that woman a won't you you thought you could buy her But deep down even her who won't your money She was there won't law so yeah, she's taking your money But she still won't talk dark and handsome over there So she just you you for a check you played yourself Men not losing in the relationship feel You tell me how men and women is There are documentary about Who got millions of dollars? From a man from scamming a man How many women is there a documentary about who got millions of dollars from juggling and scamming men It ain't that mean it ain't It ain't none It's I mean it's happening out there, but we don't have a tenor swindler for a woman What my wife just told me about the man who got 20 million from doctors women who doctors and lawyers That's not the tenor swindler. That's a whole nother man. It's another man. That's on American greed That's a episode about a man on American greed. So now the man Who she told me about on date line. He was a older white guy And he kind of looked like He kind of looked like an older John Cena You know, he kind of he kind of had a strong chin to me kind of had a strong chin Kind of looked like the man in uniform. He pretended to be a firefighter He pretended to be a Navy a Navy man He pretended to that it's on date line the wife of telling about this man got 20 million dollars What happened is he'll meet the women he will take the women to bed While the woman taking a shower He will go in her wallet Get a copy of her ID Get a take a copy of a check get a copy of a credit card He will get her information get on her computer log in get into the auto log in get into her 401k account Start emptying out her 401k Then the man would be In her bank account See the women had savings because they were single and successful One woman had over a million dollars in savings the man got into her account and was spending money the man was in the man was in Hawaii or the Bahamas and he told the lady he was over there for he told the lady He is a developer for rich Carl to and so the lady thought he was over there Building the rich Carl Carlton in Bahamas or Hawaii. He was actually with another woman That woman reached out to the other lady and said hey when he told you he was in Hawaii Building a hotel. That was a all that was all a lie. He was over there with me That lady end up looking at her bank account and saw that the man paid for the trip to Hawaii With the other woman out of her bank account and she didn't have a clue because she was sitting on EMS So she went that was her savings. She wasn't checking it. The man had not got her log in So listen to me if you a woman You ought to be glad that it's a couple men giving way to game Because it's like we could talk to me, but that ain't gonna benefit a woman We could tell a man What not to do, but that ain't gonna benefit a woman because when when that time you seen a man listen a man could have his phone hooked up in the car With the GPS on and the phone is flipped upside down And he be and he will be following them directions and the woman will be telling him he going the wrong way Woman no woman hush Yeah, what do you got stairwell over there hush? Y'all end up in Tahiti and supposed to be going to Tennessee And when he get the Tahiti see This your problem now If you want running your mouth, we wouldn't be over here in Tahiti We'll be in Tennessee where we supposed to be but all you want to do is run your mouth And the whole time you've been trying to tell him he going the wrong way It's like we left how you seen a man listen And but see but see Women always talking about women always saying Oh, he don't communicate. He don't communicate. I can't get him to communicate but then When he get in when he go to prison He write novels You get an email on jpey You can email all time a day You can a phone call every day You'll collect call bill so high. He got all the time in the world. He's writing novels and cabaretless fail sometimes and writing novels But when he was in the free world, you couldn't get him to sit down and have an hour conversation to say your life or his life or a child life But then women So many women telling me Talk to the man talk to the man listen if I'm taking away time from my family I'm not finna talk to no brick wall I'm gonna talk to hoof in the listen So if I make a video And in youtube say 95% of the people who subscribe to you as women why I'm gonna make videos for men Because when I make videos for men, they don't watch them and youtube say we're not pushing videos for men Because we're pushing your video relationship video for men because that's men don't watch relationship videos They say we pushing the finance videos to men and we pushing The sports videos to men and the prank videos to men youtube say we're not pushing a Relate healthy relationship video to men Because that's not the audience sir the same way the publisher say We're not letting you write a book to a man You got to write a book to a woman Because 75 percent of readers are women and we not in the publisher say we're not in this to lose money So if we finna publish this book It got to be Directed to a woman Or if they want you to write a book for a man, they want you to water it down I sent a proposal in For a book for men. They say they want a book for men I sent a proposal in a book for men with the reel in there They come back to me and she tells me that the man in her office say He can't relate to the man to the book because I said Some men act like beasts and he don't relate to that. He don't know what that means I say I say, all right So then I wrote the book husband material, which for those y'all who pre-order husband material I closed the pre-orders because it's it's it's it's the book too real and I'm gonna I'm gonna I gotta print them Sign them and ship them to you, but I don't think I'm gonna put it online Because for one two, I'm telling the real whole truth And everybody can't handle the truth Everybody can't handle the truth. But see I was out here playing the game day in and day out Day in and day out. I'm playing the game and then let me tell you this the thing Here I am um Here I am Now y'all see zeal don't hear Zeal the god blessing our sister sister on him God blessing our sister And uh keep on listening And just apply what you learned to you somebody, you know, people be writing me and be like tonic. I need, you know 15 minutes on the phone with you listen. I'm not jesus Listen y'all listen. I'm not jesus Ain't no problem. Ain't nobody problems I can solve I came from nobody problems If y'all can't watch these videos and apply it to your sister to your situation ain't nothing getting on the phone with me gonna do And and with the stuff that y'all be asking me y'all already know the answer Y'all already know that a lot of times if you got to ask that mean you need to leave A lot of times if you got to ask that mean it it done A lot of times if you got to ask That mean it's time to start the healing process even if you stand and you finna make it work It is all everything we talk about is common sense Everything we talk about common sense y'all got to trust your common sense You got to trust what you know to do don't don't wait on somebody else to have to tell you What you got to do you already know what you got to do I shouldn't even have A job a platform none of that we because we should not need this But we need it And i'ma tell you this is what i've learned What I have learned and i'ma tell you what youtube be doing They be shutting off my video. So I got to start another one. So I ended up having three of them up there So then they can monetize three videos to the just one knowing that ain't nobody gonna get to them two three hours So they say okay, let's shut them down Hour and a half. So you got to start them another one up This is to me. This is what I found and this is what I believe that most women innately want to submit to a man And I'm not saying submit in the curse word I'm saying most women want a man to be a provider and want a man to be a leader And because of that desire That's what's getting so many women hurt Because mothers and fathers are not raising their boys to be men So if a boy is not raised to be a man, he will be a grown boy And what we do as grown boys Is we take advantage Of someone's kindness And we take their kindness as weakness But because a woman is coming in to be loved And to be cherished and to be appreciated She comes in and after meeting his representative She drops her guard And when she drops her guard He throws a knockout blow And when he hits her with a knockout blow Anytime she gets up she dazed she confused she feel lost and now she feels Stuck to this man She too dizzy to see anything else And that is why God sent me And I don't say that in no like Self-righteous way What I'm saying is I was that man I was the absolute worst I was saw Before he became apostle paul. I was the absolute worst So ain't nobody online Telling the game as deep as I tell it In as much depth as I go Because I got videos that's an hour and two hours long Giving away the game But the same way they say if you want to keep some From a black person put it in a book That's the same way If you want to keep some from somebody put it in a long video Because most people not gonna listen But if you get in there and you listen You get in there you're gonna listen Then you're gonna hear And zelda Now don't get put in time Ain't it because you being a distraction now zelda calm calm on down now send an email in now Come on now now see zelda Zelda might be going through something, but let me tell you It get 10 times deeper And so this is what a lot of people don't understand too. It's like When you got a heart to help and you got a heart to serve That stuff right there it drain Because when people come to you like you jesus listen you got to go to jesus You got to go to jesus ain't nothing i could do for you all i could do is what i'm doing It's giving you wisdom knowledge and understanding and if you can't apply that ain't nothing else i could do for you Like you know if sometimes people will come and they will act like i'm jesus like if they could touch the Him on my garment no you got to touch the Him on jesus garment You got to go to the lord you got to pray for hope pray for healing pray for strength You got to do that work now you got you got to go deeper don't ever put a man or a woman in a position to be a savior Don't never think a man or a woman is the answer or the solution to your problems And see that's the thing is a lot of people a lot of people on this hill On this hill internet they want to be somebody god They want to be praised Listen, I just want to be a conduit. I just want to be a vessel. I don't want to be Nobody god. I don't want to be nobody's answer to their prayers not So you got to realize and understand You got to go to god You got to go to god now And you need this not a q&a. It's not a q&a. It's a sermon It's not a q&a and uh So we talk and so now listen to me. So when y'all see somebody When y'all see somebody online, oh y'all men these men need to be talking to the men As that as we are and as we do In ration to how many men listen Also, let them people know you better be glad somebody giving you the game Because in the relationship space the men not losing The men are not losing The men got women Slaven Got women doing threesome got women doing fosoms. It's women buying men land. It's women empty and they they uh Women empty and they they savings account women got men Sleeping on their couch. I mean I mean sleeping in their bed Men driving women car Men living off women. I seen it in my own circle Women who every man they date that man got to come live off of them Men is men literally will have a their own apartment But be going down And meet a woman to have somewhere to stay I literally know men who are homeless Until they get a woman And that in between and then when his toxicity get him kicked out He right back to sleeping in a car And then he meet another woman And pretend he got somewhere to stay and then a woman let a man move in within one month but then women Don't want to hear the game But yet when we look out here And what's going on in this world? it's Everybody need to be coming to the aid of a woman Because they're trying to stand up for a woman and trying to speak up for a woman because as men We listen to consequences We listen to trials and tribulations We listen to hard times And a lot of men, you know, don't even listen to trials and tribulations A lot of men go to prison and get out and do the same thing that put them in now Why is the recidivism rate 85 percent? That tell you right there That even hard time and consequences Barely change a man what you think finna happen with? A simp as they call it talking to a man online man. If you listen what you know what he is gonna listen to He gonna have to listen to closed legs He gonna have to listen to closed legs Why you think the adversary used the lila to get the samson Because the adversary knew He can't samson ain't finna cut his half for no no man But when he laid that head in that lap Of the lila that how coming off Why you think the adversary used eave to get the atom? I don't want finna listen to one of the animals I don't want finna let tain or able to tell him what to do But when he come up there See you got to realize and understand Who what what ester did Read the book of ester How how ester was able to break the rules and get done what she wanted done? You got to understand the influence of a woman When you see a successful man Who married? He give the credit It might be a man in his life, but very rarely A man giving a credit to the women in his life his mama And or his wife And when it ain't that it's his it's his female manager or publicist Or another woman in his life And then what what women take and do my next idea that i'm finna produce for the For the channel is my wife idea Yeah, my wife idea It's like women have to appreciate The fact that god chose you to give you influence Don't run from your influence Basking your influence because guess what you get the last say so You get the last say so You get to say a Although you want to sleep with me i don't want to sleep with you So play what you gonna have to put in some work You gonna have to put in some work And then when you get to say that then you say okay All right. I understand Now let me get my computer right over here now. I'm gonna compute. I'm on the computer system. I don't compute the system You get the last say so so it's like listen As a man We actually As a man, we actually got it harder because We got to We got to build up the courage to approach a woman The woman get to say no, thank you So as a woman you got the you got to appreciate that influence you got A man got to get on one knee And say will you marry me a woman could say i'm good No, thank you No, thank you Just like that And so you got to understand that the reason why The men who even the men with sense Now it's men without no sense that's talking to women But you know what the men who just only talking to men, you know what they're telling them You notice they're not telling them How to take the long road You notice the men who only talk to men is not telling them how to take the stairs They telling these men Strategies to deceive women Strategies to use women So therefore Those of us who got sense And those of us who have been commissioned by god We got to take the other side Because if a man see a shortcut Nine out of ten men going to take that shortcut. That's human nature If a woman see a shortcut Nine out of ten women going to take that shortcut. That's human nature humans love shortcuts Don't nobody like the long road don't nobody like the long route everybody the reason why ways The reason why ways the the direction out went viral is because they claim to be given shortcuts Till they have you in the middle of a No drive-thru zone And bullets fly through you wonder But that's why ways blew up because they were given the shortcut everybody want the shortcut So that's why The channels that's directed at men. It's about get your money up Now let me ask you this Y'all see the festival coming up For the investment podcast We can't have a festival that big with that many people on love and relationships With men coming out it'll be full of women When I did my love and relationship thing tour If there's 300 people in there 30 of them Are men And out of those 30 men One or two came on their own The other 28 came with a girlfriend fiance or wife Because she made him come That's just that's just men So the so the reason so when you ask men To take away time from their family They time that they will not get back the energy that way will not get back and talk to a brick wall about What they're doing relationship? That's why you don't see too much of it So I want you all to understand that And I want you to get to the place to where now see me. I talk to men and women I just posted a day on tiktok a video to men I talk to men and women, but I talked to them in I talked to Men and women in proportion to who listen In relation to who listen So what you got to understand now is that You we have to get us for us We got to get what's for us because I'm gonna tell you as a man My life will be much easier And much more glamorous if I did not talk about love relationships When you look at the men who talk about motivation These men who talk about motivation Do you know what I get offered as a relationship coach what I get offered to speak? Unless it's a brand Now a brand paid me $50,000 to speak for five minutes. That's a brand But they was using my brand my likeness. It wasn't about love relationships and even with them. They had me speak on motivation Now, do you know what I get offered to speak? $1,000 $2,000 Do you know the speakers that even compared themselves to me a lot of them even Got my Lot of them got my blueprint Who speak on motivation them guys get 10,000 minimum A lot of times 25 50 75 a hundred thousand Because you know what motivation do motivation It supposedly make money It motivates you to make money So all the companies want people to come in with motivation And then guess what as a man We all want to be cool with the rappers and with the athletes The athletes follow me And I know them But they ain't cool with me because I talk on love and relationships So I'm really bad for their brand because if they're doing something stupid or they don't cheat it on their girl or they don't Are they talking to their lady a certain way? If they Teaming up and they talking to me they around me Did that give their woman a license to follow me and to read my content and then they get to see Oh, hold on. Your friend Said this and this what you're doing So they keep me as a secret And call me on the slide. I remember A lady had her man reach out to me for an event This man had known me for years And the lady said I didn't know he knew you I said I wonder why this man had my number for years and never told his wife that he knew me But she wanted me to speak at her event and she had no clue her husband knew me I said I wonder why because We quicker So a woman a look at my message and she might leave her man for But not realizing that me and my wife had to go through the same thing and we and we work through it And so sometimes people are just listening to stuff online and they'll leave their relationship Instead of using their own judgment and saying can this be worked through? And so because of that that's what make men say new don't listen to that over there now Don't listen to that over there because you might just take one the message and run with it and then be breaking up And so that's what be happening And so every single day I wake up. I'm like lord retire me Retire me lord. Let me talk about this here crypto lord. Let me talk about these stocks Lord, let me talk about cars. Let me talk about credit scores Let me talk about athlete motivation. I was a college athlete. Lord. Let me talk about something else And then the lord has showed me The 10,000 emails in my inbox begging for insight and advice on their relationship And then the lord has showed me that I could count on one hand how many other men doing this work With a righteous heart So that's how I want y'all to understand. I don't want to be doing this I do not want to be doing this. I do not want to be talking about this. This is not fun for no man They be talking about no love relationship as a man I never dreamt of being married and men you really don't dream of being married Men you really don't dream of being a father Like the things that a lot of women dream of men don't dream of And so You got to understand that me doing this work. This is every single day a daily sacrifice and painful And people say, oh, yeah, you could do something else though. No, you can't When you know god and you call to something When you call to something And when what you know You got thousands of hours Of that knowledge without reading a book about it Without having a mentor on it That's when you know that god is putting the words in your mouth That's when you know that somebody asked me something about the men who On on that podcast and the gentleman who died Those men don't talk to they do what I said men do Men who talk directly to men And only to men they telling the men how to be toxic And how to get over on women And even that though it ain't the money that you think it is I wonder if my brother I have not talked to my brother, but I wonder if he'd be getting exhausted But hey god bless y'all see right now. I'm exhausted. I know I already did two hours on here tonight Yeah, I say the lies but other minutes on private right now. I put it on private So people to get off of it most people had and got off of it though I'm gonna have to stop shooting on the phone. But but see on here. It'd be a little it'd be a little blurry But I'm gonna have to stop shooting on the phone just because It'd be cutting off on me And I don't know if it's the phone or if it's youtube But then when I get on here Okay, so the first live I did was an hour and a half. It looked like it didn't cut off finally And um It's up. It's already up And that's me telling the story But I'm I'm getting ready to go out of town So I don't know how many videos I have come going up and I might get to shoot some out of town But I don't know what the internet situation to be like and if it's real lagging and slow Might not be able to upload. So I'm gonna try to shoot some Enough before I leave to try to have them going up And I'll probably change the time from noon because people be at work To like 9 p.m So y'all check at 9 p.m. Eastern. That's 6 p.m. California time That's 8 p.m. Houston time y'all check at 9 p.m Tomorrow is another episode It's already set up. It'll be a premiere tomorrow is another episode of the singles house And I'm gonna be doing some more productions And we'll have some more little content coming out and I'll pop on here when I can I might get to go I don't know if I get to go lie tomorrow because we've got that but maybe in the daytime But I really you know appreciate y'all and thank you for you know for love and support And for those y'all who pray If your prayers get past the ceiling, you know pray for me pray for me because Me being in this and me doing this that mean my marriage is under attack That mean i'm under attack that mean i'm always going to be going through spiritual warfare Because of the work that i'm doing so if the devil Could get me to fall If he could get my wife to fall if he could come at us It's for me. I have to go into a place of really like I got to go into a place of such, you know emotional intelligence Just for my marriage to last Because of the amount of spiritual warfare that I may be under Because of the work that i'm doing and people don't understand the tug of war in the spiritual realm People don't understand the push and the pull in the spiritual realm people don't understand that when you're doing good When you're doing good that Evil don't want to see you doing good that when you're doing good that you upsetting evil So evil want to see you fail Even want to see you do bad and that's why I have to always explain to To my wife just say hey just be be ready be ready for the test be mindful of the test like these two steps ahead Stay prayed up because you never know what's going to come and how it's going to come So be ready for and I know a lot of times you don't want to hit because you don't You know things like that because she don't have to be in the trenches It'd be me in the trenches getting getting the soldier wounds getting the bullets And and putting up with that, but then at the same time Serving your purpose, but still you got to take care of your family And so it'd be a little different And it ain't easy it ain't easy So listen to me My wi-fi had acting up at night it go to trying to sleep But uh, hey god bless y'all and we will be in touch I so appreciate you now Appreciate you and who that was grace Grace beauty. I so appreciate it sent that blessing So appreciate it and um for those y'all in the bless tribe Y'all have some announcements coming soon For the bless trial a lot of announcements only the bless tribe and the patreon see it So if you're in the bless tribe or the patreon Y'all have some announcements coming soon because I'll be looking for doing a little casting For some of the projects here coming soon And also y'all stay tuned now and if you did not know there is a it's a notification button on there But if you did not know also, there's a community page on youtube So when you go to my page and you slide over to the community You click on that and you'll see that's where I'll be posting that I post some stuff to the public And in and everybody could see that but then a lot of stuff I only post to the bless tribe members Bless tribe and the bless business tribe members. So y'all, you know, check that Once a day on your break if you get on here Make sure you check that because it might be a message or a casting or something that some of that sort so, um You know be mindful of that because sometimes I post and They don't notify you and everybody missed it and to the moderate moderators Tracy, I'm glad you said that. Thank you to the moderators and to the moderators y'all forgive me sometimes I forget to thank y'all because I'd be so drained at the end of these So blame it on my head not my heart I'd be so drained and I forget to thank the moderators for Monitoring the chat and posting the links and all the information. I really appreciate y'all because y'all don't have to do that and um also Y'all pray for my assistance because I ain't heard from him about a week So I'm praying she y'all writing everything going well with her Uh, I realized she she'd do a lot of hard work work a lot harder Then I realized sometimes it's ain't heard from about a week. So I'm praying everything going okay with her So y'all keep on your prayers and um Into the bless tribe bless business tribe and patreon. Thank y'all for the support Thank y'all for the support and what I talked to y'all about in the bless tribe And patreon what I talked to y'all about the other day Um, I still ain't made a decision yet, but whatever I do on that That there I'm leaning on the lord and I'm trusting god, you know through it whether it be El god bless you now dr. Elaine god bless you um I'm trusting god through it Because one thing I understand is on the cost of doing business so sometimes It's a cost of doing business and a lot of time we think about us We just think about us and we don't think about The company or the business that's taking a risk on us And so if somebody take a risk They deserve a reward, but a lot of time we just think about us And and then but then if we flip it around and we say well, okay, if I was the company What would I want? In return if I'm taking this kind of risk And so I look at it like that too not just from what am I getting but I look at it What are they doing and would I do that? Because what they doing I don't I don't know if I do that And so I have to think about that too So hey god bless y'all and y'all stay tuned too because what we're gonna do now We got some of the birthday book people So we'll have we got a few people That wrote some great books and I'm gonna be sharing those books with you on the youtube And for those of y'all who able I want you to support those books You know support those books just so that we can have more people writing their book and You know, so they they marketing their book They ain't just me just picking a book, you know, these people is marketing their book and They are sponsoring youtube the youtube video Of that and I love to see people step out there like that and I want us to If able sew that seed and be a blessing to these authors and just look at it like hey one day I'm gonna have a book you're gonna write your own book and You want to be done so to see so When something when you write yours You could reap your harvest and that's how I look at it and and the Lord convicted my heart about that Years ago when I was mad and angry about not getting support and the Lord whispered to my spirit Tony, who do you support? Who book you buying? That thing shut me up You know new levels new dollars you're navigating this platform with wisdom Keep going. Hey, definitely will definitely will Whatever I learned from it now that video will be for the blessed tribe only now everything for everybody now Everything ain't for everybody now and And Audi god bless you now. God bless you. You might be giving me credit. What a credit ain't do but god bless you now and um And make sure you don't be on here arguing with sherry either now arty because uh share she she just she the police on here now So she and she don't mean no harm. She just she's gonna be looking out And she like she keep the check clean and all of that so y'all understand the moderators Y'all got one thing y'all got to know about these moderators Is they don't watch now about almost every video and I Do not know them personally I only know them from youtube but you you know That i'm gonna say something on a video that you're gonna disagree with that's gonna make you mad That's gonna step on your toes. That's gonna hurt you upset you and he moderators them been There through all of that When I know I could have offended them offended them a million time So y'all understand they just be trying to keep things clean and they didn't learn my style and how I move and so they just Keep the chat like that. So y'all understand that God bless y'all. We'll talk soon. I'm acting like my daddy now My daddy my uncle used to say by 15 times and we still be at people house another hour maybe saying by Backing out the driveway for an hour God bless y'all See how you close this thing I need to be there Hey That sounds like a plan to me now Hey Let that thing play let that thing play I Hey, god bless y'all We'll talk soon. I'm sorry. I hit the wrong button. I knew I was gonna mess that up I hit lead studio still hitting end broadcast y'all forgive me