 Hi, I'm Matthew Kos from commitmentconnection.com. Today, I have a question from a woman in our community that goes How do I stop arguing with men? So the best way to stop arguing with anybody really is to give up your need to be right so I had a mentor that used to tell me You can either be right or you can have a great relationship, but not both and Our need to be right is really what typically drives most arguments Needing to prove ourselves needing to make sure that the other person Knows what we're saying And if you want to have a great relationship, you know, just let go of that And you know, it can be difficult. It can be tough and you can say oh, well He's not let go and letting go of, you know, his need to be right Well, it's start it has to start with someone and if it starts with you Then you're more likely to have the relationship that you want to have then if you Sit around and say that you need to wait for somebody else to give up their need to be right and You know, there's kind of another aspect of this as well, which is showing him that you're on his side if you show a man that you're on his side, he will He will probably end up giving up his Need to be right as well because if he sees that you're on his side and you want the best for him then He won't feel the need to Attack and so that's kind of the two things that you Want to want to do because if you continue to argue with men all the time They will look at you and it's too much trouble to be in a relationship with and so You'll want to stop arguing with men as much as you possibly can because if if it gets too much then Most guys will just get out of a relationship if they feel like they have to argue all the time So that's it for this video if you want to know more about how to attract a quality man into a committed Lasting relationship make sure that you subscribe to my youtube channel. I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon