 Do you follow your dreams or do you watch Netflix? Do you work for the business that you want to create or do you scroll on Instagram? Today, we're gonna be talking about the life that you have in the life that you live and What I want to talk about today first. I have a question for you Have you been living your life as if you happen to get another shot? Have you been living your life as if maybe you know if you think to baseball like you're not on You're not at the batter's box yet. You're kind of on deck and maybe you know, I'll get another chance I'll get another chance. I'll get another chance. Do you live your life as if you just happen to get another chance? Or do you live your life as if this is the only thing that I know is that I have it and I'm going to take full advantage of it? Do you follow your dreams or do you watch Netflix? Do you work for the business that you want to create or do you scroll on Instagram? Do you live your life as if this is the only one that you have or do you live your life is just maybe? Yeah, I'll get another chance someday Knowing we all know that you don't get another chance. This is the one that you have You know, there's so many people live as if tomorrow is just guaranteed one of things I've been pulling in as a practice to myself I did it this morning as I take about two minutes while I'm still laying in bed And I look up at the ceiling and I look there and I'm like, thank you Thank you. Thank you. I finally I get another day. I get another day and for I mean 34 years my life I never did this. I'm like, I can't believe I get another day How amazing is it because there's so many times that I've woken up in my life I'm like, oh, I have so much stuff to do today. I've got so much I got to do I've got to go I don't even I want to go meditate But I might not even have time to meditate like I've got to go chug some coffee because I got call I got a hop on they got to work out and go do this this this Versus just sitting there for a second being like, oh my god, I woke up today. How freaking amazing is that? Do you live your life as if you happen to get another one or do you live your life as if, you know This is it. This is all that you got because so many people live as if tomorrow is just guaranteed and You know, if you've heard me say that statistics before 150,000 people did not wake up today that woke up yesterday 150,000 people died Yesterday you didn't you're listening to this. Are you living today as if today is the very last day of your life? I remember I was listening to a great talk between Neil deGrasse Tyson and Larry King. I think Larry King just died if I'm not mistaken, but If he didn't holy crap that guy's still alive But I don't know if he's alive or not. I should probably Google it But Neil deGrasse Tyson, he was being interviewed by Larry King. It was a few years ago and Larry King said They were talking about life and life after death and other planets and aliens and all kinds of stuff Larry King said if you could live forever, would you and Neil deGrasse Tyson said no and Then he asked Larry King if he would and he said absolutely and Neil deGrasse Tyson said The reason why I wouldn't want to live forever is because if I live forever Then it gives me no urgency to do anything like death the the death that we're going to have brings immediate Urgency to my life and I think most people don't live like that They don't live and they don't think about how their death is coming to them like there. It's every breath we get closer I'm not trying to be doom and gloom, but I'm trying to be honest like when you think to yourself It's going to happen one day. It makes me personally be like I need to start working harder to do what it is I want to do make the impact in the world to to change it in some sort of way to change myself To make the people around me better You might not wake up tomorrow and if you didn't wake up tomorrow and you're often wherever people go after they die Will you look and be like damn? There's so much more that I wanted to do that I could have done But I just acted like I didn't get in those act like I was gonna be here forever Have you been living your life as if you're just going to be here forever? And you're just I'm just that immortal person that stays here forever. I can do whatever the hell I want You know, I'm gonna waste it on Netflix. I'm gonna waste it on Instagram scrolling I'm gonna waste it on doing things, you know worrying about things that don't matter when 85% of the time None of those things actually happened in first place if you knew that today was your last day What would you may have missed out on in your life if you knew today was the very last day of your life What would you have missed out on of the past? 20 30 40 50 60 70 years of your life What would you know that you missed out on because you were acting like you might get another shot? You were not putting urgency to taking action your life. What chances didn't you take? What things didn't you do on your bucket list that you wanted to do? But you were telling yourself I'll get to it someday down the road. I'll try it later on I'll figure it out sometime. It's like the story of a guy who he He was going to retire and he had saved all of this money for him and his wife to go and travel because her dream was to travel So he was like, you know what? I'm gonna get to a retirement age And then what I'm gonna do is then we're gonna be able to go travel And so he works works works works works gets to this retirement agent in and he's his wife's like all right Well now you can retire we can go out and do the traveling we plan for he's like let me get just one more year I'll get one more year. So I feel that I'm fully responsible like financially good to go responsible We're locked in for life. Let me get one more year. And then I swear to you 365 days from today We're gonna go traveling and I'm gonna be done and she's like, okay You can do that and in those 365 days She died and he didn't get to travel with his wife the way they want to and now he's stuck there by himself Having all these dreams and all these places you want to go to with his wife And now he's just got his money But he doesn't have his wife and he has anyone to travel with so are you living your life like that as if you're just Guaranteed tomorrow's if you're just guaranteed next year. What chances didn't you take what places if you died today What places did you not travel to that you've been wanting to travel to but you've just been pushing it off because There's a couple other things that are a little bit more important at this part at this point in your life. What? Were you not able to give your loved ones? What were you not able to give your children if you died today and you look back in the rest of your life? What were you not able to give your spouse with your family? What were you not able to give them that you wanted to give them but you were telling yourself? it just wasn't the time yet and I Want to be honest with you and I want you to think about these things because I want to kind of shake you up Sometimes like I want to shake you up make you start thinking about your life It's like when someone that you know dies and you go to their funeral You start thinking about your life a whole lot more. Don't you you start thinking about man. I Never thought they were gonna die They missed out on so many things how many things have I missed out? What if I died and sometimes people make changes after someone's funeral? Sometimes they feel like they're gonna change and then a couple weeks down the road life Just kind of goes back to normal and they forget all about it But if I were to ask you on a scale of one to ten One being like absolutely terrible ten being like the best possible life that anyone has ever lived in the history of mankind What would you rate your life as of right now and how much you've gotten out of your life up until this moment? Answer the question. What is it on a scale of one to ten? What would you rate your life as far as what you've done? How much you've gotten out of it how much how many dreams you followed how many places you've traveled how many bucket list items You've knocked off What would you rate it on a scale of one to ten? Think about that for a second Have you taken all the risks? Have you done all of the things? Have you traveled all the places or? Have you lived your life in fear? Have you worried too much? Have you wasted too much time doing things that didn't matter? Have you worried too much about what others would think about you and so you've held yourself back because of that You haven't followed your dreams Which one is it and now looking forward which one would you like it to be? You know if you rate yourself as a six in your life right now What's the difference between a six and eight and what would add an extra two points to that number over the next year? To get you to an eight what shifts and changes and moves Would you have to do in your life in order to get you to go for my thing? I'm a six out of a ten of my life to an eight out of ten in my life One of the things that I love and I've heard this a couple of times in a couple different ways from a couple different people is Is if you imagine God has a checklist for you, right? And he's just checking off all the things and it's like Rob dial. He's gonna do this He's gonna do this he's gonna do this he's gonna do this and it's all of the things that you could possibly do and all the Things you could possibly be and you know some of them are checking off and some of them aren't everything that you could do Everything you could see everything that you could achieve all of the lives that you could impact all the chances that you could take The full-on hell. Yes Accomplish everything Rob dial life is what it be for me and whatever would be for you My goal is to get to the end of my life and to have God have this checklist and go damn You literally checked off all of them and some of them that I didn't even have on here Like you did even better than I thought you were going to do that's what my goal is to do another example of the way I've heard it explained is is Imagine that your Perfect self your most enlightened Bad-ass Accomplished everything did everything impact of the lives made the money had the success had the love had the joy Built the best family built the best businesses change the world as much as possible Most enlightened version of yourself is waiting for you in heaven and you die My goal is to get to the end to see that version of me and we're twins Not to see that version be like oh, I could have done that. I could have done that thing Oh my god, I didn't I could have done that I don't want to get to the end of my life and feel like that's the way I want to feel I want to get to the end of my life and see the most enlightened the best did as much as they possibly could Change the world as much they possibly could loved as much as they possibly could built the family possibly could and I look at myself And I'm like I'm looking in a mirror What would that look like think of those two things? What would the checklist look like that? God would have and what would your twin look like that if you got to the end of your life that you became You were the twins with that person, which is your best highest most enlightened self. What would that look like for you? You know what I would recommend is take a pen and paper out and literally just spend the next 15 minutes Put me on pause journal through this if you pause me. I'll be here forever waiting for you I'll literally be here forever until you decide to push play again Pause me and write down all of the things that you want to do that you should do that You know you have the opportunity to do but you just haven't been doing and you want to do So think about that for a second You have to think about this and think okay if I rate myself at a level 6 out of 10 right now What would I need to do over the next 365 days to bring that number up to that eight that we're speaking about earlier? What would I need to do? Okay, you know what I need to do this job that I have it's it's soul-sucking It's not fulfilling in any sort of way and I know I've been wanting to do XYZ I'm going to start making a plan and start making movement into doing whatever that thing is it might take a year to Transition out of my job so I can pay my bills it might take two years But at least I'm starting to make movement into the direction of what it feels like I'm actually truly supposed to do And if you don't know what is you're supposed to do you don't know what your true? Purpose and path in life is I always say this to to kind of give you the idea. It's okay right now Not to know what your purpose is But it's not okay to not wake up every single day and Constantly be in the pursuit of trying to find what that purpose is So if you don't know what your purpose is right now, no big deal Maybe you do maybe you don't but if you're one of the people who doesn't know what your purpose is then it is a crime For you to wake up every single day and not be in constant freaking pursuit to find out why the f*** you're alive If you just wake up and do the same thing that you did yesterday and the day before that and the day before that It's an absolute crime if you don't know what your purpose is that's okay But it is a absolute crime if you wake up every single day and you're not in constant pursuit to find What that thing is if we're planning out 365 days from today make a checklist of all the things that you need to do in Order to move your life from a six out of ten to an eight out of ten. What do you want your body to look like? You know what if your body is a six out of ten, what would an eight out of ten look like? What do you need to do to get there? What is your family look like at an eight out of ten? What do you use your relationship with your children look like at an eight out of ten? What is your relationship with your spouse look like at an eight out of ten? What is the relationship with your parents with your brother sister cousins best friends? What does that look like to become an eight out of ten? What is your bank account look like to go from a six to an eight out of ten? What is your mindset look like to go from a six to an eight out of ten? And what are all of the things that you need to do and you need to accomplish and you need to be laser like focused on Over the next 365 days to bring yourself from a six to a ten because here's the thing that we all know if we put work in We know we'll change Think of where you could be 365 days from today if you just started today What do you need you to get there? How much work do you need to put in? What things do you need to check off? Don't worry about the rest of your life because you're gonna die one day if it's freaking happening so am I it's happening, right? Don't worry about the rest of your life. Just worry. Don't worry about the next 365 days Plan for the next 365 days, but just worry on today Think about today if I want to get to an eight out of ten in my body What do I need to do today to get myself from a six to a ten or six to an eight in the next year? What do I need to do today? What's the first step that I need to take to get myself from a six to an eight from six to an eight to move up a couple different Steps what does that look like? What does my mindset look like? What does my body look like? What does my bank account look like? What does my business look like? What does my family look like? What is my every single relationship of my life look like? What does every single thing look like if Rob from six out of eight decided to show up as Rob or six out of ten Decided to show up as Rob of eight out of ten. What is the difference in the delta between the six and eight? What is it different in my actions? What is the difference in my focus? What is the difference in every single thing every single thing that I do think be? What does that look like and how do I need to make sure that I focus on that today? I don't care about the rest of your life. I don't care about the next 365 days I care about today and what you do today to shift yourself over the next year to shift yourself over the next five years Over the next ten years. Hopefully over the next fifty years, but the only thing that matters is just today Nothing else matters because we don't even know if we're gonna get tomorrow But what really matters is today? How can I make sure that I get every single bit of everything out of today? And that's all I got to focus on and when I wake up tomorrow How can I get every single bit of happiness love joy peace success? Everything out of tomorrow and that's all that matters and if you do this every single day every single day It'll stack and stack and stack and stack and stack on top of itself, and then you do wake up 365 Days from today, you know like holy life is completely different than it was a year ago But only because the only thing that I focused on was every single day every single day because damn it I woke up. I'm grateful for that I woke up and I'm not going to give a kick in the face to God of the universe because I decided to sit around and waste that What about you? What is it eight out of ten look like? What is a nine out of ten look like? What is a ten out of ten look like? Because you don't get another chance. This is the only one that you got stop living your life As if you get another chance stop living your life as if you're in the on-deck circle because you're in the batter's box That is how you should be living your life Hey, thanks so much for watching this video if you want to learn even more about master your mind Click right here and watch this video as well and so many people die with regrets So many people die not being able to bring their full potential out to the world so many people died just Not fully living. I hope you're not one of those people if you're listening this podcast. You're definitely not one of those people