 Still gonna say it again though. I am severely underdressed for this, but that's what we have So it's been a while since we've done a Q&A and a lot of you love seeing Robin on the channel So here she is there's been a lot that's gone on since the last time we've done this. We're actually in a new house This is our bedroom. So Yes, welcome So we've got actually 11 questions for you guys today. So we're just gonna jump right in so the first question is Someone asked just got engaged Congratulations, first of all Any marriage advice? Well, if you just got engaged, I would say to enjoy the engagement everyone Around you was rushing Wednesday. When are you getting married? What are you doing? I'll like 20,000 questions and I feel like people rush that they need to get married right away. So first step Enjoy the engagement as much as possible Right get a wedding planner to help if you're doing a bigger wedding, right? That's wedding I think we covered that in a previous one. Maybe we'll link that up there Yes, but that's like they just got engaged. So that's just like that helps the engagement process Which makes for a happier marriage. Okay now when they are married. Yes, like us. We've been married for a while now five years almost five years now I Would say my advice to you is to listen and communicate. I am not a great Hey, I'm learning I I'm I just took a Myers-Briggs tests and I am an INTJ So I prefer to keep to myself I keep things in I'm not a big communicator, but you are I might be an over communicator So I think there is the balance of being patient with each other and finding even if it's not the same Communication styles trying we're still working through it for us. Is this gonna be like a therapy session? Like it tough first question But yeah find a way to always communicate not to hold on to things don't hold grudges We don't hold grudges on anything We don't because we communicate even if we don't really resolve everything. We're not like well six months ago You said X Y and Z and I'm still mad of it like that's not a part of it, right? Yeah I'm still trying to communicate with her about painting the walls white downstairs, but anyway next question Okay, so a lot of you know that we've moved recently This is a new place for us and one of the questions we had was are there any new? Essential home things that you like and I swear this this was not a plant But there's a really great segue into letting you guys know that this video is sponsored by bowl and branch They make some amazing bedding actually everything on here right now is but is bowl and branch a lot of people don't think to invest in like quality Bedding like this, but I don't know we we actually we love it. We didn't tell like two years ago either Right yeah, I mean it's not it isn't something that you think to invest in but I swear like once you do and you feel How it feels like you know, it's like an important part of your day And starts your day ends your day. Yeah, and investing in it like a quality product that is made well It feels good. It's comfortable Your wife partner can get the fitted sheet on the mattress without breaking their nails and dislocating a shoulder Yeah, right like like the fitted sheets on other things like they just never fit this mattress and for some reason like this I just put it right on mm-hmm through the pillow zipper sham just threw that in I don't have to like shake the pillow and like shove it in there The other thing I think like just like close to like if you invest in quality linens like this and bedding As you wash it it actually gets better Yeah, it feels better the more you wash it and linen sheets I never we never had them until last year and I could not believe how much cooler the bed like actually was. Oh, yeah Yeah, it's getting really nice. Yeah, so we have pillow cases. We have pillow shams. We have quilted Comforted comforter a waffle blanket and you like the waffle blanket for this like throws me back to like childhood I feel like everyone had the white waffle blanket this feels like it's the same blanket, but it has a little bit more Texture and design to it. Yeah, there's there's version We absolutely love this stuff and definitely Would recommend it to you and if you go to their website, they have a lot more than just what we've showed you Which showed you they have a lot more than we've just shown you Thanks again to Boland branch for sponsoring this video living in a different country if so where Italy? Yeah, Italy. Mm-hmm. We're in Italy though. Let's let's drill down. We've traveled a lot. We've traveled a lot to Italy. We've been to Florence mm-hmm Milan Milano and Venice and Lake Como Lake Como. So where would you want to live? I don't know. I've never been to the south of Italy. I don't know that it really matters if you're in like Tuscany or something and you're just enjoying the the surroundings I don't have if I can't say where I but it would definitely be somewhere in Italy Yes, agreed. Mm-hmm. All right. Next question here is do you guys help each other buy clothing or tell each other What to do regarding clothing I Would say I never tell you what to wear or what to buy I might ask you for an opinion if I'm going to buy something and I'm on the edge about About it or if it's an investment. I think I might ask you not for permission, but like Do you like it? Is this what do you think? I feel like you do the same Yeah, now see now see the the issue becomes when one of us buys something and then we put it on and then Go to show the other person Maybe this falls into the any marriage advice question. So if your partner puts on something new see what I always what I have trouble with is like, you know, she has great taste and You know, she doesn't need me to say like oh you should get this or you should there are certain things that I like But you know and she shows me something sometimes like I can see in her face that she's not sure about it Or like and I'm constantly wondering like do you need me to Like do you want me to read your mind? Or do you want me to just tell you like it looks good? Yeah, but sometimes but sometimes I'm honest and you're like oh Like yesterday with the gold boots. Yeah, I'll keeping them though. Okay. I should show them the gold boots Let's mark that down It's been a while since we've like been out and shopped like together. Yeah, we don't shop together It's more of like I just show him I bought this I'm going to buy this More online shopping. So it's maybe like the before after like I got this. What do you think? So when you show me something like do you want me to say That I look very pretty. I always say that I Want you to be honest. That's why I'm asking. Okay, but sometimes I am honest and And I'll make a decision on whether that matters or not Okay, there you have it All right. Here's a good one here What's the best way to deal with conflict with your married partner? What do you think? Always agree with your wife Yes, that's that's always that doesn't happen here. Yeah, I mean, but seriously folks I Think talking about it and being open and again like having that line of communication. It is really good Just so you know how they know how you feel You know how they feel and then you can take it from there But you have to like establish like that baseline. So, you know where both of you are coming from next question is Were you both always interested in fashion? Depends on how far back. Yes and no I was a tomboy growing up and then in high school. I Started to play with clothing a little bit more because I couldn't afford everything So I would like treasure hunt and then like sales racks and the clearance racks to try and put things together And I found a new creative outlet for myself. So maybe like since 16 But prior to that I was a dirt ball not dirt ball like dirt is just always dirty playing I didn't care about what I was wearing. It was just like utility and then I kind of found a groove Mm-hmm. I mean, I feel like I've answered this question a lot before I'm I've always been conscious of it. My father always dressed really well He always either wore a suit and a tie or like a sport coat so that I always saw that and then of course, you know It sounds like so cliche, you know But like really like the original James Bond movies were very influential on me as a As a kid my father watched those with me So and you know, I was always interested in it. I always knew Like how it had a power to sort of like influence how you felt and also influence how people see you But it really wasn't until you know later in life When I started actually investing the time in it so but it's always been there, but it's only been maybe the last 15 years or so where I've put like a lot of thought into it Post the Caesar haircut that you had in your 20s Caesar haircut Yeah, you had that little like in sync backstreet boy. Yeah, Caesar haircut Okay What do you two do as a couple for fun beyond travel? I feel like we haven't traveled that much not in three years. No So yeah, what have we done for fun since then? Watching shows on Hulu or Netflix or HBO. I mean that sounds so lame, but like it's it's like a thing that we do Oh, you know what else we do we watch a Jeopardy in Wheel of Fortune I'm not kidding. I'm gonna be 45 She's turning don't Say that I mean Well, we started doing like weekly date nights. Yes, yeah We started doing like just going to a bar at a restaurant and sitting or making reservation at like the early bird time and Before it gets too crowded, but well now that with a new house, we actually have a backyard We have a garden. We have a little like patio area So we have been even just hanging outside and not watching tea like TV that is kind of like mind-numbing Yeah, a lot of projects around the house Dog obviously takes up a lot of our time But yeah, it's it's nice to have our space now and like really we've we've done a lot When you think about it moving into the house Nine months ago. Yeah, it's crazy. There was a question. Will we be getting a house tour? You know and like I know and like even in the last house it was like You know, we just wanted to finish that one thing and then we would do it but yeah, and then we moved So you never got to see the old house So maybe I mean We could do it in parts where we keep instead of waiting for like a full reveal Why don't we do because the upstairs is going to take a long time to Get it to where we want like we like the bedroom. We don't like the bathroom So we can do like main floor. We can show them your studio and then yeah We'll do a studio tour for sure like before and out a true before and after almost there with the studio Yeah, almost there. So soon soon. Yeah part one and two Okay, next question here. Are you guys planning on having children? No, no, and I know like some people might wonder like why I've never Wanted them. I my dreams growing up. I never envisioned another person in my life but I Never pictured like this like like romantic wedding a lot of little girls like row up of bed and dream about those things my focus was always career and Yeah, just like having a certain feeling and validation coming through career, I've always wanted animals I've always wanted these other things, but that just wasn't something that was innately like natural for me. See, I think a lot of people might hear you say like, oh, I was always into my career And I mean, no, well that that like I think conjures like a certain image of like, you know But like a really cold like driven like don't care so yeah But but you are like anything but that like you care so much about people and family. So I love my friends kids I love my nephews. I'm a great aunt to my nephews, but I also know Myself and I would Shawn Hayes says this on his podcast all the time So to quote him, I'd rather regret not having one day than regret having and that was one thing when we met When you said you didn't want to have kids It was kind of a weight off my shoulders because dating apps and everything before that it's like, do I want kids? I don't know I have to answer this question. Well, then what about religion? Do I care about religion? There were all these questions that I felt kind of an authentic answering and then when you said you don't want kids Then when you said you don't want a dog, I was like, I got a break Well, that's where I was gonna go with it. That's where I was gonna go with this We we do have a German Shepherd, which is Our child. Yeah, but it's it's a lot. I don't I can barely manage that so I don't know It's not for us. We know ourselves for it ever. We know how much work it takes. It's just not In our future. Yeah, but What might be in our future the next question? Will you guys get another cat or dog? No, yes Not a cat or a dog two cats We're going to Rob's lovely wife and daughter are Fostering kittens and we're going to get two kittens this week that one of us is more excited about Than the other but their names will be Nick and Nora. Yes. See that's how she sold it to me. I did. Let's just name them after thin man characters Yeah, I'll probably I'll probably love them. I hope Coco loves them, too Yeah, we did try and adopt a row out We tried to rescue a dog earlier in the year and Coco's health is Not totally stable. So it was at the right time. So that was kind of a failed Adoption unfortunately, but I think the kittens might be a little bit easier for her not as light It's not going to be like hopefully a WrestleMania in the house. So Fingers crossed that you see Nick and Nora on your house tour. Yeah, and next year's Christmas card Okay Moving on now Does Robin have a watch collection and there was actually a question that I left out that sort of played into this But someone asked does do you let Robin borrow your reversal? I Would like to borrow your Rolex. Maybe I like the Rolex Okay, but it's more like me, but you see, okay, I have a collection of two watches the J.J. I have this that I wear More than I actually thought I'm not really a watch person because I have a small wrist and the watches just never looked Right on me. That's a small. So yeah I like the small or like oversized men's watch like you are your watch and my great-grandfather's Omega Demaster that I wear it doesn't run as well. So I actually wear this when I want actual time, but I just had the two Now I got my reversal engraved. Yes with quote from the thin man Aren't you gonna aren't you gonna get yours? I don't know what I want yet I've commitment issues and that has not been figured out yet You have commitment issues. Mm-hmm. You still didn't know about that Okay So that's actually a good place to end. I think that's it That's it. That's it, but What I'm curious about is what people think what people our viewers think that you should get on your The back of your what should you get engraved in your reversal? Well, that's not keep it too open-ended Maybe it like should it be just some suggestions mental, right? It could be a quote. It could be A monogram it can be a picture. Can it be a picture of something like an edge? I don't know I mean it probably could yeah, I feel like they can like sketch the only thing you can't get on that as enamel Yeah, but you can get like a sketching of like coco's face. Mm-hmm if I wanted to her name That's what I'm not sure about. Is it like a quote? Is it Someone's initials. Is it a date? I'm not sure what to put on there. Anyway, help us out. Okay So um, anyway, want to thank Boland branch once again for sponsoring today's video and you can see the lovely Betting that we have from Boland branch back there one more time. So again, thanks again and we'll be back here another time and I'm terrible at finishing these up That's it. And that's it Coco Yes, mommy daddy Careful Coco, come here. Oh Coco are you a good dog? Are you gonna? I think it's I think it's time to go