 Hi, I'm Matthew Coast, head dating coach and founder at commitmentconnection.com and today we're going to talk about Why do men lie and so why do men lie? That's a great question and if you're ever in a relationship with a guy and you find him lying about something It's I'm gonna probably shed some some pretty good light on why that's happening today So, you know, there's one main reason why men lie and it's this Men lie because they don't feel like it's okay for them to tell the truth, right? And so Usually this this has to do with How painful it might be for him to tell you the truth So if he tells you something and you freak out about it, right? And you get upset and angry or or maybe he does something and you condemn him or shame him or You know punish him in some way He's going to you know, a lot of times women think that that will stop a guy from doing what he Does but it usually doesn't stop men from doing what they do it usually makes it so that they just don't want to tell you when they do it and You know, this actually happens with most people my There's a situation with my dad actually who You know what one of the things that my stepmom was trying to do was get him to Eat differently, right because he is getting sick because of the way that he eats Well, what ended up happening was she would you know Chastisement punish him and you know all these things when he would eat badly and then Instead of not eating badly what he would do is he would just hide it from her You know and and this happens all the time it happens all the time in relationships and and the more you make things You know, you can tell him that you want something different to happen and that you know it hurts you when he does those things, but You know condemning him or punishing him when he tells you the truth or when you find him doing something It's not going to make him stop. It's just going to make him lie. And so You know, that's that's the main reason that that men lie, you know, men don't handle emotions nearly as well as women do and You know, if he's been doing something for a while and there's a certain way that he does things or He did something that he feels is right or he needs to do or you know, whatever And he doesn't think that you're okay with it and that he doesn't feel safe enough to talk to you about it Then he'll lie to you about it So that's it for today If you want more information on how to attract a quality man into a committed lasting relationship Make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take the quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon