 Okay, sing mommy's favorite song for grandma and grandpa. Assess certified repeat. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. I meant twinkle, twinkle. Oh, okay. Hey mama, hi honey. How was the honeymoon? It was good. It was so romantic and so special. Oh, that's all so good. But um... But when we got back from the honeymoon, he's changed. He started using these. I've never even heard of. Mom, can you please come pick me up? What did he say? What were the four letter words? He started using words like like dust and cook and iron. What about general laborers? They literally wake up at the crack of dawn, they go to work for eight hours, they do the exact same job over and over again every single day, and then they come home and they're set paycheck at the end of their two weeks. That is selling your body. That is objectifying yourself. I can go from this to this. Hi, I'm Alicia. I'm 36 years old. I got out of my school and I look over to the car next to me and I see a couple making out. And naturally of course, I don't care because it's college. However, I get to my next class and I see that the girl that was sitting in that car making out with that guy is sitting next to a whole different guy and holding hands with him. So I'm thinking now, oh your typical college hoe like whatever, not my business. But then he asks her where she was earlier and this is where it gets interesting. She looks at him dead in the eye and replies with, oh I was at home helping my mom. Now the poor guy believed it. Was supposed to go on a date today. But last night, she went out with her friends and her IG story was of her three way kissing two other guys. A reminder that dating ain't for me. I need to say this to the ladies that are pursuing athletes or dating athletes specifically professional athletes, okay? Um, stop burying your f***ing life six feet under because you see some f***ing zeros on his contract and now you think you can quit your f***ing job and everything else and just piggyback off of his success. That's great. Good for him. Until he f***ing cheats on you then what? Then what's up? Then you're stuck in this f***ing relationship because you don't have s*** on your own. So while he's f***ing other f***s you're self imploding because you don't have s***, okay? Don't be this f***, get your bag on your own. Be successful on your own. Not to mention men f***ing love this s***. 99% of the time the women that they end up with it's because she already had it on her own before him, okay? Keep in mind that this man is an addition not a f***ing replacement to your current life. So some of you men need to understand when you can and can raise your mother f***ing voice. So let me demonstrate. If this is you you better lower your mother f***ing tone when you talking to me. And this, you're pushing it. At this length you should be able to ask for a sandwich but you still need to say please. From this length on growing you don't even have to raise your f***ing voice to me you don't even have to use your tone with me. Your breakfast will already be ready for you in the bed your f***ing lunch will already be packed and ready for you to go to work and by the time you get home you will have dinner with me and lingerie. Turn me if you want to. Check please I'm done. I just think it's funny how the tables have turned it used to be men with such high standards of what they wanted in a woman but plot twists these women are demanding more accepting the bare minimum no longer accepting bottom of the barrel s*** we have standards now and these men are hurt by it. Is marriage to a man who earns less than you worth it? No. Okay. Your quality of life is going to decrease the status that you get from being married to a man who can't work harder than you is not going to be worth it. What I look like when my husband met me Hi Dan. What do you do next door? I'm a supermodel. What do I look like now? I am not pain I keep seeing videos on tiktok where people use their song you know can make a housewife out of a hoe and I'm like oh maybe you couldn't but my man sure did he turned it all around in my life I was single for years before I met him and I sat down until I found Mr. Right I am not and until then I will did every Mr. Right now that comes along I was living my best life having a time and now I'm cooking roasts we're going to IKEA I'm reupholstering furniture and I'm not even using that as a euphemism I literally buy fabric and reupholster chairs guys this is where I am in life why because I'm a woman in love that man was worth it that's why I did it and then when I started getting older people were saying you know you shouldn't use black eyeliner anymore it's a little harsh when you're older there's a lot of dick I am not giving up my eyeliner let me have this we have custody our parenting plan states I'm supposed to get them every other weekend holidays etc etc see I haven't told a lot of people what the sh** is going on but since it's all going to come out her new husband tells my kids and tells everyone they're not my kids they're his he repeats this to my 8 year old daughter and my 12 year old son on a daily basis and I don't even know