 Our stories teach us about love potions, magic spells, and the hands of faith. Humans have always dreamed up magical ways to make people obsess over us, but in the absence of magic, we can look at psychology and human behavior to achieve the same goal. These are the non-magical ways you can make your crush obsessed with you. Demonstrate your best attributes We typically like to surround ourselves with good people. If you want someone to obsess over you, showing your most honorable attributes is a good way for them to feel like they know you and to build a good reputation that can make you appear desirable. Just like how we seek out partners with positive physical attributes, we also seek out partners with positive virtues. Even if you want to come across as a little edgy and mysterious, just remember there is a difference between being a bad boy and being just plain bad. Maintain a healthy lifestyle Looking after your hygiene, diet, and fitness are all great ways to appear generally attractive to those around you. But if you want to catch your crush's attention, it isn't about having the biggest abs or the firmest legs. By maintaining a healthy lifestyle, you're telling them that you value yourself, have high standards, and are committed to growing and improving. Be supportive We all could use support from time to time. Even if you think your crush is surrounded by supportive people, you can and should still be supportive. Think of it as a test run for what your crush can expect if you were together. Psychologist Duncan Kramer found that couples who are emotionally supportive not only have better relationship satisfaction, but also resolve conflict in healthier ways. By being supportive and reliable, now you can cement yourself in the mind of your crush as someone they can rely on. Be mysterious You don't want them to know everything about you just yet. Mystery builds intrigue between people. By leaving some things up to the imagination, your crush will become heavily invested in you as they yearn to uncover all of your mysteries. It's an exciting predicament to be in, but don't let that fool you into thinking that being mysterious is enough. Don't mistake mystery for being completely closed off. Don't be forward. There are few things less magical than someone who is blunt or pushy in the face of romance. While we at Psych2Go believe in the value of communication, specifically in relationships, being too open about the things that can wait might not be the strongest move right now. If you want your crush to be obsessed with you, don't try too hard. Pay attention to the previous points. Be the good person your crush needs you to be, but don't expect anything in return. Don't play games. Psychological tips can be misconstrued as a strategy or a game. If you really care about your crush, you won't try to manipulate them or use any cheap tactics. Let's face it. Connections that are built upon manipulation and mind games are extremely unhealthy and will never last. Playing hard to get, negging, or any other strategy that makes a rude person out of you will inevitably leave you worse off. So if we can leave you with the closest thing to a magical solution, it would be this. Be the best person you can be and the right person will see that. That is the final ingredient to your ethical love potion. So I hope you aspiring witches, wizards, sorcerers, and magicians have all appreciated this lesson on how to make someone obsess over you. Remember that these things take time and no single point will work on its own. Don't expect to be nice to your crush once and they immediately fall hopelessly in love. Like I said in the beginning, it isn't really magic. If you learned something helpful today, give the video a like and remember to subscribe to Psych2Go for more tips. We hope to see you next time and good luck.