 So I actually come here today to talk to you about sex, which I'm sure you get asked about all the time. What's going on? I'm here with Cleo Thomas, who is a actor, and is a rapper. And I just learned today, Allergic to Life. So thank you for coming out and making the risks associated with my environment. I understand, thank you, thank you for having me. I have to say at the top, I'm a really, really big full-down fan. Nice. I don't mean it like I've watched it a couple times, I brought you here today so we can just go over the lines. And say verbatim, every single one, every scene. Dang girl, I'm just saying, did a whole drawer of silver just explode in your mouth? On a scale of one to porn star, how do you think your sexual knowledge is? Sexual knowledge? I'd say about an eight. People might have the assumption that as a child star, one of two things, you're either very sheltered or you're hella promiscuous. Like you're McCullochalking or you're like baby Jesus. What was the reality for you? Thankfully, thankful for me. Like I, well, excuse me, I'm thankful for the fact that my parents kind of, they didn't shelter me and they didn't let me get wild. But when you add in the fame and then all of a sudden it's red carpets and premieres and all of a sudden it's stalkers showing up at premieres and things like that. And you know, that blowing my mother's mind. At what age? You know, 13, 14, at a very young age. What does a stalker at 13 years old look like? It would, I don't really know the girl's name to this day, I don't know exactly her name. But she would, what we did find out is she was from San Diego and her mother would drive her down to every premiere that I would be at. And at first it was fine. Like you look at it as an experience and then all of a sudden I go on Scream Tour and she showed up at the hotel. Like you're here, like how do you even know I'm staying here? So it was very creepy, that kind of, that was the creepy part for me. I was like, I didn't like that. Were you sexually active? Oh, was I sexually active? I wasn't sexually active so I was like 16, 17. Wow, that's interesting. So what was, did you have the, I think about like for example, I know it might be different with acting but with like boy bands, like they're putting this weird paradox where they get a lot of female attention, a lot of groupies, a lot of stalkers, a lot of people who throw themselves both younger and older at them but they're expected to stay in this like virginal status until age 18. Right. Which is a weird place to be. Which isn't reality. Yeah. But it kind of was for you. In a sense, yeah. It was just, it wasn't something that I had wanted to go venture off in. And so the time came and I was ready and the person I was with at that time was ready and that's what happened. So it wasn't a groupie then? No. No, like I actually had a legit girlfriend for like a year and a half before that even happened. I thought it would be the stalker. It could be such a good friend. Oh good Lord, no. No, I ain't that crazy. In the industry, you tend to grow up really quickly. Were you exposed to a lot of like older people talking to you about sex? Like, how did you learn about it? On the, it was on the acting side, not so much. It was when my world got turned upside down in the sense it's going on that damn scream tour. That is, that's what exposed me. 16, 17. So that's when you lost your virginity. Before that happened. Yes, before I went on a scream tour, I had lost my virginity, but we'll go on a scream tour and seeing that shit. Yeah, that's when I just realized this is a whole different world out here. Like it ain't always, oh, we're gonna be together forever. 40,000 women in this arena. Like, so where's your hotel afterwards? You know what I mean? Like that's a very weird feeling. Yeah. What weird excitement though because you'd lost your virginity where you're still in a relationship though. So you didn't indulge? Oh, no, I indulged. Not a lot of you, I indulged. From going from having the experience, that's pretty extreme. From losing your virginity to someone that you love and you're in a relationship with to immediately going on to a tour bus filled with copious amounts of punani that is just there at your disposal. What did you prefer and how did that kind of shape your idea of what sex was to you? At that time, you know, being 16, 17 years old and like, you know, growing, you know, going, trying to mature as a man as well. Like that's what every guy would wish for. And I think that's what I wanted at that point in time. I think it's affected me today in the way that I still confuse on a lot of things because I saw so much that I'm still trying to filter out, okay, so what is real and what is not out here because sex is something that's become so common to our generation. So it's a common thing. Sex is common as a hello at this point, but I was aware of that then. Now I'm 10 years removed from that. I don't think the average person would say is as common as a hello. That might be exclusive to your experience growing up as a child star. Okay. But the average person, you know, probably still. Yeah, okay, I get what you're coming from. I do agree to that. I do agree with what you're saying there. So you're saying the groupie punani is still prime and available. Is it prime and available? Yeah, it's still prime and available. Worse, more manageable, more ridiculous, that's ridiculous. I think that was the more ridiculous stuff. You know, as I've gotten older, it's, you know, I've been able to figure out how to turn off that way so it doesn't approach me, but there's no stopping it. It still gets approached. It's still like presented to you. And that's, this is what it is, but it's made it harder for a person like me to find a foundation and like love because I can't filter out, you know, what the real is. I've seen women walk into hotel rooms and take off their wedding rings and be there for two hours with us while they phone blowing up from their husbands. But you were like, you way older than us, but you willing to take that risk to be in here just for young, like young niggas? That's cool. Look what I saw at that age. You see how it affects you, but at the same time, it's like, again, I saw that you see what I'm saying. So that's why it's affected me in certain ways. But at the same time, I've seen both realities of love because on my parents' side, they've been together since high school. They're high school sweethearts. Four kids still married to this day. But I saw this instance with a woman who married, like that's, you know, you've been chosen to walk down this aisle with a man and you was willing enough to take that step to take your wedding ring off and being here with like that. So what the fuck is love? Have you ever felt attached to somebody who genuinely didn't want you as a person but just wanted the experience and that was enough for them? No. Everybody wants. Yeah, I don't know why, but yeah, no, no, I've never experienced that. It's always been the like, so how can I like lock him down? You know what I mean? Hence why you always use condoms. Strap up, ladies and gentlemen. Strap up out here. I think the average dude has a lot of challenges when it comes to becoming a good giving lover because there's so much misinformation in the media. There's so much misinformation from porn, but even more so for you because women or girls might be so eager to please that they don't necessarily, they're not authentic about their experience. So for you, like how did you learn how to have sex well? Practice, I don't have an answer for that. I don't have a genuine answer for that. But are you like, for practice, are you sure? Because 88% of women's fake orgasms are on a regular basis. So I'm sure with someone that they look up to or that they feel grateful to be around, that percentage must jump by 10% or so. If I choose to have that connection with that person and we choose to take that route and have sex, I make sure first that we can at least have a discussion about it even afterwards. Like I'm just curious, like before growing up, I was just very curious, like, yo, how is it? Like, yo, is this cool or is this not? Like, and I've never got a complaint. What do you pride yourself on? And like if you were to give three tips to men on how to be an eight in the bedroom, what are some things you've learned over time? Some things I learned over time to be at least be an eight in the bedroom. A strong eight, not at least an eight, a solid eight. Listen to, like, watch and view her reactions. If you gotta get one out before she come, do that. If you worrying about lasting and shit like that, because that's really y'all fault. A lot of men who can't last for, like not, quick question, I don't mean to switch the interview up, but quick question for you as a woman. Do you prefer a man that can last an hour or do you? Oh, it's so funny. I just did a video of debate on this. I think there's a myth other than women want the dick for 40 minutes. We're cool. Like we enjoy it. It's satisfying. It's like- If you finish before her. Sex is like foreplay to women. Honestly, I'ma say that. I don't need you to be down there for an hour. No, you don't need that, but if you finish before you- Cool. Get one out the way if you need to. If that's what you feel that, if you're worried about lasting, I'm assuming, but- You can make it last forever. I guess. If you want to last forever, go ahead and knock that out, bro, just stop it. Don't talk so much. I don't do a lot of talking at all. Like I'm one of the most silent killers, I guess, of all time. Like I don't talk. Oh my God, I don't talk. I don't. I've heard the complaint like, yo, I don't even know that you busted. Oh my God, that's the worst. I've heard that before, like- You've dropped down to a six in my brain right now. Wow, because I didn't openly express the fact of how great this is. Now that is the biggest mistake that men make during sex, that they are- I'ma edit your tip three. I don't like to do that because I think people's sexual recipes is unique and special to them, but I don't want to put it out there for men just to think to be quiet, make sounds. Don't talk a lot of shit, mind you. So you prefer someone to- Don't be plies in the bedroom, like just saying crazy stuff, but don't be silent either. There's a happy medium. I'm telling you, most men do not know that happy medium. I promise you most men don't. It's just either just dumb silence or full-on plies, shit, fucking redundant, no. Do you do loud music? No. Do you play yourself when you have sex? Really? Hell no. That's so- That's corny as hell. You think so? Oh yeah, I'm old school. I listen, I turn on the 90s R&B and Ron Eisen. I'd be banging that, I don't know. Is your music fuckable though? Is my music fuckable? I've heard my music is fuckable. I'm recalling from Twitter and Instagram, I've caused a few babies. So I'm happy to know that y'all out there getting it in. But not you, it's your own shit. No. Does that throw you off? I don't know, like all of a sudden performance mode kicks in, like I might've found a new secret that I need to try now. Like I've never done that. Okay, so I wanna do a short quiz with you about female sexual anatomy. Just because I think his are fun. Okay. Don't you agree? No, they are. I really enjoy trivia and stuff like. You can tell if someone is a virgin by checking for the hymen. True or false? True. No, that's false. What? You can break your hymen by horseback riding. You can break it by doing the splits. So you are still in the 1800s. Move on with yourself. You're sexist and it's false. Holy shit. Okay, so in a very crazy series of events, Cleo has challenged me to a sex quiz off. I predict 100% on my end. How much does she know about Dix? Here we go. The word penis comes from the Latin word meaning organ, tail, meat or bone. I actually don't know the answer. Oh.