 Hi y'all, what's up? I'm live and I'm doing a reaction to Tiffany Jolyne's viral post that I just saw on kissy Denise I saw on her Celebrity blog site and it's linked below right now. If you guys want to go read it real quick before I start reviewing or You know reacting. I'm gonna wait for you guys so the thing is oh I'm so sorry y'all Can y'all hear me? I got a new Not a mouse mic What am I thinking? Okay, so how are you guys doing? Can y'all hear me okay? I'm just testing this new mic out because y'all say y'all can't ever hear me I got this little mic at five below So y'all can comment and let me know if y'all can hear me That would be great so Let's talk about Tiffany Jolyne I'm trying to see if there's any comments here any comments. I can't see the comments Okay, anyways I'm going to go ahead and post that I'm live on Facebook so that I can get some more. Oh, hi. How are you guys? So have y'all heard about the Tiffany Jolyne viral post if y'all have let me know and that way I know that you guys are gonna understand what I'm talking about so Okay, so I'll just give you the link is actually the link to the article is in the description box where it says show more you click on that little arrow down there and It will take you right to the article Okay, so In a nutshell She went off on black men. She's okay Tiffany Jolyne is a Caucasian woman and She went off on black men for always trying to like come in her inbox and like talk bad about black women and how You know dating, you know Caucasian women is you know less stressful and blah blah blah blah blah Okay, so she just went all the way off on them like all the way off. So She basically told them everything that you know black women tell them and Kind of told them that she's not the one and da da da da da so I'm gonna read it to you Well some of the article Can y'all hear me? Isn't it cute? It's like a little Barbie mic Okay Since y'all always telling me I can't hear you Okay, so I'm getting ready to read the article or some of it to you I'm clicking on it right now. Y'all know I gotta get my glasses to give all You know, I'm blind and I'm trying to read on this computer screen. So it's kind of far away So Tiffany Jolyne, okay, so this article I'm gonna read it It says white woman goes off on black men for disrespecting black women and thinking white women are submissive So I'm getting ready to read the article It says a white woman named Tiffany Jolyne has gone viral on social media after making a post condemning black men for Constantly jumping in her inbox to berate black women while flirting with her because Because of her lighter complexion. Okay, Tiffany brought some things out into the open making her rent something You definitely want to read. Okay? So let's go Let's read it. Let's read what she said. Y'all ready? Mmm, that's good, okay, I guess it's a little early everybody's, you know At work Okay, so I'm getting ready to read the article about what she said, okay, so It says PSA for the black males in my friends list and most importantly popping up in my inbox I am not the Caucasian for you, baby If your primary reason for dating white women is because you're under the self-centered delusion that they are more submissive and Understanding of your inherent refusal to get your shit together without the help of a romantic partner I am not the Caucasian for you Who's now? If you fix your illiterate a little bit if you fix your illiterate Unmanicured fingers to type anything in the ballpark of devaluating black women in order to make Excuses for your trash character. I am not the Caucasian for you If you say things along the lines of I just don't like black women I can't get along with black women white women are better partners. I'll drag you for und I'll drag you from your untapered hairline to worn out shoelaces and proceed to embarrass the shit out of you before blocking you Okay, it goes on y'all If your timeline is run amuck with white women emulating black culture I won't accept your request although seizing the opportunity for a drag is tempting There are too many of you and my time is limited Okay You are the bottom feeders of the dating pool Know this your taste in women being based on the avoidance of black women tells me so much more than you even realize More than I could possibly explain without making your tiny little brains explode. This is what you stand for them, okay? There's some funny pictures in the article to y'all that She says but if okay, if you read this far You're likely to be Intentionally targeting a certain brand of white women because they're not as privy to your bullshit as black women having been raised around you Meaning you have zero intention of ever taking responsibility for yourself as you're actively avoiding women who will sniff out your bullshit and shortcomings much quicker Most likely to be a narcissist as you highlight your disapproval of black women because of their Independence strength and take no shit attitudes and as such they are much more difficult for you to manipulate Your lazy misogynistic Disrespecting the shit out of there the very women who birthed you Ungrateful ass, okay I'm reading this article y'all so y'all can know what I'm talking about before I react to it in Closing don't come at me. I am not your brand of Caucasian is what she says So basically this this Caucasian woman named Tiffany Jolene made a post that went viral about all the black men in her inbox Putting down black women and trying to get with her and she just kind of read them saying, you know I don't want you the reason they don't want you is because you can't get your stuff together Don't come over here thinking I'm submissive because you know, you think I'm white and submissive I'm gonna I know all your BS to you know So I Know that a lot of people were agreeing with this and then a lot of people were upset about this like The only people that I could think to be upset about this are the pygmy chicks Because of course that Will make them stand out even more to get picked so I feel like It's kind of like what she did was true What she said was true about why black men want to date certain type of women, you know because they don't Take the you know, they take the BS basically and this lady said that she's not one of them So don't come in her inbox because she's not gonna take care of you. She's not gonna help you She don't want to hear why you don't like the black woman because obviously you're not Living up to your you know standards or their standards and you don't have your stuff together basically So, I don't know I Would love to see the men's reaction to this. I need to go. I Don't know. Let me look her up. Let's see where her if she has like a Instagram or Facebook or who this is hilarious And you know trying to type her name in with one nail Okay, so y'all, I'm gonna see what comes up when I type in her name It's already viral. There's already videos on it. Oh mine is up right now Um, I wish I wish she had done a video that would have been hilarious. Let's see how old she is What I don't know. She's on Instagram All this stuff comes up. Let me see if this is her but She must have closed her Instagram down. She probably got a bunch of people hating her Whoopsie Sorry, she probably has to start now. Okay, let me see if she's on Facebook That's not her okay, so anyway, I couldn't find her I think she closed it down, but I See a black man's reaction. I see the title and it's already Explanatory says Insta thought bashing black men And of course is a black guy in the video So he probably is upset that they didn't figure it out and they're not gonna put up with them either Now I'm not saying all okay I never say all because my cousin is black and he's very responsible and takes care of his business Okay, so I'm just talking about the ones that don't and the ones that are you know Trying to get women to help them with every step of their life because they can't do it and get their selves together Don't know one want to help you, you know, that's your job You know, and I'm not trying to put anybody down any man any race if y'all need help from a woman then You know, who's who's the superior race if you need help for me? Not race, but who's the superior sex if you need help for me. Who's the superior? Masculine strength strong person if you need help from a woman like how am I gonna look at you? As the head of household if you looking for help from me How am I gonna look at you and respect you and trust you with my life and my kids life? If you have to look and ask me for stuff, I can't you know So, you know, how am I gonna look when I need a hundred dollars and you don't have it? So I can't You know, I can't disagree with her But I'm not saying this is all black man. I'm just saying this is a lot of them Okay, and you know, it's not It's not that they will never have anything. It's just that the ones that are trying to you know, use you and climb you Already have that attention in mind when they even walk up to you. So it's like deliberate. It's done on purpose So it's one thing to get with someone and you don't plan on doing these things to them But it's another thing to pre calculate how you're gonna use someone especially a woman To get what you want because you can't do it by yourself because you're not Responsible enough, you know what I'm saying? Women and men want things for different reasons a woman wants a man to take care of her because She feels safe and secure, you know, she can do that on her own without a man, but Why? Does she need a man if he can't help her or take care of her now? Let's reverse it if a man needs help from a woman she doesn't need him still, you know and He's incomplete if he needs help he's supposed to already have it together And so a lot of these guys are trying to you know Build and grow with black women and the black women were like, you know, I need more than this You need to do better than this. I'm not taking your BS. You got 10 baby mamas. You can't come on But you can't live with me. I'm not gonna help you and then so they get mad and then they go over to a different race of women and they try the same thing and you know, because the different races of women don't know What black men do to their women and so they go into it blindly They go into it to they go into it blindly not knowing That he's irresponsible and that he plans to use them and that he's still sleeping with his baby mama and that he's got three sets of child support and that Um He's gonna purposely lose his job next week so he can lay on the couch. They don't know any of this going in, you know and Want you know, they keep giving the benefit of the doubt They're like, you know, try to see the positive side of things and they believe what what what they're told until they wake up so what What I'm saying is I agree with what she wrote and it's funny because a lot of guys are upset about it and It makes you wonder what These guys are gonna do now that this is gone viral like are they gonna still start in boxing? You know these women who obviously You know might have seen this article or post and now they know all the BS Are they gonna start, you know having the same standards as we do when it comes to, you know a relationship Somebody says I bring up the worst examples. Okay. Well, you know, okay, for example All the okay, I'm just gonna be honest with y'all and I'm sorry if this hurts anybody's feelings But this is my honest Observation okay Every black man that I know that dates outside of their race is Taking care of By the other woman by the woman Okay, I don't know any black man who's dating Outside of his race that is taking care of that woman. Okay That's just my life. Okay. I don't know about everybody else's life But this is what I see in my everyday life. So I Don't see it happening the other way around Okay and hey It works for them if that's what they want great, but this lady was just got fed up with it. Oh Someone says she's on Facebook So, you know, if y'all have had a chance to read the article that's linked below You can tell me what you think If you agree You disagree I know Greg says I bring up the worst examples. I'm sorry Greg, but it's it's a lot of that is true See a lot of black men love statistics and I'm just gonna say why like a little like y'all love statistics But that's not spread across the board. Okay You saying there's more black women and then black men But you're forgetting to put in the straight the gay the ones that's in prison the ones that's married the ones That's not married. You're forgetting all that The ones that are cheating and have more than one woman, you know, you're forgetting all that so Thing is it's not that there's no black women for black men. It's just that they're not putting up with them They don't have a chance with them because a lot of black women are educated and they have higher standards now Or later or they're tired of the BS, you know what I'm saying So it's kind of like no, I'm sorry. You can't move in with me. No, I'm sorry You know, I'm sorry you lost your job. No, you can't move in with me. I Know you still live at home. No, you can't move in it if we're gonna be together, I'm gonna need you to You know do this is the net and They're just not able to do it so, you know, it's like, no, I'm sorry and That's that so the article is linked below in The description box if y'all want to go click on it and y'all can go read it while y'all watch the video but Yes, it is it's crazy y'all But I don't like to talk bad about anyone in particular Because I feel like all men Especially the younger men in this generation have started the same type of, you know Treatment of women. So, for example Caucasian or Latino or Asian men, you know They might not need help as much but they still want to go 50-50, you know what I'm saying and still to a lot of us That's not good enough. So a Lot of the women that I know and online and things like that when they like try to get dates Online or when they're talking to men online as soon as the man says, oh, you want to go to coffee or, you know Let's put the check or something stupid like that They just block them because they don't even want to entertain that idea, you know They're just like, oh, bye. Nope. Cheap. Nope broke. So they tend to just Cut them off at right there like when they when they talk about coffee instead of dinner When they're asking you out when they talk about pay for half It's cut off time, you know, because if you don't entertain certain things You won't invite it back into your life. So you got to cut it off quick and To me if you're not financially a Able to date Then don't date or don't try to seriously date, you know or date beneath you or date on your level, you know And sometimes this requires dating younger women That aren't as attractive as what you prefer Why because they would be happy to have a coffee date or they would be happy to have some attention and They don't require you to pay as much for a date as the woman who you know expects more because she has more You know, so you can get away with that, you know with like a teenager or a very young adult But you can't get away with it, you know with someone who is 25 and up, you know, so I feel like aim lower and you'll always score big if you're like if that's what you're trying to do and Sometimes the guys don't like to aim lower because the woman doesn't have anything to offer them or give them So it's kind of pointless to them. So they end up still trying to lie to the women who have their stuff together in order to date them so You know, it's confusing because a lot of these women want this fairy tale and they still believe the lies and You know, whatever whatever but at the end of the day If he's not responsible and can't benefit you Then he's to me. He shouldn't be dating. Mm-hmm So I've been saying this for years on my channel, you know, a lot of men will say well That's why we date outside of our race and that's why we go to other countries today Yeah, I know because they don't know about the BS that y'all are all about, you know now that they're finding out they're not responding, you know and Little by little everyone's gonna figure everything out and then where does that leave you? You know This you know, where does that leave you? I mean for me I'm a woman and I've a cop. I'm okay. I'm a stay-at-home mother. I'm a woman and I've accomplished more than Most of the black men that I know Who are older than me and younger than me, you know And to me it's like where's your ambition? What happened to it? Someone says Brazilian don't want Like seriously what happened to y'all's ambition like don't y'all have The title is about a Post that this white woman made about black men in her inbox and that she knows, you know, she doesn't want to hear The black men talking bad about the black woman because we won't put up with their BS and She's the wrong Caucasian to come to because she she knows about all their BS too Basically the article is linked below in the description box right now if you want to go read it So Yeah, a lot of people are mad a lot of picnics are mad at her a lot of women are mad at her the picnic women are mad at Her you don't talk about our canes like that, you know, so I'm like, okay, so obviously they'll accept Anything too, you know So I just say, you know, if If the shoe fit where if it don't then don't worry about it If you're a black man who's handling his business, don't worry about it. That was not for you That was for the ones who can't cut it You know, that was for the ones who are rejected that was for the ones who are too lazy to you know To get up and be a man for they won't doubt those are the ones that said, okay Well, you know, they don't want me so I'm gonna see if they want me, you know, they don't know about you know What I'm gonna do So if you're handling business you going to work your paying bills if you're responsible if you're helping your woman If you're doing all that stuff this video and her post is probably not to you. It's for those ones For those guys who know that they wrong So if you think And I don't care how you grew up there women grew up crazy to women grew up molested rape beat And they still find a way to make it look at Oprah. Okay, that's called an excuse If you don't have a father in your home look look to a role model, you know Just because your mom paying all the bills don't mean is right, you know as a man You should know that you should seek out women's Women are at home, you know, they learn they go and seek knowledge. That's what y'all should be doing You know, there's books out there. There's videos, you know, how to be successful the seven laws to success All that stuff's out there yet. Why why did I read it and you didn't? You know, I didn't have no daddy You know, I have a daddy, but they were divorced at three So, you know, why do I have all of this and you don't because I wanted it. I chose it I said look, I Don't want to be mediocre. I don't want to be this. I don't want to be that Let me go find something that's going to help me. I don't need to find excuses, you know So for me, it's like if I can do it, you can do it Gary says whatever happened to Bringing value to a relationship. My value is more than my career. Well, that's where it starts Okay, if you can't contribute anything you can't step up over here for most women. Okay So your value might you might have more value, but I can't explore those values until you got a good career You know what I'm saying? because it's kind of like if you're inviting someone into your life and You know They got something wrong. Oh, they might have other great qualities, but they got something bad on a record You're not gonna invite them into your life Okay, so to me if that if that's a no-go then everything else is a no-go, okay I don't care how great of a person you are. I don't care if you give, you know, your time your free time to charity I don't care if you save kittens all day. If you ain't got no good career and job that can benefit me I don't I don't want to get to know you. Okay, and that's just my honest truth There's nothing against you personally. It's just anybody anybody don't even matter anybody So if you want people to If you want people to see those other values in you you got to have a Value that's beneficial to them first and foremost, which is a good career so that you can take care of them and benefit their life I don't care about that other stuff. I don't care if you can say I don't care if you look good I don't care if you got a six-pack. You got somebody Okay, so And I'm not being mean I'm just saying, you know, those are my standards those are a lot of people's standards and When black men don't like those standards, they try to go find someone else who will lower their standards or who's used to dating guys and not looking at career first because you know, they were raised as you know The dad takes care of everything and so they assume That since you're a man with male genitalia that you are the same They don't understand That you're not and you know a lot of areas so they give you the benefit of the doubt Oh, he's just having a hard time. Oh, you know, he'll get it together They don't know that you will never get it together and that you Five other women's lives are ruined because of you sometimes they don't know this they don't know your background story and Everything you say is an excuse and you're blaming everybody else So they they feel sorry for you a lot of them do but now But the info is out there and the videos are out there and they know more It's good. It's starting a backfire. You know what I'm saying So the only choice that y'all have is to get it together That's the only choice y'all have is to get it together Because if you know, the other races of women are rejecting you now Your own a lot of your own women are rejecting you now except the pick-meets, which are the ones you don't even want and The you know, the only other option you have is men and you know, they might start rejecting you too if you broke So, you know for me, I Would just take this as a sign. Let's go ahead and get it together Find a way to come up Find a way to be more responsible find a way to stop making dumb mistakes Find a way to make things right so that you can actually have a woman of your choice Rather than someone who will take you You know that rather than to settle men shouldn't have to settle either Only reason men settle is because they have to they can't afford what they really want so At the end of the day men who have their self in order can choose the type of woman that they want the ones who don't You know, they have to keep trying everywhere until they find someone gullible and Trick them. Okay, because that's what it really is. I have so many women that I do consultations for I have some foreign women that live in different countries. I have some local women That live in my own city and then all around the United States who have the same exact story, you know, everybody knows the story Oh, he said he loved me. I let him movie and he cheated. We had a baby. He left He's gonna child support. He only make $100 a week. I don't get nothing but $12 a month from him Okay, this is the story of a lot of black men. Okay Now the story that I want to hear is oh He asked me to marry him he bought me a house He Bought me a car He gave me money to start my own business. He raises our child. He's a great father. Why don't I hear this? I mean I hear this sometimes, but this needs to be the stereotype, you know and then, you know, you do have some black men that stay with their women, but They still don't contribute as much as they should and they're not the fathers that they should be Because I see a lot of black women out They probably have husband, but you don't see them nowhere around, you know, they might as well be single. So the thing is a lot of a lot of women have realized this and they have taken it into their subconscious mind and They they know what it is and it's just We have to deal with it every day And just because we reject them and we don't want their least And we don't want their mediocrity or their shortcomings then they feel like we're difficult For having normal standards They want us to lower our standards So that they can have what they want, but We're we we set the bar women If we lower it then it keeps getting lower We have to raise it to the next level so that they have to jump to get there right now. They can step on it they don't need You know women these days, especially the pick-me-chicks and the women who deal with Mediocre to subpar men in general don't even have to be black men Y'all are setting the bar lower and lower and before you know it You're not gonna get nothing at all, you know, so That's why these videos are so important That's why that article was so important because people need to understand and know That black man don't hate black women because we're difficult and because we're this and we're that it's because they can't meet our standards Okay, and they're not extremely high standards. They are normal standards black men just don't want to meet normal standards Why because they feel like Why don't want it why they don't want to meet normal standard is because they want you to help them because like I said Their mother did everything and so they expect you to do everything They don't realize that that's wrong and it's your place to tell them that it's wrong when you start dating a black man Look, I don't care what your mama did. This is what you're gonna do for me You want to be with me if you don't there's the door Okay, not your mama and If you're gonna be in my life, you're gonna be a man. That's it, you know, if there's the door by You can't stay here if you ain't paying the entire rent They ain't no roommate situation over here, okay, so it says never date a mother's boy All of them are mama's boys, you know, because they didn't have a daddy most of them So, you know, that's why you have to remind them in the beginning when you start dating someone you have to say look I Don't if we get married if you want to live with me, you know, when y'all are getting to that point I'm not paying the rent. You're paying everything that I don't go 5050 if you're a man be the man Okay, that's my requirement. If you don't like it, there's the door, you know, set your standards high If a man really wants you and don't want any other man to have you he's gonna reach those standards Okay, because if he doesn't that means he didn't love you enough anyway So he just jumped ship and went to the next person with the lower standard So that's how you can test if a man really wants you as well, you know What would you do to keep me in your life? Am I worth it? Am I worth you to? Better yourself. It's not even helping me. It's helping him, you know, am I worth? You bettering yourself for if the answer is no that I don't need you because you're not gonna benefit me or yourself So or our future children if we have some you're not going to be the role model that I need for them So before we even make that mistake and go down that road. Goodbye You know So Yeah, that's because those are pick me women Valerie says a lot of women to have poverty mine and only think about sex And attention and nothing else is substantial and going to jail over dudes. Yeah, those are called pick me chicks. Okay They don't know their value They're they're the result of What they think men expect those are the those are the ones that have lowered their standards For especially for what he wants Okay, those are the ones that are already lowering that lowered their standards, okay That don't know any better. They don't know any better And they think that's how you're supposed to be So those are already gone only the only way to save them is to show them these videos and help them realize that they're wrong so so Just like there's a lot of good black men out there still The reason that they're not being praised enough It's because they're not Abundance You know and they're not correcting their counterparts You know what I'm saying because of the man code You know the man code is if there was a there's a few youtubers out there that are talking to women about What man are gonna do and how to you know spot this type of man that but there's no There's not really a lot of men who are talking directly to men saying get your stuff together You are bummed you need to do better. You know, there's very few There needs to be more You know, especially if y'all are lacking father figures There needs to be more men out there and y'all get the good ones can take it upon themselves To post and to make videos and to teach them since you say they don't know then they can't use it as an excuse anymore You know, I don't see too many men out there doing what I do in male form You know, I don't see too many men out there saying look Leave leave this hood right alone Go to school Get money focus on yourself. Get yourself in a part move out your mama's house. I don't see that Stop having babies by everybody. I don't see that You know, I do it for women look Stop having babies with everybody Love yourself put yourself first stop dating broke man. See, I don't see men out there saying this to guy up Your standards so that women can desire you and that you can pick your woman You know, wouldn't it be great if a woman wanted you and you wanted her to and it was like there was nothing in the way No excuses no deal breakers just perfect, you know That's the world That's the world that people want but we can't have it like Why we got to look at your dirty drawers because you sagging and you 30 something years old Why we got to watch you hold your pants run into the bus stop while we in our Lex's Mercedes, you know Why we got to do that? I mean that how do you think that makes us feel makes us feel like you know and Then when you approach us in a public place And you think you're on our same level and we just watched you hold your pants and your draw But sticking out running to the bus What makes you think we want to talk to you, you know what I'm saying? So I Don't know and then we can look at it on the reverse side. There are some good black men who keep running into ghetto black women Ratchet black women they can have the same argument Okay, they can have the same exact argument, but why? because those women That are ratchet are considered, you know The same as the guys who we are sitting here talking about except they don't try to go date white guys That's the difference. And you know why I'm gonna tell you why they don't go and some white dudes inbox Talking about hey black men a s blah blah blah blah The reason they don't do that is because you created them You created the ratchet black woman why because you made her and forced her to lower her standards so low Just to be with you, you know so Now you don't want her and then the other ones who aren't ratchet reject you so you have You know You have to go over here. So Don't be upset Just better yourself that's all that's the only thing you can do that's the best revenge you get on anybody better yourself You can get revenge on every woman that has rejected you Black woman white woman Latino woman Asian woman. You can get revenge on all those women if you just do better That's it. We don't care. We just want you to do better and that's that we just want you to do better So you can do better for your children We don't care about the other stuff look do better for the future That's all I mean like I don't care if you leave me or leave her as long as you handle the business She ain't got to chase you around for your $12 child support shit. That's all okay The stories I hear y'all will be amazed at the writer Tyler Perry show What's up? I hear y'all women are leveling up Twice or three times as fast as the men That don't mean we still want to pay for your growth But either I mean you need to rise above us because you're the ones that's supposed to be head a household and provider and protector Not us that means mentally a lot of us women are smarter than you guys and You're supposed to take that as a challenge To get more educated and become smarter than us and rise above you know not which not to put your hand out You know To me I Would be like okay. Well these women are doing it. Look shoot if they can do it. I can do better You know I'm more logical than a woman. I should be able to get a degree I'm not gonna let a woman out. Do me you know You know you wouldn't let a woman out. Do you on the basketball court? You wouldn't let a woman out. Do you in football? You wouldn't let a woman out. Do you in any sport, but you're gonna let a woman out. Do you in life? That's sad and life So if if if you're one of those people who don't have any direction Don't know what to do with their lives you know time to be in talked about Then you need to get in a room and start thinking of your goal make a goal and a plan to get Financially stable, okay, and start working on it. I don't care what you got to do I don't care if you got to get two jobs or three jobs or whatever That's the only way you're gonna get out of your situation. I don't care if you need to save up start your own business. I Mean how how do you like women do this with? Multiple children as a single mother go to school work and have kids If we got all that against us And you have nothing but child support against you Why are you way behind? Why are you back here? You don't have to take kids to daycare. You ain't got to wake up three hours early You don't have to take kids to school. You don't have to do Hair you don't have to go to work. You don't have to go to school You don't have to go pick up kids from school. You ain't got to make lunch. You ain't got to cook dinner All you got to do is wake up roll over comb your hair change the draw shape and and go You ain't got to do none of that. We got to do everything and the whole point is If we're still excelling and you're not Is your mental capacity decreasing? Is ours growing are those video games? Killing your brain You know Is that weekly weed habit? Getting in the way of your ambition You know Is your wardrobes holding you back from getting a job? It's all that child support keeping you from saving up To move out your mama's house Stop having babies You know so Be wise If you if if any guys listening to this before y'all have done all this crazy stuff don't do it Focus on money because women like money. Don't I I'm not you know what you can look ugly You can be fat. You can be short if you got some money. You're gonna have a woman guaranteed. Okay You ain't got to lie You don't have to put over BS. You don't have to live with no woman and let her tell you what to do If you have money you good Okay, focus on money. Stop focusing on women. Stop focusing on Video games go get your money. Okay in this world. That's where the power is Okay, you're powerless if you're broke point blank In this world you are absolutely powerless If you are broke So that's another reason why a lot of women are upset because You're powerless You know Women are attracted to power. It's not about the money. It's about the power and the lifestyle that money brings If you don't have it You know It's gonna be hard. You have to manipulate and brainwash Women to like other things about you You know what I'm saying and then make them feel bad for wanting What's normal Oh, you just a gold digger. Oh, you want too much. Oh, I'm sorry. I wanted father for my child Oh, I'm sorry. I want food and groceries in the house every week. Oh, I'm sorry. I won't shelter paid for. Oh my bad Excuse me Sorry, I asked for too much Oh, but you want some. Oh, okay There you go No Okay, if you can't be the man that women need they're going to dismiss you That's just straight up That's just it Yeah Someone says weed is killing him Yeah, there's a story actually and it's about It's an indian story. Okay, and this indian goddess She wanted to marry this guy And You know, she married him and then he started smoking the ganja He smoked too much ganja and he couldn't get nothing done. He couldn't you know get nothing done He lost all ambition all he wanted to do is smoke. So she cut his head off and beheaded him said Bye you're useless to me So That's the one thing it'll take away your ambition It sure will it'll make you not care about nothing. It'd be like I don't care about that I don't care about that. I don't care about that. I don't care about that Oh well you know, so ladies if you are Because see people handle it different You know, if you're dating someone who smoked a lot of weed They're eventually going to lose all their ambition if they Create a habit out of it or do it too much So I wouldn't even bother with that. I'm like, you know, okay, bye. No, I can't do it You know, if they're already established and they got themselves together and they want to smoke a little something something That means they know how to discipline themselves and they have ambition and they understand how this works, you know So for me, I'm just saying It's almost like they're paralyzed and they can't move a certain Past a certain point, you know My husband needs black. He says there are very few black professional Black man on his level at his building. He says they're very few you know, and He said it should be more I think I think it should too So, um You know, if you want respect you got to earn it It just don't get handed to you if you want to be powerful you have to take the steps to become powerful You can't blame it. You can't make it make excuses. You got to take full responsibility for your life And create what you want You know You got to find a way just like black women find a way, you know, you got to find a way just like You know your mother found a way you got to you have to find a way because no one's going to give it to you And we learned that early in life we are may our our own man can't even give it to us half the time We got to go get it ourselves. So that's why a lot of black women are surpassing you because We already know y'all ain't gonna give it to us. So we go get it ourselves. We ain't go sit there and wait on y'all and just because You know, some of y'all are doing very well doing your job taking care of your women, you know Kudos, you know, we need more of you. We need y'all to teach them Because our kids are gonna have to Deal with that You know, so I say Guys y'all need to start some channels teaching these young dudes What and what not to do? Forget the guy code We're about What about You know being a good male role model to help People in the world, you know, you don't have to agree with everything. You just gotta help them get to that next level Mm-hmm If any man makes you feel guilty for wanting normal things They're manipulative and they don't want to live up to those standards of normal That means they are sub par And they're never going to be able to please you or benefit you in any way So whenever somebody tells oh you greedy. Oh you materialistic. That's just code for I'm broke. I can't afford you I'm gonna make you feel guilty for it So I can get what I want anyway. Okay. When you hear those words come out of a man's mouth Translate them for him say oh, you mean you can't afford it Oh, okay. You mean I like nice things or oh, you mean I want something Normal that you can't do You got to translate it for them, you know, because if We're in 2017 if white women are now Telling off black men because of the same things black women are telling them off for Do you know something is wrong? Because they didn't figure it out too Say I said that in one of my videos. I say it won't be too long before the white women figure you out And then y'all will be right back over here or you know an asian girls in box And you know, they don't marry outside their race too much Anyway, so good look at that. Oh wait, you're right. It doesn't matter because y'all don't marry women I say this to say this If you're trying to ask a woman to have your baby make sure you ask her to marry you first Ladies, if you have a baby for him a man, make sure you are married to that man Stop having babies out of wedlock. Okay Stop why because they will never marry you. They don't have to You're gonna have to fight with child support for all your life Don't Let pillow talk decide your future If you're good enough to impregnate and be the mother of his child and you're not good enough to wife What does that say about how he feels about you? Mm-hmm. So stop y'all like it's dumb. Why would you do that? You think it's gonna bring you closer together to get him to stop cheating to get him to get a job to get him To be responsible. He's supposed to be already that if he's not that a baby is not gonna do nothing But put more bills on him that he can't even pay The bills that he has now Okay, so don't think that that's gonna help you Marriage they say that people who get married have a higher level of wealth Because you're putting two Together and plus the band can afford to be married You know The government is not chasing him around looking for him Okay If he wants to leave he has to do legal paperwork Okay, so ladies I don't care If you keep having babies outside of a wedlock is your fault too You know if you if you laying down with a broke man And you're gonna have the broke man's baby That's your fault too. I would never have a broke man's baby. I'm gonna be like black china If you ain't rich, I'm not having your baby. That's just it Be like black china don't have babies unless the man is rich or can take care of everything. Okay Then you are guaranteed to have a good life and so is your child So And if y'all already done it and it's too late, don't do it again, you know Because you understand that it doesn't work out now unless you're a very wealthy woman have your career in order And you just want a baby if you don't want the man, you just don't throw him away Great have your baby raise your baby. Whatever you need to do But don't have babies by a man who you know is not going to be able to help you if you need help Okay And then I have a lot of okay I have a lot of other women a lot of a lot of black women especially Who are too focused on sex now? Let me tell y'all something about that if you are a highly sexual woman And You are giving it up for free Having babies doing this and that you know You're not going to get the respect that you deserve Okay, that stuff is private. Keep it in your bedroom. Stop post it on facebook That's the that is the signature of a pygmy Posting sexual things on social media. That is the signature move of a pygmy chick Okay, you are setting yourself up to be used and to fail And you are setting yourself up To be seen as only only a sexual object. They don't care anything about you or your feelings This is your way of seeking attention because You have lowered your standards And you want the attention of the man That forced you to lower your standards. You're moving backwards in life It's not being sexually free. It's having low standards And attracting men with even lower standards That's all you're doing. You're not doing anybody any favors, you know All you're doing is showing him That you have lowered your standards and your self-value and your self-worth To his level and lower And that when he's finished with you he'll move on to the next person and if your feelings because you're a sexual object Big and for attention online. Okay, so y'all need to stop all of that too. It's disgusting It's sad. It looks pathetic And it makes you look like You have nothing else My call came in Yeah, a call came in. Sorry. Yeah, so it looks like That y'all have nothing else going for you when we do this and I've had to delete some friends off my facebook because y'all are guilty of it Y'all guilty of it and I deleted you because I don't want to see that mess. It's like pathetic. It's like Really, why don't you just put a sign on yourself and say we'll have sex for free and put a picture up That's easier Because that's exactly what you look like. Yeah, I like my little mic Okay, you're not sexually free. You just have low standards and begging for attention Okay, sexually free is when you seduce a man and you surprise them in the bedroom It's not all over the internet for any man to come in your inbox and say, hey, what are we gonna do when we go meet? Send me some pics. Okay. It's not that it's a surprise For a man who's worthy Okay, if you're giving yourself away free that means you have no value of your own body and your own Self-worth it means you don't care So why should they men treat women exactly how they treat themselves? You're treating yourself like a sexual object. That's exactly how they're going to treat you and see you They don't see you as wife. They see you as whole thought whatever you call them On facebook That's it. And then when you get pregnant with their baby, they still see you the same way Now your whole or thought that they owe child support to that's just it So I talk about black men and I talked about black women. I talked about pick me and I talked about Women who have their stuff together and the black men who have their stuff together. Let's talk about them So be fair The black men who have their stuff together can choose the type of woman that they want And usually they choose someone That they Really like they have their pick Okay, they can pick whoever they want. They don't have to settle They can be fat unattractive Gross and still get a woman Of their dreams Okay, they'll take care of their children You know They'll pay every bill in the house They'll keep food on the table They will compliment you take you places, you know Give you money to start your own business Make sure you're happy all the time You know And these are the type of men who are very strong Okay, they're abnormally mentally Strong Okay, they don't give up easily They don't like excuses They are the type of men who will be super persistent in everything that they do no matter what it is They're going to get what they want No matter what Okay, and not by force but by Drive You know what I'm saying? So the black men that I know who are winning They all wake up early in the morning They don't own video games most of them or if they do they might play on the weekend only For a couple hours with their sons or their children. Okay they're not They don't have a lot of free time because they're too busy trying to figure out their next goal and move Okay, they dress for success. They don't wear craps Sagan off their butts. Okay Unless there are a rapper or something but you know Even the rappers aren't doing that no more only some of them and this is bad. Okay, so these men understand That in order to be powerful and successful you need money Okay, and so they have savings They invest they buy real estate, you know, they have their stuff together They read books to teach them how to get to the next level of success Okay, they're not sitting there making excuses. They're looking for the solution So this is the difference between Certain type of men you have one man sitting up here talking about the man and how he can't make it in his world And because he didn't hail back then you have this other black man over here reading books on how These certain men got to this level what they did their tricks their Secrets and he's now he's on to the next. Okay so Which one are you gonna be you know The one who makes excuses or the one who seeks knowledge to get to the next level, you know, that's the difference and If you become the one that seeks the knowledge to get to the next level Then you should be teaching this one over here who sit over here making excuses How to do it give him a book give him an audio book. You know, he you know, he's not gonna read a book Give him an audio book. Okay a link so This is the you know, this is a little rant. Yeah, this this white lady went off and Talk trash about the black man who talked bad about black women all up in her inbox and she says she is not the one You know, I don't want your mediocrity or low standards either. So Um, to me, that's a wake-up call. Like for me, I'll be like, you know what? Let me get myself together. I am 30 something years old. I'm almost 40 something. I'm still in my mama's house Why does this man over here successful and I'm not what did he do that? I didn't do Okay, well first off you need to empower yourself with The keys and the knowledge on how to become successful You know, if you don't if that doesn't click in your mind then you are Holding yourself back Because you're not even thinking anymore. You're just reacting to every situation around you You just reacting you're not even thinking anymore. You're not even creating anymore. You're just reacting to everything around you Which means you don't have a brain So if you can't think Of the next step to take to get out of your situation or to better your situation and you just react to every situation Then you're no longer a thinker and you just Have really no purpose Except to react to the things around you so Perhaps Perhaps the you know, the time has come for people to want to raise their standards And women are going to force Men to do better because we're not taking that crap anymore except for the pygmies who are still holding us back Y'all pygmies. I promise y'all Y'all can have standards. It's gonna be okay. Okay. I promise you can have some standards. It's not gonna kill you You Okay, you can have you you know what if you're a pygmy at least add two standards every week Okay, you'll see your life improved for the better. I promise you and also, you know There was a post on facebook the other day and it says um, I think it was by kissy denise and she says Ladies my title is you know, talk a part-time talk show host Celebrity blogger this this and that, you know, what are your titles? You know and all the ladies were listing all their professions and stuff like that. Oh, I'm this I have a phd I I'm a this some of that and when the man came along there's a oh, I'm a poet a rapper. Oh um no one says God of god of the universe and like they didn't have no titles. They barely had titles You know, they were putting stupid stuff CEO of trap records.com or something stupid like that, you know And all the women held the degrees multiple titles, you know real estate investor And these men's stuff titles were jokes, you know, so I know I think she did that on purpose to show the difference in the large gap You know, that's why a lot of women have to dumb themselves down because we have way more titles than a lot of these guys out here And they're automatically turned off or intimidated if you If you do, you know what I'm saying? Even guys with money, you know, they're intimidated by a successful woman because they know that we don't need them You know, so we got to pretend we need them So anyways Getting back so the responsible adult Black man, thank you for being that and I wish you would lead the way and teach these other dudes You know how to come up Sliding my audio book Do something because it's not working If a former pick-me-chick raises her standards will the old men in her life still view her the same? You shouldn't even be looking back at those old men or care what they think because they broke if you was a pick-me or they're not Yeah, they're gonna view you the same. They're gonna try to treat you the exact same and then when you reject it They're gonna say, oh, you think you this now. They're gonna start belittling you and try to manipulate you even more So I wouldn't even walk backwards. Okay. You're supposed to be moving forward Don't care about nobody in your past. That's one thing about women They're always looking back. Stop looking back. Look forward Stop looking back. They don't want you. They throw you in the garbage move forward. Okay. Just move forward They don't want you they threw your way. They used you. They tricked you. They lied. They manipulated you. You shouldn't even want them back You know, that's like wanting someone back who uh Scammed you You know That's like black child. That's like Rob Carter That's like black child. That's like Rob Kardashian wanting black china back. Is you that dumb? Come on now If you keep looking back, you're gonna be back there again, that's all I'm gonna say And not in a good way. What's up with the little Barbie make? We all always complain and I can't hear you So I bought a mic And then like I don't know can y'all still hear when I scroll like if I do this Can y'all still hear that like nasty scroll noise that normally has Aw man, I thought that would help it Well, I tried. It's not as loud though. Okay, let's see Well, it's from five below y'all. It's cheap. I'm gonna have to get a like a good one from like Best Buy or something This temporary I'll give it to my kids They have other colors too y'all How many times a week do you think it takes to satisfy a man with money intimately once If you give it away too much, you ain't gonna want it no more One time or maybe no time I say once if you want extra Make them, you know, make a buy you some If you're doing it more than once a week you're doing it too much Because it's gonna grow old quick and they're not gonna want it as much And then they're gonna want something new if they stopped if they have if they don't chase you anymore They're gonna start chasing something else. So once a week And that's enough Some people you can go two weeks. Thank you Yep, stingy with it. Why because if you don't chase it, you don't want it Okay, if I'm giving it away And you you can get it anytime. Why would you want it? Gary saying you're stingy with the VJJ. Hell, yeah, that's why that's why I got what I got Because I'm stingy Because my husband's still chase It's not it's not just up and available Even after marriage, it's not you got to negotiate We got to come to an agreement You got to wait You got to chase You got to impress me. You got to do something, you know, it's not free ever not even after marriage You got to do stuff So if you want a man to keep chasing you don't don't just give it up anytime Because he got to remember it. He can't if your man can't think of sit there and reminisce and think about You know How he can't wait to do it again Because he's gonna get it the same day every day twice a day then He's gonna start thinking about other women how I wonder what it feels like with her Or I wonder if I can get some from her or you know that because I get I'm bored my wife or I'm bored with My girlfriend I get that every day all day, you know, it's the same old predictable boring stuff. So I mean, oh, you know If you can get it once a week once a month once every two weeks, he's like Still thinking about it You know, oh man, I wonder when I'm gonna get something down. Oh, you know, you walk around the house looking good And tell him no Next day, he's gonna be ready. Oh my god, you know doing extra stuff for you. Let me wash your car Oh, you know, you want something from the store? So he's gonna be working as well To try to get some So you're gonna get a lot more special treatment as well the less you give it up But just that you gotta look good. You can't just say no, I don't want nothing look trashy You gotta look good and make him want it even more, you know Tell him he gonna give some and then say, oh, no, let's do it tomorrow or in the morning You know, keep him waiting push him back, you know, because that keeps him chasing Good advice And any man that disagrees, that's because they do want it But the more they want it the long they'll wait for it They'll wait for it, believe me And you get more out of it too. You get more services You know, if you like, oh, you know, if you do you cook and do the dishes and do the laundry, then I give you some Guess what all that stuff is done Bargain with it. Don't just give it away. It's valuable. You don't have to wash dishes. You ain't got to do clothes You don't have to do nothing if you use it as a bargaining tool. Okay. Y'all just giving away free Y'all y'all y'all giving it away free and doing all the work So the thing is, you know Back to the title This lady went off a lot of what she said is true I agree with it and I think a lot of these guys with the low standards need to level up You know, it's nothing wrong with leveling up. It's nothing wrong with wanting to do right by a woman It's nothing wrong with wanting to raise your own kids It's nothing wrong with paying a woman's bills or paying, you know, for your kid to have a nice life It's nothing wrong with that. I mean even black men had to come up with a word simp Because they cannot even reach the level of being a simp So now they change the word responsible Into simp because they can never reach that level or they don't know how to reach it. So what do they do? They find something wrong With being responsible and give it a dirty name Just like they call women gold diggers and whores because we have high standards that they can't reach So you can't if you can't accomplish or reach something you belittle it Okay, this is psychology if you can't afford something you say well, you're materialistic If you can't have a woman. Oh, you're stuck up in a gold digger if you can't be a man. Oh, that's a simp So what are you? If if if my husband is a simp for taking care of his wife and children, what are you? a broke Irresponsible uh sorry excuse For the male species that's what you are So if you call him my husband a simp because he can do all it is for me Then I feel sorry for whoever gets ends up with you because I'm pretty sure she would want a simp too If that's what simps do if simps are responsible men Who take care of theirs? Then everybody wants a simp Okay, that's just what you call it because you can never reach that level. Okay That's what you call it because you don't know how to get The type of money to where you can take care of your woman and your children Because you can't get there doesn't mean You have to go and call everybody else names because you can't reach that level Okay, so y'all can call men simps all you want when I hear the word simp come out of a man's mouth I already know he broke Super broke. Okay So broke that he has to belittle men Who should be his role model? Okay, that's sad. He's like the pick me of men the pick me men. He's like the sorry excuse for He should have just been born a woman basically So for me, that's how I feel like anyway So if my husband's a simp you should want to be a simp too because my husband Has is living a life. Okay He dropped the car. He won't got the house. He won't got the woman. He won't what you got Okay Money can't buy happiness, but you can shop money can buy time and comfort. Okay, and you can find your happiness with time In comfort Don't have to worry about rushing to work every morning getting ups, you know Stress I do have a gym membership. Okay Somebody said uh money can buy me a gym membership. I have a very nice. I'm at lifetime fitness. So Can you afford to go there? And even at this size and this weight I'm still doing better than you So it didn't hold me back, you know, I don't use excuses to hold me back I do and I get what I want Skinny or fat. I got what I wanted. You you don't even have what you want And you're a man So if I can find a way to get it You don't have no excuse So yes, I do have a gym membership It comes out my husband's account automatically Every month it's on autopay because I don't have the scrounge for money like you Um and I can go if I want to and I don't have to go if I don't want to It's my free will it's my choice My kids also have memberships because there's pools rock climbing Slides water slides There's a spa in there There's uh, what racket ball There's everything in there. So You can do what we want to do basically There's a restaurant in there. So it's really nice. You can meet a lot of uh wealthy people there A lot of athletes go to my gym So, you know when you can afford that You know I'll be proud of you basically Because you leveled up Someone says I got offended I go to the gym every day Except for the weekend I didn't get offended. I just told you about my gym membership. I don't care I mean, I know men pick on women and try to find something that's gonna make them upset. They don't make me upset I don't care What what what should make what should make me upset is that you are on here when you supposed to be at work Where where's your job? Do you have a career? Or do you work overnight in somebody's warehouse making eight dollars an hour? I don't know but guess what? All i'm saying is You know my husband and other men who make lots of money. They're not on youtube right now That's all i'm saying Anyways And you know the funny thing If he's talking about my weight, he's he still couldn't date me even when I was even bigger He still couldn't date me because he ain't got no money. Okay Gary says he's at work y'all just so y'all know gary's at work But he wasn't the one that was insulting me. So don't jump on him Y'all y'all y'all's comments are hilarious. Okay Anyways, I guess he gone I guess his 30 minute lunch break at mcdonald's is over Back to work back to the drive-thru Y'all y'all don't have to troll That's just that's just one of my many pleasures in life Somebody says why am I so mean? I'm not mean. I'm just being honest. Okay Um, I can say it in a nice way, but y'all won't hear it So I gotta say it in the way that you hear it You know I can say well We need to make sure that we're supportive and pushing our men to the next level So that he can want to do better and we should just be so accepting and Or you know, um, you know, we don't want to accept mediocrity once you get yourself together Then you know, maybe no nobody hears that Are you here? When you hear that is No, I'm gonna tell the truth how you're supposed to hear it You know, that's not how you're supposed to hear it. I don't care about your feelings because you don't care about our feelings Okay Why should I talk to you nice? You know, why should women talk to men about their issues nice when y'all don't have the same uh Way of doing it for us You know, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna be nice. I'm sorry nice women finish last Okay Okay, do y'all have some questions How y'all doing? Okay. Okay, somebody quoting the bible Okay I want to suggest a video topic sugar baby versus rich man wife difference We okay Most men who have sugar babies, they already a been married or are married If you find a single one make sure he's not too old and not too young, you know, then you can get them But you gotta make sure That he don't nobody else and you have to trap him like not trap him like with pregnancy, but in his mind You know, you gotta it's it's psychological to get a man to trick a man to marry you It's psychological They don't do it on their own. You have to really get in their mind It's a mind mental game and you have to be prepared to play it A lot of women are not prepared to play the mental games that it takes to get a husband You know what I'm saying a husband that will pay for everything It's mental Okay, if you want to set up a consultation on how to do it You're gonna have to really do it. You can't oh, well, I don't do that or I can't do that You don't have to be in it to win it or don't come at all. You know what I'm saying There's levels to it. Okay. You can't just Say, okay. I want this. How do I get there and and not be willing to do what it takes because this is work Okay, but once that work is done, you have to work ever again Okay Okay, so yeah Okay, so basically Everybody needs to improve. It's not just the black men Okay, it's the black women who are who are still having those low standards It's the pygmy women and the low level, you know There's always lower levels to each race. Okay. The white people have the trailer trash, you know They got their meth heads just like we got our ratchets and you know Our weed smoking video game plan running to the bus stop holding a pants up $200 pair of shoes on. Okay. Everybody has this in their race. It's not just us But the only difference is You know The women are excelling And not the men Okay, so y'all have to look at that. You have to understand what's happening There might be a set of ratchet women But sometimes in ratchet women be having degrees too. They might they still might have their ratchet ways But you know, they got a job or a government job or something, you know And most of the time they got a card in at the bus stop with you So even the ratchet women are doing a lot better You know what I'm saying? So Everyone has their issues every race has their issues, but this one Is being called out by another race Okay, because it's now it's like in everyone's eyes Yep Someone says the black race looks at men To see who will make pretty children versus what men bring to the table. I don't care about pretty children. You know what because They're gonna look they're gonna be pretty in a broke house They're gonna be pretty on the street because you're a man can't take care of them, you know so Maybe that's what happened to a lot of these women who are You know out there using their looks to get what they want because they grow up poor Because their mama chose their daddy on how their kid is going to turn up So what they do come strippers this this and that and then they They go secure Their future like black china Okay, so y'all can't just be making babies because they look good and you ain't got nothing to give them Yeah, we'd rather have an average looking child With with the best education live in a nice house College funds and all that kind of stuff then a pretty little girl Who's gonna end up twerking on youtube. Okay, that's what I'd rather so Sorry There's makeup and there's wigs. There's contact. Okay We can all look good That's what I'm just saying I We can all look good If they can make um a grown Burley bearded man into a beautiful woman An average looking chick can be made beautiful Someone says all kids are beautiful Yes, they are Who's quite quoting bible scriptures up in here just have nothing to do with the bible They must have just got saved y'all. They must have been just got saved I bet you give 10 percent to your church You need to be putting that in your savings account and how much do you have saved? If you're giving 10 percent to your church and you ain't got a savings account, uh, rethink that Honestly Don't pay the past or pay yourself Okay, I'm just saying, you know, don't Pay yourself first If you don't have a savings account and you're over the age of 25 You need to start one Okay, so If you don't have a savings account ladies or men go start a savings account You can start by putting what $20 in there $20 a week However much you can put in just start saving And then if you get enough you can maybe invest in something But at least start saving so for a rainy day, you know Save save save save Okay, I'm gonna tell y'all men something. Okay, the broke man Or the man working mediocre jobs. There are endless resources online. There are Books audio books for free on youtube on how to become successful How to start your own business how to level up how to get a better job how to secure This and how to do that, you know, how to Invest how to save all these things are up online for free You know, other men are taking advantage of it You are not you are sitting there playing Some video games Okay Use that time that you would be playing video games To listen to some of these books to read some of these books to get some tips on how to level up Just like the women are doing. Okay You don't see women sitting here playing video games and stuff. You see us on our phones on our computers reading, you know watching videos to Upgrade ourselves A lot of us, you know, you're sitting here thinking, you know, oh this job is good enough for me If the woman don't want me for me, then I don't want to be with her. She can't help me build You just became a woman yourself just with that You just you just became a woman when you said that You know why because you feel like by just being yourself is good enough This mediocre job is good enough if she don't love me for me, then I will you know, you just became Stuck You know, you have no ambition. You have no goals All you want to do is wake up and do the same thing every day so There's no power in that Therefore women are not going to be Attracted to that if you have ambitions and goals and going to the next level and rising That's where you need to be studying learning You know How to become more successful how to get out of your nine to five job And start working for yourself You know, it's easy It's so easy and the information is out there how to do it Y'all just won't go do it. Y'all just won't go Seek the information y'all just rather play video games and smoke weed So, you know, don't be mad So guys put up your video games and pull out your phone or your computer Or your tablet or your ipad and start listening to some of these online audiobooks on how to upgrade your yourself Okay, that's all. I mean nobody else is going to tell you so a woman has to tell you, you know, there's no men out there That's telling y'all this And if there are y'all need to link them in the comments Chew seven should I be aloof when dealing with a wealthy guy in the beginning since guys want to challenge And always want what they can't have. Yeah, I've been a challenge since day one still a challenge, you know um Always keep it challenging Give in and pull it back give in and pull it back That way they they know they have to keep working for it. And that's the challenge I wonder what I gotta do next week, you know Don't ever just give your whole self here. Here I am No They gotta pull it they they gotta pull you to that level and then when you finally give in After you give it go right back to the beginning. Oh, I shouldn't have done that You know, maybe, you know, then they have to convince you again So they're still working no matter what because they have to keep convincing you And keep convincing you keep convincing you and they like that because it's work And most successful men they like to work for things Broke men like things handed to them. Okay, so if your man is not If your man walks away if you challenge them They're a poverty mind and they don't want to work for anything and they have low drive and they give up easily Okay, so that's how you can separate the two If a man wants you he will work hard To get what he wants and he will not give up. Okay Even if you really don't want you especially if you have money He's not used to the words. No, so guess what he's gonna do what it takes and you and you're gonna leave with something in your hand Still Yes, you finally caught a lot of videos Read some of these Okay, so Yep, let's just try to be better if you see a broke man. Look ladies, this is your challenge. Okay I'm giving y'all the job when you see a broke man and making stupid comments on facebook link him A video to like one of those napoleon hill audio books on uh, youtube that's free like thinking grow rich the seven Laws to success, you know outweeding the devil Link him into a book that's gonna help him. You know, stop being a pick-me-chick Stop downing him. Just link him a book. Okay. He might read it. You never know. Okay, link up a book That's the best thing you can do Is give somebody what they need Okay, if he's saying something stupid if he's on you know talking bad about people and stuff like that Just link him the book and say this is how you can level up, you know Or I think you should read this you might like it, you know, just give them what they need because no one else is They don't seek it You might as well just link it to them. They might click on it and say, this sounds good, you know, let me hear I'm gonna give it two minutes Did you ever want to know how those billionaires became billionaires and they started off Forced what this sounds good, you know, they might start listening to it Well, I have these cues to success if you do then you are guaranteed To become successful. They hear those words. They hooked They hooked because people are naturally attracted to success Naturally, okay They're gonna keep listening and you know They just put their headphones on nobody know what they're listening to They don't have to be embarrassed around their homeboys or whatever, you know, they'll sit there and listen to it And you might help them level up So The good the good ones are by napoleon hill y'all need to Check him out on And he wrote books from the 30s and then the um the messages were beyond his time like seriously Anyway, yeah, I mean Six figures is good, you know, you if that's you know, because like I said some states Some women, you know, as long as he can provide for your lifestyle and you're comfortable It doesn't matter the amount of money he makes can he provide for you and give you what you want If that's a yes, then that's a great salary, you know Um, somebody asked me well, it doesn't matter if they make six figures or seven figures or what if they can pay for everything It don't matter If they're gonna give you what you want, it doesn't matter You know unless you want more than they can give you then you need to aim higher What is the age limit to go dig? I always say date 20 years older than yourself if you want to go dig So are you 40 and go for 60 year olds? Um, I don't know. Okay. Do you like kevin true? True. True. True. I don't know I mean, I've probably seen him before but I don't recognize the name So I I don't know if I like them or not Someone says to tell salomon jones That even in the bible salomon was a fool This is somebody told me to say, okay That was just the message I related Better a simp to take care of his family than a macho dude only care about himself That's true, you know, um You know, even jz made songs about that, you know, you know, it's called the family feud Nobody wins when the family feuds Okay, y'all need to listen to that So, you know, men are laughing at this. I think it's a joke. Oh, you know, that's because y'all are the joke We're laughing at you Okay, we laughing at you how mediocre you are how low ambition You are how you don't want to thrive to the next level how you're not Wanting to be better You know How you don't care How you think everything is against you how you make excuses for everything I wouldn't be laughing if I were you I would be trying to do something to fix it because it's kind of like You know it's not really funny but You know, you can't come in here insulting people when you're the one down here Are you going to insult somebody when you was nice them? That's that's my question Any advice on building a bigger following on youtube get a little make helps Um make videos all the time get interesting topics Go on every social media and share your videos Be controversial and don't care what people think and troll trolls back And just keep going because And don't give up and don't talk And make people fall asleep, you know Interesting interesting, uh, don't come on looking blah You know, you got to change it up every once in a while people get tired of seeing the same old thing, you know Be creative Talk to your Subscribers and the comments. Yeah, that's the one thing guys do they always talk about their x Why are you not with her no more if she was all this and that did she finally wake up? My x taking me to dinner she wants to be back. Okay Well good for her Maybe she need a babysitter Yeah, if you're taking your man to dinner and paying for it because you want him back because this is that then You know You're a pygmy chick And nobody else wanted you so that's why you got to go back and you'll pass and get your x and pay him To come to dinner with you because don't nobody else want you because you don't love yourself. Okay Okay, Solomon's ex you don't love yourself You got to pay for a grown man to go to dinner so you can Want him back. He might not even take you back because he can't afford you. But guess what? Oh, he don't have to because you don't pay out the bills because you gonna work 50 hours a week like a grown man Take care kids and do all that stuff. Uh, you don't do nothing for you So I hope y'all have a nice dinner. I hope you let him order whatever he won't and dessert And I hope y'all have a good time because You're just keeping him at the level that he's at you're not doing him any anything beneficial All you're doing is being his mama Okay I I bet you 10 100 thousand million dollars that he would never link her this channel Oh Never Someone is someone messaging me They want nothing um So men up up on here talking about their exes and paying for dinner and stuff like that Great, you found a pick me. Congratulations There's a bottom of the barrel That's nothing to brag about I would be embarrassed to tell somebody that Especially if I was a man if a woman was paying for my dinner Okay, we already know what she looked like if she paying for your dinner Okay When a man says he doesn't give you money until he's in a relationship Is that a bs answer? What should be a comeback that well? I don't give you sex until we in a relationship. How about that? Well, I'm not giving sex until I'm in a relationship after you give me the money. Okay That should be your response Why am I hating I'm not hating I say I hope you have fun With your pick me chick Who you didn't even pick because you're still your ex she's begging you to come back trying to pay for your food Okay, that means she's lower than you Mm-hmm. I wouldn't want that scrub. Yes. No, I can imagine how much she loves herself and how she looks she probably busted and Super low self-esteem that she's doing all of that because I don't know any grown woman who's gonna take some dude grown man out pay for him beg him to come back Okay, I don't know any grown especially when he's broke. Okay. Who who does that? Sorry son, but you know, it's not I wouldn't even said that you should even said that you should just You should lie and say you taking your ex-girlfriend out because you want her back That would have sounded a little bit better. You know, it would have sounded like at least you knew You know that you made a mistake and that you have enough money to take somebody out You know, that would have sounded a little bit better Now you over here talking about my ex want me back. She's gonna take me out to eat So first of all, we know your ex ugly. We know she has low self-esteem and we know she's a pick-me-chick We know you bum and you can't afford to take her out to eat So she has to offer it to you because you know because she wants you back And if she says let's go to dinner she you gonna say you broke and she don't have to pay for it So she just offered it up straight up so you can come meet her at dinner She's probably getting ready to serve you with some child support or something, you know, it's a trick Hopefully it's a trick. If not, then she's not that smart But still at least She offered the dinner because she knows you can't afford it. Okay That's what I hear when you say, oh, my ex was taking me to dinner because she wants me back She offered you dinner because you know, she you ain't got the money. Okay That's why she's I'm gonna pay for you because first of all if you ask someone to dinner And money is an option or an issue you're gonna say, okay Let's go to dinner. I'll pay because she already knows you finna say no because you broke so she had to say I'll pay Okay, which means I know you broke but I'm desperate So you just told a whole your whole story. I'm broke my ex-girlfriend ugly She's a pick-me. She want to eat go out to eat with me and see me again She know I'm broke so she offered to pay. That's all you had to say Uh, I wish I was a simp. I wish I could do the things that your husband does for you But since I can't I gotta take exes who I'm not even interested in Dinner invitations to feel good about myself and you know, at least I don't have to pay That's what you're doing I'm roasting you. I'm so sorry. Actually I'm more upset at the woman Unless she has a sneaky plan that's getting ready to happen. I'm upset with her I'm not upset with you because that's normal for you You know, but I'm upset with her for having such low standards and low self-esteem and no self-love Somebody need to go find his ex and give her some help Okay, so how do you ask a man out to dinner and get him to pay? You don't ask a man out to dinner They ask you out. Okay. If you got to ask a man out to dinner You know, he need to have a large amount of money for you to take that risk On being that forward, you know, you gotta be a millionaire if you suggest dinner in a nonchalant way because you don't just come out and ask You know, you have to trick him into asking you. It's like, oh, have you ever been To this restaurant before I heard it was good. I've never eaten there before And he'll be like, oh, yeah, I've eaten there many times. They have great such-and-such Oh, really? Well, I need to go, you know, maybe, you know, I would love to go I wouldn't know what to order. Oh, well, I'll take you some time. Okay. That's how you do it someone says I know this is a troll but if you if you found a rich man, but he needs you to eat his a-hole out on a daily You doing it? You see, that's the funny thing because If you're if you're a smart woman, you won't have to do it Okay why because if he's rich and He's gonna have to pay you a lot of money To do that on a daily basis, you know what I'm saying a lot like he's gonna have to marry you He's gonna have to not have a prenup and all that stuff unless you are so desperate and live it in a foreign country Where you know, you're in third or world poverty conditions and that's better than what you're doing now Okay, because most women will just have three men and pay all their bills and just be done with it and not have sex with any of them Okay, so no, they probably wouldn't do that if they're smart But good try to When the chick comes Went out to eat. How should a woman Ask for him to pay you shouldn't even have to ask. You just need to slide it on over. Here you go Okay, you don't ask you tell Here you go. This is for you That's all you got to do if you slide it back Then get up and go to the bathroom and leave Bye you asked me out. There you go Yeah, if this is not no, we don't go Dutch. Okay If you know your self-value, you don't go Dutch Okay, no check come you slide it right on over if the boy just puts it in the middle you slide it on over There you go. Don't look at it. Don't peep at it like he's gonna pay for it either. Just like, oh here you go You know, see what he does if you slide it back look at him crazy It's like really? Oh, I liked you too. Oh, I have to go to the bathroom Bye, okay Yep Let's see Some someone said usually the waiter hands the man the check but nowadays they're putting it in the middle Because there's so many picnic chicks That's paying for these men, but they just put it in the middle because then the woman finds it offensive You know, I was eating at um haibachi, you know, where they cook in front of you, you know, Japanese food and I watched This lady pay for this man's food and he didn't even eat it $60 per plate He sat there and played with the food and when the check came he tried to grab it and then she took it from Oh, no, let me do it. I was like girl You stupid It's my husband cool with my videos Of course he talks about broke men too all the time. He's like man I'm so tired every time I go somewhere all these broke men walking around You know asking these women to buy them drinks. I'm like, oh, you know Man up blah blah blah blah. I'm tired of sick. You know, I'm sick and tired of seeing these guys walking around You know, like they're women I'm tired of it. Like that's what he says. I said, there's no real men, you know, these these women out here You know, I'm trying to go for older guys. Uh, you know, these women out here just discuss it with these guys You know, and he sees it his friend owns a bar He says man, these guys out here are just, you know, pathetic That's what he says So he he's very cool with these videos because it's going to help women Not fall into the trap of being with someone that can't take care of them He we have daughters. He doesn't want them growing up To take care of a grown man. Okay So, of course, he's cool with my videos. Why wouldn't he be? He set me up Why wouldn't he want other women set up? Okay, is it a good idea to live with your boyfriend if he's paying all the bills? Yes, it is if you if he asking you for rent. No, he's just a roommate at that point Don't live with him if you have to pay any bills Because it's just called in-house sex. Okay, and You're gonna start going out on this date. He's gonna stop treating you as special He's gonna have his hand out at rent time. You're gonna stop respecting him You're gonna get turned off by him. You're gonna start looking to upgrade on him And then that's how it's gonna happen. So you don't live with the man unless they're paying every bill In the house You know what I'm saying? Yeah, if you can still if you still pay your car note and your insurance great, whatever But if they're not paying for that shelter Then no, you don't live with them Thank you a little mic Has my husband ever cheated on me Well, I don't think he has but if he has oh well, I don't care. I didn't marry him, uh for Certain reasons, you know, I married him for What he could do for me our children and my lifestyle So even if he did cheat, I wouldn't care because I can go out and cheat too. You know what I'm saying So it wouldn't bother me. It wouldn't be a deal breaker. Well, you know what? I don't think he would cheat because He's older and if he did cheat it would be with somebody A lot less than me and then also He couldn't afford to cheat. You know what I'm saying? Because I got all the money so So if he's cheating he's gonna cheat with a ratchet who you know, um McDonald's is impressive too And that just saves me the issues and the trouble and you know all that but He come home every night and he's asleep by 8 30 y'all so If he cheating he cheating at lunch I made I set myself up very strategically. I'm married an older man Okay, I'm very young compared to him. So Who's he gonna cheat with a 50 year old lady? You know All the money all his money is tied up in investments and us and houses and cars and stuff like that He can't afford to go out and cheat Okay And we've been together a long time if he got caught I get alimony And we don't have no perina And I got two kids So if he cheated it would actually benefit me and I'm still young enough to go get remarried and still look good on my Wednesday So he would never he would never do that if He had that much to lose and he wouldn't arrest that you know because first of all He's older. He already know That when you do this These bad things happen. So he's not dumb enough to go cheat and if he wanted to cheat and he did and I didn't find out I don't care What do you say about these guys that pick the ratchet struggle Biatch with kids over the childless educated classy girl. He cannot impress you. That's why he can't impress you And you will expect too much out of him. The other girl is lucky to have a man. Okay So She's gonna treat him better because she's afraid to lose him You're gonna want him to do better because you want him to be better And he's not trying to do all of that. Okay, so that's why he will choose her Because she has a low standards and he don't have to do as much And instead of choosing you because you're gonna expect he's your he knows you're gonna grow and get to the next level And he's gonna stay stuck and look like the loser standing next to you. So that's why he ain't gonna do that Y'all got to go in a few minutes People are asking the questions. Um How often do we text a guy first? Like I said, only if they're super rich do you text a guy first? Okay, if they just normal average, whatever you let them text you first Okay Or you text them by accident just like Um, you know Like you meant to send it to someone else. That's don't send it to them directly. Hi, we met the other day You know, don't do all that. I sent an accidental text Or And if they're super rich say, you know, nice to meet you the other day Don't put your name. Don't say who you are. They're gonna text back to figure out who you are. Okay Don't tell them too much. Remain a mystery. You know, nice to meet you the other day You're like, who they ain't who got me? Who is this? Oh, you don't remember me, do you? You know now you can start the seduction Okay, there you go If he doesn't text back, do you text again? No That's called being desperate. You don't text again. You just move on to the next Because this is the problem with a lot of women. They're too desperate. You got to be able to let them go quick You have to have a replacement waiting in line This is where a lot of you guys mess up a lot of you women mess up Y'all get one person and when that don't work out, you try to get them back And you're not focused on what you should be doing, which is getting someone better Okay, first of all, if you're dating and you're not in a serious relationship, you should have about three guys You don't have to sleep with them But you need to have three guys that will be able to take you to dinner take you out Or do whatever you need them to do when one doesn't text you got the other one If this one don't text you still got this one somebody gonna answer Okay, don't spend all your time on one guy Texting them like a crazy fool. Okay get three men and you will be fine. I promise you you will have a different Date for every night of the week. Okay? Um that you go out don't go out too much. You know three days a week. That's good. We got three guys You set and now if you the one that gives you the best treatment Spends the most and likes you the most is the one you keep You can toss the other ones or keep them in your back pocket From what you need to go out when the other one is busy. You need this you need that, you know what I'm saying Don't get caught up on one guy have three Okay, three three is the magic number Someone says oh Solomon says starting one on one. No It's just called You know how in business how they say you have to have more than one stream of income to be successful It's the same with dating you got to have more than one one type of man That you're dating in order to find the best one for you You don't just date one person at a time if you're not in a serious relationship You need to be dating other people they don't have to know about it But you need to keep those options open somebody is going to be successful You know you just dating one at a time and one at a time and one at a time you're not getting anywhere Date three at a time. You're not hung up on one. You don't drive one away because you're too needy You guys you got you got all these different guys to spread your time in between You're not needy. You're not trying to text them all the time because you got three minutes of text So it's not going to be like oh, you know, you're not sitting by the phone because somebody gonna text somebody gonna call And so your attention is spread out And the one that likes you the most is the one that's going to stand out to you You know you get to compare them to the other ones And it's just like business, you know You're going to have your regular nine to five your side hustle and the business that you're trying to start on the side Which everyone starts making you more money. It's the one you're going to put your attention to Okay, the most that's what you do think business. Okay You will never lose they can call it whatever they want, but it's uh a highly successful way of dating okay You don't want to be like Solomon's ex-girlfriend taking him taking your ex out to dinner because you You know you drive everybody away because you text too much Okay, let's see Let's see. I'm trying to figure out what y'all are saying Yeah Some someone says damn. I'm savage Who hurt me? Nobody hurt me I'm married. I got kids, you know, but The women that I talked to on a daily basis keep falling for the same ogee-doke and getting the same The same Story, you know So I'm helping them. I'm good, you know, nobody hurt me. I just see through the BS Because I have somebody to compare it to I have a real man to compare y'all's butt BS too, you know what I'm saying So it's kind of like those diamonds that you could buy at Walmart versus a real diamond. You can see the BS And you mad You're like, dang You know, you deserve a real diamond. You don't deserve this. This is plastic That's all I'm doing. I'm like, you know If you're going to give your all to a man, at least you can have a real man You're not giving your all to some You know Someone who can't do nothing for you So that's why I do what I do. It's not me. I don't care. I'm good. I'm taking care of I'm set for life Okay, these other women need to get set for life and y'all need to upgrade yourselves So you can set women up for life and you can set your children up for life and you can set yourself up You know, you don't have to go around to everybody inbox Seeing who won't you who's a pick me who'll settle for your call center check You know what I'm saying You ain't got to do all of that You can pick the one you want and then go live your life You going out tonight? No, actually, I'm not going out tonight. Why would I go out? I'm married. I have kids I'll take my kids somewhere after school, but I'm coming right back home because guess what? I have consultations. I got to tell these women how to get this money Uh, what not to fall for you know I have I've already been out. I'm I'm old, you know, I've been out I've been to clubs I've been to bars All the nice restaurants vacation You know, I if I want to go out I can go out tomorrow But right now I have responsibilities, you know, those things that y'all don't know nothing about So yep Um, and look, you know if I go out y'all, you know, I'm getting approached I ain't got to spend no money, you know But luckily I have my own money and I go out with my husband most of the time So I got to worry about all of that And he pays like I don't have to pay for nothing. He'll pay, you know How long did my husband wait till you gave it up? Oh, he had to spend a lot of money He had to spend a lot of money before he got to that Um I would say about two weeks of straight dating going to the nicest places and all that kind of stuff he Oh, and he agreed to pay all my bills before I gave it up and he told me I didn't have to work no more And we were in a relationship. So We were in a relationship didn't have to work no more and he's paying all my bills That's when I gave it up when he started investing in me Okay, because I'm not finna give it up. So you can invest in me. You need to invest in me first Then you can get it. That's how women are supposed to do, you know so He must have spent at least You know two weeks worth of straight dating seeing each other every other day And that I'm not short amount of time I got him to pay all my bills Tell me I didn't have to work no more and agree to be in a relationship World record, huh? Okay, so that's what I did and He couldn't get it any other way That was it. That's that's the only option you got pay my bills be in a relationship And I ain't working no more. You want this? Agree or not? I can move on Is it wise to move in with a man with money or just have him pay your bills? um Well, it just depends on the relationship If you if he does whatever you say Yeah, you can move in if he's like Well, I'll pay all your bills. I'll give you money blah blah blah blah blah Get that for a while get him used to giving you okay get him used to it Then if he wants you to move in later Then you can move in you know what I'm saying because he'll first of all he'll be less controlling because he's used to giving It's normal now. It's expected now. You know If you move in first and he ain't giving you nothing. Oh, I'm paying the bills. That's good enough No, get him in the habit of giving you everything separately Then you can move in you know what I'm saying He does whatever I say and says I don't have to work. He has taken me on two trips in four months of dating Okay. Well, okay. This is what you need to do. You need to get a um At least $3,000 in your bank account before you move in with him because if you gotta go you got money Okay So tell him like well, I would move in with you But I need to feel secure enough that if I have to leave or if I want to leave I'm not gonna be stuck So I'm gonna need like $3,000 in my savings account as emergency money in case this doesn't work out Because I'm gonna be giving up my place Da da da da blah blah blah blah if you really want me to move in I need you to put this money in my savings That way if it don't work out you can just go get you an apartment and just keep keep it moving You know what I'm saying? So make him give you the money 3,000 is enough to move and get you an apartment. Okay Um, unless you ask for more, you know, it's up to you 3,000 is the The least that you will accept If you are dating multiple men And they ask if you are sleeping with anyone else. What is your good response? No, baby. I'm not sleeping with anyone Okay, that's your response because What Like Why is it their business? You have do they have a ring on your finger? No, it's not their business Oh, who cares you can lie to them like they lie to you So the best response is oh, no, why would I be doing that? I'm dating you I'm really into you. You know, I really like you You're special You know the same stuff they tell you just tell them it back When am I gonna come out with a book when somebody come and write it for me? Someone says $3,000 you can't do nothing with $3,000. Yes, you can you can go put on a down payment to something a new car a house A rental property an apartment That's that's good enough. You know if you want to save more while you're in the relationship That's totally up to you. But that's what you need Him to put in your account At the bare minimum, okay, y'all are acting like, you know, I just said two dollars Huh, okay so Show us a pic of you and your prime your advice may work for gorgeous women, but These basics don't really have a chance. You know what? Any woman can be beautiful. There's enough makeup Lashes and wigs to go around. Okay Anyone can be beautiful. I've seen magic on youtube. So it doesn't matter what I look like, you know It matters on your confidence your mental skills and What you can do to what what you got. Okay, none of that matters. Okay. I know I know people who are very Confident in themselves and have a rich man and are not What people would consider gorgeous. So there's nothing to do with it. Men go by looks. Yes Yes, they do But a woman can make herself look good With some tools, okay So and men have different tastes, you know, not all men have the same taste Especially rich men, you know rich men The other like beautiful women. Yeah, they like this. Yeah, they like that But their taste is not generic Like most broke men are you know what I mean? They've been around the world. They've seen things. They see beauty in different Forms, you know what I mean? They're not conditioned To what beauty is like a lot of these guys are so does that matter what I look like in my prime Okay, it matters on what these women How they love themselves how they take care of themselves and how they put themselves first And how men make how they make men respect them, you know what I'm saying? Because I know beautiful women who are pygmy chicks You know, I know beautiful women who let men walk over them like doormats I know ugly women Who run men and get money in their hands daily? So it doesn't matter what you look like it matters what you're dealing with How you take care of yourself if you put yourself first, bro I wouldn't I wouldn't really care about what I look like in my prime I look like this but younger. How about that? Okay, Solomon Jones. I got nothing but dimes real talk scallywags asking you for help Oh, I'm sure you got dimes on your your uh You know what I don't I don't believe you. I think you got nickels I think you got a bunch of nickels and you adding them up to be dimes Because you know ain't no dime paying for no real man Okay, you got some nickels You putting them together trying to make dimes that ain't gonna work Solomon said he got dime like dimes Make a video on how to be a real man First of all, you have a career versus a job Step one or you on your own business Step two, you don't waste time on video games or youtube trolling Step three You pay for the woman all the time Because you're a gentleman and you're And you like respect Okay These are your tips You are well read and you understand Many things beyond What you learned In high school and college You take care of your children You stay with their mother You marry their mother You stay faithful to their mother That's how you become a real man. Okay Um It's not too late Mm-hmm. He said he's gonna email me the pictures You know what? You know how many people I've had asked me for my picture for no reason I know you emailing them somebody picture from from facebook. Oh, this is my girlfriend. Yeah That's what they do with me. I'm probably 18 people's girlfriends. Okay, and I don't even know about it So I don't believe that let me show me a picture with you and her together and Then I believe you and remember a dime to you might be a nickel to me I'm just fine God this dude in here talking about the bible You know what young you need to go to church if you all if you all talking about the bible. This is not a bible study deer Mm-hmm He over here preaching You think we're not we're not tired. We're not giving no offering. So get up out of here I got the mic. This is my pulpit Y'all crazy Who over here disrespecting people hold on Does your salary matter with a rich man? No, why would he care what you make? If you make a lot of money, okay Let me tell you if you make a lot of money and he feels like you don't need him Then yeah, it matters. You got a lot so you don't make a lot of money And I said this on every video And I got a consultation in like 15 minutes That's my I'm just trying to find a platonic sugar daddy Oh Um Get an old one then most of those will be platonic for a long time and then when they run out of patience Then you can just drop them and get another one Or I have to Get one with a heart problem because he won't be able to take viagra. Okay Do you think you could seduce jesus if you want it to lol Girl jesus is not my type. Okay He ain't got no money. Okay. Okay, let's see. Mm-hmm. Okay. Let's see gold digger, of course What else would I be digging for a boogers? Somebody call me a bro a gold digger You got that right See all the broke guys coming out It's 214 Hmm, y'all just got off y'all overnight shift or seven to two shifts seven to two shift Y'all just got out the warehouse Okay Yeah, gold digger is a compliment now someone says You calling me a gold digger that just means I have high standards and I don't take no broken dudes, you know You know, why would I sit up here and be with a broke guy when I don't have to? That's a choice and an option these days Solomon you did not get to me, please You know if you you know what the only way you could get to me and make me feel bad about myself Is if you bought the land that I lived on and Sold it And sold my ounce Okay, that's the only way you can get to me and I know you'll never be able to do that So I ain't worried Gold diggers are setting themselves up for death So I broke me Because when it's time to go to the hospital or to the doctor and uh, you ain't got no money Me they're gonna let you die and get your organs Okay So yeah What does it mean when a man you date? Caused you high maintenance. I know it's supposed to be insulting, but I take it as a compliment It just means you're making me work hard You're making me work hard, you know, and this is what you respond Well, you know, it's not high maintenance to me. This is the norm, you know This is what I'm used to But this is high maintenance to you. Perhaps you're dating out of your league Okay, maybe you need to downgrade Because this is just what the norm and this is normal to me, you know, okay That's what I say, you know, oh, you're so complicated. Oh, you're so hot name as well You just leveled up then because you know Get used to it or go back down there It's your choice Just take it and twist it. You know, yeah, I'm high maintenance. Would you expect me to be low maintenance? You want to low made this chick go get one? Okay Okay, if y'all ask me about a narcissist one more time But pay all the bills I keep telling y'all If you're dealing with the narcissist you become a narcissist with them Okay, it's just like the trolls when they troll me. I troll them right back and they can't keep up. Okay. That's what you do You don't take it you give it if they can't take it then Do it in a sarcastic way, you know They're narcissistic and everything is about them be sarcastic about it. You know, like, yes Do you need anything else? Okay. Yes. Everything is about you. I'm here to serve you, you know, do it like that Do you want anything else? Can we talk about you some more? Okay, I just want you to be happy. Okay be real facetious with it You know, they might laugh laugh it off Or you become the same way, you know, when they start talking about themselves cut them off and start talking about yourself That's what I would do and If you're too sensitive, then this, you know, if you're too sensitive, you can't date somebody like that You know, you have to be strong You got to be strong and be able to flip it What am I going to do about the declining marriage rates? I'm going to be happy because they these women aren't marrying losers, you know, they get to keep all their money They don't have to marry some dude and let them lay on their couch. Just to say they marry You know, who wants to marry a loser? I would rather stay single than marry Somebody that's not going to level up. You know, so I would rather be single But dating rich guys been married to some broke dude who is going to be a liability laying on my couch Okay, so I don't care about the marriage rates As long as you don't have no kids by no broke dude that you're not married to I don't care, you know I'm not going to marry somebody who can't pay all the bills. Okay, so if I if I'm a single woman I'm already married But if I was a single woman, I would not marry somebody that can't pay every bill And I wouldn't care about being married as long as I'm getting all my bills paid by random rich dude You know, whatever that I'm dating Who cares when I finally want to settle down and get married when I'm older And this guy been divorced eight times and growing all his kids growing. Maybe we want to you know, live together and Get married for you know Tax reasons then maybe yeah, but I'm not trying to rush to the altar if I'm a single woman Because I'm supposed to be married to somebody because Marriage rates are low. No, you don't have to prove yourself to me marriage is a gift to the man from the woman Okay, you ain't getting no free sex over here. You don't have to come with it Okay, I can be single and still date. Okay, I can be single and still have a man in my bed every night Okay, I just don't have to have him laying on my couch during the day talking about We ride or die. We supposed to stick together is the better or the worse. No, I can kick them out by Okay, so now I don't care about the marriage rates. I care about the rates in which men Are excelling in career And money Okay, when y'all get y'all selves up the marriage rates will go back up. Okay. It's not about us. It's about y'all Y'all are unfit to marry Okay, we got multiple degrees Make more money than y'all most of us and the ones that don't you can't do nothing for us. So why do we need you? I don't know. So marriage rates go marriage rates are going out is y'all's fault. No, that's not we the ones saying no We the ones that say no, we don't want to marry you. No, thanks come better We don't want a liability You can't pay all these bills. You can't afford this marriage So, you know, a lot of women are just being single and dating A lot of men can't get married because don't nobody want to marry you. You got Five kids five child supports five babies. Why would we want to marry you? You know We don't need you You need us Yeah Only reason I would marry somebody is if they had money, okay I'm not married. Nobody's broker than me. You got money. We can get married But I'm already married so But if I were single that would be a prerequisite to marriage. You gotta have some money A career, okay, I'm not marrying you just because you're cute and gonna make pretty babies. Okay, no Do you watch divorce court with no, I don't watch this stuff. I'm too busy making videos Doing consultations reading, you know, I'm leveling up. I'm trying to teach men how to do Trying to teach men and women how to do this um But I have seen some divorce court shows And they're pretty funny because most of the time It's it's just pathetic and I don't even bother anymore Someone says I don't trust men if they say they need me I wouldn't either because they shouldn't need you. Oh my god. I gotta go in like five minutes So if y'all have any last questions, you better ask them now because I'm getting ready to go Some some guys talking about oh, you know, you haven't been with the right man Women don't care nothing about your sexual performance. Okay, because when you finish in about two minutes three minutes And if you can go a long time great When you finished can you buy us breakfast? Can you buy us lunch? Can you take us to dinner? Can you pay some bills? Okay, we don't care about that. They make machines. They make toys We don't care how good you are in bed because it doesn't matter women are not like that about sex And if they are they're pick me's Okay, because we already know the power in it And it's not men don't have the power women have the power when it comes to sex, you know what I mean So for us That's a gift to you not a gift to us. Okay Yes, we can enjoy it But we are in control of it So And you sitting over here trying to brag about how good you are in bed I want to see how good you are You know and finances First because that's what turns a lot of women on power money Not how good and how long you can go and then get up and go lay on the couch and play video games. Okay I don't care about that Most women don't like anybody can anybody can do what you do, you know Teenage a teenager an old man a grown man, you know, anybody can have sex Anybody can do that. That's just normal. That's human nature. Anybody can do that Can you do can you do can you provide for the woman that you're trying to sleep with? Can you provide for the woman that you probably impregnate can you provide for that child after you impregnate her? Can you do all that because that's what's impressive, you know Having sex and sticking your penis inside of a vagina. It's not impressive. Okay. Can you take care of what comes out of the vagina? Okay, can you take the woman attack? Can you take care of the woman attached to the vagina because that's how y'all see women So can you do all that? That's impressive. Nobody care about your sex Okay, how do I show a man that I appreciate him when he spoils me? Tell him thank you get extra excited like a child give him a big hug at a kiss uh Pressure boobs against him and whispering your whispering his ear I think I'm turned on then he's gonna buy you some old gifts Okay Men see the problem with men and women women think men are emotional Like they think men care about feelings and hurting and if you are always there for them And if you're a good woman to them and if you love them They don't care about that ladies and men think women like sex and love sex and it's addicted to sex like they are But they're not so that's what y'all need to understand Men don't care about your feelings and women don't care about sex as much as men Okay, so women stop being upset because he doesn't feel what you feel and men stop being upset because You offering sex is not Anything special to us. Okay So unless we're a pick-me-chick and you're way out of our league and we'd be happy to uh lick your toe That's it. Okay Otherwise It's not gonna work out Someone says do a video dealing with emotional men. Men are not emotional. That's called manipulation. Okay Men are more logical They're playing you when they're acting emotional. There's a difference. Okay, they don't care They're acting This is why I say men are not emotional Half of the things that you call emotions are excuses They're attached to excuses Okay, so if your man is emotional and there's an excuse attached to it. It's called manipulation Okay Someone says drop the mic. All right. I'm about to drop the mic in two minutes I'll be like She was seven out Can you do a video about men with mommy issues I wouldn't date a man with mommy issues. It's too much work, you know I'll be like, well, you know I will date you you I'll get what I can out of you and as soon as I can't stand, you know, I'm dumping I'm not your mama Y'all are crazy. I have to get out of this determined mindset that I'm conditioned to yeah You gotta okay Pretend you're me when next time you get around some guys, you know Pretend you're me. Just say what I would say It's like, I'm sorry. I can't date you. You don't make enough money Boop So that man is going to be like, dang I can't even have the type of woman I want because I'm broke Do I go lower or do I go up? Do I go get the do I go improve myself or do I just aim low? What you gonna do, you know, what would you do if there was a man that you liked? And you know, you couldn't get him unless you leveled up as far as looks or, you know Class or standard would you work on that or would you just go get somebody else? Most women are gonna level up and I'm like, dang, I want that type of man. So what do I gotta do? Uh, I gotta improve on my hair my makeup my dress my clothes my speech. I gotta lose about 15 pounds I gotta do this. I gotta do that And they'll go do it And they'll go get that man and then they'll have the life they want A man sees a woman and he knows he gotta level up He's gonna go get something else that he don't have to do another boy. He's gonna be able to take the lazy route And he's gonna be like Let me just go over here, you know, so that's the difference So with that being said Sheera seven out