 So today's video was supposed to be another year video but this old twist style is like so bomb and it's given me so much life that I didn't want to wash my hair and I want to wrap this for a couple more days even though it's old so I decided to try out doing a story time I hope you guys enjoy it by the way thumbs up this video if you want to know what products I use to achieve this style oh my gosh look at this. Can I see the definition? Yes. And my hair is so soft even though it's like five days old. Hey Gems welcome back to my channel so in today's video I'll be doing my first story time telling you guys how I found out I was pregnant I'm gonna jump right into this video because my son is sleeping watching him on this monitor and I want to finish before he wakes up so let's jump right in so I got pregnant November well I found out I was pregnant November of 2017 and just so that you know like this wasn't a oops pregnancy I actually wanted to get pregnant me and my fiancee had several discussions about having a child one day and now we were finally living together no longer in a long-distance relationship and we were both working I was finally working in my field in accounting at what I thought was a good company you know we were living together we're working was like hey why am not you know a dream of mine was I was to be a mother and you know I was 24 at the time and I was like I got my own and we're also you know in the process of purchasing our first home like things are going really well for us so it was like why not I stopped doing everything I was doing back then to prevent pregnancy and left it in the universe hands and so that was early October so now fast forward to November it was actually like a Monday and it was a Monday I remember it like yesterday the week of Thanksgiving the Monday the week of Thanksgiving so Thanksgiving would have been a Thursday this was the Monday it was early in the morning both my fight but me and my fiancee work woke up I was getting ready to work I was getting ready for work he didn't have work that day because he was off on Mondays and we got into a little disagreement I don't even know like for the life of us we cannot remember what was disagreeing about that morning like I have no idea what it was but I'm pretty sure it was something stupid and petty but we were both in the bathroom he was taking a shit yes we are that comfortable with each other he was taking a shit I was rushing my teeth like there's no boundaries with us it's crazy I'm sorry if that's TMI but we were having a disagreement and like I was just been like you know forget it like like keep in mind we were not argue you know we was not yelling at each other we were we literally was having a disagreement about something and I was just like you know forget it like trying to end the conversation and he kept going on about I guess trying to get me to see it his way and I remember all I remember is myself like I was about to start brushing my teeth and I just like I charged at him and I was really small because we lived in a one bedroom apartment at the time and I remember like charging at him like literally about to hit him like I would have hit him if he didn't like dodge my hand I remember charging at him I yell and saying leave it alone done like I yelled after him say enough basically like leave it alone stop I don't want to talk about it no more and he dodged my hand and just watch me like whoa like what just happened and then I burst into tears and proceeded to brush my teeth he didn't say nothing after that like literally nothing like it was just dead silence in the in the house after that and I finished I was I finished up getting ready for work in tears when I got to work I was a little early so I sat in my car in the parking lot and I was just balling my eyes out like crying couldn't believe my actually cuz I'm not I'm not that type of person like it takes a lot to get me to the point where I even argue with you or even want to put my hands on you because I'm just not like I'm not a confrontational person that's just not my character and I guess he was shocked and I was in shock I was just like in the car crying feeling horrible because I almost put my hands on him and I remember taking out my phone and apologizing texting him and apologizing saying you know I'm sorry I should never ever attempt to put my hands on you blah blah blah blah I can't remember if he apologized for whatever was having a disagreement about but anyways that's that's that's what happened that morning so now I'm at work and I'm at my desk in my office I'm having a conversation with my best friends in our group chat we have like a group chat with all five of us on messenger or whatever and like oh week prior to that Monday like every day that week my back my lower back was killing me like even that Monday my back was killing me so I was like telling them in the group chat that yo my lower back has been hurting for seven days straight like I don't know what's going on I looked at my period app and I realized that my period was supposed to come that the following week so I just thought they were like premature period cramps you know although I've never gotten period of cramps that advanced before my period come I hope I'm a consensus or whatever it's usually like three or four days before but that was like a whole two weeks before so I was just like brushing it off saying you know maybe it's cuz my period come in having these lower back pains so one of my best friends was like nah girl you should take a pregnancy test so I was like why would my back hurt because I'm pregnant at the time that just didn't make sense to me but she was like just tick one and see you don't know I was like no man I'm gonna wait to see if my period come and if it doesn't then I'll take a test cuz I didn't want to get my hopes up excuse me excuse me for keep looking down I'm just looking at the monitor because my son he would wake up sit up in the bed and not cry and then proceed to crawl towards the end of the bed so I have to watch it oh yeah so she was like just take up just take a pregnancy test and that way you can rule it out and then you know your back hurting because of your period or whatever so it's like we went back and forth for a while we talked about it for a while I was like I think we ended up all looking up pregnancy symptoms online and stuff I think I looked looked it up as well and then I finally said you know what fine when I go home for my lunch break I'll take a test cuz I had like a bunch of these little cheapy pregnancy tests at home and I was like fine I'll just take a cheapy one based on the results from that I'll actually purchase a good one so I went home on my lunch break me and my fiance was still kind of like at odds so we wasn't really talking talking so I went home I ate I took the test but I didn't want him to know I was sick enough taking the test and my new our apartment was mad small it's just literally the living room kitchen bedroom bathroom being that we had that disagreement that morning I didn't like friends up with him so I went I think I ate my lunch in the bedroom and then right after that because they had a door to go from our bedroom into the bathroom I'll bet our bathroom had two entries so I went straight into the bathroom and took the little cheapy test so I dares to know waiting to see the results when I look at the stick I see the faintest line ever like the line was so faint but it was there like I could see it but it was faint as yes you know so I was like I gotta be seeing things so I remember pin it up in a piece of paper towel and putting it in my bag and when I got back in my car because I had to go back to work I lived like I'll say seven minutes from work tops at the time so when I got in my car to go back to work I took it back out my bag and took a picture of it I said it's posted in my group chat I was like I don't see a line here or is it just me I mind you the picture was probably even the line showing up in the picture was probably even worse because you know camera couldn't pick it up as good as you can see it in person so even my cousin was like yo it's like dear but not dear that type of way like it's the literally the faintest line I was like you know what fuck it I ain't gonna really you know take that test serious I don't wait to take a next one later I went back to work of course like my mind's still on this test you know so it's hard for me to focus on now I was just so happy when five o'clock reach I went home by this time you know me my fiance was more better on speaking terms and I like love you but I took another cheapy test and the line was darker than the first one still light but darker than the first one I saved all of them because I wanted to compare them I was still in the Nile though so I don't know side there in the group chat talking to my friends and I was like yo I think I'm pregnant like for you there was like just go onward and get an actual test so you know for sure actually I lie on my way home from work that Monday I actually went and bought an actual test I got one I think it was a first response digital test I bought a box of three so but before I used any of those I still took another cheapy one I took like four more cheapy ones before I used the the first response digital test every line came up darker and darker and darker and I remember telling my best friends like yo I think I'm pregnant but yeah I was still in the Nile so I was like you know what my fiance is home and I thought I thought all is true now mind you like months ago before we even decided like yo we ready to get pregnant or whatever whatever like months before that I had a dream about how I told him I was pregnant so this is the only reason why I was not like sharing it with him as I was going because I was like if I actually am I want to tell him the way I told him in my dream might sound corny to you guys but yeah that's what happened I was like you know what he's home so the following morning I'm just gonna wake up mad early and take the tests to see if I'm really pregnant so I set my alarm I think for like 5 a.m. we usually wake up like 6 so I set it for like 5 a.m. outside everything's still dark so I sneak out the bed the night before I had done hide the actual pregnancy test under the bathroom sink I like cracked it up and hit it somewhere underneath the bathroom sink so I don't have to make noise that early morning when I want to take the test I even I even hide like plastic cups underneath the sink and out so that morning like 5 a.m. I woke up went in the bathroom using my phone flashlight because I didn't want to turn on the light to you know wake him up by accident or anything I pee in the cup stick the first response thing in the cup and I'm sitting in the I'm sitting on the toilet and my heart is literally beating out of my chest like I was so nervous and anxious a couple minutes later low and behold big and broad on the stick it says pregnant I must lose I almost lost my shits now think about it like this right there are people who not ready to be pregnant and get positive tests and probably feel all crazy inside I wanted to and I still was in denial and anxious and nervous like I was literally shaking so when I see pregnant under I was like wow like I was so shocked so I was like okay I put the cover on the test wrapped it back up and I think I hid it back underneath the bathroom sink and went I crawl back in bed trying to go back to sleep until 6 a.m. it didn't work I literally laid there like just thinking and feeling anxious and I just couldn't I couldn't go back to sleep and all I did was basically planning my mind how I'm gonna tell him so now fast forward this is still Tuesday I went to work you know I told my best friends like yo I'm pregnant for real I sent them a picture of the actual digital tests and I was like I gotta tell him today because this ain't something I could keep from him I first of all I suck I keep in secrets and I suck even worse I keep in secrets from him because we talk about everything all the time so I was like I have to tell him today like today today and that the next day was actually driving to Georgia to my brother house for Thanksgiving so I was like yo he has to know because while we dare he has to be my little cover as to why I'm not drinking and why I feel a certain way or why I'm acting a certain way that afternoon on my lunch break I went and bought these little like it's little little cards you can write on because in my head how I wanted to tell him was well in my dream how I told him was I he was in home and I had a note on the door that says in the shower I have something in the oven please check on it for me so so and then when he gets wait I cannot remember now oh I'm gonna just tell you how to just a bit I cannot remember so anyways I know that was the note on the door but there was several more notes before he got to the actual event so it was like notes leaving him to the kitchen and then he's supposed to open the oven to check on whatever was baking then in the oven I actually had the pregnancy test in a little box with the card that says not in this oven and then he see the pregnancy test pregnant so that's how I told him that Tuesday night how in order for me to set all that up I sent him to the store and told him like I'm craving juice and because usually when my career come in I just want juice I don't drink juice on a regular basis but when my period come in I want juice for some reason so I sent him to the store to get some juice and he went of course so while he was gone I set all that up and I timed him because it was like a public's right next to our apartment complex and I turned the shower on in the bathroom and I just basically hid behind the door with the lights on to act like if I was in the shower and I had my little phone to record him I probably still have footage from it but the footage is horrible because I was so nervous that my hand was shaking so much so I doubt I'll insert it I came out of the bathroom when he got as far as the kitchen because the bathroom was like a cross on the kitchen and I when he opened the oven I was standing behind him with the camera or with my phone and he turned around and was like there was like a huge smile on his face it was like for real and you know he hugged me and kissed me and all that stuff so yeah anyways that is how I found out I was pregnant it started off with a big ass disagreement me almost knocking my fiancé out and a bunch of lower back pains that's how it started yeah I hope you guys enjoyed this little story time if you'd like to see more videos like this give this video a thumbs up don't forget to like comment and subscribe share this video if you want and you guys will see me in my next one peace