 Hello and welcome to this episode of psychic medium Tony G. I'm so excited that you're joining us here today as I give Alisa a reading. I'm going to be doing this reading on air and even though I know Alisa she's a friend and an acquaintance of mine. We've not talked about a lot of things that are going to come up and I know this because as I'm doing the intro all the messages are coming in now for her and they're good so I'm so excited Alisa it's such an honor to have you on again thank you so much. It's great to see you again. I know it's been sense it's been quite some time. Yep about eight months ago we we did this together when I was starting a new career and new journey so this will be exciting. And the journey is unfolding. That's what I'm looking to you for. Yes so in life as we move on many times we we know the journey we know the path we're supposed to be on and as it unfolds we might know it's the right path but we might need some touch-up information just some other things that we have questions about or new information that comes in. So the first thing I want to do is ask you do you have any questions to start off before I start? I don't really because I think it's all going to be kind of the same theme. I check in with you probably every six months or so because I have so many new changes that have happened in the last couple of years that it's kind of uh am I doing the right thing? Where do I go from here on and on? Yeah and it seems like they're always around always around waiting to talk to me so I'd rather hear what you what they're telling you I guess and if we could start off that way that would be easier. Yeah so first of all they are always around they're always trying to get us messages and let us know we are on the right path or we are not on the right path what we can do to make our lives easier what we can do to be healthier and happier also. So that's really important to know and the first thing I want to say when it comes to career with you you are on I want to say that your career right now and your work is multifaceted is the term they're using some parts of it are really amazing and you're doing really well but then other parts you feel like this is just ridiculous is the word that they're using and there should be more accountability is the other word they want to use. Yeah I do feel sassy lately I'm not gonna lie I do feel that way. Yeah well you know what sometimes we have to be very sassy blunt or bold to get the appropriate answers then mishmash oh yeah just go ahead and do that thing doesn't always work. Yeah right now you're amping up for what's coming next so you've been doing okay but I want you to know it's going to start they're using the term downhill slide now typically we would think that like oh you're on a downhill slide it's not like that at all with work you're going like you've been going up and like climbing this high mountain and you finally are there and as it goes down everything's going to build to that. So it'll be a little easier on me. Absolutely it's it's like you're gonna be you climbed all the way to this this peak and now you just get to ride it down sort of thing they're showing me you're going to have a lot of new requests is the term they're using okay a lot of brand new requests coming into you people you've not met people you don't know acquiring or trying to attain your skills and use your resources keep your boundaries clear keep keep very very professional no matter what be very on task with things if you feel like you need to ask first and then do go right ahead and do that that's what other people are there for so the biggest for help more yeah rather than have to redo something ask first and then you know if you can't get that help you won't have to redo things I feel like there are going to be some new ventures coming in for you as far as real estate goes there's going to be some ventures some areas of real estate that you have not worked with before one of them being I see a commercial type of building coming in this commercial type of building I don't know if it's yeah it's it's possible it's a sale that you're gonna take part in a commercial I do have a commercial client oh so yeah you guys are good I'm like oh yeah we had a building now we're moving on to a different building we have to find the the next one awesome so that see that's how it works like there's so spot on sometimes that the timing might be a little bit off but the information is always right on this commercial client is also going to send you other people so stay on task that's a good bit of information because we're a different type of personality my clients and I you know what so at least I know that they like me because I couldn't tell as we're going through it and here's here's what I want to say no matter where you work and what you do I thank goodness everybody isn't like us because we might like us but dealing with me all day long if I had to deal with people with me all day long I'd be nuts by the end of the day I wouldn't want to deal with me either I'd be locking myself in a corner um but I am going to tell you stay professional it's really important that you stay professional and you stay on task don't let personal feelings or opinions about things get in the way okay one of the things I like to say is if it doesn't pertain to the deal don't even think about it don't even go there don't go there and if they do that's fine just go and get back to the deal okay um it doesn't matter what somebody else's personal or professional beliefs or whatever are right you're not there for that you're not going to be invited to birthday parties and well maybe at some point but you're just there to get a good deal done and most of the people that you work with if you find out a lot of their personal information you would find out yeah this isn't somebody I would do cocktails with but who cares you're not supposed to you're supposed to be there to maintain professional behavior and help them get their deals done okay as long as you do that you're going to be just fine so the biggest message coming through right now is maintain that professionalism which you do an amazing job at don't bring personal stuff into it and if it does start to come up just flip that switch right back to professional and keep going it would be really nice if everybody we worked with we could become best friends with but that's why the term acquaintance comes in yeah so that we can be or just a read on once in a while the read on people is very roller coaster-ish yeah and don't even worry about that you know the beautiful thing about your business being in the real estate business you don't need to know about them you just need to know what they want what are you looking for tell me what you're looking for let me help you find that everything else is a non-issue because because it is so moving forward um this commercial person the person with the commercial uh I feel like there's going to be some referrals from that there's definitely going to be some referrals from that just stay on task stay professional get the job done um own anything that like if there's a misprint or anything just own it and move on and they will really respect that they like your tenacity um otherwise they would not continue to work with you but they really like your tenacity they love the fact that you are really willing to work okay you're not afraid to look for answers and get in there and do what needs to be done okay and that's a beautiful thing um you are going to have a lot of residentials coming up some of the people you know but more of them you don't which is beautiful now right around that september time you might feel like it's september don't worry you have plenty of people on the other side assisting you guiding you and getting you there they're going to make sure that even through december and into january you will have plenty of work okay wonderful it's going to kind of just it will ebb and flow a little bit when you need that break even if you don't know you need that break they're going to give you that break now i probably need them to give me that break because i will just work worse look yes yes like i'll i'll say oh my gosh i don't have clients today oh my gosh and i'll hear in my head yeah just sit down and breathe and i'm like no no no no no no like go do something else with your day and then you go guilty inside no i i am totally the person i'm the it person i'm the you know social media so i'm like okay i don't have this i'm going to get on all these they're saying just breathe sit back relax go get a massage if you have time in between take care of yourself too yeah okay nobody will do for us what we don't do for ourselves right i get that believe me yes starting that again good for you so as far as work do you have any questions about anything that i've said so far no i think we've pretty much covered it excellent the next thing that i want to go to well wait okay one of the things that they're stating about work too is don't share too much of your private life at work not that anybody cares or whatever just don't give anybody ammunition and i think you know what they're talking about without saying too much here i do and i don't but i'm sure i'll think it over and figure it out after yeah after today yeah i i can speak more to that later okay we can discuss that a little bit more after the fact just uh when you go in that they're their word for you as far as work goes professional professional all the way professional don't think twice about being even above and beyond on that professional level just so no one can say anything later on down the line sometimes people are trying to decide between two realtors you always want everybody to say she's really professional and if they don't know anything about your private life they can't bring it up i don't know why they're saying that but it's obviously an important point for you i don't either so we'll have to talk about that later absolutely absolutely so as we move into love because i keep hearing now love love love love love love i i don't hear that or see that so this is news to me you've been a little bit stressed out lately lately you've been a little bit um negative i'm going to put it differently i'm going to say you've been a little bit consumed with things that have happened in the past okay and it's time to i'm sorry sweetie i'm so sorry i want to just come over there and give you the biggest hug and hold you right now um what the one thing that they're asking you to do is to look at things as valuable lessons rather than mistakes or why didn't it why didn't this work out why couldn't that work out why why why instead of having all the whys go into the well you know what i learned from this person is this and what i learned i wanted from this person is this and what i learned that i would like to have in my future is this and really just get a little journaling book and they want you to write down what you believe an ideal partner is first they just want you to go through and write down what you believe an ideal partner is what this person does how they show up who they are in your life what their character is and then they want you to analyze why you feel that way yeah yeah fun like i don't analyze myself enough no they don't want you to analyze you they want you to analyze why you want these certain characteristics to make sure they're the right characteristics for you because sometimes we want somebody who is a certain way like i know a lot of women who want a partner that's really nice and kind and then i say to them you would eat him up and spit him out in a week because you're really controlling and you need a man with a lot of testosterone to deal with that and they start laughing they're like yeah i go plus you like bad boys so you wouldn't even like this really nice kind person and they're like you're right now we can fix that and we can alter that and help them get that person at both yes exactly and we can help somebody get from needing a bad boy to just you know wanting somebody healthier in their life but they have to want that too yeah so for you looking at why you want the qualities you want is really important and to associate those qualities and where they sit in you and how you have them or don't have them now will be very helpful for you too because some of the things that we ask for in a partner are things that we are not quite there on yet um so once we have it then they can show up because nobody can fill our voids we have to be full and then that person comes up and they truly are a partner not a filler um and that's really important the next person that comes in try not to fix them as a matter of fact look at your partners like houses instead of getting the fixer up or money pit that just cannot be fixed there's just so much to do here um get that partner that is really the new build somebody who's done the work on themselves somebody who knows who they are somebody who's sure of what they want and where they want I just don't know where to meet that person sometimes once we're there they show up that's what I keep hearing sometimes sometimes I feel like I'm there and then I do my back slide because I get frustrated with feeling like I did a lot of work and then yeah but you know what we're like Picasso's I think we're like we're like the never-ending art or you know I don't I don't know but we're work in progress so we we we are happy for how far we've come because we know we're not the same person we were five or ten years ago even a year ago we've grown we've matured we've learned hopefully but then every once in a while we're going to fall back into that comfort zone something that feels comfortable I compare it to my old shoes that I should have thrown out two winters ago but can't find another pair like them so I just keep them and wear them it's my um do you ever rise them I just really need to let them go but they're comfortable habits are the same way we can fall back into some of those old habits because they're really comfortable the good news is we fall back into them when we're vulnerable so in those moments of vulnerability which I haven't I've been kind of cut and dry for the last six months okay or cut people in general and not hold on not even give second thirds whatever there's absolutely nothing wrong with that not just relation but friendships too yeah and sometimes you know if you're not growing together you're growing apart and if somebody isn't growing and you are you don't have to stay there because every time you're with them you go back to that you know place I describe it like walking into your mom's house you go back to that 16 year old soon as you walk into mom's house you're opening the fridge eating things you don't eat doing things you don't do saying things you said when you were chat it's the same thing with friends certain groups of friends bring us to certain points or we behave certain ways around them if they're not growing with you then it's okay to let go of something and I'm gonna I just want to say you know there's this false belief that every single person we meet we're supposed to just hold on to for the rest of our life but that's not the case some people we meet in and everything is a lesson so some people we're just meeting them to show what we do like what we don't like what we want more of what we want less of and wow I'm really happy for my sanity thank you for showing me how sane I am yeah and moving on not everybody's a keeper not everybody and that's okay I used to keep everyone when I was younger yeah now I'm easier to get rid of people quick so like I think I need to find the gray yeah quality not quantity yeah you want quality people in your life I another way to look at this is the energy that we're around the energy that we the people that were around they have a certain energy and we're going to catch that energy if we're around them so we want to always be around people who are here so we're being pulled up right and then we can move up instead of being if we're here hanging around people down here because they're going to pull us down right so we have to know so if you're letting go of people there's really good reasons for that don't feel badly about it don't look in your rear view just move on as far as love goes and believe it or not they are actually getting to love now we started this like 10 minutes ago the person who the spirits that are talking to you can you visually see some of them what one of them because last time I was here I think we I met my grandpa so I was just curious yeah I do see some of them as we talk about it there's a little elderly woman who's very thin and hunched over with grayish the dark grayish hair so whoever she is and I know she has to be a grandmother or a great grandmother but she's very petite and she's very hunched over and I feel like she's from the old world even the way she's dressed is more old world than it is I feel like she was she may never have been here in America I feel like she may be from just maybe a great grandparent or something yeah just the way she's dressed her demeanor I just want to say she's very old world is the term they keep using with her um but wait let's get back to love it's okay that's a good question that's a great question so as we talk about love I want you to know there is somebody new brand new coming in part of this person coming in is you cutting the ties with all that didn't work sometimes you know I I do the car analogy with this sometimes we say I want a brand new car but we're not willing to get rid of our old beater right like we're terrified to let go of it and then we start saying but what if I get another car and it starts doing the same things my last car did what if it doesn't you know so let go of all the old beaters sorry to talk about people that way but it's their analogy not mine they just weren't my people and that's fine yeah and sometimes we just evolve into different friend groups and partner groups somebody brand new is coming in you've never met this person before at all I can tell you she is very kind and loving she has a very genuine energy about her she's grounded she's very grounded but she is also very etheric which is rare okay brand new person can you expand on that a little bit uh although she's very down to earth but she does I believe she has a very spiritual part to her gotcha that would be so she's realistic but she's also very spiritual yes she's it has a lot of common sense she has a lot of common sense like street smarts nope not like street she's never part yeah you you although street smarts are good you might not want that to be something yeah that's because you earn those streets yeah that's true from the streets I am going to tell you she is going to come in she has the potential to come in within a month sounds exciting she is really remarkable and very different than anyone that you have been acquainted with in the past she's if I had to use she's just put together well she's really put together well and she's you guys are going to have a very healthy relationship she's not afraid to call you on stuff I so need that in a person like that's not this this um don't be afraid to like say what you want in this relationship to don't be scared that they're going to just leave out of the blue right and and don't conform don't conform to become this person be you let this person be her and together you guys will have a great connection and a great relationship now does she have a child and the only reason why I ask is because one of them when our last reading had everything to do with my future person having a child I think it doesn't matter if she doesn't I'm just curious I'm getting a very soft yes on this okay we'll see okay we'll see um I know it could go either way it could be an adoption and sometimes or whatever people have children not full-time and people have pets as children yes yes um I am getting that this is going to be a very good connection it's going to be a very solid connection and I am seeing July 15th that's the day after my birthday well happy that would be a nice birthday treat I'm seeing July 15th being a day that you really need to be aware of everybody around you and out and about I feel like you meet her you might even meet her through a friend so keep that in mind okay now we have about two minutes left can you believe how quickly this goes yeah and do you have a two-minute question a one-minute question actually I do so if you can have them talk about my dad uh oh gosh there is not enough um okay so he is sick yeah and he is not doing well and I believe we touched on this last time they're saying embrace the moments that you have with him be as strong as you possibly can and don't worry about an end date worry more about the time that is still here and available okay just make those moments quality moments don't worry about how much time you're spending there just be having quality time and they're saying spend a lot of time talking about childhood with him okay just spend a lot of time talking about distant memories bring up things from good ones or bad ones good ones okay good talk about things from the distant past not recent memories and fun childhood memories things yeah fun childhood things trips vacations and such that you guys went on and then again after this you and I can elaborate on that a little bit more um and get get a little bit more information on that I would like to thank you for joining us for this episode of create a life you love it has been an honor and a pleasure to be here today with you and with alisa thank you love thank you I hope you have an amazing rest of the day and until next time thanks again