 This really bothers the narcissist. There are many things that bother the narcissist. There are many things that worry, disturb, or upset them. But there is one main thing that I am going to discuss in this video which bothers them more than most things. It's something that really gets under their skin. 5. 2. 5. Beine heaven 5. 6, 7, 8 7, 9 7, 9, 9, 9, 9 10, 11, 11, 1, 2 will do everything they can to try to control it. What really bothers to the narcissist is your freedom, how you have a life outside of them. How you talk to other people who are outside of them people who they do not know people who are not their fly monkeys. The narcissist does not want you to have a life outside of them. They do not want you to have your own Mae nhw'n credu bod'r sweddau o'r rywbeth hwn yn iechyd a'r unig i'r cynghwysedau Mae gennym i ni oherwydd yng nghymru a'r pryd o'r component Mae ei bod ni wedi gweithio i ni eisiau mewn yw'r ysgrifennu? Mae gennym i ei gweithio i ni'ch gweithio i ni'ch gweithio i ni'ch gweithio i ni'ch gweithio i ni'ch gweithio i ni! a mae'n gweithio yw Mightfjord a'r ffynu rhoi'r ystafell, ond ei wneud ei ffordd yn dda ein bod yn y bydd yn teithio yr ysbwysig yn ymwyntio'r cyfnodau yn ffynuol sy'n bwysig mae'n gymhre smoothly fel mae'r newid ymwysig yn ymwysig yw ystafell, a oedd yn dweud i ni fydd yn cyfle llawer o gwbl mor. Oedd yn dweud i ni'n dweud i ni'n dweud i chi'n dweud i chi fod yn ymwysig, ond efo yw skydd amser yr ymwysig yn y bwysig. Penthe Aber answered given that you are a separate person with your own wants and needs, your own likes and interests. This is something that really bothers the narcissist. They don't want you to have your own separate existence that doesn't include them. They want to be joined at the hip. They want you to be inseparable. They want to be so close to you that you are considered one person. And they hate being alone because it forces them to reflect on how they really feel about themselves. They need someone close to them at all times, who they can project their delusional fantasies on to and also their feelings of self-hatred. They need someone to support their delusional fantasies. Someone to validate their false self and the allusion that they are trying to portray. maen nhw i fod yn eisiau roedd y bydd y brifyngau amddangos a chyfnod amddangos, fel ydych chi'n creu bod yn bwysig. Felly, mae'n gweithio, mae'n rhaid i'ch bod yn gallu'r rhaid i'ch gweithio'r cyfan o'r cyflogol yn ymgyrchol, fel ydych chi'n mynd i'ch gweithio'r gweithio, mae'n gweithio'n gweithio'ch gweithio ar y ddod. Onid, mae'n gweithio'n gweithio, felly mae'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio, If you keep having your own wants and needs, your own likes and interests, and that is why the narcissist hates to see you having any sense of freedom, they hate to see you having the power or right to act, speak or think however you choose to because then, they don't feel free. Their idea of freedom is to disown their unwanted parts of themselves, to refuse to acknowledge or maintain any connection with them, and instead project them onto you and force you to identify with them. If you refuse to identify with what they are projecting onto you and you focus on your own individuality, your freedom, they begin to feel trapped, they begin to feel imprisoned or enslaved as though they have lost their freedom. Your freedom, your sense of individuality as a separate, sovereign individual is a serious threat to the existence of the narcissist for self as it makes it very difficult for them to project their negative traits onto you. And that is why your freedom and your sense of individuality really bother them. Your freedom is their confinement. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonated with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos. If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description. Coach and enquires you can email me at nagsforthocochain.com Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.