 Hey survivors and frivers in this video. I'm going to be discussing how and why Narciss are dependent on you Please like comment share and subscribe Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos If you would like to donate my PayPal links in the video description If you're interested in one-on-one coaching you can email me at NarcissFeverCoaching at gmail.com Narciss are dependent on you Narciss may act like they are independent But they are actually dependent on you They require your time and energy They are dependent on your attention validation and admiration of them. They may be dependent on you emotionally physically or financially They cannot attend to themselves or validate themselves They cannot regulate their own emotions They will use you to regulate their emotions I have done a video called Narciss are dependent on your reaction They use your reactions to regulate their emotions and give them a sense of power and control But they cannot do any of this on their own They are heavily dependent on you. This is why when you don't do what they want you to do Or if you don't conform to the way that they have programmed you to be They get angry or become passive aggressive towards you They have to constantly gaslight you and reinforce their programming So that you will see them other people and the world in the way that they do Or in the way that they want you to see it This is for the Narciss security They want to ensure that the supply is free from danger or threat So that it can continue to provide them with everything they need When you do or say something that is not in line with the Narciss programming Or if you have a separate idea or belief to what the Narciss wants you to believe That is a potential danger or threat to their supply You are not supposed to have your own thoughts feelings or beliefs The Narciss expects you to think feel and believe Whatever they program you to think feel and believe It keeps you in a box It makes your actions and behaviors more predictable And then makes it easier for them to control you For them to control you your world must revolve around them They need to be able to control you because they are heavily dependent on you Some Narciss may be financially independent The reason why they were able to achieve this level of success Is because they are self-absorbed and lack empathy They take the time that should be spent on caring for the people around them And use it for their own benefit They also do not mind stepping on people if it helps them to succeed Narciss are dependent on you and they want you to be dependent on them They want you to be dependent on them so that no outside sources could influence you Or take the Narciss time when they need you If you start interacting with other people Or seeking something from another person That person could influence you and counteract the Narciss programming If you are interacting with people outside of the Narciss world They could influence you to see the Narciss in a completely different way You might start to realize that you deserve so much better Or you do not deserve to be treated that way by the Narciss You might realize that you are being abused Or you are the victim of mind control Narciss are also deeply envious of any human interaction or stimulation you might receive from outside sources As they are envious of your happiness and contentment And jealous of anyone who you may potentially come into contact with They are jealous because they feel as though someone is taking away their supply They feel as though their pet is escaping You are their source of supply Your job is to regulate their self-esteem and their emotions You are not supposed to be going out and having your own friends or your own interests Your life is meant to revolve around the Narciss So that you can provide them with whatever they need in that moment In the Narciss mind you shouldn't need anyone else You should be dependent on them Even though they don't bring anything to the table to nourish or replenish you They have this exaggerated sense of value or importance And they will highly exaggerate the value of the item or favor given to you They have this grandiose mentality as though if they give something to you Or do something for you It automatically has more value than if someone else were to do that Whatever they want you to be dependent on them for You will only receive the bare minimum of that Or it will just be an illusion They will often future fake and make you believe that one day they will reward you for your efforts But you will never see the fruits of your labor They want you to be dependent on them But not for any reason that is beneficial for you It's just to keep you around so they can get whatever they need from you A Narciss will not even take the time out of their day for someone Unless they believe that they can get something out of it when a Narciss is dependent on you They will ensure that they always get what they want But when they make you dependent on them You will never get what you want Even though they have made you dependent on them for that You will always be more of a benefit to them than they are to you You won't get what you want from the Narciss because they don't like to give They prefer to take and when they give they feel jealous of the person they are given to As though that person is taking something from them They are also envious of the happiness and contentment That person will experience from whatever they are giving them This is why you will notice that a Narciss might give something or do something for you And then immediately say or do something to ruin it It's because they were envious of the happiness and contentment You were experiencing from whatever they gave or did for you Another reason why Narciss don't like to give Is because if they did give you what you want You would realize that it's not that great anyway You would realize that the Narciss is not this amazing person They made themselves out to be but if they continue to withhold from you It keeps the fantasy going It keeps you wondering and imagining how great this person is And how much they have to offer Even when they haven't given you anything the Narciss knows That if they did give you something or do something for you You would quickly realize that they are lacking the qualities or capabilities Which they suggested to have initially This would then cause a narcissistic injury As you would no longer see them the way that they want to be seen And then they would feel like you are rejecting them or what they have to offer Narciss usually target people who are independent People who are empaths If you are an empath you prefer to give Narciss are aware of this And this is one of the reasons why they targeted you They knew that they could take whatever they want from you And you wouldn't expect anything from them in return Even if you did start asking them for a return on your investment They would twist it around and act as though you are needy You shouldn't want that from them or you are expecting too much They will only give you something or do something for you If they feel as though you are waking up to what they are doing Or if you start confronting them Or if they want to obtain supply from other people By giving you something or doing something from you If you will make them look good Narciss may act as though you always need something from them Or you are dependent on them But they never give you what you are supposed to be dependent on them for They are dependent on you They require your time and energy and everything that you have to offer They will try to isolate you so that your life revolves around them This is designed to ensure that the supply is free from danger or threat They don't want anyone to take their supply from them They want to make your world as small as possible So that they can control everything that happens And prevent you from sharing your time and energy with someone else That will be very un-beneficial for them It could risk them being exposed And it could also risk you finally realising That the Narciss basically ain't about shit And has been lying to you about their qualities and abilities the entire time Now you have this valuable information You know what the Narciss is really about I hope that you will use this information to help you Go no contact with this person Who isn't going to benefit you in any way Take some time to heal And then find someone who will give you what you are looking for Relationships require fairness It should be about understanding And working towards the needs of the relationship And not just the needs of one person I hope that this video has provided you with further knowledge And understanding of your situation Thank you for watching Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal links in the video description Coaching Inquiries You can email me at NarxFiverrcoaching at 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