 Hey everyone Welcome to another live video With me Nox survivor. I'm just parked up by the beach here. You know how I do it. So yeah, I hope everyone's doing good Thank you all for joining this live video. The topic tonight is How to get rid of these narcissists To know how to get rid of them you first have to know why they're there Why are they coming to you in the first place? Rather than someone else And I think what is narcissists look for and a source is someone who stands out Someone who they believe is the best of the best because when they're targeting someone That's what they're looking for They're looking for the best They're looking for someone who is wealthy Powerful Successful attractive All of these things That's what they're looking for when they target a source So if when they're meeting you they see you look really good They know you've got a good job They know you've got plenty of money. It's great. They're sorted. What else is there to know? They don't need to know anything else Because that's all they really want Superficial things things that exist on the surface Things that they're likely going to see Upon the first meeting with you So knowing this you should now know how to get rid of them. You may look good You may dress really well You may have a good job. You may have plenty of money, but you can't just go around displaying these things If you're on social media And you're posing in designer clothes You've got your expensive car whether it's a Mercedes BMW a Range Rover a Lamborghini, whatever it is And you're wearing all of your designer clothes a Marnie, Dorschen, Gabbana, Versace, if you're going on like that in public You all act narcissists to you you are going to become a target Because that's what they want these narcissists They spend their entire lives doing everything they can to Stand out To have the best of the best And if you're just going around and you're doing that like it's nothing They're going to be pretty pissed off about it and they go want to target you and Sure, they'll act like They want to befriend you or be in a relationship with you in the beginning But underneath that there's a lot of envy jealousy and resentment They're just going to use you forever. They think you've got And then they're just going to destroy you and this is why we have to be very careful. It's great having nice things It's great looking good around people who will appreciate it and won't get jealous so Maybe people who already have those things People who are already on your level because these narcissists most of the Time they're just looking for a come-up and whoever they're looking to get that from They usually to send up getting really envious and jealous of them anyway They just want to destroy them in the end So be very careful what you're displaying to people Whether it's on social media When person maybe think twice before you go out wearing all designer before you Go out in your Mercedes or Lamborghini and your partners may be lurking Maybe park around the back if you can maybe don't be too dressed up because that is what these narcissists are looking for They will destroy you They will ruin your life How else do we get rid of these narcissists? Well, what else they are looking for is someone who is naive Someone who lacks experience wisdom and judgment Someone who doesn't really know what they're doing someone who and estimates Just how evil people can really be Because they'll fool you They'll have you thinking that no People aren't that bad People aren't out to get you they're not out to hurt you or to use you and if you've watched my video you know about narcissists It's exactly what they're out to do and so they're counting on your naivety To be able to get what they want out of you and to do what they want with you So to get rid of these narcissists You have to start saying no No, I'm not interested No, I don't want to deal with you because most of us who deal with these narcissists It's because we feel guilty We feel sorry for them. We just say yes because we feel bad And in the end that just gets us in trouble That just causes problems for us It's all good feeling bad for people and wanting to help them But what about yourself? No one else is going to put you first you see Most of you if you're watching this video You're probably on the opposite side of the spectrum to narcissism so For you to be a bit more narcissistic That wouldn't be a bad thing at all. You should start saying no more You should start focusing on What you want or how you feel Instead of preoccupying Everyone else's feelings and needs before your own because then you're always getting left behind So I think that's how you can get rid of these narcissists no matter what you do really. I mean Narcissists are always going to be looking for the best that they can find So you might attract them But it's your choice to say no right from the beginning And you could always play it down a bit more Maybe not go out so much wearing all designers or if you're going out in a luxury car Maybe be careful about where you park it Because these narcissists will be watching and like I said they're looking for someone who is attractive Powerful successful if you're all of these things you could be a great a supply for an artist So you have to protect yourself You have to be cautious Anyway I'm not gonna stay too long on you. If you don't know already. I do have a new website www.narcsurviver.co.uk I post blog And you can book coaching sessions through there as well. 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