 Ladies and gentlemen Tony Gaskins here and make sure I can This car chronicle live today now hold on Now this car chronicles day Way normal wife she Why getting the hair done so I say let me pop on Yeah Why it's cuz I got a weight in the car For probably an hour while my wife get her hair done So go ahead and steal me a Q&A cuz tomorrow is Um My birthday so I probably won't be on online. I probably be out You know trying to relax having a good little time tomorrow So I want to pop in here for the blessed tribe cuz I might miss you on Sunday and Hopefully I could stay out, you know Sunday night might try to grab my little hotel just feel like I'm on a vacation or something But um yesterday if you missed the video what I posted yesterday that video was It was the second half of the video from Thursday that and I don't know if I Caught that but The video Thursday stopped I think people was telling me around 38 minute or something So the video I posted yesterday was the second half just in case you didn't you didn't get to watch it all the way through Thank y'all for the birthday wishes. I Appreciate it. I want to hop in cuz I know different people at different times, you know all from work or free so If you have a question just put um put that hashtag Q in there, I Don't know when my wife will be done So when she done I got to go because I Don't want her sitting here somebody say That you're on you're almost done. No, Christine ain't got I ain't I'm not almost done I just I just started with Christie afternoon Tony. I am looking for another stream of income I was thinking to take a mortgage loan officer course, maybe real estate I want to be more available for my children now a substitute teacher in NYC Well If you like helping others one of the things you could think about doing is being a coach being a life coach and Taking the life coach certification may be cheaper than those other things and you can coach you know right from home from Skype by phone and People need all different types of coaches, you know, we had somebody right in today Who looking for a coach for her teen daughter and we got a few coaches on my mentor that life So if you check out my mentor that life you'll see, you know how it works and how you find a coach and Coaches randomly getting booked by people all over the world. Some coaches coaching international clients So that's one thing to think about just because everybody needs a coach and with my mentor that life you being marketed to the whole world So you're not spending that marketing those marketing dollars the company are You you just getting your certification getting you a nice headshot writing a bio and Going from there. So that's one thing to think about with the mortgage broker and all those That's that's out of my realm those different types of things that I'm not sure how you get business how you get clients, you know, how lucrative it is or What type of lifestyle it is? I'm sure it's people out there. That's doing it. But me I always say Anything you do Connect purpose to it. So with my real estate company out of You know find houses that I could rent to people in need, you know a single parent and Give them December off, you know, I'm gonna open a car lot for single parents and sell them cars That ain't all marked up, you know, sell them good cars That's so whatever you do connect purpose to it do something good with it How to not be angry and bitter my husband left in the middle of pregnancy to be with his Mistress who's also married with five kids tried to do right and still feel played Well, to be honest with you right there. He's playing himself. He's playing himself. You you're not being played Okay, he's playing himself when a man leave you for a woman who? She married with five kids Come on now. He ain't worth nothing If he dealing with a married woman and she has five kids you when you was pregnant he Come out that garbage can you know, that's what kind of man that is so To be honest with you when a man has that in him when that's in his heart to do something like that What that means is? What that means is that he's so trash In his lifestyle and his mindset that what he has coming for him in his life is going to be so bad It's just really God allowing him to be moved out the way so that when he gets by lighting It don't bounce off him and hit you too. That's what you got to realize bossy lady Pebbles Thank you so much. God bless you just want to show my appreciation and support. Bless you Bless you miss Pebble. Bless her lord What are the prerequisites to becoming a coach? Sonya, that's a good question. You know, I'm thinking about making Saturdays on my page small business Saturdays Because we can't all talk about relationships. That's just one part of life and you got to build those other things So I'm thinking about making Saturdays small business Saturdays to where I'm giving y'all tips and ideas On how you can add streams of income to your life that are purpose-based Because I am you know the creator of Entrepreneurship with purpose the course the online course And I see some other people teach him a course man. I saw this guy. He got a big old Podcast I mean millions of download on the podcast This man teach him a course like his heels. I'm like wow Oh Really? But I have a course called entrepreneurship with purpose on Tony Gaskins Academy comm It also is on this other site That was they were selling for $10. So I know the man took it on there and went to teaching it like his heels I say boy. Look here. I Ain't gonna swim or nothing. He you know long the material reaching people Ocean God bless you. God bless you. Thank you Now oh, I forgot I didn't answer a question the prerequisites to becoming a coach. It's just heart and passion Y'all let me tell y'all about this real quick because we need more coaches and the reason why we say I say we need more Coaches because even look on YouTube and look at you know when you go through my videos and you look at the comments And you see people telling you know their life story and they need some insight. They need some help I can only help so many of people a week. I work with about 10 people a week So that's why we created my mentor that life so that it could be thousands of coaches and we can market those thousands of coaches to the hundreds of millions of people and so Because it's everybody needs something to talk to and I can only talk to so many people so And with a coach you really you just got to have a heart for help a heart for passion because you're not a guru You're listening and you know how you can kind of hear everybody else problems, but not really pinpoint your own That's why everybody needs a coach because it's easier to hear what somebody else needs to do and to be able to kind of find The holes in it then when you with yourself you like man, it's a struggle. You know, it's a little harder. So It there are no prerequisites school is not required certification is not required it's recommended Shequita, thank you Thank you. Bless you. Thank you for your time and commitment your message or life changing. I appreciate you may the Lord bless you and There's no accreditation people always say oh is it accredited by this and that There's no such thing as accreditation and coaching. That's just a word that some companies use but Predited you have to be governed by the government. You got to be state Certifications and things like that to where you can be prosecuted and sent to jail To send without a license, but coaching you don't need a license. You don't need a certification. There is no It's something just passionate people who want to help because you are not diagnosing Dating tips for young adults 18 to 25 journey. Don't date That's the best tip for you. Don't date when it's time for you to date A man will be knocking on your door so hard He'll he'll be chasing you, you know, he'll be chasing you and he'll have his stuff together So at that age that's when you need to be getting everything you need to identify your purpose You need to identify your passions. You need to identify your gifts. You need to be investing in yourself you could go to Tony Gaskin Com look around we got free courses on there for the college students on self-love you got to find yourself a Lot of times people mess their life up people mess their life up from Trying to date between 18 and 25 and the reason why is because you still don't know enough about life and about love and you trying to date and It's it's ruining you because you building soul ties and especially as a woman because you dealing with men They don't even know what it is to be a man They ain't bit more ready to be dating than the man on the moon. Y'all got to forget my move in this chair Now I don't think somebody passing gas now movement When telling my story while blogging how much personal info is too much to share That's a personal choice. I share too much info. I share too much info all the time But so it's a personal choice. It's as much as you comfortable with Sherry, but don't They ain't for you know shock value. Don't do anything, you know for Clout for attention It's a thing online. That's called sad fishing. I heard a man talking about sad fishing and You know like cat fishing sad fishing. It's a lot of celebrities using that now a lot of people online coming online talking about You know talking about they're depressed and talking about they're sad and talking about this and all and they doing it online because them videos get more traction to Where as somebody who is truly depressed? They ain't coming nowhere near a camera. They ain't coming nowhere near a phone that you know They trying to get therapy trying to get counseling or if they're not there yet. They Hemmed up in the house in the feeder position, you know really going through but it's a lot of people now Some people may use social media to try to heal through their depression or anxiety or what have other people is coming on Clout chasing trying to come with a sob story to make people feel bad for them So they get a bunch of likes get a bunch of donations get a bunch of this and that So just don't do don't do anything like that, you know when I'm feeling certain type of way I'll take my problems to the Lord, but as far as your story tell your story for God's glory or Turn your mess into your message Regina Holloway God bless God bless you make God continue to bless your ministry you and your wife are changing lives I know mine has changed. Hey bless it. Thank you Thank you How do you handle a full-time church without leaving the church? You're gonna have to leave the church You're gonna have to leave the church Because now that this is a thing when you say a soul ties this just an emotional tie from talking to the man or where y'all in for an occasion So now if you was in for an occasion and you created a real soul tie to leave the church because because you was in church with that sin and God don't condone that and you was in the Lord house with that sin now if y'all wasn't sleeping together What you got to realize about a soul tie is all the soul tie really is is just an emotional tie It's a connection from the brain Meaning that when you talk to somebody You can you could get a soul tie with Videos on YouTube to be honest with you just because your brain gets a chemical release It gets a has a reaction when you watching the videos Same thing with a person it just goes deeper when you give them your body Because now you've given a piece of you you've taken a piece of them now with spiritual on a whole another level But it's really just a chemical reaction. So when you have a soul tie with somebody every time you see that Uh-huh. Okay, y'all was in for an occasion. Yeah, you definitely need to leave the church. So you need to repent Soon as you repent God is forgiving you throwing it into the sea of forgiveness. Okay, that's out the way now That you don't repent it now it's time to go now it's time to go go on because The spirit of the Lord disrupted in there anyways because y'all in there Saved and having sex outside of marriage. So the spirit of the Lord probably Y'all church might be Sodom and Gomorrah. The Lord might not even be in there so you better off repent and going on to another church and Where the Lord might be at and so that's that's why I recommend because because you you get God in well You don't have to be in that one place Once trust has been broken can it be a report restore Yeah, it can if you that type of person if you that type of person, but It's only gonna get back to about 90%. It's rarely gonna get back all the way to a hundred percent But but it can it can Hey, Tony, what advice can you give for opening up to new love after a difficult breakup? You got to do the work. You got to do the work. You got to heal See love. God bless you. God bless. I'll see you happy early birth They hope you have a great day tomorrow and thanks for going live watching from Dennis office. God bless You got a heel. You got to get all the courses in you. You got to get all of the books in you You got to get the coaching sessions in you. You got to do all of that and then your heart will This what I tell people a lot of people don't really understand There's a lot of people don't get it when you are 100% happy being single. That's when you ready for a relationship So and then what people confuse about that? They say well if I'm a hundred percent happy being single Why would I want a relationship? I ain't say you need each year. I ain't say that's when you need That's when you should get in relationship. I say that's when you ready for a relationship If you still want to stay single for another five years, you know, glory be to God But you are ready when you don't need somebody to complete you That's when you ready for a relationship when all you need somebody for is to compliment you meaning Add to you not tell you you pretty ain't you saying that kind of compliment the other compliment to where they supporting cast In that place, that's when you ready for a relationship and your heart will let you know when you Looney God bless you. God bless you. It just say 20, but so I don't know what that what that was Christine Henry God bless you. Thank you Bless him. Bless him Lord. Somebody had a question with a little yellow thing in front of it Let me try to get back to it had a little yellow caution sign. Okay, my touch And see oh my touch Thank you for being a member of the bless tribe for so long because I don't know what month or you and your third month Because see you got a yellow symbol your symbols change colors each month until you get the red I think that's month number six, but they didn't we haven't even existed for six months in the bless tribe How do you know when it is worth it? To be there for a guy help and not just keep it moving. I pre-ordered the book Hey, thank you for your pre-order for those of you who have not pre-ordered a woman's influence I really would greatly appreciate your support Try let me publish a no a we we got some we own the summer Happy birthday by the way. Oh you pour out daily. I pray that God continues to pour into you. Thank you Hey, I really appreciate it. This is what I tell you when when you're trying to figure out if you should stay with a guy or leave It depends on his progress All of Ford God bless you. Thank you. Thank you so much Can you kindly please answer my question under Shakita 1999 donation you miss my question thanks in event You could have put this way you supposed to post your question all of because it y'all forgive me. I'm on my Y'all forgive me. I'm on my arm my car Wi-Fi It went the icon of fool. Can y'all hear me? Just put yes. I can hear you if you can hear me Okay, okay, you can hear me. Okay, okay Now, let me look for on all the Ford question Cuz all of Ford now you say 1999 donation. That's a 2499 God bless you. It's too many. It's too many messages in there. Okay. Nope. That's your And then she say under Shakita. So I got to be reading names All of you could have joined the the bless tribe for $1.99 And that way you could keep on posting it till I see it The guy I'm dating is starting to get frustrated because we haven't had sex. How do I keep chasing? Keep him chasing without getting on my back. Listen, you don't have to keep him chasing You don't have to keep him chasing if a man want you he gonna want you he gonna he gonna be after you Okay, if he want you the way you keep him chasing is By not getting on your back When you get on your back It's over the race over the marathon over with He need to take you all the way to the aisle if he really wants you on your bike that bad Then he need to know that you his wife and he need to marry you Because he doesn't deserve to have your whole body When he has not given you a lifelong commitment And that's one thing that us men have been getting away with for centuries Is women giving us their whole body? And what you got to realize What you have to realize, um, if y'all if one of y'all sees, um, what's called a question Copy and paste it to them or tell them what what what they said, um La Carmen god bless you when a god says he's going through something And ignore you for a date but contact you do our respond or ignore That's a person of choice if you like them Then you respond and tell them about that Why he ignored you and that that's off limits that he can't be playing mind games like that If you don't like them then keep going Now what I was saying, oh Your boyfriend getting frustrated because y'all haven't slept together So what you got to do is you got to understand that he's going to get frustrated because that's what he's working for That's what he's working for but what he what he has to realize is he needs to start working for sex and start working for love Start working for your heart Trying to build a real connection with you through real communication That's where you got to get to So if he can't get there and this that's what I was going to say the mistake that Women have been making For centuries is giving a man your body Who has not Giving you his life A lifelong commitment. And so what I mean by that is Is when you lie down with a man, he can put a baby in you that you have for the rest of your life He could put a std in you that you have for the rest of your life So a transaction That has that type of repercussions should not happen If y'all have not committed to life to do life together as a married couple Because if he could give you hiv herp any other std For a light that you got to live with for life Or he could get you pregnant that you got to be a mother for life Then he need to say I want you to be my wife for life And even that is not you know foolproof, but At least you know That's half the battle. That's 80 percent of the battle. It still may not work out But at least you can rest knowing I did it the right way Which would you recommend first life coaching or birth in my book? Well, um Coaching can also coaching with me can also cover your book. So The birth your book course We can also go over that on the coaching session. So it just depends on if coaching is affordable now if you Can't afford my coaching and you need to do coaching with somebody else on my mentor dot life There's author coaches on there as well. So you kind of in coaching you could get a two for one and also with coaching You can get the updated version because birth your book That's a recorded course. So it may be a couple of new things. That's not in that course Now that course will still get you there All the way but with coaching with an author coach Then author consultant then you can get the latest greatest tips and tools But The book course will still work as well He does say I will be his wife, but no engagement yet. Um, yeah Keep your legs closed Keep your legs closed Men have told me you have a nice body. I just wanted sex after I curved them. That's just the ego hurt That's just the ego hurt But at the same time you could have been telling the truth I mean, that's what you need to know about me and most of them. That's all they do want That's why you got to keep your body. That's why I don't give your body to nobody until they give their life to you meaning That rain until death do us part Tony you have a beautiful wife and kid such a beautiful family much love from lake city, florida. Hey, thank you so much God bless you During the 14 day break no contact no text Call and he blocked socials after second day move on Yes, he's just trying to show you you messing with the wrong one. He's trying to show he he's training you You know, he letting you know he's not to be played with that He's not going to be with the little mind games that you're trying to play with the 14 day no contact he calling that a mind game and If a man up You one you say, okay. I'm not finna contact you for 14 days and he said, okay. Thank you Hold my drink and then he go block you. He just letting you know that he on that level of petty And he's not He doesn't have any remorse for whatever it is you blocking him for he has no remorse for that act How do you know when it is worth it to be there for a guy? Okay, that's a question. I've seen that was a reput Repose looking for a question. No, I never got to find um, I'll afford question And all of I really wish you would use that That message you sent the poster question there better find that All of what you could do is join the bless tribe and you will be okay. I see it right here Okay. Thanks, Alicia I'm a single mom I found you all I'm a single mom scared to date for marriage because of those same examples you addressed in the video How can I be whole? Be sure this man will be right for my child and me You got to just follow the video just follow the video Everything in the video Just follow the video listen to the whole video listen to it three times till you get there It ain't no advice going to change If I gave you everything in that video if you stick to that what I told you in that video That's how you're going to be sure That's how you're going to be sure you date a man for 12 months Without introducing him. He knows you have a child, but you don't introduce him to your child You date him for 12 months. That's what that's your proven ground. That's his proven ground That's what you're gonna learn if he's the one or not If he can't show you in those 12 months Out of there Keep it moving And some men gonna cancel themselves out in 30 days 60 days Did the man that make it 12 months? That's where you that's where you really getting there Question gainfully employed Ones his own home Accomplished asked me to be his girlfriend after a month Mutual friends master a great guy and tells me I'm the one is it too soon to accept him It's too soon to sleep with him. It ain't too soon To be his girlfriend because a man that really likes you And feels like you the one he that's when he gonna ask you To be his woman in 30 days within 30 days. He gonna say would you be my girlfriend? I want us to be exclusive And he gonna talk to you every day He gonna talk to you every day. He gonna be trying to build with you every day Calling you he gonna call you he want to call you and hear your voice for you know, uh He want to call you and hear your voice for an hour a day Oh, oh my gosh, that was your question that that that the video messed up on let me get back to it Just post it again post it again Just keep posting if I miss y'all question just copy and paste it again until I see it I might be able to go more than an hour today. My wife and the hairdresser now she in there with So the the dominicans, I don't know how long the dominicans do hair. I know the africans sometimes could go a little while The dominicans. I ain't too sure How long they take But it don't look too full in here today And she ain't getting too much done Will you be coming To the uk this year? No, not unless somebody Or event plan over there bring me over there I came last year. I spoke in london last year on my dime So I don't know if I'm be able to swing that can this year That london that to it a uk to expensive I'm a single parent and I have extreme. Oh, you know what? Hold on now. Let me go back to oh my tars question Or win the state with a man and win the gold The answer to that question is you got to look at his progress Meaning if he is getting better every day if he's working towards a goal if he is growing If he is pushing forward then you stay if he's stagnant standing still or going backwards Then no you're not staying. So let's say he got a little issue Let's say he has some type of addiction if he's going to get help Whether that's the narcotics anonymous alcoholics anonymous, you know, we has anonymous Or life coaching or reading books going to seminars if he's getting help Then he's making changes. He's growing But if you tell him you need him to change this or that and he keeps on doing it And you got to tell him about this deal breaking behavior three times Gonna get on up out of there Gonna get on up out of there Let me see hold on right quick had an old blessing come in from a e a e god bless you. Thank you for blessing us here it's Here's a little to bless you more to come and enjoy your b-day tomorrow. Thank you. God bless you And for those of you who sent me A cash out. Thank you so much. I receive your cash out And every single thing touched my heart You know Some of y'all all you able to do is Right now as a dollar listen to me. I don't look down on that dollar You know, I pray over that dollar. I pray blessings over your life and increase So I thank you for that. I really do I really do what if we talk every day on the phone see each other one or two times a week But our phone convos Aren't always an hour. Is it still real? What if we talk every day on the phone? Yeah, yeah, yeah See each other one or two. Yeah, it's real. Yeah, it's real an hour is an hour is a stretch And and one-on-one i'm a talker. So when I say an hour That's how long I talk my wife head off. Really. We were talking three four hours. You hit me But An hour is really What a man who really really really into you trying to get even if it's 15 in the morning 15 noon 15 afternoon 15 at night an hour is really the goal what he's trying to get and It could change a little bit. Okay, um Be 15 grace. I ain't no you was over there. I ain't no you across the water Um, because I see you got a little Back with e In front of in front of that $10. God bless you a 10 pound. That might be 10 pounds. Uh, that might be more than a dollar God bless you over there. Thank you Tony much appreciate it Uh, jermaine thomas a bless you that's a brother Yeah, jermaine, that's a brother. I don't really see too many brothers to all a bless you Bless your man God's daughter. Why you ain't type your question in there When y'all send them donation, that's where you supposed to put your question at Can you answer my question? Please? Let me see if this if this your question No, let's just say can you answer my question? Please? Where your question at? That's where you supposed to put your question Hey, but I appreciate the blessing though Blue angel eyes. Thank you for your blessing. Let me find y'all y'all help me find god's daughter question because You got to answer god daughter question now. You cannot leave god daughter hanging She got god daughter in there let you know That you got to answer her question. I'm looking for god daughter question When you if you send a donation, that's where you post type your question at That's the same thing y'all be doing on instagram People write me on the instagram q&a and say you never answer my question And that's the one I see and i'm like had you post your question right there I would have seen God's daughter. I don't know somebody if somebody see god's daughter question y'all copy and paste it for My shoulder hurts. No all this scrolling holding this shoulder I might work on this shoulder god daughter. I can't find I can't find Now they might have You could join the bless tribe and then you could keep all posting your question What you just gave me right there you just paid for eight months of the bless tribe Okay, I found it. Oh you in the bless tribe and gave me a donate With you in the bless try you keep posting your question now everybody in the bless tribe if you eligible in the chat Just keep posting your question over and over you got to realize this thing he'll scroll and fast now Y'all got to help me out now work with me now Come on now I'll try me like a basal My baby daddy And I I found god's daughter question. That was a lot of scrolling my shoulders heard I now need to call youtube for workers con my baby daddy And I broke up two months ago Because his 20 year friendship with his other baby mama was too much for me He finally seen our son Hold on now y'all hold your message y'all y'all making god's daughter message move up He finally seen our son after two months Brought son to her house to sleep over how to deal with this. Okay, you're gonna need coaching. Okay. That's wrong with your question right now You're gonna need coaching. Okay, you're gonna need to visit me on my mentor doc life and book your session but here's the thing is This is what y'all got to realize You can't worry about what your other half doing with your child because you Chose that other half So if you felt comfortable enough To trust that other half With your entire life understanding that you could have got up. Um Fatih on you God bless you Fatih on you. God bless you. I thought that was thought tiana. I was about to say oh that's creative But let's say fatih on you. God bless you if i'm saying the right forgive me if i'm not What you have to understand when it comes to co-parenting is this is the person that you chose To give your body to So the same trust that you had when you said i'm gonna give my body to you And lie down here unprotected and risk Hiv every other std and sharing a child for for life It's Simone. Okay. That's a beautiful name. Forgive me if i'm saying it wrong Then you got to trust that same person until they prove otherwise So here's the thing He had a 20 year friendship with his other baby mama So now that's why i say you need coaching because you got to watch the game film You're going to have to go back and see every red flag that you miss. Okay. You dating a man who got a baby mama You got to see if he got a soul tie with the baby mama Those are all red flags. You got to see his communication with the baby mama Before you sleep with him you got to pay attention to his communication and interaction with her It was telltale signs that said They got a serious serious soul tie. This is going to cause a lot of problems But it was some signs that You know that you miss It was some sign that you miss Um beauty b say tonic. I'll tell you to stop cutting up. I ain't cutting up now. I ain't cutting up Also, I don't I don't know what you're talking about because And y'all be saying that to me y'all be like tonic. Oh, that was that right? That was a funny joke I don't be telling jokes. I don't I don't be telling jokes on on these videos So if you find something that make you laugh, that just means you're hard in the right place That just means you got a good you got a good sense of humor because I'm not a comedian Blessings. Thank you. Joanna. God bless you you over there across the water too because I see that backwards e in front of your money and now y'all tell me is that a pound or Euro Maybe that's a euro A really nice man and very successful, but looks challenged. I'm not attracted to him Then what? If he looks challenge, he knows that he looks challenge and and the fact that you saying looks challenge Let me know that you watch my videos If he looks challenged, he knows that he looks challenge Okay, so What that mean is Now hold on for merch L merch L. God bless you. God bless you. God bless you for that blessing. They'll show it up and show that Lord moving her life Now if he looks challenge, he knows he looks challenge and he knows that it's his money That helped him get women. It's his success to help him get women So that's why I don't recommend they demand that you're not attracted to Because he knows you're not attracted to him because he look at his track record And if he has not been able to get a woman like you He knows that you're not attracted to him and you just with him for other reasons And that's we're going to give him the ammunition to dog you out That's going to make him want to dog you out because he knows that He looks challenge and you with him for the wrong reason. So just keep it moving and there's a man who is not Looks challenge who is still successful Let me get on Merch L. God bless you been following you since the age of 19 and I will soon be 22 Your ministry and the books have blessed me beyond words. Happy early birthday, Tony God bless you and your family. God bless you You're doing good to be able to send a blessing in like that at 21 Um tj alexis tlj God bless you. Thank you for answering my question. I'm thinking about asking him To join me on your self-love retreat this summer in california. It'll be a blessing for y'all It's not really about couples. It's about personal healing. So but it'll be good for both of y'all to heal That um the self-love retreat is august 14th of the 16th. So y'all If you in california are you close to it? Okay, somebody say That's the pound sterling. Thank you for that financial education You could drive if you close to the redwoods of california if you fly. I think you fly in the san jose Um, it's not that expensive. It's on a beautiful campus. I did it last year and it was a blessed time It was a really great time It's on my website tonigaction.com for slash events Lady lia. God bless you advice on my 16 year old son who was a virgin. He says it's hard Now if he telling you as hard he might be an all ready Then touch them something just telling you that he's still hanging on to us. So Understand that at first and foremost Secondly, what you got to do is expose him book him a session with me. Let me talk to him I talked to him on facetime. I don't talk to women on facetime. But I will talk to you know young young boys, you know teenagers Uh mentorship on facetime. I don't talk to women on facetime for obvious reasons You know, I'm a married man not going to be talking to no one looking on one minute. I fall out but Let me talk to him. I'll be able to look at him and tell if he lying by the virginity Also, it's other coaches who work with the youth on my mentor dot life. Um, kaleb Caleb curl would be a great Person for him to talk to on my mentor dot life and it's other coaches on there I think anthony sparks and it's some other coaches on there Um, have them talk to a male. You wait when you what when you raising a son what you got to do Is you got to expose him to different resources? I actually got a course On tony gashons academy dot com lord. Thank you. Lord. Thank you I just got to thank the lord when I be minting this stuff and I just be thinking about what the lord did I just missed that question Somebody posted a question in there And they'll move it on Allie Barry's mom God bless you. Let me see On tony gashons academy dot com. I got a course for young man He ghosted me For two months after dating for 10 months. He recently came back said he was going through some stuff So I give him a note. Nope. Keep running. Keep running. Keep running. No keep running a man don't ghost you for no two months Man, he wasn't going through nothing. He was going through some draws. That's what he was going through Some other woman draws So keep going about your business going about your business Because when a man going through stuff You want to draw closer to a woman not further away Because a woman is consolation. She could rub your head She could rub your back. You could lay on that soft You know chess You know That a woman is comforting don't know man run from a woman when he's going through stuff That's what men always use. That's a lie That is a lie And if he in that bad state, then he'll need to be in a relationship anyways If he truly ran away from from you because he's going through stuff Then he need to go to therapy and not be trying to come back to no relationship because he got stuff He need to work on I must um Joanna Marie god bless you Now I say jonah so it could be jonah But I just want to say jonah because I ain't want to say jonah if it's jonah, but forgive me jonah joanna is whichever one it is uh, it's blaming on My heart not my head. I mean my head not my heart I'm gonna stay at home mom and homeschool my three daughters Hmm bless you Homeschool your three dollars, but your daughter, but It is getting harder with no support from my husband of five years They act out sometimes from him being in and out availability. He works a lot what to do You're gonna need to get a session with my wife Email in to support at tonigaskins.com support at tonigask.com. You need a session with my wife You need session with my wife. You might not like what you're gonna hear But what you have to realize is that your children are your children And they just read you You know how they say a animal could sniff fear Imagine what a human could do a human could sniff even more fear So what you have to do when you raising them and you with them you got to have a strict schedule It got to be structure there has to be consequences and there has to be rewards and With the consequences and rewards you have to have consistency So every single thing got to get nipped in the blood every single thing So my son his friend was talking to him the other day He got his first demerit all year long been in school since august. We in march He just got demerit his friend and got 75 demerits and Constantly getting in trouble got my son in trouble my son 12 years old the boy was talking to him My son turned around talked to him and the man elderly man And went and told the teacher teacher gave him a demerit first one all year Talking with somebody so you think I let him off the hook After hearing the story. No, we still talked to him Guess what you wouldn't have got it if you weren't saying nothing at all So next time it knows but let him sit back down be mad. Don't look back talk to him at all period y'all And don't get another demerit now a lot of his friends got a hold 10 12 15 demerit This is his first one since august and got drug into it But I ain't gonna let him off the hook I'm gonna be on him just like that The small stuff and the big stuff. So that's why You kids start to act out because they start to see they do something. Oh, I ain't getting trouble for that Oh, she ain't trouble about that. Oh, let me try the next thing. Let me try the next thing So, yeah, you you you're gonna have to Go on get on there Tangelica 28. God bless you Guys, I encourage you to invest in coaching with tony. I did in 2013. Wow 2013 you still remember that coaching It's priceless got rid of the grown boys and now I am happily married. God bless you now listen now Tangelica I didn't pay tangelica to come on here and do that and to be honest with you tangelica I'm glad I work with you, but I cannot Fully recall because that's 2013 now. So that's eight years ago But I'm glad you remember and and that you still support me now that right there that say something right there Whoo, well, you can't you can't pay for that. God bless you tangelica That's sure enough a blessing Now I want you all to understand a country boy could do this kind of stuff too You don't you know, you don't have to talk like this and just only be able to talk like this and You know be All of the way proper, you know a country boy could do this here too And I want you all to understand that for everybody like myself who come from nothing First generation a whole lot of stuff that You still can be used by God and have influence and help people regardless of Where you come from Your race gender age You still can Serve your purpose and tangelica. I appreciate you. I really appreciate you sharing that because you don't even have to share that Shanice pinkston god bless you god bless you I don't know a taxes hit or y'all just rolling in the door y'all god bless you you showing up God bless you and your family. Happy early birthday. Thank you. I have a guy who wants to date me But he's very patronizing. What does that mean? What should I do? That mean he got some wounds that mean he got some wounds and he probably got some You know some relationship wounds so and Some ego issues. He got some ego issues. He got some pain issues. That's what that means. So that is a that is a red flag That is a red flag and you got to be able to recognize that don't don't ignore that let them know Listen, I'm really not the one. So that's that's your personality that really that brought me the wrong way This how you always are like this is this what I could be used to because if so, it's not gonna It's not gonna work. It's not gonna be a fit and you just gotta let them know point blame period You can't play with them. You can't play with them. Christine Williams. God bless you. God bless you for the fist bump How do you know when a man is going to take it to the next level like marriage? You don't know you don't know You don't know that's like playing the make a ball lottery You cannot tell when a man getting ready to take it to the next level Sometimes it'll feel like he going backwards. He might go into a season of kind of being a little more quiet than normal You you don't know So he get on that knee when you get on that knee. That's when you know My husband won't take care of his family With money or enough time. He expects me to give him Sex and attention. What should I do? um, you need to cut that off For one You need to cut that off and let them know and let him know listen But this is a two-way street. I ain't in this by myself I didn't I didn't go down the aisle or stand up under that arch and say I do To myself I said I do to you and it was some vows in there that you got to keep So I remember when I was trying to do my wife like that I want to just work all day work work work and just say oh, I'm making money I'm making money and then say get on your bike. Wow. I'm thinking man My wife told me early on real quick fast and I heard listen her play boy In order for me to go there with you You're gonna have to give me quality time This ain't no wow. I'm thinking man. You're gonna have to give me quality time You're gonna have to show up Or ain't nothing getting done. And so in a time of peace you prepare for war You got to sit down and you got to talk to him in that time of peace And you got to let him know what it is you need aliyah connect. God bless you. God bless you God bless you Tony's helped me find my king. His videos are phenomenal. I'm gonna live in testimony bless you King found you as you were showing up in the right way. He came and swept you off your feet Why can't God bless you Tony? How should I talk to my ex about moving forward? Being celibate if we want to try again I know God won't bless a mess So I am now abstaining from sex until marriage thoughts And I talked to my ex about moving forward In a time of peace you can't bring it up When he done whipped that And slid on You can't bring it up right then Okay, so you got to bring it up here in the next hour when I get off of here You got to sit down with him and talk in a time of peace. There ain't nothing going down and you got to be able to say Hey, you know, I want to talk to you I really have not been feeling good. Just in my heart in my spirit. It's been it's been hurting me Just with what we're doing right now and I want to abstain And he gonna say abstain what uh, what you need a tight Um A tight stick what you got to wash your clothes. What do you mean you want to abstain? And then you and then you got to be able to say no abstain that means To abstain from something Stay away from something withhold something. I want to abstain from sex And then he gonna have to hear you three or four times. Huh? Excuse me Excuse me. Can you hear me now? He's gonna take you through that a few times. So you gotta have to say it. Don't shut down Don't start crying. Don't get mad. Just say it as many times as you need to say it until he until he hears you And because when you say that It's gonna do like this That's what it's gonna look like to him. He's not gonna hear nothing. You saying he's just gonna see lips moving And he's he's he's gonna get a little blurry. His vision is gonna get blurry He's gonna feel a little uh lightheaded. He's gonna feel lightheaded. He may say hold on. I I need some time I need some time because when a man coming off of that it's just like A crackhead and when I say crackhead that could be a derogatory term a person addicted To crack is trying to come off of that That's gonna be especially because when you didn't let him do that He's used to that. So understand that but you got to tell him my spirit feels defiled Hey, huh the file And you got to walk him through it and say I want us to build on a real connection a firm foundation You know and and really be able to know we have love And then when you say this guess what he's gonna go through every emotion. Okay He's gonna he gonna he's gonna try to pretend to break up He's gonna try to he he's gonna try to force you He gonna want to force you he's gonna he's gonna want to And when I say force you mean coerce you I mean coerce you okay meaning Silent treatment Move out for a couple days You know let you see a woman picture in his phone Go on instagram, you know like some some of your friends pictures that he know you going to like their picture And you gonna see their name He's gonna go take you through all of that Just to be able to say to you Well, it's because you cut off the sex it's because you cut that off So that's why I got to do this because a man needs this I need something Just just let him know look that's what you're gonna do. That's how you got to do if you can't love me for me Then I've realized I'm with the wrong person anyways Point blank period I wish I would have known about you in 2013 It would have saved me a lot of heartache But like the sand says the teacher will appear when the student is ready to learn. Thank you Thank god for you now. Shanice. Thank you. God bless you God bless you No The video one frozen one frozen that was me that was me on my lip talking for the next question Why can't I appreciate that blessing you sent in? Oh my tars Oh my tars getting her a coaching session on on this thing now. She said I'm finna get me a coaching session How we're telling the guy how much of a blessing? He and his work have been to you in your life Has been to your life impact. It's true, but I don't want to be a gazelle walking up to a lion We are cool, but I think he wants more Well, when you tell him that it's definitely gonna make him feel like he got a little leeway It's gonna make him feel like he got a little leverage It's gonna make him feel like, you know, he got something going on with you and that he can play on that And so, you know, you may have to I really wasn't worried about trying to tell him right now Just thank the lord for him right now, especially because you say y'all are cool and you think he wants more Just thank the lord for him right now. Okay, you don't need to necessarily let him know what he's done For you, you know, if y'all if it was platonic or it was nothing serious and that's totally different That's totally different. How can you know a man has changed his controlling ways? You can't know really except for time only time or tell Amira Taylor god bless you god bless you only time or tell so What you have to realize is you got to see him go through those different phases those different emotions. You got to see him go through Happiness, you know sadness anger bitterness jealousy frustration all of those things And so you got to be able to you know, see that And but time or tell because a person playing a role will forget his act So if he playing a role, he won't be able to fake forever cut the whole out down And I see I'm in my I'm in my Tahoe. So when I'm in my Tahoe, I'll be islanding this carbon island for over an hour or not I'll be I'll be running this thing in the ground Y'all forget I had to cut this old out down so This heat Writer TRM 2011. Bless you. Thank you for that blessing. Somebody say I'll be able to get my iPhone 11 You know, I got to stop being cheap and go on get that iPhone 11 that that was man They really charging for that thing, but I got to go on get in there and get that because because I've been looking at that camera on the iPhone 11 that thing crystal clear But I like I like this blurred camera though. So you can't see all my flaws and blemishes. I don't like I'm shy face I don't like people being able to see too much. I'm afraid But with that 11, that's like gonna be a magnifying glass Nenette Why do I stop guys from talking about sex so fast instead of asking me? Why do you stop? Instead of asking me on dates You might have typed that a little different. I don't I don't really know what that means Because I don't know why you why you do that. Maybe maybe you was trying to say why do guys Go for that go for sex fast instead of the date But I kind of miss you a little bit right there On britney tea. God bless you. Thank you Oh, I see somebody else crossed the water sent a blessing in I ain't never seen one like that five dollars and forty nine cent Man, that's a blessing there. They didn't have five fifty though. That's I didn't know they had a They'll hit you a discount on there five forty nine. Bless you. Thank you. God bless you um Happy birthday And thank you. You say one day a week single mom. So son is with his dad Every other weekend the weekends I have with my son. I want to go spend with him how to balance Um, well you are exceptions to the rule Listen and you see y'all see that question. She just asked me That's why I try to tell y'all about y'all women Listen listen Okay, listen Y'all listen to me. Okay. Listen to me Everything I say You don't have to take it so literal Don't take it so literal If I say you supposed to do one day a week That's for a single woman with no kids. No responsibilities If you got kids and on this weekend you got your son then y'all Then you can't do a date that weekend. Okay, you just got to adjust it And make it fit for you. Now what you could do is do two dates on the other weekend They don't saturday night and sunday night Or they don't friday night and saturday night now you got your two for one So the next week while you with your son you really ain't missing none because y'all did two days. Okay So I want y'all to think about that Don't don't don't take me. It's so so literal Um britney teague dealing with this guy who is either emotionally unavailable or just not interested deep down I feel like he loves me But it's very distant never loved a man so much. What do you think I should do? I sure wish you would have said how long you've been dealing with him Somebody say women very little y'all are very little That's why I have to do these videos so many times and I'll be talking about the same thing over and over Y'all be like Tony why you gotta do this because somebody missed the point last time So I got to go back through it And help y'all get it Because I can't leave nobody hanging rocks it. God bless you God bless you not britney Let me tell you this right here I don't know how long you've been dealing with the man If you're in a blessed tribe, you could tell me you could put the many messages you want to if you're in a blessed tribe But let me tell you Uh, the only time a man emotionally unavailable Is His money when it when it's his money messed up When it's money funny or when acting up That they'll down they'll acting up That's when a man go to Getting out of character when he emotionally destined Uh emotionally unavailable Other than that he just He either taking or he don't want you Point blank period, but what I need you to understand is you should never have to worry about where a man stands with you Let me help all women understand this you will never have to worry about Where a man stands with you if he is into you If he is into you you will never have to worry about where he stands with you Listen to me Listen to me. He is going to let you know now fattion Uh Fattion You you bless me earlier and you just show back up Lord show up in her life Show up in her life show out in her life. I knew a man would die be these two. It was messed up I don't uh Oh y'all y'all having y'all a little conversation in here Not money. Now if my money funny I I'd be in my feeling If my money funny so I can attest to that as a man Now it's been some times. I've been able to be emotionally intelligent when my money was funny on my entrepreneurial journey But you guys my wife as we when I became a full-time entrepreneur at 27 years old. I was still young So being young like that And that money going up and down man. Listen, I walk around with the sour bitter face A lot of days and just be Upset with my wife for no reason She she's just looking around how what you looking at? Oh, you just want to look at stuff, huh? Oh, you just looking for no reason And she's like what's what's going on too? But it was because my money was funny. That's one thing A man gonna always act up about is when his money get funny the reason why is because a man until he matures He equates his net worth with his self-worth So that's why a lot of men have issues Um much too lovely I'm still on here. I'm getting a little tired now, but my wife's still in the hair dresser Like come on now. What y'all gonna plant in the new head of hair? I should have stayed my butt at the house. I'm out here trying to be romantic Trying to show for her around that they drive around Backfiring on me Much too lovely platonic friendship through mutual friends may be turning into a relationship A lot more to the story, but Should I be open to this if he asks great man of god with his own and treats me like a queen You says a lot more to the story You so you might need to do a coaching session because I really don't feel comfortable Knowing how literal y'all women take what I'm telling you without having all the details, but I will tell you this Um, you got to be careful when you're going from from platonic friends To a relationship And And the determining factor there Is how long y'all were platonic friends So if you just were platonic friends for You know a couple months Then that's not really a big deal But now if you've been platonic friends for a year or more Now you turn into Danger zone if you go into a relationship Because if a man let you live when I say let you live, I mean If a man is around you and don't shoot his shot in a year Then he didn't see you as his woman He saw you as a friend So when he shoot a shot after a year You got to be very careful if you go into that and so the one thing you can do to be very careful keep your legs closed Don't feel like oh Because we've been knowing each other for a year. I can be spread eagle on day 366 because we've been knowing each other new new Keep your legs closed let him keep working And keep building and he's going to show you in the first three to six months of being in a real relationship If y'all could really be that The net if a guy talks to you not consistently how How Do approach Saying i'm not the one how do you approach saying i'm not the one You don't approach it. You just got to say it You just got to tell them just right after this hill session just give them a call say listen I don't I don't think this is going to work out because you know We just not on a consistent basis and I kind of feel like i'm standing still kind of waiting around and And so I obviously I get the hint and I just want to let you know You know, let's just go our separate ways because I really don't want your your number popping up on my phone If i'm as I move on and i'm dealing with somebody else because i'm obviously not the woman that that you are Interested in or that you want to be with So, yeah Okay, somebody knows orita I told you y'all be out here If he'd be knowing you He stuck me with some loan payments. Should I take him to court or forget about it? I chalk it up because if he stuck you with the loan payments, you stuck yourself with the loan payments So so that's first and foremost what you got to realize is you stuck yourself with the loan payments So take it off of him And say I got into this situation with him Okay, and then one thing what you don't want to do is you don't want to throw good money out the bad money Heard a turn to say that to me one time don't throw good money out the bad money Just take it as an expensive lesson Because if he stuck you with the loan payments, that means He either don't got the money to pay it or he don't care about paying it So you could take him to court win a judgment and he ain't got nothing to lose in the judgment Still ain't got to give you no money. You see what I mean? so Okay Call telling me my phone battery low My battery just popped up 20% now So I'm gonna go on talk talk this on out couple wives still ain't In here and I can't unplug this microphone because I unplugged the microphone. It's gonna sound like We swimming in the Atlantic Ocean because I don't know if somebody got my phone tap or just the how much energy it take for this hill phone The old raggedy I phone 10 I got to get that 11 Yeah, this phone hill so hot I'm about to give him a third degree burn on on my hand Hello, Tony. Um, Janie God bless you. Bless you for that blessing. Bless you Hello, Tony. I have been listening to you for a couple of months now Now see I'm reading y'all typos the right the way y'all mean it So when y'all see me slowing down it ain't that I can't read it just I'm trying to fix you Your slip or your thumb or your typo I've been listening to you for a couple of months now Thank you for allowing God to use your mind body and soul to be one of his messages of truth. Hey, thank you God bless you and I thank you for for showing me that For showing me that with with your blessing that really touched me bless me Yeah, I got to get that new phone so I can have that good battery life because this old raggedy 10 It's just hard because I put so much stuff in my phone So really I just don't be feeling like transferring all over and y'all got to understand Y'all may not really understand and believe in all of this, but that hacking You know how you seen them different women um Pictures online from somebody hacking the iCloud that stuff real so I don't use the cloud I don't use nobody cloud, but Lord Jesus cloud and When I'm flying through them in airplane, I don't use nobody cloud And so I got all this stuff on my phone and I don't even want to put it on my computer Because people go in there and get that This transferred to the other phone. So it's like I I be sitting there Trying to type all the contacts into the new phone So that's what really slowing me down on getting that new phone But I got I got to get it right Akilah God bless you. Thank you for being a member of the bless tribe Bless you Anna. I really appreciate y'all Oh leg glad to have you Caught my boyfriend cheating on me and he avoided me for a day He confessed but didn't answer some of my questions I broke up with him I just want to know if I should keep trying to get the answers or let it go For one, you don't need the answers. You don't want it. Yeah, you can't handle the truth Trust me. You can't handle the truth and this is why I try to tell y'all That's our mind though our mind wants the closure our mind wants to know What's going on? What happened? How it happened? And if you keep on asking you keep on asking you keep on asking you're going to upset him And he's going to start to speak to you from resentment And he's going to tell you what happened And listen You don't want to hear the details of that acrobatic session that he had with that other woman You just want to chalk that up And you might have to listen to you some woosa music You might have to listen to you some gospel music to some classical to the spa Sounds the spa channels on youtube when you start thinking about it You might have to listen to you something but do not keep pressing that man With those questions because Them them answers is going to scar you for life and it's stuff that you don't need to even Know because you're going to keep seeing it over and over and over in your head How to act around my narcissistic ex that I work with Beyond which I'll be trying to change jobs And when you take a gamble on love sometimes you've got to switch some stuff up Sometimes you've got to get a transfer tell the company you need to be transferred And and other than that just smile and not keep it moving just smile and not and the reason why I say smile and not Because you cheese ear to ear you look thirsty If you try to ignore him like you don't even see him now. He know he still got you you still heard But when you just get that little smile and not Keep going about your business He like whoa, okay She doing good. She heal When you say talking to the person an hour a day is that only over the phone or text and call But y'all really be Specific Now see this why the communication be breaking down in y'all relationships Because when y'all asking the man the question So so tell me this Okay After you step with your right foot Did you step with your left foot? Did you step with your left foot after you step with your right foot? Okay, all right now tell me this what your shoes untied Okay All right, what's the wind blowing and that's how y'all be and so y'all be working me Y'all be working me. I'll be like lord I say talk to the man an hour a day the sister say I need clarification Tony. Is this text and call Or is this just called But to answer your question. It is a phone call. It is a phone call. It's not text. Okay. Text is the bonus time text is The the extra time understand this text is not communication No text count. So y'all understand that Now see this and now y'all understand why I make my videos an hour long because I'll be trying to help y'all I'll be trying to go all the way through and lay it all the way out now Ain't no question a bad question, you know, so thank you for asking your question I don't want to make you feel bad about asking your question But I just wanted to make a point to y'all of What y'all be putting me through And I'm not used to that because I'm not married to that My wife is not like that. She she she don't ask really no questions and she really she real She'd be scaring me how quiet she is I'd be asking all the questions She really don't say too much and that's probably why she got me wrapped around her finger But I appreciate y'all asking y'all questions and I want y'all to know That's why my videos got to be that long because I just Because what I was trying to do is I was trying to do 10 minute videos But because there's so many people trying to come and look for holes I had to start talking a whole hour because I leave some mop thinking that What's understood don't have to be explained and then somebody to come and say Oh Well This is what I got a problem with and I'm like I was gonna say that but I thought that was Understood So now that's why I try to talk a whole hour and something even in that hour Even in the whole hour. I'm gonna tell you how people be doing me I would talk a whole hour and some Tatum's wealth. God bless. I'll see you right now. I'm gonna get you I'll talk a whole hour and somebody will come and say Tony I wouldn't tell what your insurance policy is how much your insurance policy is And I'm like I taught a entire hour About a relationship situation Said one sentence about my insurance policy And that's what you came to comment on The insurance policy that had nothing to do with the video So I say Lord I can't win for losing but that and that's how the devil try to bother you When you're doing the Lord's work, he'll just send people to just say stuff to just throw you off Try to get you upset. That's why you see these youtubers when you see all these youtubers Be coming on youtube talking about, you know, I'm really experiencing burnout and I've just really been burnt out and You know, guys, I just have to take a break and you know, you just need a break and I'll be watching them And I'll be watching some of the youtubers and I say I get it man I get it boy because people be on your neck in them comments And my wife and told me the vlogger she watched she said they'd be having to take breaks They'd be having to turn comments off But a lot of people don't understand that when you are when you delivering When you the one giving it'd be easy to be in them comments I'd be wanting to go on people comments, but let me tell you one thing Because I do this right here. I've never been on nobody comments You ain't never seen me comment nothing on any of the blog sites. You'd never see my name on them with a critique Or a disagreement. I could disagree all day long, but I could say that's they paid. That's how they feel I'm gonna let them have that I'll share my thoughts on my page And that's because I do this so I know what it feels like when people just come to sow discord People just come to sow confusion So that's why if you see a comment accidentally disappear It purposely accidentally disappear and sometimes I'll delete Ignoring comments just because I know it caused confusion for somebody who hanging in the balance And they coming on the page looking for clarity And this person in the comments caused confusion just because the message stepped on they told And so they angry because it stepped on they told so they want to try to Argue in debate But somebody who come there with a genuine heart could actually be lost in the sauce Because they look and say well, oh, well, he said this but this person over here just wrote a dissertation on this So now I'm confused And when we had complete clarity Tatum's will hot on your videos have really helped me through my recent breakup My question is how long should you wait to date again after breakup? Every situation is different. You know, you kind of got to look at it like an injury So how long should you wait to run after you break your leg? How long should you wait to run after you spring your ankle? How long should you wait to run after you stump your toe? So every relationship is different. It depends on the level of toxicity The level of pain the level of you know, stressing everything that you went through in that relationship Determines how long you need to wait And so you got to listen to your heart And if you're doing the work and you actively doing the work you actively doing the work then guess what If you actively doing the work, then you're going to be able to tell When your heart is ready to move forward now if you just kind of sitting and you thinking about your ex but You don't like um You're not Getting coaching you're not reading books. You're not doing all of those things Then It's going to take a lot longer. But if you doing what you're doing now you watching the video you read books Uh, you taking courses only got 10% battery left. Then now I see when I plug my phone in If I plug my phone in it It make a loud noise like a computer processing And one lady she would get no man. Tony Your brand is too big the hell sound that bad So if I plug my charging then the sound get real loud and I just rather not you it sound like a fan going on It's only got 10 10 10 uh 10% left But hey, we done did an hour and 25 Hold on, buddy. What you got going on? Walk around Okay, make some color Both leg. I appreciate you Caramel kids. Hey, I appreciate you sending that my cash out about people been sending me a dollar Some people some it was some some of you sent me Large blessings, you know, I saw $20 or $30. I somebody sent $20 and Somebody I think that was what I saw $20, but I really appreciate you I really appreciate you that that thing touched my heart. It blessed me Serita, I have a hard time hurting people's feelings. So when I see red flags, is it okay for me to text them And lose contact or do I have to call and explain why I'm losing contact? You could text them You could text them do do what you got to do. It's going to hurt either way It's going to hurt them either way And but see when you talk to them, they might not have the courage to say what they want to say But when you text somebody Now they could get that courage to text you back. Oh, well, you saw it anyway That's why you're ugly. I ain't want to talk to you anyway because you look like the back of 67 Chevy So they might text you something back with the courage. Just how you had the text to get the courage So I recommend getting on the phone Because they may just be stuck there and like Oh Okay All right well uh Good knowing you too And then you could go on here about your business But when you text you might get you a text back and that text might hurt and then you might be reading that text over and over And it and it does more damage So understand that now understand that done Nah, okay. No, buddy. You keep walking Walking behind my car So I got my what you doing. We keep walking Oh Got this scrap on me Now y'all tell me how this now now y'all gonna hear a fan. Okay It's gonna sound like a fan on on here The sound the sound got crazy sound like an ocean There go my wife in a way that got to go The queen done the queen and gotta have done The queen is here How you doing, buddy? Y'all say hey to the queen See them women got a hell laid now Now Baby, we got a book coming out. Don't we do what's the name? What a woman's influence A woman's influence now my sound might be bad right now because I just had to plug my phone in so you might have them What's the name of a woman's influence? Now, did you write anything in it? Yes, I did Okay, now why are you wrote in the book? Yeah I ain't like the way you cut your I ain't like the way you cut your eye at me when I was looking at you It looked like you cut your eye at me. I'm not it's just the angle Hey, this is the queen. Okay. I now y'all thought I was lying y'all thought I was sitting outside lying But I was sitting out here Waiting on her she was getting the hell done because I wanted to spend the day with her I told them I was like I was trying to sit here and be romantic and I almost started to regret it But the queen is done. So we got to get going baby Yeah Okay, let me say uh Bianca. I saw you question up there. I apologize. Can a narcissistic man change Heard there's no cure x left me three times How can I be sure he has changed this time around? Was emotionally abusive Baby got an answer for that left for three times. Yeah after three times. It doesn't matter if he's changed That's enough. Yeah, and he's not going to change three times. It's way too many Uh-huh and then you shouldn't be available for him after three times of being left. So you got to move forward and keep moving Yeah How many times are you gonna let me leave you now? Uh, you can leave and then I'll be gone the other way I can't get three times the coming go Now and I now I also want y'all to understand this what I was trying to tell y'all the other day When we was talking about the end that word Not not the other end word But that other one that she just said When we were talking about that just today how many times you saw that in his comments you even saw it in the question That's what I was telling y'all It's a lot of that going on And you got to get your own understanding And you just got to have your deal breakers Don't worry about you know the terminology have your deal breakers have what you stand for And what you don't stand for and be ready to go a Got to go. God bless y'all We finna get in this hill win baby Now one question they had for you Is when you gonna start back vlogging? Yeah uh Yeah Very soon I plan to actually film a skincare video for you guys because you guys keep asking So hopefully this week I can film it and tell you And the skincare routine and now when she do the skincare routine, I'ma share mine's too What is your skincare routine Water Now I have gape. I have bought him so many things. He had like had like three different skincare routines that he just does not do them so You know, so I need a schedule I want to put it on my mirror. No, you're not this at 8 a.m Put it in your phone right all over the mirror. I want to put it on it's not chic but I'm gonna start sharing with y'all My routines too on my vlog And I'ma start me a vlog. Okay, the question is about me. You gotta turn it back to you Well, I just said they need to hear from my vlog They don't want your skincare routine tips. No one has asked you So Hey, god bless y'all make sure you pre-order a woman's influence Anywhere you pre-order books amazon barns and noble the the audio book may be available for pre-order My wife will be recording her Her Audio will be in her voice. Yep And so and mine is in my voice But it'll be in hard back first for a year and then paperback comes out a year later But thank y'all so much. God bless you We'll talk soon Yeah, my phone almost went dead on