 Your last entry, what was it about? Okay, I do blogging mostly about trending news The last video I uploaded was about Ellen Wendy, Pegalo Drowned, in Canada Hebu, explain to me that story Nili, skia lianda siju ii live aki swim What in the world happened? What happened? Okay, she was live on Facebook Just entertaining her fans She was relaxing after a job at least around 2pm Then, by the look of things, I came to see her By the look of things So, I'll end up at the deep end Then, unfortunately, I went to a private pool So, I went to a private pool So, the live went on for around 3 hours What? What? Okay, condolences to your family I'm so sorry Aha, and you are? I'm Jackie Marwa, I'm a YouTuber also Mom, a wife And a customer care at home and more company What do you YouTube about? What do you blog about? Everything about life, lifestyle I blog sometimes You know, kwa nga nga na 2fike And everything But the reason why Nili Fungwa YouTube channel Is to inspire people And to make them know that you can come from nowhere And become somebody What inspires Kiddogo to skia? Kiddogo My aim is to tell the person who is watching Normal najita beyond Jackie Marwa on YouTube Because I believe there is something beyond being me Beyond being just Jackie I can go out there and And make people believe in good life Even if they don't have So, if you have a good life You can tough tight yourself 2tonga after this Kwanzaa many shaji identify as a big girl Exactly Make you be what you want to be Wait, rabo So today the topic is mother-in-laws And umeskia whatin ma bibi I have a long time I have a wife with that smile They will tell me why they are so happy about it But before we get to that I want to read some comments So again, sualini unezambia mother-in-law Ako nini leo Vinikei says asante kakunizalia Cut over peel Kilasi kuni kesi alas Nini Zaksak says bless up in law Masima says I love and appreciate her So much thanks Kakunizalia be Asante kakunizalia Uwele kwa a little bit violent But ajafrai See, Edwin Kukuri says good morning from Eldred Mother-in-law live long Nikola Smaru says another M-copa phone In wrong hands Okay, I remember one She says thank you very much Nini nini baby girl Are you okay? She says thank you Dali says alifanyawezuri kuni zalia DCI Kwa kuni chunguza Aa Chub says mimi ngekwambiato Sina nene Nene no kabisa Mk Alfon says may God bless you mama And keep you champion Rasta says akaya kijua Another one with violence Lakini waja tutuendele Nahi life hashtag is Why in the morning Mada-in-laws Afrikan Mada-in-laws Nikiama ha tofai kuket alo It's in the constitution somewhere Nikiama Once umetua Mada-in-law You're supposed to be violent Once wakuna Mada-in-law Afrikua agree Mada-in-law kwa wana Kwa Kwa vijanao Wana kutakanga kukua like other wife Like, bibi siya mele toa I'm also a wife here Okimnu nuli angu unibaiye So you see the competition Kuna wadi waluwa na compete kuka ambele Kwa gare Mada-in-law mendo na faku kuka ambele Nime sumesha kijanao angu if come this far Mendo na faku kua Hapombele nuchi uo mekuja kukula Ume pata Uredi mimi me tengeneza Uo mekuja kukula atao You don't deserve it like They normally say like I deserve kukua Kukua priority But they deserve Na pata mtu atu pata sanari na faku kua The mother first and not the wife So wife haki kula doo sana Una skia Wana ni mother The mother to the sana na sema Ui bibi toka kujapasi tumiyo angu doo So ono na it's like me right here Kwa ya na pata Iso pesa I am so confused Like this a little bit Adjust so that you can also be looking at your fans But kablut fike Help me Is that like a class difference Miskia kama mstana me kuja na pesa zake Sosila zi machina tibayu avitu Mibia tahenda na baya wana hake Well there be that attention Ama now it's just Una feel now because My son is in a position He cannot just in fact kiki kuja Ata dogo too lower than him We Yeah moji goji Yes from the The name mother in law We Kila mchuwa na kwa nga tukwa DM yango How do you relate to the mother in law? Like are you best of friends? Nga kanga aji kwa nyu But specifically for me We stay in the same compound We stay in the same compound Wama you wake up in the morning Nga muna But she's not bad She's good Ama ni saidi asana kuleawa toto Ame nizalia the most Handsome man in the whole world Yeah but Ni noshon tuwa tuwa na kwa makea kwa mind You can get the best one The best mother in law in this world Piya unizapata the worst Kuna both sides Yeah Mada in law yu kuja venyu una kuja Nga kama val nikiwa na kichuwa ngumu Hiya piya takuja na kichuwa ngumu Nga biya tiki Apa nipata apa nani Or is it the way that I perceive Of veni na mchuwa piya tan mchuwa yu go Is it based on that Kani ngumu ni ngumu kama nipo I think Mada in law She's also a mother Nuna venyu mam She's also a mother Naka nga wala una kuwa nga protective Now When you go to someone's house When you go to someone's house When you go to someone's house There's a rule in that house Nasi ame niyo o ame niyo Ame kuwa yes But now ui uni mama ake There's that respect enya na deserve When you go on a respect towards aziwako You supposed to be respecting this other side cause Ni was aziwako also So ui kuja apa na kichuwa ngumu When you go to someone's house When you go to someone's house To take the kingdom Uli pata kingdom already So wako na rules it out As much as Kuna zingnes na kwa nga extreme But unafanga ukaechini ulandvene This family Like family ni maolewa Wana kwa nga so close Like wako pamoja Kila kichuwa wana fanya pamoja Like wako so friendly That family Ni me kuja ni maza kunyamaaza So wana tarizoni Characters mili zene Aszienda ni Nga ame zuya kwa gianaku Now here ni me kuja Wana ni omgilesha mi ni menyamaaza tu Nga wanga liya At some point wata fkiri ni mada rau But mi ni me lelewa iwe wana kuna get Sisa Kuna try to kuble nao Sisemi kama ni unti umbaya oku Umbaya Klesa kifika Mama kwa kuna pilsuwa na fika Nga mamene mam Nga pastiafraya Nga kuna wale ni uwa Amoizuwa ifika hapumuambiana Kwa gachu na Vita Kila zima ato e Vita nao Aku explaini apendi iwi om I'm really glad you said ni ku lelewa So what happens to seme Wewa ni tichongu mukwenu Wewa ni wakusema Atama makwa kugilesha And then you go with that same behavior Kwa wenewe A laf usas tu Personali I don't have a mam Ime lelewa na my grandmother Na vilea mi otulewa Yubi outspoken U sitaki wufu ni liyo kiyona Eti ndu ikuwe tubasi yondi urespekt Wunifu ni liye mi ni nyamaze Saba bui you are grown up Na you should not talk Saba bui ni mtu ukubuati na korespekt Kwa wafu zingi unafau ni fani ni nyamaze No Sapa u kichuangu Miki ni kwangi kichuangumu Ukinifani amakosa Amakronup you are grown up Miki ni takuja kwa kwa ni kwangi Mi stajali wilodani beba But I'll speak up my mind Mam, u nifani iwi na hivi Na kwangu siku furahia Na gudu But kuna wiki Nisi ju ni ju Anna ona kuna Unika tutuika dogwa Me zeliwa Juzy Anakujaku ni ambi na nini Ati ni meku kosa Nika fani na ni Niki kunani wakona Lot of wafrikanda niya Ataigi pui ambi wa kitu So apa piabu uni k Michuangumi Nuna afi du twiki chuangumu Otherwise wiitafini nilokia Kwa you do everything You do everything Kkaw kazi ya ni kuka na ya kwenya yung докум ya ya kwenya ya kwenya ya kwenya ya kwenya ya kwenya ya kwenya ya kwenya yo, ya kwenya you to do everything like, wahtum tu ago jacky agunwe chenge leoh ama badoo me lala, you know you are supposed to be doing everything while they are bossing around kwa Zunajua ni ni ume holeo haa kwa kuna wala yo ne wanaku sa idea yanywa na kuchikwa kwa mam tuto ham to mungi ne, but kuna wala yo nyo once you're there you're the one like you make sure to megulia your breakfast on time, yumbo zemasha on time, kompound is clean isipo kua clean una itua easy You know? Sasa mimi mimi kutana baby girl flanning jozi Na alini yambiyakwao Venye aliyolewa wakapatam toto Venye alingia kweyo situation Ali kwa slekwini You understand? Na alisema atabaki kwa slekwini Nisa wakama na vangash skatndogo Niteendele kwa skatndogo Kama kutuzangus na kwangamrefu Zina kwangamrefu kama kwangus yoshangi viyombo Nakuja kwa kukushev yombo kwanini Waya mai kukini Infakti unafakwini chitkama princess Is that anosh? Awa nama nama Chit Mr. Grease Doctor Wea Ya Okay Kukuwa slekwini Kuku slei Like everyone wants to slei Everyone wants to look good But now let me ask you something This is ini nyumba matainlosa You want to continue slaying And looking good And doing all sort of those things That people want to do Now Ono takakuwa wangu fupi Adi kwa mavenlo If kwa kwa mwawewe Let me not say kwa mwawewe If I go back to my father's house Will I still put on bootie shirt Freely Whoever is watching will you? Ya mwenia lisa ma'e No Ya na nama make iwa Na eza henda tu iwa winiyana jisukiya Oh, okay Si mkwamba Uwiniu mesama tu ni visuri kulelewa If I have that freedom In my own households Then why are you expecting me to suddenly become an African? Uhuhu Atisani What do you mean? Now, how do I deal with the mother in law? How does mother in law deal with someone like that? Pia You should not also see the side of the mother in law pia Pali kuna father in law pia Na pia maybe Sometimes it's good to talk to your husband Uki una Haita kuwa poa sana wukenda kukua kwa mother in law kifanya witu zingi na kamaizo We can't you just stay with your husband kando Usi henda kwa mother in law Wefanya witu zia kukuwa pali kwa husband Lakin na pia, you've decided to be a wife Ya Witu zingi na Una eza kat Nani alia ndi, kwa e zichit na nani witu kama gandu na faku acha I know, a wife pia siya tiana faka evi baya But at least Kuna tu pika wife Kuna tu pika wife Kwa nga pili kwa kudipi wa dawa rewa ujawne wa badu There is that kareespect inyua wuna jikare Na wuna skiyanga wata wana semaje kitenge niya rurashu Buna buti shotsia yuya rurashu Because there is that kareespect You're going to Ku introduce yuwa, you want to become a wife Na kuna, kuna hile outfiten yuna fakuwa Sisi me wujika wumi bakama mimi if you're not used to Just do you But make sure you're presentable na Una kwa respected kwa society Una juwa Always end up oku serve for the inglo Your thighs Uredi ni mkubwa Like kuna tu hile respecting yuna fah Wa wumi zewa kuva miniskat Well and good Today at least afford kaleso If you have to You slay, slay yourself But at least Be presentable in front of him Tuna wana That is why kuna Some cases, mafa denilo amela na dota zinilo Because you want to slay Sawa unata kwa nyesha ma denilo That you're a slay queen And you can't do this and this Sili asimu fani kazi You can come with a house help Asidi ma denilo yuya kazi You, you slay See if you don't want to fani at these days Una nana house galu Eh, anafsidia job You sit down slay Kwa kwa juwa wini unata aka Kazi ako inafanya Kus ofkos ukenda home ukona atoto You don't expect ma denilo a fani kilaki too Sindiyo, you be responsible yourself So Beba house galu kukto kani robi Twenda home aku shugulike But now when it comes to dressing Kwa honestly Kuna kale kare respected Eni unafa kukari yourself around When you're around your parents And you're around your Your in-laws Sindiyo That is why wana say Mga kitenge nia rurashio Buti shoti nia buwana ako kwa nyu Kwa nyu Kwa nyu ma exactly So there's that As you can see These are clearly wife materials And I want to point out I hear what you're saying But I also feel like It's very limited to our culture Siti kamaafrika Buti shoti me kuja jyuzi Miniskati me kuja jyuzi Atu kwa tinawa evo Although there was a time Atu kwa tinawa anguwa at all I missed those days Although sikuwa But That means Someone who is To say meata ni kukasian That's Uno nga Nisha e jamtao Nimi onam to Stana tu Yes, nimi rainbow Nisa wa Kukasian But ya na eza wa Shoti me fika apawa nume wa muangale eto Lakin we jaribu kwa mouzi The thighs are the same It's just the color That's different Uta ambi wa apo venye Uwe Uje ungele shu hadye Mwenye ukaske ebuno Venye ulkona jona kasmat So there's definitely a culture A culture I want to say Influence Sana kwa sana kwa sana kwa sana I want to talk about something I don't There's There are two things I want to talk about Nasi jini hanzi ewa bi Hachani hanzi ewa nisumbu wa roho You guys are legit married Legits Husband Legit children As in you're living the life Lakin mutru haja li piwa maari Ama haja olewa Ama taa kai pamoja But asha jia ambi e ni bibi Na akiyenda kwa mada in law Na tumi ambiwa na Stephanie Apu in law Specify If you're not by the law It's not there ya Okay You go and you want to please someone's mom Ni kama onenda auditions Ni kama bada ya tamu ita rambia Tiki mitotoa ango tunata kawiyu So nenda Kwanza na badisha kabsa We don't even know you are Atu nenda na badisha dini Nenda na osha nyumba Kwa kufanyagivu kumama kufanyagivu But for some reason you feel compelled Kus you feel like maybe If I do these things for the parents Of my person I have a better time Ebu ni explain your science for that Personally I'm still auditioning Ijya kwa official kabisa They've already gone to our home Plans are still underway Iyo ni official Even by law Nenda na prisa su nenda traditon Upa kai fanyu ni dusasa wambu ni bibi ako But ni kwa kwa yu situationa chani sayama Has for me Ni kikuja kulewa na my husband He was so young As you can see He was so young Atia kwa na utoto Nia witu na kwa utoto But okay So Personally I know she's watching But kuli kwa na some issues Siji E li kwa like no This girl is so young For my son But don't know na sana yungu He still have a chance To chase after his dreams Konili na meona Howe like this time But for me ni kwa ni misha make up my mind Uyu ni heye na ni heye na sindi kwa mingine But kuli kwa na issues Issues mingi But moli za storya kupretend It's not good to pretend Show how Uyua Wacha kujue vili uko Kama we ni kichuangumu wacha ajua Kijananga meleda kichuangumu aba Dajue vili ntanganga na heye Kama we ni softee Piya si visuru pukwe softee Ini tip na wapatia Don't be a softee Kunda we niwata kukali adjue ni softee Mwanya na tuwambia we na cam softee We na ke softee at on betta script softee O si chese na wa tuwa na kaiva Mano kwa nga vichuangumu waka me niya maza Ya, ja Betru this, ja show uyua Kus piya kijanaki Anakujua So uta pretend Uwa whole life Anakujua vili a luku pata Ulu kuwa iwi Tuza kwa ni niti na ukujo kupretend Kwa maida kumamake This is who uwa na iwa si vili uko Lafutana abare zianze kufika uku nyimba di kwenu Bide, mene tuwa mbite Bide na fanya nga heivi Watoa kijiji waka like nooo This girl was not raised like this Tu na jumstia na nimstia na wachach Nini, nini, nini Kama we ni kichuangumu vili na sema Wacha ito kia tajumbani Kama we ni kichuangumu Tusha mzoe Ya, usiji paint a picture niya Kama una vangu ufupi Vili me sema beshtiako Vangu ufupi Akini uko nyimba ni unava madera Kuna kujugu na nza kusumbu wa tu na kufangu ufupi Don't be like that Kuna kaprotokol flani Nika vene says kudia job na booty shot Exactly Broadcasting house Sotani yambia kamval ni kusho How would you advise someone like that Mune Muna penda na 2 Maybe some conversation you had with your person in Tia Let's stay together Jumamiwa marriage Spikim someone to suffer this life with So na samani way, come let us suffer together But you want to do your best Maybe her intentions are not bad Maybe her intentions are pure But unge mambia ni Me nge mambia ukuli Qasa babo Being in a relationship and marriage is two different things I don't say I don't say officially Charge and marriage will evolve I don't say people will evolve People are different I don't say different circumstances I don't say please mother-in-law After mother-in-law kuna wewe na wewe So even if mother-in-law will not accept you the important person who accept you you are fiancing So just be you Try to please another person Another person will love you the way you are Me na kumu kachem nili kwa nantaka kulewa Me ni mtu wa na kulewa subui So my dad na kanyuliza wana kulewa kulewa na kulewa wana kulewa na kulewa kulewa na kulewa Imagine my mother-in-law until date ni kenda home Sirare Wakipi kwa ugeli kachia jaki ya kiesho Kus wali ni accept vene niko Wana bakisha Wacha tu bakisha jataku na kiesho Uya blendim kachia na chahi So wali ni accept vene niko Ata kama kwa po Just be you I believe this is that kabeta version of being yourself Always you fake anything Mi mi na vanga wu umbrefu So lewajun li kwa na kujapwa TV singeji Outdo ni vailung ya manifanya ni This is the real me Uki nda kwa YouTube chaneli And we will see this So siku takaku kwa a different person because of this thing So ata mo nyakwa po Don't fake it to be Atingdo kujapwa yo place Sika tia ni li kwa ina other relationships Zeniata mi I wanted to force Apa lazima ni bendu na ni kai Because of Some one reason or the other But now Uki kujanga into your real sense Ata wewe Uki aiku kwa po yo place Mi na kumukai was in a relationship Nini kwa na force everything Ata ni kwa na mother Lolo send mi 10,000 Nasina al hasol Like al hasol Na ni umtumi e Sika 10,000 Because you know what I love your son And I want to be here But niga kujaku gundua In this place I'm not appreciated I want to know what I'm doing I'm just there because of what I'm doing I'm not there because I'm wanted Now When in your relationship Iisha And then ni kakuja kumit Another person now heading to marriage Nili say These people will love me the way I am Ni ko jobless Ni ko jobless Ni konakazi Ni konakazi Neza wa saidi e naweza Lakin ni want to give you promises Ni say zikip Memi ni mituwa na amkasa atatu I won't wake up to your house Imagine It's the truth Memi ni wa saatatu So you love me with my saatatu If you're not okay with it To after our siks Because you know what Sit afit what you want So unakwa to rail Memi kama omkwe tuma denlo And doa na kwa nga alibad Ya cha amkata me fagia Ami fanyat amu apikiya chahi It is not that atum jali Tuna empenda sana But now Akoizio Atum ukiyamka Ukiyamka siks utapatia liya muka Naata kuriza Muna jeki umelalambaka sayi Jeki ni wa saatatu Adasha Vyombu from saata When you wanna muka siks Wanzu na kenye Kenye wa saatana ayo Memi wa saatatu Ni ta peak from there So okunatu ele Wanzu me shaji Leta this is now me People will just accept you The way you are I like what you just said When you only transition from one relationship to another And we once had that conversation Ili kwa topic at one point And we asked Does it mean because you've met your Persons Parents That immediately society needs Going to lead to marriage Clearly not the case for you No tia na jua Lasimo kwa accepted Marriage I don't know how people wanna view marriage But I was there Na jua You must pita from that You could just ask for marriage And you understand it Marriage to a relationship Memi nili kwa nga na mga Na taka polewa Una juo tabuweka Uta choka na uki ja na na Meni ni Jewi se si choka But ina tika na mahali You're not tired You have so many things to do You have work You have house Ukonahu you husband to take care of And Be aware where you have yourself To take care of So na ona So there's all these things Hapo So as much as Munapenda na Aita kwa around love There's so much zenis going on Josa sa mada enlo ana huja Because you'll have to deal with So many many people If you're married Ukiwa ina relationship Uko ina relationship with that guy But when you're in marriage You married the whole family Like You are there to help Mada enlo ana food Ni wewe Like usyagale like Desana na do So mimi Ata momangwa kuna chakula So wacha nia chana na mada enlo Alalinga no it is you If you're in a position to help Help her If you're not It's okay But to see for yourself Asimani sa idion do ni pendue Kama wakupendi wakupendi Ata uki push ajaya Ata wakupenda Because that was my next question So sa ina fika place ya kusukana Like enmona mada enlo Ni angalia sedu ya So acha nini niske Skeken alpenda Alafu nini baya Kamani ngu ondambaya ngo Kamastri ni nini nindambaya hi As ushinde too Eh eh? Uko sa Then perhaps maybe ita fika mahali Atanzukutik advantage ane Nini nini atuna ngo ya Atuna ituma nusha atuma There's a danger in that right Okay Let's finish in reverse kido go Ju mada enlo Doesn't really have to be The Your partner's mom Nesa kwa ni wako You know what boy or girl King or queen Can be your own parent Who is a problem What if when do Nona wakua tuwa Kwenu kabusa Dona sumbo amitua kwa And then what Tatu neshi aji apu Okay As for me if leni lisa yama I don't have a mother So That would be tough for me to answer But for me ya For me ya have come in there But wakua tu I don't see a lot of pressure Kutoka kwao See yonangi a lot of pressure About my marriage Kamu uko comfortable It's okay But if any case Kutatoka ya any problem Don't hesitate to tell us How ananga shida Shida inakwa anga to me Apu tu But to say something on that Maybe story Pesa Maybe you just have to put boundaries Kuna wali wana taking advantage Aki ona your husband Kuna pesa Atashinda uko ata Ngini wana kujaku kampa ata Wana kujaku kampa apu I'm in my son's home Ali kujaku kwa kijana wana Yes Alafu seza juki jana kendi Uko ongia apu jwa kuna pesa Anaka nikama anta kata kuching Shul seza apu Seza uki jana komekana Yuku kutoka umizai It's okay Una jua preference seza Uma kujaku tembe Ata una anza kuchenji Kijana nga ata pendi Uga li Kijana nga mekua kikulam Shia misha kwa mkubua Ame change preferences Juki jana ndi uko ongia Ueni kama nihauswa Fata kama kuna pesa So long as kijana kuna pesa Mendi kukuliko Kuna kujadutu mada rautu Ngini atu eiki Alafu sometimes aneza Kujatana kujana muturake The sister in law Ata na brother wana kuja Wana kujaku kampa Una patata kuna privacy Just because the man has money Una ata privacy kwa nyimbayako Viloneza chill na Wana kwa ata kwa sofa Akuna privacy Una jaribu kunda kwa bed Watu wako hall over So maybe to say Kuna faku atuna boundaries Ukona nyimbayako kule Ukona nyimbayako Na ikona rules pale Ikona rules zaki kule Now this is the house of your boy Your son Wacha jitengeneze Rules zaki apa Visiting is not bad But don't over stay At a boarding school Visiting lakuta kama Una over stay Una ribu mambu Una ribu mambu Na mi persona nia like my space Ukika nika mu nani fi niliya fi niliya Na tan nilaeza kwa chia Ta kwa chia Wow What happens kama demga kuna mapeza? Una mapeza Can I say something about nene Fast When sa idea kina I'm standing na kwa nga nashida I think it's about sharing Your mum won't know anything Inna happen kwenyeba Kwa if you don't share Of course your mum will always Always be on your side Ukenda kwa waga na joma Mima yata wiumze Sijurana fenyanga ni Fenyanga ni Uta ampatia spesia ku Ya kwingia kwa Kwa marriage ya kwa naku destroy Amakuku patia Advices zenez na fanya Like Amakuku kufanya Kuchukiya Your husband Suna jwa That is why Kwa wedding wana se maga Parents na take one step back Well Now why? Because now This is your life Mu nataka kwi build Niniwa willi Iwa one step back Wana fakwa watch from Awa jwa wacha They are watching you Wana wanga liya Is there anything wrong But now Sio kila kitu Ata awa lipa wacha chance Waka build life ya Now this is your chance to build To build your own Usipatia waza ziwa ku Too much space about yourself As much as una Una wambia Like Ina ii me fanyika Usi share a lot Parents wata defend too Waza ziwa wawa Mima mga wata ilo Niki mami anala nanjata Ntumi adu Kus mimi nim tuto ake Nani after ameni Ntumi anali O marwa na fenyanga ni Kwa ni ya Nini nimpatiam As much as anis idea Sisi semi you don't share You share but kuna Kuna ila e cover up I believe If you cover your husband You'll do the same On your side Sidi ama denlau Aksasa mama ake It's about covering yourself up Lakin ii sisa Uju once umembe Tumza ziki tu Ata mina Kuna tia nili kwa Ani mengia kwa marigen Sisi wata tuna job We are doing our best Job ili kwa Ika eda But we are doing our best Semi nipige mama kusimunu Buna job mam Ukuwata misi na job Buna nanguana job As much as buna nanguana Tukanga wana kutafuda Ata nimi kwa ni atoftangi Atoka ngi asubui Atoka asubui atofteguana job Kwa zana expect Yae endwa atoke Aini anitoftia ni lete Jumi mi personali sina Anadua Buna nani anafakwa Umka asubui Awa jui Strangulini Nini wa willi wum na go through Dom party job How I assume The one party is not doing the best Ani inafakwa kwa Ani naskia ti majira ni onadua Ani majira na onadua So ita kwa madara wata Buna kwa hikuja wana wangalatu Ui wata aiki Wana ni nistetu wa mimi waka wana Na inakwa vibas Nibuana aiko Inafakwa protet Ata nzemuana niskiya Anafakwa protet to wa ifuake Manda inuwa me kuja me kwa ambia Ui bibi aiko Aoshengi nyuwa Adyu kufanya nini Protector Anafanya anga lewa me choka Mpati eni space Aka apakuna wascana Iremember there is a time nili kwa usha go Tuli kwa na ma system ni lozwangu Nozuri sana, I know they are watching So abaya But wana kwa nga na time ya wana kufanya job Sii wato kwa ambiwa Fanya inuwa Awa jambe So mi ni me malzaku pika Nani kwa usha viyo mo imitidili Wana nga kukuja kwa uza Kwa ani Jaki lewa nga na fanya kila kitu So unona ni fi Ani fi like ni moa pikiya Ni memda ni katina nika usha viyo mo Kukuja kwa ambia Apana amkeni wana me segirani Jaki kwa usha viyo mo Sii wea na fanya kila kitu Ifange ungea Nini kwa usha viyo mo nani Nini ushenyu It's not that Awa jali Ni ju You can do it Tu me onesha wana eza fanya So fanya Sii tu relax Unona So you Husbands pewa naka protect to wa ifuwa Kukwa Dwa sii mi streetiwa na inlos Na piya sisi to Na iya Tu jifunze punya mas Tu jifunze punga mdum Unona juwa unona Sii mga mama kikununulia socks Ana ambia ato me kubiyo Ui watu Ui watu ni memside Ui nes Unona jatili kwa naka tezo socks Enzaki So Una feature kido ko Sii kila kitu wana Unona ambia ato I'm sure Sii kila mtu Ala fupia Also shetani apenda gima rejime sii mama So once we fungo kwa space Ka dogo Evie Transmai ui wa itawai sii mama Ato yuma deinlomunya na kujaku kwa Fanya evie Alianza from somewhere Ati ali kuna struggles zenia li pitiya Aku jipata tua bu Na kuna series zenia li eka Zeni umbayake Dwa kafika abu Uki tua ata beshtia kwa Taku breakia yuma Kwanzaon ni mabaya Exactly What happens uki kutana Ako very very close to their parent Like to say many mamas boy Yani siiku haizi pita Kablamongena mama ke Nani fo hours sii atiki dogo Ati yukofiti A, a, a, unia mbei Evie ni ui liya muka Kenyuli kula breakfast Hekama kuna joto leyo Baridi Umevaka lagani Umeongena nani Jirani yame sema Hadeo una jo a vibesote zaploti Zak kwa mama kwa Kwa mama kwa tazi kwa kwa So how do you deal with that Aoka danger kwa There's no one who's ever be good enough for my son Mendo na mjwa Mimi na mimi na mimi na mimi How do you deal with that? Personally, I had a problem with that Nikama tunoleza ma swalifite Problem with that Nini muka lisha tu chini I know anapenda mama ke I'm like a stranger in their family Nimeji leta tu Nami kuji ame leta tu Atum jui So you just have to sit down with him Talk with him about these things Aju evi liya to handle some things Una pata sometimes Uko tu kwa nyuomba Mama da kuja mbei te Te san Kuna ikituki dogu na takaku kwa mbeia Ebu kuja ki dogu Wato kenji ki dogu Uzo nivi tuzao Tenna leta He comes and tells you Ma liya li kwa na se ma iina iina iina iina Nani kuhusu sasa Nani kuhusu Nani na uleza Kwa ni niya kujami ame ya mbei personally Mi ya kujetu director kujami ame ya Una wana when is stranger uko Awa kutrasu na witu zingine So they have to go through the sun Ndu ya kufiki e So you just have to sit down with your husband Mwa mbei spendi hi na hi Misawa hu ni mama ake But up to you just have to set some boundaries Mwa mbei witu zingine Ukinu usishi Ukinu ame ya lazima usishi ya my wife She's my wife She has to be there Kama ni ikitu na takaku ni ame ya Let me call my wife Mama let me consult my wife first Ti atikila kiitu But most of the things Decision same na make promotion She has to understand that This is another family They are trying to make their family Misawa wei utaku na kujya One, two, three times na kujya na wasa idea Kwa decision zingine Kwa kuba ziniwa na shido kujimiki ya pekeya But guide them Lakin usuwa chaku jingiza sana hapo Usi jingiza sana It spoils everything Kama me notice I really really Don't like that Usi jingiza sana Usi jingiza sana Usi jingiza sana Usi jingiza sana Usi jingiza sana kibisa We will come to you Is a grown up now Wachapia ando vituzake like a man I like that I want to talk to the mother I want to talk to the son We went to Omewa Kama ulikuna feeli Badua eni utoto ungeka na mamaako That is one thing for sure Sendo ungeka na mamaako Now you have a wife Nanskega ungeka na ita na mom Your wife Now she sent me Boundaryako na mamaako hiishe But now How do you talk to your mom Kila kitu Bibi anga benfanyi binaivi la Like unena kuni shi taki Kwa mamaako daily If you feel like you're not mature enough Kaya tu na mamaako Kus honestly kwa mama's boy at the same time Na ukwe husband Those are two different things Mama's household is Exactly Lazi ma ukwe umtuna make your own decision Kunasam point utasimama wambia mama ko mam No Ha pa ume pita sana Na kama Ujafika apu place ya kumia wama ko This is too far Katuna mamaako Katuna mamaako jumbani Upendane Ukitaka kwa Kwa mkubwa Naikini kama badawa Nima mama's boy Pa umana na mam I don't know if that's very easy to hear out there But me I'm learning some things I'm at Facebook, Facebook, Y254 channel On Twitter Hashtag is why in the morning So say I don't know I don't know why Kuna zi ni nesia zisoma Making this a little bit hard For me But I'll try Asi zema Hurumatu yond odii e Mama kuhia santi kwa kunizali ya kitungu Maaji kila ziku matyozi ya na joka Fab for business thanks for your cooperation Avi Sao sha Sos ma dhen lo Ilik Kungoja dhen goja Nen ma dhen lo nhen goja sasa ok Tengili avoi Sos alin tole amalocks kua haja wee went to the school Alright finally Uh guys Peter Clever says, niku bad, ala. Sami, wanda, he says, kama hindi omai shakila suiku. Na e kiki. Wa ha, deportation niku expected anytime. Wee, wee, wee, wee, okay, alright. Honourable Dr. Eddie, ni mekuwanu na comment, lakini he says so much. Kami, perb, he says in the letter, Darilorimzima, wow. Okay, alright, okay. Josh, Josh says, kuna modja liyambe, ma mada asante sana kwa kumzaliat. Haa, e sana, sorry. Nama ni mauna pumuishon ni genda kuchoma, but remember, I try 5-4 Facebook, Y254 channel on Twitter, Y544 underscore channel on the ground. Our hashtag is Y in the morning. Alright, so I see time. I do not know how time is running away from us. I think it has 10 flies when you're having fun. Good morning this evening, Kaiso. Alright, so in conclusion, and this is on a very serious note to see, to see joke sana, what do you want to tell someone who thinks a kwa ready, nani dem, ana kwa ready to jump into this marriage or to walk, please walk, walk into it and ni ni na na expect, na far expect. Is it just going to be roses? They are going to be in love all the time, the way they are rich now in the relationships. Mata mambiwa relationship na marriage, there are two different things. Please allow us to understand what to expect. Namjue pia misjaw na. So I want to know what advice you have for me. Okay, so I want to say maybe take your time first before jumping into this thing called marriage. It's not easy. Why is it so hard? Hey, the times have packed. Ni mingi sana. Hey. Na umediru di syatumia. Na unakanga tu apumina unga tu. See, it's so hard and be ready for the challenges kwa sababu azi isha hangi, azi tawai isha. Zina kwa unga tu hapo, you just have to know how to solve them any time they come up. Namu siku jina yu mindset, baya mada indosa na baya. Unesabata na namzuri. Mwenyata kuchukulia vizuri kama yu adota. Upataata you can't even know the difference between mtoto wakiril. Na wewe. So usiku jina yu mindset, yu eka kanda kwanza. You just know you are going to a family that will love you, appreciate you. Iza zingine zi takuja badae. Yeah. And maybe kabla uinge concept of marriage. I don't know. Is it maybe this current situation that we are in, ama nimi nimi nima overthink, but sometimes tuna feel kabla uinge kweiki tuneto marriage. Lasmo kuna tene meza hepeza, ama lasmo kumefka status. Flani in this life, ama kuna kuna edge. Flani watu ananza kwa na baby fever, unana nika unanza kuchelewa. As in, should we fall into the rules of society? Ama, how are you going to advise us? To me, marriage is when you're ready. It doesn't matter your age. When you just feel like you're ready, now I'm ready for this. Kwaza, me, I got married when I was 23. Four years down the line. Congratulations. Sikuwa na job inzuri, nili kwa tuna hasul. My husband as well, aku anana job inzuri, but he just felt like we are ready for this. And we've come a long way to say it is bad. Me says kwa mbe amarej is hard, it is not hard, by the way. It is not. Nili litu, when you wanna eat kulea, I know anything in you na fanya. Uke na job, kuna challenges. Uke na shule, kuna challenges. When you're in high school, nga kwa kuchapua pano nini nini. When you're in campus, nga kwa ma vitumingi. Na umarej is an institution to kamaizu zengine. It is not hard. Nini when you're two way, unai handle. A la fu challenges are everywhere. Uke wa singo, ukuna heart breaks. Uke a lewa, si ji pati na me cheat. So, kila kitu ikuna challenges na ke. So I won't tell you it is hard. Whoever wants to join us, kari buni sana, it is not hard. Just kuatu na venitu na tako vitu. Na, like once you're ready, uke itwa job sule kwa ready. Ya, you're ready for it. Ege kuja kukini nyesha, asubu is six na yonayo, kazi. Nio kuheli. Exactly, send yoh. Staffa me kuja kiwa na home. Kukiwa na jam. Kukiwa na jam, you find a way, kuna ini na na shuka matu, na pada boda wa na fika. So when you're ready for anything, you are ready. No matter how challenges it is to come, you will overcome because you are ready. Uli uli zwa. Uliu, I will. So meaning, you will. To talk with a skuma, you will. Like you build yourself, alafu marriage is not about money and everything. I know pesan ziko. Sorry, it's about money. Wrong advice. Because what you have to consider javitun dogokama is. Exactly, wrong advice. Money is involved. Utuwa zikwa mbe ati. Maisha na, ati pesa na sheta. Ani, oh money, I'm sorry. You're not the devil. Kukuku kwa sandomba aya. You know, me, me ini lingya kuma rinjen na job bikaisha. I'm not even afraid of saying this because wu ana sema mandom tu mingini me niya kwa in that place ajuya na isa toka. And now Tulians are life from scratch. Scratch meaning zero. We've grown from single room to unbed rooms juya 7k. And now where we are. Like at times wu anafungu ami lang wala funa toka enjena juza. Ani kwa wala. Wala rinjen na ina jamia. Jaki, you've come from far and you're going places. That is why na jita beyond jaki because I believe there's something beyond just being me. Kwa ni believe from starting from nowhere to somewhere. Ni mesoma. I can't do anything. Na isa fanya job bia yote. Bati li fika place. Nili kwa na uza adi fish. Kwa bara bara. Just to get to push yourself. So it is not about atilas muku ena millions is how committed you're willing to be. Like when you're committed to do this muna indana. Kukiku jale akuna job siswodet na abiana shika jogorod misike mombasa road. Tuku jana foso tufanya eni tufanya eni. So it's about commitment and being ready. Ready is the is the key word. When you're ready you will do anything. You will stay committed. Ya you will stay. So just be ready. Ya motion bide. When you're ready this is cool kuna park. What made you either come back us or unpark? What made you? Kuna jia mbe ani? The love that I have between me and my husband inna overdue all other things. None of us even have any nonsense. Ya when you have that love ya ni it is everything. Ya. Ya. Neza penda motueva. Wancha tuwana but coming to theatre ni ayu thank you so very much for coming beyond Jackie bide. Tu mbe ni hando zeno do tuwafwate YouTube zeno. Ok on my YouTube channel experience bide na kwa social media platform zote Twitter, Facebook, IG, TikTok, experience bide. Okuna jina experience bide. Beyond Jackie Maron YouTube, Beyond Jackie Maron Instagram, Beyond Jackie Maron Facebook Beyond Jackie Maron TikTok. Alright so thank you so very much for watching thank you for letting us into your home from Stephanie Ayata and who tomorrow will be resting is how we wish you a fantastic day and happy half day. Bye bye. Bye.