 Accepting gifts and money from someone who you don't like um that's a good decision Okay, do you feel like that leads the person on or do you make it very clear? Like I don't like you but you could still what if they're offering like if you as long as you're not like send me some money And like you're like I don't like him, but like if they're like can I send you some money? Can I send you some food like okay? Like you know like Okay, it's because it's like you're not entitled to anything. Okay, I think it's transactional Sorry 51 a date That's a good decision, okay First day is absolutely no absolutely not immediately. No we are not about to go because it's just like that's kind of setting the tone You know because it's only gonna go downhill from that. You know what? I'm not gonna lie We're one of my exes on our first day I thought I was doing something by paying for like so we went out to eat first and then we did an activity after And I was like, you know what I'll pay Bad decisions don't do that cuz that's that's the standard that you're willing to not dish out anything No, let the man provide for you until you feel ready. Okay, don't try to prove a point for these things Don't do it. No, I did it one time. Um, I take that so serious like with the first date There was one time I was with a guy And I guess he didn't have it or something And he started pulling out quarters cuz I was like, no, he didn't And what did you do I left? Oh, what's up y'all? It's your girl Brianna Emani and the clip may be done But there's still more to come so make sure you like comment and subscribe