 Did you hear me on that? They put their purpose ahead of a relationship. And I'm here to say as well, for those of us divorced, our children are important in our lives, our professional aspects are important in our lives, our family members, our parents are important aspects of our lives. A relationship is also important. I don't believe anything should be a priority. Now there are times when we have to put things in a priority. And certainly when there's situational things that happen like a death in the family and adjustment in life, you have to put those things in a priority. At the same time, if two people are investing in growing a relationship together, then the we is a separate entity that requires nurturing. So I want you to think about there's a you, there's a me, and then there's a we. The we is a separate entity.