 What's going on, y'all? Welcome to the Single Guide channel. My name's Lloyd. Today we're going to talk about the top three reasons why women ghost you. So ghosting is a huge problem in today's dating age. With phones, cell phones, social media, ghosting has pretty much become the norm for how people tell someone that they don't want to see them again and they don't tell them they just don't interact with them. So usually what happens with ghosting is that at first she found you attractive. At first she liked you. At first she was talking to you, responding to you, excited to see you. But then the messages slowly stop coming in. They take longer and longer to come and then eventually they stop coming at all. So what is going on here? Why did she stop doing this? I could make this video an hour long telling all the reasons why a woman is going to ghost you. We can go in depth in each one. But these are the top three that I've seen and usually it's one form of this or the other that gets women to stop responding to your messages. Thing number one is you started acting really needy or she just encountered neediness from you. Basically when a woman encounters neediness nothing is going to repel her faster than you doing this. Why is neediness one of the most unattractive things a guy can do? Because as a woman she needs a guy that can help her take care of a child. If you're the needy one in a relationship she's got to take care of two children. Nobody wants that. That's a horrible situation for anybody to be in. Now although she's not always thinking about having kids biologically in her mind that's what's kind of happening. Women do not like neediness in any shape or form. They don't even want it for a guy that they're just trying to hook up with. But if you did hook up with her and then you start showing neediness expect her to not want to hook up with you again. Thing two is going to be not showing enough interest. If you show too little interest on a woman she's going to think you're not interested in her and she's going to go for a guy who is showing you more interest. Now a lot of times guys mistakenly think that they have to just not show any neediness and that will take care of the problem. No you also have to show some interest as well too. Just ignoring her or just being so aloof or just acting like kind of a douchebag is probably going to repel her. Maybe not as fast as neediness will but it definitely will repel her. She's going to say this guy is not really into me and maybe another guy is showing her more interest. She's going to go for that guy. So if you're not showing enough interest ask yourself what you can do to start doing that in a non-needy way. Showing interest in a non-needy way is inviting her to do cool things with you. Actually asking her about her day and showing interest in what she's doing. Those kinds of things. If you're doing that then she's going to know that you're interested in her. But if you completely ignore her messages you don't talk to her at all and you think that you're doing the right thing because you're not being needy well then chances are you're probably going to lose her. Usually showing too much interest and being way too into her too quickly can also repel women and that's actually a form of neediness but showing too little of it is just as bad as well too. Thing three is going to be she found someone better. Typically if some guy is not violating the first two rules this third thing can sometimes happen. It's not as common as the first two believe it or not I find that with women yes she's probably talking to multiple guys especially at the beginning but usually if there's a guy that's better for her or if there's a guy that's good for her she's going to give that guy a chance. But if there's a guy that's better for her then she's probably going to go with those guys and a lot of times it's not always something that you have control over. I've had women ghost me for that reason in the past too. Not recently but basically there was this one situation that I had with a girl I remember way back in the day we were talking for a while and what started to happen was I started to notice that she stopped responding to my messages and it was going really well and I was like I don't really know understand what the problem was and it was because she started seeing another dude and I knew she was seeing another dude and I asked her about it and she was like yeah you know that's why I didn't respond to a couple of your calls because I started dating another guy and they're basically like boyfriend and girlfriend. The problem that I couldn't control was that she lived in another country you know and this was actually during I think the start of COVID you know not much I can do there if I'm not next to her and she's not by me that's a better option for her so a lot of times it might not even be your fault okay so it's important to not blame yourself for everything and if you if a girl ghosts you don't beat yourself up too much about it you know there might be a better option for her and honestly you should want people to choose the people that are the best for them if she was better for somebody else then she wasn't the best thing for you dude and as a high-value man understanding that is gonna make you a lot more confident and just improve your interactions with women in general you're not gonna be as tied to the result as much as some of the needy guys or some of the guys who are too much of an asshole are tied to and that will free you up to actually be yourself and just have a better dating life overall so hopefully you've seen from these three things there's one commonality between all of them and that's basically if something changes when you attract somebody at the beginning and she's into you but then you start acting needy well something changed you're not that same guy that she was attracted to or that she thought she was attracted to at the beginning and if you're not showing enough interest then she thought you were someone maybe you guys were texting on a dating app or something like that and you're asking her out and you're doing all of those things and you're texting her because you want to get her out but then you stop showing that level of interest and then she starts you know expecting you to do that and you're not doing that anymore okay well then something changed then if another guy comes into the picture and she's a better option for well that's something that also changed as well too okay that's the main reason why ghosting happens and something changed so basically if you act consistently you have a much more better chance of keeping those girls around and like I said you can do everything right and still get ghosted and that's okay but for the most part for me in my life and my way I conduct dating I rarely get ghosted I'm pretty open and honest with people and hopefully this trend of ghosting as you get older and as you get more responsible and mature you can handle things in a little bit better of a way but if it happens to you don't be yourself up dude there's plenty of fish in the sea and you'll find someone who doesn't do that to you all right thanks you guys if you made it and consider subscribing come out with videos like this every single week if you're interested in getting personally coached by me there's a form down below I got a new program coming out and there's also some digital products that I have a goal to that will really help you out and get girls that are above your main value thanks a lot guys good luck out there