 Hi y'all, I'm going live. It is a Wednesday. I try to go live every Wednesday on this channel just To have some type of you know regular schedule So I'm just gonna wait for a few people to arrive. How y'all doing? Okay, so we're gonna be talking about why women like or prefer provider men, okay Most of the women I know want a man to provide for them They that's something that they require something that they wish for something that most women want in a man just like Most men want an attractive woman, okay, or a faithful woman or a woman who's going to be You know what they want their ideal, okay? So a lot of women want their man to be providers and that's a part of what they feel Makes up a man, you know That's part of what have you know gives them respect for a man, you know So I feel like When guys get upset that women have this preference It's because they can't provide for you Okay, so if you run across any man who gets upset when you mention the word I need a man to provide provide pay if they get upset at that that means they're not a provider so quickly Dismiss them and don't waste any of you any more of your time if you're manifesting a man to provide if You're if you stay in there and deal with their frequency of arguing of not Should not be providing for you then you're working in reverse So as soon as you hear the words no Dutch coffee You pay half or no, I can't provide for you or you know something like that Dismiss and move forward, okay If it's too late and you're already in that relationship and you want your man to change But you but he got into the relationship with you thinking that you were gonna pay Have a things and now you don't want to you're gonna have to either end it and find someone new or Or You're gonna have to you know, give him the ultimatum Because you can't go into an agreement and then back out of it and totally change it and expect them to understand Because that's not the type of woman that they wanted, you know You know when they get rich, of course, that's not a problem But a lot of women don't know that they're the what I called the ladder chick The ladder chick is who they climb up to get to the top and then they go get the other chick They really want okay, so if you're a ladder chick if you're helping your man if you're supporting your man If you're building with your man, you're the ladder chick You're the chick that they climb up stand on her shoulders to look over the fence to see the woman They really want you know and the woman over the fence don't see him standing on your shoulder They just see him getting ready to hop that fence, you know, ooh a man. Ooh, he climbed the thing by himself. Ooh Yes, they don't see him standing on your shoulders and when he looks down all he sees is you behind him Supporting him and that doesn't make him feel very manly, but the woman on the other side of the fence seeing him climb that Fence all the way to the top. She's impressed. She's gonna treat him like the man. She's gonna treat him like oh My god, you're so successful. You're so smart. You're so this while the other woman is gonna treat him like hey I helped you you ain't nobody without me. So guess where he's going He's gonna go ahead and jump over that fence to the other girl and leave you stranded He ain't gonna pull you up. He gonna be like thanks for the lift. Peace out so don't help a man Because you're a ladder chick and you're gonna be the ladder you like being a ladder. That's fine You better have a ladder of your own if you're gonna be a ladder for someone else. So What I'm trying to say is if you're dating and you have red flags that your man or the man that you're dating Ain't gonna pay for nothing and won't you pay half the bills and the rent then? You know, you did you need to dismiss be gone because If you have self-value You know that if you're gonna date if you're gonna marry if you're gonna have any type of long-term Relationship it should be beneficial Okay Not dragging you backwards not not taking you anywhere not keeping you on the same page Is where you are now if you can't move forward you don't need to be in that relationship, okay? Now I didn't say you don't need to have friends I didn't say you don't need to have acquaintances or you know people that you see every now and then I'm just saying relationships, you know Don't invest in any type of relationship unless it's beneficial Just like you wouldn't go take a job if it wasn't beneficial just like you wouldn't get out of your bed and Go to wherever you need to go if it wasn't beneficial, you know what I'm saying Don't get into a relationship unless it's beneficial a lot of people move backwards when it comes to relationships They think oh, well, I'll be alone. Who cares about being alone being alone Doesn't mean you you're not dating or you're not having fun or you're not seeing people It just means you don't have a committed relationship with somebody because they can't meet your standards. That's all I mean It's just like a job position, you know These companies will have a job position open for months and months and months and they won't feel it Because they haven't found the right person for it, you know, they're not just gonna hire anybody off the street They will ruin their company, you know, they're they're not they're not finna invest in someone who can't bring their A game And can't benefit the company they're gonna wait and wait until they find the perfect candidate. They will search They will look at resumes They will outsource that job or get other people to handle that responsibility Until they find someone to take on that position and once they get that person in that position They know that their company is safe They know that their company is going to do well gonna profit more not gonna be in danger and you know they're gonna benefit from hiring this person and So on and so forth so a lot of women make the stupid mistake of getting a relationship Just to be in a relationship just to feel the position and then their company gets dragged down and goes out of business And then they wonder what happened That's what happened you took anything and filled your position Because you are afraid of something that I don't know what it was but That's what you did So anyway Can y'all see me I think somebody said the stream hasn't started streaming. Okay, well some other people can see me so When when a man approaches you if you don't think that they're up for the job Politely dismiss them and don't waste any more time with them if that's what you're manifesting if you're manifesting a provider Don't waste time with someone who can't provide okay that's just like Very Self-destructive to deal with people that can't benefit you a lot of people learn this and in the entertainment industry and the music industry They only surround themselves with people that will benefit them not hurt them not drag them down Okay, it could be a stylist. Okay a lot of people fire their stylist because when they go out on that red carpet People talk about them like they're crazy and they're a mess and then you know, oh my god my stylist You're fired. You don't benefit me you suck, you know, they hire a new stylist. That's gonna get the job done So when you get into relationships, think of it like that if this person can't meet your standards Then they don't need to be in your lives, you know a lot of people Forget to keep their standards when they get in the person's face They don't want to hurt people's feelings. They don't want to be too rude They don't want what if they they try to see the good side and the potential Okay, they try But usually they're disappointed so you got to go for what you know Not for what you think not for what could be But if you're trying to benefit in this lifetime and this next five years You got to go for what you know what you can see what you can touch Okay, not for what you think what you hope what he says what he says think about this You don't go about what he says you go about what you see what you can touch what you could hold you don't go by what anyone says because people like they lie and If you're gonna base your life on a lie, you're just as bad, you know, but don't do that Okay And if you're hanging around people that judge you for wanting more in life, perhaps you don't need to be hanging around them perhaps they're Only judging you because they don't think that they can do any better and they don't want you rising above them Okay, they don't think oh you shouldn't love a man for money. You should just find love What they're really saying is I wished I would have found a man with money because love ain't all that you know right now You know, I'm in a good relationship I'm in a decent relationship, but dang, you know, I don't have anything else. That's all that I have that's it I just have a relationship. I don't have anything else to go with it, you know I don't have accessories to my relationship. I don't have this. I don't have vacations in my relationship I don't have cars in my relationship. I don't have my bills paid in this relationship, but I'm happy. I'm happy They're happy Momentarily they're not at peace They don't have constant joy Why because they have to go out and work and struggle and come back home and cook and clean and wash laundry and Do all that kind of stuff because they settled You know and then when you come around talking about oh, I'm gonna get me a man with money We're gonna go on vacation. We don't have maids. They get mad because that's what they secretly want They they want what you want But they're ashamed that they didn't get it so they're gonna drag you down to their level so that you can't have it So that you can enjoy the good life. They're already trapped. It's too late. Well, it's not too late They can always leave but they are trapped They want you to feel what they feel, you know, and when you get there if you listen to them You'd be like girl you lied Girl this ain't it This is not it. Okay so Don't let them people drag you down. They just don't want you to be where they can't be okay. I promise you I've had many women told me what you what about love? What about money? What about comfort? What about vacations? What about shopping? What about? My kids going to college. What about a nice house? What about living in a nice neighborhood? What about going to the best schools? What about having your kids enrolled in the best schools? What about that? Okay, what about all that love I can get from my kids And and when you're with someone who will do all of that for you, you will Fall in love, you know what I'm saying because that man has taken you and cared for you provided for you and his kids and Created a life that you've always wanted and so you won't have any choice But to say oh my gosh, you know, he loves me this much. Look what he did. I love him, too You know, it's not gonna be like You know, you know unless that's the intention that you went into it with like, you know I'm get what I need to get and bounce That's called a gold digger. Okay a person that marries and then sees it through Marries for money sees it through sticks with the person Loves the person loves the lifestyle. They they benefit from everything. Okay. It might not have been your first choice He might not have been a supermodel He might not have been You know the the type of man that you would have normally married, but he gave you everything that you ever wanted and that Right there is love. Okay, he loves you more than you love him, which means You're not gonna be hurt which means he's gonna make sure that you're happy no matter what You know what I mean and your kids, you know, they're gonna have what they need not struggle and They're not gonna be wondering why they can't have what the other kid has They're not gonna wonder that cuz they're gonna have it why because their mom was smart. Okay Mama was smart. Mama got you what you needed, baby Okay, mama got you that and mama didn't have to take out no payday loans And mama don't have to go to work and mama don't have to do this because I was smart on how I chose To deal with men. Okay, and I'm gonna teach my daughter the same way If they can't benefit you by past That's it Now a lot of women will argue with me a lot of men will argue with me and say, oh I don't care. I know what I wanted. I went and got it and I have it You could say whatever you need to say But I got what I need so And if you don't believe in what I'm talking about it's because a you can't get it be You can't provide if you're a man and see it's too late for you because you already made a thousand mistakes The best thing to do if you've already made so many mistakes And if you can start over to start making better decisions That's the only way that you can improve on your life make better decisions teach your kids to make better decisions So they don't end up You know worse in a worse situation. So, you know, everybody can benefit from this Men can benefit from this by knowing what women truly want and getting themselves together before approaching women can benefit from this from not taking anything a man offers unless it's what they actually want and you know young women can benefit from this by Understanding that the fairy tale in love thing, you know in all the Disney movies and da da da Yeah, that's nice, but the prince had a castle the prince had a kingdom the prince had gold the prince had money, you know So the fairy tale can be true if you keep your standards high, you know, you can have all of that And most of those Disney movies she only knew the man for like two days or one day So you telling me she fell in love in one day Think about it They weren't on this world-ren relationship for three four months six months to two years They didn't have no kid she met him in two seconds. He's like you the one Because you rich and I'm not basically that's what Disney that's what the Disney movies were showing you That's the fairy tale getting what you want going from broke to princess That's what it's about. You know it. Yeah. Oh, it must be true love that princess was lying. She met him Most of the time like two three days and then they was trying to get married if she fell in love that quick Then whatever but she's lying. I know she was Cinderella she met him one time at the ball He fell in love Never said she fell in love, but he fell in love love at first sight He's like what he saw he went and found her and made her the princess Okay, you know what little mermaid she spent a week up there on a On the land She couldn't even talk He didn't even know her she couldn't even get to know her like she couldn't even talk like she was a mute All she did was look good. Okay? He fell in love with her No talk Right then they got married a week later on the boat Who else Aladdin and Princess Jasmine I Think they know each other for I think they only saw each other a couple times like she escaped to the city and she met him Then he got his genie and wish wish to be a prince He didn't he didn't he can't wish for true love the genie said so he got a wish for the next best thing was that Make me a prince make me rich, right? So he got the money and You know, she met him. She didn't like him at first until she looked into his eyes and said, oh You're so nice blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, but you know because she could have any rich man But the moral of the story is to get her attention And for her to be able to marry him he had to be what rich So The moral of the story is the fairy tale. It's not about love. It's about money It's about the lifestyle. It's about your future, you know happily ever after That's what it's about and Like if like us so someone said they're happier singer single than in a relationship I was you know, people can be happy single or in a relationship It doesn't even matter as long as you have what you need in this life and not struggling you could be happy So that's what I'm saying if you're gonna get into a relationship Don't get in a struggle relationship because you won't you won't have a lot of happiness in that and Make your decision logically don't don't just sit there and so he's cute and I love him and he said this and he said that Nope, don't work like that Okay, so let me see these comments. Let me go look up in here Okay, someone says their boyfriend stopped pursuing them after they got into a relationship Because he's working two jobs well, I Feel like okay, like don't think I'm stuck up or nothing But I feel like if you have to date someone who's working two jobs that they're probably young And they haven't become established yet and they can't You know do the things that they want to do because they're still working Okay, I feel like if you want a boyfriend to be able to give you all the attention and Make money you want to go older or somebody with a career, okay Because your boyfriend he's working two jobs to pay for whatever he needs to pay for Because he doesn't have enough income to do what he needs to do Men who focus on their work and their jobs and savings That's what their focus is on, you know, they know they can't get love without finance So if you want him to quit his job and be broke so he can give you attention, that's fine But for me like I wouldn't date someone like that because I Can't benefit from it. I can't get the attention or I can't get any type of benefit So for me, it would be a waste of my time You know, it might be fun as a teenager and as a young adult Because I'm not trying to marry this person, but you know until I upgrade. Yeah, he's fine But I don't I wouldn't stick in that situation because that's what your life and future is gonna be like I guess if he's working two jobs and hopefully he's in school or working towards a career If he's just gonna work jobs all his life, then that's the life You're pretty much gonna have you know, so think about it. I meet successful man who are frugal and cheap What's your advice just leave? Yeah, if a man has money, but they're cheap It's the same thing as dating a broke man move on. Okay, that's why they're single because they're cheap It takes the certain type of woman to bring it out of them like If you if you're dealing with a cheap man And he's got money He basically he's trying to get Women off of the fact that he has money instead of spending the money and Benefiting the woman so if you're trying to get him to spend money you need to tell him about himself You need to be like look you need you need to get rude because you have nothing to lose at this point You know, he's just like another broke man to you. You need to look him in his eyes. They look You're you have all this money. You're supposed to be all this and all that but you can't even spend, you know Such and such and this and on this and that Wow, you know Okay, well good luck with your dating life, you know, I'm out Just be disgusted with it, you know rich men men with money Don't like rejection. They have a big ego and if you hit them in the soft spot of their money They'd be like, dang I am a cheap MF, you know, it's like, you know what? I'm gonna go find someone who's comfortable spending money because they have real money. You obviously are afraid to lose your money and That means you don't really have money coming in like you say you do so I'm gonna go find someone who's the real deal you know, you just have to tell people about themselves sometimes because After you do that, they're gonna say dang, you know, it's so, you know, what do you want fine? What do you want? Then they're gonna try to prove themselves to say, oh, yeah I really do have money because now you're no longer impressed with their money because they can't spend it. It's like Yeah, okay, so what do you want, you know, you got to have to drag it out of them and Don't these are the type of guys that you got to be bitches to you gotta be like look if you If you don't brag about your money, you need to spend something. Okay, because I don't believe you anyway, you know And they're gonna want to prove it to you, you know, like well It's like, no, you know what I don't believe nothing comes out your mouth. Show me something buy me a Louis Vuitton Buy me a Chanel. Let's go to the store. Buy me some jewelry something, you know If you have all this money then spending shouldn't be so hard. You got to be bitches to guys like that because They're replaceable They're not getting you're not getting anything out of it. Anyway, you might as well take that risk You know, though a lot of women are afraid to take these risks by my telling people about themselves And that's when you get more when you tell people about themselves and men have fragile egos So they will try to prove themselves to you after you cuss them out and get mad like dang she put me in my place You know, she never she didn't question me. She just put me in my place I'm gonna have to prove to her now that I really do have money. Okay, so that's what they're gonna do You got it. You got just let them have it y'all see Those people on on the reality shows they getting cussed out and then they come two weeks later with an engagement ring Men like that don't be afraid Don't be afraid I Remember, you know, I would cuss I would cuss guys out because they weren't Living up to my standards and the name they they they were So if they want to be in your life, they're gonna do what you need if they don't want to be in your life They're they're gonna just miss you just like you are getting ready to dismiss them anyway So when you when you're at the point where you don't have anything to lose let them have it and at least they'll learn for the next person, you know So this is Okay, so I would just start dating other people. Okay, so Zara I would just start dating other people and when he realized You know, I was you know dating other people, you know, when he got a moment to breathe and say, oh, okay I'm not busy then you can tell them that look I didn't get you I didn't get you on the phone. You're too busy I need Companionship in my life. You're too busy working. So peace out, you know Just start dating other people to feel the void. Why do you have to be with him only? You know, I don't understand He's not your husband. He's not somebody that you know, it's going to benefit you So why are you investing so much in him? That's what I'm asking. Why are you investing? More than he's investing in you That should tell you something right there. You're investing so much more than he's investing in you Why don't you invest in yourself and another relationship and if he wants to get your attention? He will, you know Just don't feel like it's worth. I don't feel like it's worth it How do you know that they are just faking change to temporarily appease you and suck you back in? If you don't have something in your hand to prove that they have changed Then you don't go back. Okay, if you don't have proof evidence tangible things, you don't go back If you believe what comes out their mouth, you deserve what you get That's all I say, you know Man are catching on to this trickery ladies. Who cares the demand and the supply is still the same so it doesn't matter what you're catching on to you still want what you want and You know, that's just how it is A man will know they're being tricked and still do what they need to do You will know you're getting tricked and still go forward with it. That's the whole beauty of it. Like I Know she's just a gold digger. I know she just want my money. I know she just want this but Let me go ahead and give it to her so I get what I want to Same thing like y'all know we know just like we know y'all know so Doesn't bother me that y'all know if it was such a secret I wouldn't be on YouTube, okay? Y'all can know Everything but it's still not gonna stop you from pursuing Dog is barking. I don't like you said my your your partner was a sociopath. Oh Well break up move on, you know That's a personality disorder that those don't change so good luck with that Okay, Chelsea says she's tried my advice being rude and dishonest. Well, you have to have certain Confidence to go along with that. You got to be able to step out and get any other man You want to if you can't do that then you can't be rude Okay, if you don't if you if you don't miss a beat you can't be rude for example, you know, if You walk into a place and you know You're you know people like what you look like and want to talk to you and approach you and one guy walks up And he's not what you like you can be rude and dismiss him The next man will come up who thinks he's better and still be able to you know Impress you but if you don't have any prospects if you don't have Anybody to replace that person with if you if he don't think that you could do any better than him It's not gonna work. Okay, that's just saying so I feel like a lot of women Like always say if you're gonna cuss somebody out if you're gonna be rude to somebody look your best Okay, it looked like you're gonna lose all of this if you don't comply You got to go in there with your sexiest outfit on hair did makeup nails You got to look like if I leave this house, I'm gonna catch a man one Richard in you That's what you got to look like when you you know Be rude to guys cuss them out tell them, you know, what's on your mind? You can't be in there looking like somebody's Made you know what I'm saying you got to come in there looking like Do you see this you can read to lose it? Okay, you can't you can't I'm telling you if you are here with a man looking looking basic You ain't gonna get nowhere Because they feel like I can go I can get better. I can go out and get this type of woman You I don't need you. Okay, I can do better than you That's what they're trying to tell you if it doesn't work on them So make sure you find a man who can't do any better than you or Make sure you look like if you step out this house right now You will come back with somebody with twice as much money as this dude has because that's how it works Okay, you can't just go in there with this Okay, you got to go in with the total package you got to come in there like bam Okay What if he had what if the man has entitlement issues? Well, you better make sure he's compensating you for your entitlement issues as well If you're with the man with entitlement issues and you don't have entitlement issues y'all are unbalanced So get some entitlement as well, and if you don't meet your you don't meet his Personality versus wealth Most most people you have to have a personality you can deal with okay if it's unbearable if it's crazy if you just Oh my god. No, I will murder you and you'll sleep if I have to stay with you Don't pass them up and find somebody else. Okay Don't sacrifice your self-esteem for some money, okay? Unless you plan to get in and get out like most women, okay? Someone says what happened to all these men heading to Brazil to find women? They got their wallet stolen those women charged because prostitution is legal in Brazil and They want citizenship and they've probably seen my videos Okay, someone says I look like a mix between Oprah and Oscar the Grouch. Well, thank you I like Oprah Oprah's my mentor. Okay, because she does not deal with poverty mind Or broke man, you know even statement has the money maybe not as much as she did but you know Did y'all know Oprah was the sugar sugar baby when she first started off? She used to date was that that film critic Roger Ebert He don't want to tell her to syndicate her show and he gave her all this advice and she was dating him and Yes, that's why she's where she is today Because she dated older man, you know gave her some good advice And Oscar the Grouch, he was my favorite character on Sesame Street besides the count Count was sexy, but yeah, I love Oscar the Grouch You know why cuz he said what he meant he meant what he said he didn't care what nobody thought and That's what he did and I liked him for that he might have been green and grouchy, but he was telling the truth And he didn't live with his mama either so Another a plus for Oscar. Okay. Anyway, maybe he did live with his mama and she died and so that's why he was homeless. I Don't know Okay Y'all y'all people saying they hate trolls. I love trolls Trolls make make life more interesting because you could get them back Okay, so So like guys if y'all are on here y'all come here for some therapy now The therapy is you can't provide for a woman So you want to hear why a woman wants to be provided for so you can counteract it and say something else because at this moment The time you can't provide now. I will tell y'all If you do are you if you are lucky enough to get with a woman and you're not providing or doing anything or paying You're very lucky So treat that woman good because it's just a matter of time before she wakes up and realize she can do better Or she will want to upgrade on you like I'm just saying like enjoy that time because It's not It's not gonna last too long the woman is gonna say, you know what I can do better. You know what I deserve more You know what I'm tired of paying for this. You know what I thought you was a man. You know what I'm not horny You know what I don't respect you. You know what I don't want you. You know what I found somebody else You know what he make more money than you. You know what bye So enjoy the time that you have Appreciate her to keep her as long as you can but no But she's eventually gonna start either a resenting you not respecting you and Trying to upgrade on you secretly So just remember that don't be coming here trying to troll y'all if y'all are here and y'all feelings are hurt is because You know is troll Someone says I feel that my husband cheats on me. He has a job where he's gone a lot Should I get on the phone spy app on him? The thing about husband's cheating because they're gone a lot Let me ask you a question if you find out he's cheating are you gonna leave What are you gonna do like are you gonna say well, I'm gonna give divorce Are you gonna do that because if you're not willing To go all the way why even care if he's cheating why even bother doing all that, you know and To me if you're not willing to do something about it don't even start to look for it like I'm serious because at that time When you think your husband is cheating and you want to do all this stuff that means you're very Emotionally invested in him and you're setting yourself up to be hurt If you find out something that you don't want to find out so unless you're willing to act upon it you're just gonna be hurt stuck and Miserable so if you really want to know if he's cheating on you Get your stuff together just in case Get your backup plan just in case so you some money just in case and then put the stuff on his phone and If you find something you don't like you're able to leave instantly you'll have to stick around, you know for him to repeat it So That's my advice to you You're gonna go and look and stuff you're gonna find something and If you find something and you're not ready to act on it, then you shouldn't even been looking That's my advice Okay, so and someone says let the man cheat and keep spending his money like I said If you pay and have the bills and he's out working and cheating then you're getting you're getting the bad end of deal so if he's paying all the bills and You know and if he's cheating and sleeping around. Oh, well, let's work for you You can always go and get you a man to girl A side dude is what I call him So a lot of men on here are saying I make no sense because you have no sense you have no coin So obviously I don't make no sense. So maybe if you go make some coins, I will make some sense Yeah If I you know what if I found out my husband was cheating I Have enough money saved to where I can go live a great lifestyle And I have enough of my youth left where I can go get another man that has money And I have been a married long enough to where I can get a lot of money from him Plus I got two kids and child support Would be a lot of money from him So if my man cheated on me, it would benefit me. That's that's the kind of man you want You want a man that's so good if he cheats on you it will still benefit you That's the kind of man you want to get if you if cheat if you're a cheating husband can't benefit you don't even bust them Okay, because you you're just setting yourself up for failure If you're gonna get married make sure if your man cheat you will benefit out of the whole deal You know what I'm saying that way you will always win Right so that's why it's important to get a man that can do stuff for you because even if he's when he's doing wrong He's doing for you. Okay, even when he's doing you wrong. He's doing for you. That is what you want. That is called Using your brain Okay, ask all these women who are rich living in mansions driving nice car-ass black China Ask any man Who has been in a relationship with someone? And they have left with more than they came in with They'll tell you I messed up well Go look around and all these women ex-athlete white ex-athlete wife's Ex-um ex-wives of celebrities. They're all living nice They're all living nice, you know single boyfriends new husbands, whatever because They chose someone who could benefit them in every way even by doing the wrong Okay If you in a relationship with somebody who is not doing anything for you You're wasting time energy and your youth if you can't do any better Then you better make that work Does all I can say you better make it work and you better get comfortable and If you're not planning on leaving you'd better stop complaining because that's the life you chose Okay It comes up the fake conscious broke dusties. Hey y'all doing. Hey y'all doing so the dusty day today I'm allergic to dust so y'all can't stay too long, okay I'm let y'all still a bit say y'all a piece, but y'all gotta move along because I'm start sneezing up in here at all these dusties I might have to get my Swiffer out My dust buster Why do men take advice of women because y'all won't women? Unless y'all won't man y'all need to be taking advice for me unless y'all are gay then it still works, but a Man does not understand a woman her mind is very complex if he only thing he needs to know is he needs to be able to provide That's number one Number one provide so half the man here are losers a man making money wouldn't be here. That's so true These dusty dudes. They don't have jobs. They sit in front of on Facebook all day trying to debate Some crap that don't even matter because Like nobody is gonna do anything because you you don't have money. You can't do nothing. So Y'all just arguing for nothing. I have these other dudes are unemployed. Don't got no job living at their mom's house So that's why they're here and plus They don't like the title so they clicked on it Why because when they feel pain it it it makes them realize Something it makes them realize this dang Why can't I provide? Why don't women like me? This this must be why because I'm broke Let me figure out what then they're gonna try to figure a way around it and they're still not gonna work Unless they get a dumb person who falls for it but you know They're trying to figure out a way around it. Just like they tried to figure a way around you know Living rent-free, you know, they found they just went back to their mom's house very easy, you know They're trying to find a way around being a man So that's why you're here. That's fine. There is no way around it. Nobody will respect you No one will respect you if you can't provide for your wife and kids or your your woman They they won't even respect you. They'll just they'll talk about you behind your back They might smile on your face. Oh, yeah, you're a decent dude. He works hard He broke he ain't shit He can't even do nothing, you know what he bought me for my birthday some Walmart jewelry That's what they're really talking about, you know And when all their friends are showing off their gifts and stuff that they got for Christmas or Mother's Day or birthday You hide yours. You like Want them to see this cheap stuff that My man bought Oh, you know, he got he took me to dinner and my left I had this really nice necklace, but it's at home You know, you got a lie. You got a put your stuff in your pocket before they see it and laugh So yes men women like providers women like comfort women like luxury if y'all are here to Troll and be upset about that. I'm so sorry Perhaps you should be on a video of Someone teaching you how to get the success that women like because y'all ain't got it Okay, dustings Okay Women like luxury is there a scientific reason behind it. Yes, there is Luxury can take our kids further luxury can assure that our future generations are safe Luxury can make sure that we have food and water to give our kids Luxury can make sure we stay beautiful Luxury can make sure that we are Building instead of Decreasing, you know women like the strong man a strong man will provide Luxury versus a weak man providing the bare minimum women are naturally Attracted to Power Powerful men it turns them on sexually They have said that women who are having sex With a millionaire is a more likely to orgasm than I meant than a broke man than with a broke man Scientifically that's been proven because she's comfortable. She doesn't have to worry about she got to pay help If he gonna go ghost on her if he she get pregnant by him is he gonna pay child support, you know She ain't got to worry about that. So she's just Come get it. Let's go. I'm comfortable. This California king is nice better than that mattress on the floor and that dusty department Yes Okay, it's a natural to like Comfort who don't like comfort who doesn't like luxury. Tell me one person Who does not like luxury? Who does not like comfort? You're gonna go to a hotel. You're gonna pick the nasty rat motel or you're gonna pick the four seasons Which one are you gonna go to if you can have both? Like women they can have both I can have the four seasons or I can go to the to the dusty motel with rats I can pick I can choose this dusty or this rich man. I Have these options. Okay. I got options So I'm gonna choose the comfort. I won't room service. I won't clean sheets. I want Luxury I want jacuzzi Okay, so I'm naturally going to be a draw draw into what's better Do you want an iPhone or do you want? One of those old-school phones that just have numbers on it Which one do you want? Okay, that's the difference women like Nice things and if men don't understand that Will Even men like nice things. I don't understand y'all y'all expect us to not want nothing, you know, we We want nice things and if you can't provide it for us somebody else can okay, um When do you bring up not wanting to work right in the beginning of the relationship? If you haven't brought that up straight up and you fooled him into getting into a relationship Saying you don't want to work Later on after he's already thought you were gonna work. That's you can't do that. You got to tell him straight up That's why I always tell women like when you sooner you get in a relationship. Give them your standards Give them your standards um I did like look if I'm gonna be in a relationship with you. I'm not working. I'm not paying any bills I'm not doing this because I can do that single So What's it gonna be? You know, you don't have to say it that rude you could say well, you know, you can play like dams one Just straight, you know, if I'm gonna have you know I'm gonna be working all the time. I won't even have time to be in a relationship with you You know unless you're willing to you know pay my bills, you know, you make a lot of money I don't even have to work really I can just be there For you when you get off work, I'll be at home in my lingerie You'll have some food We can go out That's gonna sound start sound good to them. So You know mention it in the beginning don't wait until they're gotten used to you working. Don't do that. Do like Never How do I maintain my standards in college educated or my master's degree before the age of 30 and have no children Without being called It doesn't matter what they call you Are you getting what you want? I Don't you know people can call you whatever you want as long as you're getting the results you want doesn't matter So why are you worried? Okay, let's see Someone says there is a 51 year old prostitute making $400 an hour even old P is more valuable than these men Yep um Y'all like these guys just have no clue like seriously these guys have no clue how many options women have like they Just don't even know they don't even know like It's hilarious that they're so in the dark like we don't have to put up with brokenness what Do you do if she doesn't want to work outside the home or inside? higher maid Higher maid my I have a maid. I don't do no housework. I Don't do no housework. Why because I don't have to the only housework. I do is I clean up this room Okay, that's it. Like this is the only housework. I do I might wash a dish here or there But we have like I have a maid and I like I told my husband Look, I ain't doing no dishes. I ain't doing no laundry. I ain't doing none of that. So Unless you can afford a maid I might cook every once in a while. I'll cook sometime my husband does most of the cooking So I don't do housework like to me I you know, I used to do housework back in the day when we first got married and That was before kids. That was before I had this big house, you know, we had a little apartment High-rise luxury, you know a downtown so it wasn't much to clean. So yeah, I take care of that But now I'm living in a huge house I got two kids a dog and I ain't gonna do none of that, you know, like my husband can afford to hire maids So I don't do housework if you marry someone if you're with someone and they don't want to do housework and You know, you still want to get laid you better find a way around it or you better do it yourself Because a lot of women don't like being domestic and a lot of women don't like cleaning, you know A lot of women don't like doing laundry either So maids aren't that expensive. If you want to hire a cleaning service once a once a week once a month Save your money, you know, your woman will appreciate you for it. She'll be like, oh my god. It's so nice to have a maid Thank you, you know Okay, do you okay? Someone asked do you have to mention him getting more sex intimacy and attention in order to convince him to let you stay home? first of all Let you stay home. Why don't you just quit your job? Why don't you just quit your job and say look I'm at home wife now or I'm an at-home girlfriend or I'm gonna start my own business. I see what he says if he tells you oh, no, you need to go back to work. Oh, I can't You know, I can't go to work right now. I'm just not ready to go back and do what these guys do That's come with every excuse why they can't get a job Make sure and then after he gets used to you being there and doing all these extra things He's not gonna want you to go back to work. I promise It's gonna be like This is nice thing. She wanted to do something every day. She got food cooked You know, she looks happy. She happy to see me. She's not stressed She ain't fussing at me. She ain't cussing at me You know She ain't mad when I wake her up in the middle of night for some She looks good. She'd been going to the gym. She got time to work out. She yes, I like this Okay, and she ain't got no work husband. She ain't cheating on me with her boss just Quit your job and if he can't like make sure he can handle it financially Make sure you know he can afford for you not to work Because if you quit a job on a man who can't afford you then that's not smart. Okay Make sure You quit knowing he can afford you If he can afford you then you can quit, you know And he'll get used to it he'll start liking it, I promise you he'll be like I Don't want you to go back to work and some people are calling me feminist That ain't true. I'm not a feminist. I feel like men need to take care of women So if that's feminine feminist then you don't know the meaning Am I single? No, I'm married and that I've been married for a long time What should I say when man say you probably get a lot of compliments and attention from a man and when they ask about your dating life Okay, and when a man approaches you saying, oh, you probably get told this all the time or you probably get a lot of attention She's like, yes, I do. I do some people can't handle it either, you know you know, but that's the kind of man that wants to belittle you and Not They're insecure that's an insecure man who would say that to you because it's obvious you get attention, right? That's obvious like you don't have to say nothing like duh like, you know They already know the truth, but they're gonna repeat it to you so that you can put yourself down like, oh, no I don't get that much attention or oh, no, I'm not stuck up or oh, no. I'm not like that So yes, I do get a lot of attention. Which what's your point? You know Accept it and own it because they're trying to Use reverse psychology on you and if you let let them get away with it Then they're gonna start treating you like you don't deserve the attention or you don't deserve this and that because that's what they're Trying to pull you into so you just accept it's like, yes, I do get a lot of attention Yeah, you know I work hard for that attention, you know I I don't get up and look like this in the morning. I have to actually work for this, you know But yes, thanks for noticing, you know, thanks for your attention Basically, you don't give into that crap. That's just some reverse psychology. They think that's gonna work on you Don't work on me. I'm like, yes, I know If a man rejected you in the past and all of a sudden he's being nice and helpful, what does he want? sex He wants someone who's easy and knows that he can get real quick without much effort And if he's rejected you in the past that means whatever he was dealing with back then has left him and rejected him And now he's trying to find something easy that easy to deal with so he's basically trying to make Himself feel better by being with you because he was rejected, you know, he's trying to settle with you So we can get what he wants super easy, you know, so don't don't even waste your time with that Okay People saying I have a nasty. I'm nasty inside. I'm ugly inside. No, I'm honest. If honesty is ugly then oh well It is what it is Just because I don't Share the same values as a lot of people basically just means I don't follow society's rules and That's probably why I'm a lot better off than a lot of people Because I don't follow them stupid rules because they don't work and they work in it in reverse So if I'm ugly inside and you don't like the truth. Oh well You don't have to live my life. I I feel like people who feel Offended by what I'm saying is are suffering. They're just suffering because they can't provide or they they're not provided for The goal is not to sit up here and hate the goal is to try to figure out how you can get what you need to get You know, how can I get provided for how can I become a provider? Not how can I hate on this woman? Who's telling the truth? Either way, I feel your pain. Um, I don't do I I never suggest long-distance Relationships unless he's a millionaire ain't got a private jet Okay, don't even do it. It's not even worth it Either move or have him move This is long distance stuff. It's just like a filler relationship a pretend really it's not even real people don't even Claim those relationships as real when they go out. Are you seeing anyone like for example? You go out your man goes out and he sees a woman he likes and She was like, so are you single? Are you seeing anyone? He's like, yep. I'm single why because you don't live in his town and You're not a real relationship because You're not there you he can't touch Okay Hey, you know If if guys want to come here invent Because they can't vent to a real woman in real life because they'll get slapped and laughed at let them vent You can't provide how you broke with dusty You know, it's better to get trolled online in real life. So come on, you know, I don't mind I Welcome trolls because they can't say this to a real woman in real life. They can't say this They can't get mad. They can't get mad because they're broke So let them get mad here. This is this is where most people vent is online Why because they can't say this stuff in real life They got a reputation to protect So say it whatever you want. We don't care. We know the truth Me I can say this stuff in real life Why because it's true. Why? because I Don't have anything to lose Why because I'm already married Now, maybe if I was single I wouldn't be talking like this because my potential hoodling might see me and be like that girl It's crazy If I was single I would not be talking like this freely But I know it works if I was single I'd be more Cryptic of what I'd be saying, you know But since I'm not and I ain't got nothing to worry about I'm gonna I'm just gonna tell the truth Mm-hmm. Should you use sex as a reward to get your boyfriend to do What you need him to do he played Pokemon? Okay for me I Would use sex and don't play Pokemon and replace him an upgrade. That's what I'd be doing But hey, if you want him If he's playing Pokemon, I don't think sex is gonna interest him that much as with the next man. So Um, I can't got nothing for you there. I'm so sorry. I wouldn't even be there. I wouldn't even be dealing. I Don't date guys my own age The men I date don't even know what a Pokemon is Okay, even in the past like my husband is older the boyfriend that I had before I met my husband never played video games Maybe one maybe one dude because he was my age, but that didn't last but for three months, but seriously If you're in a relationship with somebody playing video games You need to rethink your life Get you a real man. I mean Why are you wasting your youth and beauty on a Pokemon player? I don't know like what? You know, what's so funny? Some of the most pretty gorgeous beautiful women are wasting their time with losers when they can be getting Cars purses vacation trips houses rings you know Whatever and y'all are wasting time with Pokemon dude, I don't know like where's your brain a Lot of times, you know, your beauty is only gonna last you for so long and if you wasted it on boys And then by the time you get smart enough and realize oh now I want this you're gonna be too old and wrinkly To attract the type of men you want and you're gonna have to go for the 70 year olds Okay, so I'm telling y'all if y'all are young and y'all are dating video Pokemon dude Broke dude if y'all are dating dude who worked two jobs and y'all are wasting your youth Okay, don't waste your youth get you know, you're gonna you're not gonna have this forever and use it to your advantage Okay, I promise you you won't regret it. You'll be like I have been missing out like I've been missing out And I will never go backwards It's not a dress this is a blazer darling This is a blazer, this is not a dress Someone says how is my husband broke when he's not when he's probably out working and you're here harassing Oh, my husband is here. He's downstairs. He can work from home He got it like that cuz he has a career If I were broke if my husband was broke, I wouldn't be with him darling Okay, you know, you gotta know that you gotta know that you gotta at least know that I don't deal with broke guys Mm-hmm. It's he a millionaire that owns a private jet No, he's not a millionaire that owns a private jet But he can afford to take care of us in a nice house and nice cars and I don't have to work and I Have made so I mean It I wouldn't really care about having a millionaire with a jet If I wanted one, you know Hey, I should have started younger, but I have I'm here now and I'm happy with what I get Now he probably will become a millionaire very soon, but I don't think we're gonna get the private jet Somebody say cocky bitch. Yes iconic Um What about Conversing with upwardly mobile men, I'm attracted and well, I'm attractive and well spoken But what do I talk to them about? Let them talk about themselves. You don't talk to them about nothing You just ask them what they do. Oh My gosh, what do you do? What do you like to do to let them talk? You don't talk Less they know about you the better if they ask you to talk about anything talk about how you would love to have your own business and that You would love someone to mentor and help you to Get there then they'll take you on as a project and they'll want to help you because you look up to them and you make them feel Manly and strong and they're gonna help you get to the top and get what you need Okay, don't talk to them about your life your ex don't talk about nothing just Them and what you want. That's it. They don't care about anything else. Anyways Like okay Get my husband in the room. Let's see him. He's downstairs working He doesn't like to be on camera y'all. He has a job like a real career He can't be seen on my stuff and if y'all want to see him. I do have a video It's called my husband tag y'all go find it. I Don't have to prove to y'all that I have a husband Unless y'all think I got all this by myself, then I'll take the credit I'll take the credit. Yeah, I did all this by myself y'all don't wanna see my house. I Did all by myself staying home talking on YouTube. Yes, that's the real truth. I made all this money on YouTube I wish I wish I'm someone says I'm showing symptoms of clinical depression I I'm so depressed. I have this life that I don't have to work. My husband takes care of me. My kids are taking care of I got a maid. I'm just so depressed y'all. I just there's nothing else I can do all I can do is shop and you know Read make videos You know Life is so hard What was me? You happy now Okay, so I have like if I were depressed you think I'd be wearing all these bright colors in this well lit room Drinking water, you know, this would be alcohol. I'd be wearing black. These walls would be painted. I Wouldn't look this good. I wouldn't have taken a shower or comb my hair or brush my teeth I'll be looking like y'all dudes trolling my video. That's what I would be looking like Broke and disheveled and dusty She was seven my man is great and bad, but I want a threesome and he doesn't should I leave him soon Why don't you have a threesome with someone else? That way you have your cake and eat it too and he doesn't have to and you didn't have to be involved. Okay You can still benefit For me like I Couldn't do I couldn't do the threesome thing because that don't work for me like that's one of the reasons I broke up with one of the My exes because he wanted a threesome and I went about that life Yeah, he was a millionaire But there's only certain things I will do for money and that ain't one of them why? Because back then I was young and I could have anybody I wanted so I was like, I don't need you I don't need this. I can go do whatever I want. I had five men in my pocket, baby. I was like, you ain't the only one And I moved on move forward But no for me I draw lines like there's only certain things that I would do Just because you got money that don't matter and still I'm not gonna do certain things now My morals are very different than most people's morals, but the morals that I do have I don't break Okay, I have morals Not a lot of them, but I got some Okay Yeah, I said I don't have a lot of morals, but I do have some that that's the difference like some people have too many Morals and that's what holds them back in life. They can't get ahead because they got too much stuff in their way I only have a few morals and they don't make or break my life. That's the whole point, you know, though Those are personal choices My sister is trying to deduce her married boss. She's his assistant. Please give her some of my girl wear skirts short skirts Sexy perfumes And ask him lots of questions like For help like not help with your job, but like Damsel in distress always gives me attention like Can I talk to you? I have like an issue and I just want to know you if you could you know, give me some advice Talking a sweet voice Look him in the eye Make sure you always smell good look good. We're short skirt. Let him see some leg No, no cleavage leg is good. Yeah and Then you know, just smile at him all the time like When you see him get happy like light up because most of time men if they're married or if they're like Position where they have a lot of stress and work, you know, and you every time you see them You light up they're gonna feel like wow She really likes me. I wonder how she would treat me. I wonder what she would do to me Look at her lighting up. I know she has a crush on me You know, maybe I should ask her out for drinks, you know, so every time you see him every time she sees him light up like Like you have a crush on him like make sure he knows she got a crush on him like but don't act on it Let him make the first move. You know what I'm saying and You know, that's all you got to do like I used to date my boss That's why I don't work today because if my husband made me go to work. I would be dating my boss That's my honest to God true like why because First of all, I'm gonna be with my boss eight hours a day or more. He's gonna be telling me what to do I'm gonna be doing work. You know, I He's gonna Be around me eight hours a day something gonna happen. Okay, we're gonna start some chemistry He ain't gonna be able to resist after a while. It's just Nature will take its course. So basically Because you know every every person that You know works they find a boyfriend at work a work husband or they date their boss Or they have a crush on someone at work That's that's just how it goes unless they work with all women or all men or something like that But most of the time There's a girl or a woman at work that a guy likes and thinks it's pretty They might not act on it, but you know, they have a crush So, you know, if you you keep letting it go and you know Someone is attractive and you're attractive and there's some chemistry there and you'll have a like comment You know, there's only one thing else that's gonna happen Three-hour lunch breaks baby Okay Okay, so yeah That's why it's important for you to be able to provide for your woman Because you don't want her dating her boss and coming home to you Getting that extra Christmas bonus, you don't know why she got the extra Christmas bonus and why it was so much and why she's got so many out-of-town Jobs that she has to go do you don't know, you know, so I've heard a lot of Conscious men say you send your woman out to work for another man. Don't be surprised if she starts Being attracted to him, you know, first of all, he's powerful, you know, he's he's her boss he's over her women are attracted to power and You send your woman out to work for somebody and There, you know, they're close to the same age and he's attracted to her and she's attracted to him You know, don't be surprised Right and you'll never know like the husband will never know Like oh, you have a good day at work. Yep, sure. Do you? So Do you like your husband? Yes, I do. I love my husband y'all without my husband I wouldn't be who I am today like seriously without my husband. I would not be as enlightened. I wouldn't be as Confident I wouldn't be as Knowledgeable I wouldn't be he taught me a lot of stuff to y'all. I wouldn't be Half the woman I am today. I wouldn't be in control of my emotions. None of that is all of that is think Thankful to him like I'm thankful to him for all that because first of all, I had the time To study read, you know, do all the things I had the time to Figure out how to balance my emotions without being stressed out from work and this and that, you know I had time time is a luxury Okay, money buys you time It's not about the money It's about the time that it buys you to to think to sit down to be free to breathe to not have to worry Okay, not to rush around not to be stuck in traffic Money gives you time which you cannot get back So I use my time very wisely and I'm thankful to my husband that he allowed me To stay home take care of the kids be free not have to work not have to be up in somebody's office all day Taken orders, you know He gave me the luxury of time to improve upon myself to become the better version of myself Now the reason why I'm telling you guys on how to get what I have is so that you can become the better version of yourself too as well as your children can benefit from it in the future and You know You don't have to struggle. You don't have to be uncomfortable You don't have to do all those things that a lot of women are doing right now and running themselves thin aging Faster than they should and things like that, you know I feel like I see a lot of women and they just looked so tired They just look tired because they've been working all day because they made bad choices and you know, it's not it's not It's not, you know bad, it's just Or it's not good. It's just a choice that was made now. You can correct it by not repeating the mistakes You know, you can move forward But if you continue to deal with the same type of men that got you in that situation, then you're not really moving forward You know I'm saying so that's why I do what I do I'm trying to help women better themselves by choosing better men and by choosing a provider You're gonna go further than you could go with a broke man. Okay, so let's just put that out there It's not about the money. It's about the luxury of time the luxury of not having to rush around and wear yourself in because your man can't Fulfill his duty, you know Why should we tire ourselves out when that's their job, you know They have more stamina than women. They have more muscle than women. They have More energy. They're bigger. They're stronger. They're supposed to be the ones that bring home the bacon. Okay so if You're out there doing the job of a man and you wonder why you're so tired and worn out It's because you don't have the strength. You don't have the muscle. You don't have the stamina of a man You don't and that's why you're aging faster because you're not supposed to be doing that And if you think you are and if you're proud of it, then wear your wrinkles with pride Wear your bags with pride. You know what I'm saying? Wear them with pride and accept your masculinity as a woman to do what they have to do, you know, but If you had a choice, I know that most women would choose to have a man to go out and work and Provide I'm pretty sure most women would choose that You know, the only women that wouldn't choose that are the ones who are afraid to get hurt Left abused because that's what they've been done in the past to them, you know, but Choosing the right type of man Having a backup plan And making wise decisions can only help you. You know what I'm saying Okay And any man that is adamant on a woman working and doing for herself Stay far away from them. Okay. They are the kind of men who will wear panties They're very feminine and you don't want to mix feminine and feminine Especially if the man is feminine, you don't want to mix that. Okay, you will you will not get a good result So if any man has the nerve to fix their mouth saying women need to do this and women need to pay half on a date and women need to Walk away. Okay. If that's not what you're looking for. Don't even stick around and listen to it Okay, because they're more trying to convince themselves than you. Okay. Um, I just I would just dismiss. I'm like, you know what I Know what I deserve and If you can't do it, then don't don't down me for wanting it, you know So you just walk away. You don't even deal with that. You know a lot of men. What do you bring to the table? Don't even answer that question. I said that in another video. If a man asks you that walk away Don't even give him an answer. Just I'm not coming to your table, baby Bye You know who says I was sitting at your table. I'm not sitting at your table Obviously, you need somebody to bring something to it. So why would you invite me? You ain't got nothing to serve Don't invite me darling, you know, you don't have nothing to serve if you looking for me Like I said, this is not potluck Okay, potluck. No, you want to do potluck go over there to her. She looked like a potluck chick Bye So someone says I need a hajib That's still ain't gonna help, you know, I still look good in the hajib. Y'all wanna speak? Hold on Hope this doesn't offend anyone I'm still a good darling Watch this. I've already I just look like death right now. I Look like a nun Like if I did wear hajib, I still look good child Look at that. I Still got a highlight on fleek baby. They ain't like I I Wore mine like this like the prostitute You know how they did in the Bible days But it's not so obvious Like Mary Magdalene baby. There we go. This is my hajib, baby. Oh My gosh, y'all y'all are silly. I actually have a had a Muslim friend and she did not wear hajib so sorcery What if he rushes you to get to move in with him and marry you and have kids Make sure he got money that way if you want to leave you can leave you don't sign a prenup Or if you do sign a prenup, make sure you leave more than what you had to start with If he broke and he want to do all that No Make sure he can afford it research how much kids cost, okay? One kid for one year research how much that cost if that costs more than he makes Don't even bother Okay, thank you Seriously before you have a baby go look up the cost of having a child Caring for the child food formula diapers daycare Things like that go look it up You're gonna be surprised. They cost a lot of money. Okay a lot It costs more than what most men out here on these troll things make a year Someone says keep destroying myself if this is what you call destruction bring it on baby Thank You ocean blue. She said I was a PYT Okay, so a lot of these trolls that keep asking me. Oh show your shape show your shape show your bank account Show your bank account. Okay, I will put my PayPal description and the link below in my email If you want a picture of this full body you can pay Because I believe in supply and demand not I give you free because you man No, thanks. No, I know who I am. I know what I deserve and If you want all that if you want to see all of it I got a PayPal address that I will be linking and you can come up after this video Click on it put about $50 in and I'll send you a full picture of My clothed body standing up, okay, because Obviously, you think you're entitled to that for some reason. I don't know y'all know like women charge for pictures You know just close the Instagram models do it for free. They're still getting sponsored. Okay? So One step away from prostitution someone says So how is purchasing a photo online prostitution? I'm not sure about that, but You know if you don't want to pay you can't play that's just let's let's just get it out there women Don't give these broke guys no Attention don't give them nothing even if they insult you and say you probably fat or ugly anyway And then you show them a full-body shot They just got what they wanted give them a PayPal link and say if you want to see Put some money, babe. Okay Don't give nothing free nothing is free in this world Not even Your picture, you know unless you're getting sponsored or paid You shouldn't be giving people pictures for free of your full body Like this is good enough if they want to see more they gots to pay It's like on a date if you want to meet somebody and take them out and get to know them and see what they look like You got to pay you got to take them out. Okay, so That's that's how I that's how I work, you know, I feel like a lot of guys feel like Women should do certain things And we don't have to we hold the power We hold all the power we hold all the power Okay, so if any man is trying to convince you to do something you have even more power to convince them to do something Okay, remember that And that's why they do it because they know you have the real power That's why they do it because before you figure out your power. They want to trick you so remember if You are doing anything for free You're losing if you're not benefiting you're losing like big time Yes, if a man asks for a picture of your feet, you could get paid $50 at least or a foot. Yes Don't don't do stuff for free. Y'all are like Y'all are bringing the value of the women down if you're doing stuff for free because now these men getting up here thinking you They gonna get stuff free from me and from the next chick who ain't about that. Okay, stop giving stuff up for free You gonna have people forming a line behind you Free this free that and that's why you're attracting broke dudes because you giving stuff away for free You know, I'm not saying you personally attracting broke dudes, but I'm just saying in General people that give give too much of themselves away free will attract people that won't free stuff Which are broke people Your light isn't the brightest you bring in my lighting there we go Someone says I need a pimp. I am a pimp. I don't need a pimp. I Am a pimp high log What's up, what's up need something Okay, go in yours Love you. So so funny kids always want to come in here while I'm filming So Let's see Okay, real women by their own shit do not depend. That's true I can buy my own stuff if I want to but why should I like I got a lot of money saved up I got my money But I ain't finna spend it Real women body on shit smart women get other people to pay for it Okay, so you want to be real? Smart I'm both I can pay for it, but I'm not going to That's your job, that's the man's job If he wants to claim me he got to claim my bills My luxuries all that comes with me if he wants to claim me for himself. You got to claim everything that comes with me so If you want me to be independent, I would have to be single. I am married I will not need to pay for stuff for myself because I'm married my husband covers that so Sorry Just because you can't afford to take some woman out and pay for her bills and don't mean you got to be mad at me You know That's a red flag ladies if a man asks are you independent that means can you pay your own bills? You ain't gonna need no help for me because I'm broke if a man asks you. Oh, what do you do for a living or? Are you independent? You know, I like independent women. That's a red flag for I don't like spending though dismiss ideals What time is it? Okay, so yes Someone says black flag roach spray. Yes, right on roaches away I'm just being honest. This is just my opinion a Lot of people don't agree with with what I'm saying and they don't have to this is just how I live my life and how I feel like If you want certain things in life, you can't be afraid to ask for them and demand them You know, you can't be afraid to have those high standards if that's the life You want to live every woman that has what they want in life living the grand life did not get there by accepting broke men or mediocre men or Scraps or this or that? Okay, they got to the lifestyle that they wanted, you know by demanding and having the standards, you know of what they wanted even if they made it on their own They had standards, you know Someone might have offered them less and they didn't take it and they held up got a degree and got a better job They didn't take the scraps, you know, so these guys here on the trolls, you know the troll stroll I don't feel like they matter because there's nothing that they can give me nothing. I want from them, you know Nothing nothing any woman wants from them Because they'll have anything. Okay. What can you do for me? What can you give me? What can you bring to the table? You know, what can the man bring to the table? Whatever you bring, I already got baby. Okay. What else can you bring? What can you bring that? I don't have That's what I'm asking So anybody on the troll list Right y'all have no room to really talk because y'all can't do anything for a woman Like you can't do nothing like nothing like anything you can do I can get it done myself So why don't I need you? Yeah, I don't even like like I don't hate anyone. The only thing that I hate is broke man Like trying to convince you to deal with them. Nothing. I hate everything else. I love like I like man who know What their position is I like man who understand? You got to come correct, you know, I like that, but these little boys They need to go back to school to man school won't figure it out man have standards to If you want a man to provide You will to him you simply be an investment he would want a return so he can provide for you Okay, so You get to claim me, you know the you get to claim a woman you need to claim a woman as yours only, you know That's an investment to claim a whole woman If you're in your early 30, would it be wise to date a wealthy man that is 20 years older be very wise Because they got it together. They got money. They got savings. They have 401k. They got insurance. They got benefits. They got A house they got cars. They got stuff paid for their kids are probably wrong. You ain't got to deal with baby mama drama You get Okay 50-50 everybody works That's in your house in my house It ain't like that. Okay? Because I didn't I won't accept it if I had to work then like I said me and my boss would be real close real close I don't do 50-50 either girl like Why why don't I need a man if I got him do 50-50? I can just go get a roommate That'll make no sense. Like oh Yeah, I'm gonna be real turned on after giving you half the rent. Oh, yes, that's a big trial I will never respect you. I will never respect the man who got his hand out. Oh And you have the bills. Oh no respect Can't I can't get turned on by you. You're not getting on ever bye Sorry, like I just couldn't do it. I couldn't see you as a man if you're asking me for stuff like seriously like How do you go to a woman and ask her for money? Like I couldn't even do it if I was a man I would be embarrassed. I'd be like, dang They ain't gonna ask her for some money. She's gonna think I'm weak. She's gonna think I'm less than a man She don't want to do nothing with me. Oh She's gonna go look for an upgrade. Oh, she's gonna start sleeping with her boss because I'm not Able to do what she needs. Oh, I don't even want to ask her, you know, let me go ask Someone else like let me go find another job. Let me go find a better job. So I don't have to ask a woman for money. I Would never like if I were a man, I could never ask a woman for money That is sad So I Would rather stay single and pay up my all of my bill Then I'll let some scourge a man live in my house with his hand out At build time like you just my roommate darling Nothing more. I don't respect you. I can't I can't get excited for you and I'm looking to upgrade You know, I could not do it. I'm like a lot of women will do it But secretly they resent you they don't feel like you're a man They that's why they talk trash to you when y'all get an argument Because they don't respect you as a man. They don't respect anything That you do because they got a match it halfway. It's like you're no better than me. There's no reason That I need to respect you, you know, if all you care about is money marry a banker Told y'all it's not about money. It's about time the luxury of time the luxury to do with your date What you please, you know what your man allows you to? Experience being provided for that's the luxury You know, I could be rich on my own and never have to work and just be rich, you know And have all the time in the world and all the luxury in the world But when a man can give that to you You will have the utmost respect Love Appreciation and you will actually want to do things for him, you know out of that The real reason women should do things for men not because society say so or not because I Gave you half the bill money But because you want to know when a woman wants to do something when a woman has passion on purpose Oh, it's 10 times better You know then you know Obligation it's 10 times better. So if y'all have never experienced You know having Someone do things for you or having a woman, you know treat you right because she wants to Based on how you take care of her You're missing out What do you think of a guy that wants you to wait till marriage for you to move in with him Either he's very religious or he doesn't want you to say no to his marriage proposal because he's a dirty nasty slob and he pees on the toilet seat and it's a growth But it could be religious. I don't know Or he could just be saying I don't want to move in with you I Don't want you living in my house That could be a sneaky way around not letting you move in You want to hear something funny? Okay, so if you are gonna follow any type of advice You don't have to follow anything that I said the only thing that you need to follow is if your relationship does not benefit you and your future generations If your marriage does not benefit you like if the person you plan on marrying does not benefit you Why are you doing it? Just ask yourself that question Why are you doing it? If everything else in life you do benefits you but the one thing that you're choosing as A relationship doesn't Why do you choose it? And will you regret it later? So that's the only advice that you know Anybody can kind of take and use to their advantage. You don't have to do what I say You don't have to mirror rich man You don't have to marry someone that takes care of you if you're benefiting from a 50-50 relationship, and it's making your life better great If not great Some women can't get a provider man. Some men can't provide for women Not everybody has money, you know But it doesn't hurt to raise your standards. Maybe you don't have to go 50-50. Maybe you can go 80 20, you know, maybe you can go 75 15 you know it it's just I Mean it's just not it's just not always gonna be Perfect, you know Maybe your man will pay majority of the bills and you get the little bills Not everybody is gonna be able to have the same thing. Let's just face it. We already know that But if your man is talking about 50-50 What happens the next week when his car breaks? Is it gonna be? Are you gonna be paying more because he can't get it this time? So that's what I'm saying Very important. Make sure you're able to take care of your stuff and a man is just an added bonus not You know Not a burden, you know what I mean now By nature the men are providers if you want to go by nature men are providers. They're supposed to be and if you If you go against the gender roles and against nature It's always going back fire in some form or fashion. The kids will suffer. You will suffer You will overwork yourself. You're gonna look old before it's your time And you know Chances are Most men they get that second stride, you know when you hit 45 and they hit 45 is totally different They were ready to start again So think about it, don't don't waste all your youth and life up working to help your roommate partner man and then you know when his job gets You know hire pay or when his career gets up and you looking all worn down from working hard and helping him And he's got all this money saved and you know able to leave and go find something younger and better You're gonna be like I did all this work for nothing. I look haggard now You know, he still looks decent because he's 45 and I'm 45 and I got you know Wrinkles stretch marks this this this and that but he's getting ready to go get a 20 year old right now With all the money he saved all the time he worked and you paid half the bills And all the little things that you help him do now some other woman's gonna benefit from it and you're gonna feel real stupid for Going 50-50 with a man. I'm just gonna tell you that and If that's the life you want That's like now You don't go 50-50 with a man and they give you everything and you benefit from it, you know And they leave you still at least you benefit it you know, you don't have to do nothing you're not old and haggard you can go out and replace him and You're not worn out. You're not Tired all the time from overworking yourself and helping him You don't feel as much resentment from him for him leaving you because you ain't do nothing You ain't you know, you didn't work 40 50 hours a week So you just had a long vacation So you got to see the difference ladies you got to see the difference you can't Buy into what these guys are saying the only reason they're saying that is because The type of woman that they really want they can't get because their standards These woman's standards are too high. So in order to get the type of women they really want They need to have women with low standards so They can do less but ladies if your husband or your boyfriend ain't helping you and you're not benefiting Don't even don't even invest emotionally in him keep looking for an upgrade You know I'm saying keep your eyes open for the prize because he ain't it Keep your eyes over and you settle with somebody Don't ever truly settle keep your eyes open like keep your eyes open because he ain't it, you know I'm serious because Just like men keep their eyes open For women because you won't you ain't it because he settled for you He settled for somebody who pay half the bills. You're not his first choice. You're not what he really wanted You're not the his dream girl. You're not the woman that he fantasizes about you're the woman that paid half his bills That's all you are Okay, so remember that don't think you all special Remember if he had money would he be with you ask yourself that question if your man have money Lots of money. Would he be with you? If the answer is no then why are you with him? Why are you paying half his bills? Why are you paying half the bills? It's because you don't have standards so Think about it That's what I asked like if my husband was rich at the time that we met if he was a multi-millionaire You know he would have still came up to me. So yes That's why I am with him now Me on the other hand if I was rich You know, I probably wouldn't have married my husband and I've said that in another video Because women and women have different standards, you know most women if they had money They wouldn't even get married or they wouldn't need a man. They would just have you know friends here friends there Most women they only want to really be with a man to be protected and provided for which then allows The man to get what he wants as well, you know Women will fall in love with a man because she feels safe and protected and provided for so she falls in love If you fall in love with a man, he ain't done nothing for you and he didn't look good You know, that's not real love. Okay, that's conditional love You fall in love with a man because he can provide to protect you and and do all these things for you and the kids and stuff Like that that love that conditional love starts to turn into unconditional love And that's the real love But if you all fall in love before this man even spent two dollars on you that ain't real love Okay, if you fall in love and you're paying for this man or half the bills, that's not love Okay, and the man is always supposed to love the woman more The man is supposed to love you more than you love him, especially in the beginning Okay, that's just how supposed to be Think about it in all these foreign countries. They have arranged marriage. Think about this. They have arranged marriage and dowries now They don't go into the marriage in love and the family will reject certain husbands that can't provide for their for their daughter Okay, so why? Why do you think you know the perfect man comes along? He has good money The the the girl thinks he's attractive or attractive enough the lifestyle that he's gonna provide is acceptable So she agrees the parent agrees and then eventually down the line. They fall in love, you know If she looks good and he looks decent and it can provide the lifestyle that marriage is probably gonna last longer than someone who was broke and you know Could cut it or the woman was ugly and he went out and cheated because that wasn't who he really wanted But he settled so Think about it Mary For your future generations getting relationships that benefit you Love is when the man loves you more and he can provide and protect you and then you will love him And that love will not be conditional you understand Will be I need you. I love you. You take care of me. Thank you. It won't be I Lust you You look good now. You're getting on my nerves. Why are you asking me for money? Ooh, I hate you I'm you know You lost your job. Oh, no, you know, you can't take care of me. Oh hell no, you know, oh my gosh I don't respect you anymore. Oh my gosh. You're such a slob. Oh my gosh, you know You're lazy. Oh my gosh, I Don't you want to have sex with you anymore? That's what it's gonna turn into So if that's why it's important for women to have a provider protect a man because that love is different They're just being with a roommate. Okay, that's a roommate situation if you're paying half the rent You will never experience the true You will never experience, you know, what it feels like to be taken care of you know what I mean and that's just sad you know and Some man will never feel what it feels like for a woman to truly love them for The correct reason, you know, I'm saying anyways What is my take on equality factor because my mindset is of a high-value Woman, which is perfectly fine, but as a man their respect isn't going to be there a man that really has his Okay Equality good for the workplace good for laws, but when it comes to relationships Men and women aren't equal. We have gender roles and If those gender roles aren't kept in relationships, they don't work out. I don't the man Will only Respect himself if he can make the woman happy The man will always be scrambling Not knowing what he's doing wrong getting nagged at because the woman secretly resents him He might respect her for taking her butt to work every day But secretly she resents him because he can't do what he's supposed to do You know what I mean? That's just it That's why a lot of women will nag their husbands to death because secretly they don't want to be doing what they're doing They're like Making me work and then come home and do this shit They're acting they're acting and they don't respect you and they would talk about you like a dog behind your back Today mama and a daddy and a sister and then smiling your face because they don't respect you because you can't provide for them you know and They'll find themselves making more excuses for you than bragging about you And when they when they start doing that they're just not they're dying to talk about you know more because they don't have nothing to say so Equality is for the workplace and for the law But it isn't there's no equal of masculine and feminine feminine, you know Even the universal law has the law of gender and if you want to if you want to mess with that You're gonna mess with a lot of stuff. That's not gonna work out. So if you want an equal partner you go get a man All right, I'm reading some of these comments. I promise you ask any woman who's already married or Who's married to someone that can't provide for them ask them on the side? You know, do you really do you hundred percent respect your husband? Even though he makes you work 50 hours a week, you know She's gonna say well, I wish she could I wish she could provide I wish I didn't have to work that all the women are gonna say that all of them I wish I didn't have to work, you know, I respect that he works, you know and keeps his job But I don't you know, they're not gonna tell you that they hold him to the highest standard. They're just gonna be like, oh, he's good. He's all right They're not gonna praise him like the woman who don't have to work They're not gonna brag on him like the woman that doesn't have to walk work They're not gonna give him all the credit. They're gonna give him what I made him who he is I may I make sure that he does this and that they're gonna be like his Supervisor if your wife works, she's your supervisor. She's you got to go through her to get anything, you know You can't just make a decision like Two days ago, my husband just went out and bought a new car. He didn't have to ask me He didn't have to tell me he just rolled up the top down Get in. Okay. That's the kind of man you want. You don't want a man to have to ask your position Permission to go on a check-in account because you paying half the bills and you don't know we can afford this and this and that You need a man that's gonna roll up in a drop top. They get in that's the kind of man women want They don't want somebody that's trying to Struggle and not make it in life and not have ambition they want a man who can Do what they need to do and press them Make them happy, you know, so a lot of guys y'all y'all can live in the fairy tale that that y'all want to But in reality and this reality Secretly all women want the providers. I'm sorry. They just do Okay, what does it say? Someone says a man without money is a man without penis Russian proverb. I like that So I'm like a man A man's money in a career is an extension of themselves. Okay, just like a woman's looks and Femininity is an extension of themselves, you know Why do you think most guys with money want attractive women and why do you think most guys that don't have money settle down with women who aren't the most attractive because They know their value. They know what they're worth. They know what they can get they know what they can want and let me tell you Anybody can look good. You can be ugly and transform yourself to be beautiful with makeup and wigs and all that kind of stuff So that's not an excuse Okay, people do it every day men do it Men change themselves into beautiful women all the time though if they can do it you could do it Now I feel like a lot of guys are upset because they can't please a woman and Has nothing to do With anything down there has something to do with something right here. You can't please a woman because you ain't got the money Okay Go out and watch a group of women Watch who they look at they're gonna look at the men that have the money the nice clothes the nice car They ain't only looking at The things unless they're young and they're just going for looks. They don't know any barrier Look at the look at the women who know what they're doing. They're gonna look for men with money. They're not gonna be looking for Conscious dusties unless they're a dusty woman. Okay, they're not gonna be looking for that. Okay, this is what you want a Woman to look for because that means she values herself high not low. She ain't gonna take anything That's why the rich men go for these type of women because they have high values that which means they are valued high Which means a rich man wants them because they are a high value. Okay, they don't mess with just anything Okay, they're not down there getting dusty. They're up here polished looking down. Okay, they're not dusty They're not dealing with dusty man. They don't come with dusty men problems, you know, so That's why those guys with money Will approach women who don't entertain dusty men. They will watch you They will watch you out in the bar or in the club and see who you talk to See who you deal with see how you would act with certain people how you interact with certain people and they'll say oh Yeah She's she's classy. I'm gonna go approach her But if they see you dealing with dusty dudes, then I'm like, oh, she probably you know, no, she's not she's not for me She doesn't value herself. Look who she's talking to You know So if you're out looking for guys that have something and you're entertaining dusty dudes and they're watching you They're not gonna approach you because they they've already labeled you as someone who entertains dusty men And they're not you're not a value to them anymore. Okay, so remember that Dusty men problems Dusty women Someone says dusty women question mark question mark. Y'all know who them dusty women are don't even act like y'all know who the dusty women are My last video was about them The the dusty women that will make excuses for their men. I still got this thing on The dusty women are the ones that will make excuses for being with broke man and how you need to help them build up and how you need to be they rock and And then once they climb up on your shoulders and hop the fence on to the next girl you stuck with you know Those are the dusty women who? praise Men for doing nothing. Okay, those are the dusty women the ones that enable the dusty men. Those are the dusty women A lot okay, y'all this is America. I live in America. Okay. I'm in America It's a lot different over here than it is in some countries, you know American women very different What can I say we're not trained as well Our society doesn't have harsh punishments for saying what we need to say and You can pretty much do whatever we want so It's not it's not such a bad thing Um Someone asked me if I was black. I am Caucasian woman. I am a luxurious Caucasian woman, okay, and I have a Caucasian home. Okay Let me ask you a question If the police were to stop me, would I be black or would it be white? Why be what would I be that's? That's the question you need to ask yourself like a lot of people will ask what race you are It's that's obvious. I'm not white Okay, it's obvious it's obvious I do have a lot of black African-American African black in me, okay, I don't like to claim African-American or I Rather say black because I don't know where I'm from Okay, like I know where my dad's from and I know where my mom's from But I don't know where their ancestors came from. So I'm just gonna say hey Well, I know where my dad's ancestors came from I don't know where my mom's ancestors came from so I can't say Right about now I think It doesn't really matter because If I were if I were all the way black or all the way something else it wouldn't matter I would still think the exact same way. Okay, a lot of these black men want black women to List them up so they can go and jump off and then be built up with a mixed woman. So hey They don't matter I'm not gonna help you do either They're gonna work you hard They're gonna work. They're gonna. Oh, I want to be with a black queen That's gonna lift me up and help me build this kingdom And then they're gonna kick you to the curb and come get somebody like me or Kim Kardashian or Whoever, okay Don't be don't be the don't fall for the okie-dokie. Okay, these men these fake conscious men Let me tell you something about these fake conscious man. Y'all are gonna crack up Okay, so I have a Pinterest account if you don't know what Pinterest is It's where you can pin pictures of things that you like and make like scrapbooks online so my Pinterest It's connected to my Facebook and so all the people on Facebook that I know and friends on Facebook are Connected to me on Pinterest. So whenever they like something or post something I see it on Pinterest and These fake black whole-tip conscious men who claim oh, they only want to do this and Build with with black women and stuff like that. They're posting pictures of naked Semi-naked white women Latina women Like whatever you want Asian and they're keeping it there. It's a little secret That's they're looking at but they want you to do all the dirty work now Let me tell you something y'all don't think that I know I mean y'all don't know that I see that But y'all here on Facebook talking about all this racist crap talking about this is and then you over here Jacking off to Becky Susie and Kim. Okay, so don't even believe nothing. They say Everything that comes out of their mouth Lie lie lie lie lie. That's why I don't do dusties. That's why dusties are irrelevant Don't even don't even fall for the okie-doh. They might know some spiritual crap. They read in the book You can get some books to job. Okay? Everything they know came from a dusty book. That's why they're dusty now. Let me tell you don't fall for the okie-doh I promise you you will regret it if you mess with the okie-doh If you mess with the dusty you don't need like they might sound smooth and knowledgeable and do you know knowledge of self Do you know this? Let me tell y'all You can find everything that they have to tell you in a book because that's where they got it from You can find everything that they got to come out their mouth in a book if you really wanted to know They might say all this conscious spiritual stuff to make you feel oh special and stuff But go check out their Pinterest check out them Pinterest accounts Go search the Goal I'm not even gonna comment on some of this Yes, Nazir Ra has a beautiful black wife. Yes, he does. I like Nazir Ra now Also a lot of these he's not dusty though. He got money. He's paid. So Nazir Ra is not a dusty dude. Okay, and his wife don't work either So He actually talks about Letting your wife stay home and being a provider man. He even gives courses on how to be a man, you know That's what I'm saying. Okay. So anyway Maybe he's one of the very few that actually practices what he preaches. Hey, I can't knock anybody for doing that But a lot of people don't you know a lot of people will not practice what they preach They secretly have stuff stashed hidden, you know and do the opposite of like we y'all remember Kanye West He was all talking about black this power, you know Daughter-in-law did he turn around and Mary Kim Kardashian and Jay-Z put him off Why because he don't practice what he preach, you know, I'm saying He was a phony and nobody took him seriously after he did that like Just you can't Say one thing and do the opposite and expect to get respect. It doesn't work that way so, you know and You know it has Kim Kardashian, she's cool, but I don't think Kanye West was a good fit for her. I think you know, especially The type of music and the type of lyrics that he used to Write Totally contradicting Jay-Z started cutting him off when he started messing with Kim very slowly Because yeah, I listen to Jay-Z I listen to Kanye a lot of people just listen to the stuff that comes on YouTube and on the radio, but there's other lyrics and other songs that Kanye was adamant about certain issues and now you know and with Jay-Z and Jay-Z are still about those issues and he can't be a part of Kanye's craziness and selection of spouse because he's still on those issues, you know what I'm saying so It's it would be like contradicting To be associated with him still, you know what I mean? Someone says women should get paid more to actually work with men. I think so too y'all That actually that will make women want to work if they got paid more than men Then we wouldn't have no problem. I'm like, oh, I'm going to work. I don't need you. I make more I'm gonna make more than you They might want to work if they start getting paid more than the man then they will hold the power I Still wouldn't work though. I'm like y'all can have it But if I had to work I would want to make more This because I all the things that have to sacrifice, you know when a woman works It's different from when a man works totally different Totally different like we got to do extra stuff like We got a and we have kids we have to go pay for daycare Pick them up from daycare drop them off at daycare Make sure they got snacks make sure they lunch is packed make sure we pick them up in time Make sure that we got to help them with their homework Make sure their clothes and stuff are clean and make sure they get to eat We got to do 20 extra things a day And if they're sick, we got to leave our job and go take care of them, you know Versus men they just got to go show up to work and then go home They got to do none of that unless they're a single parent Which majority or not so yeah, I do think women should get paid a lot more for having to sacrifice so much Or I believe that they should just marry a man who can support them. So I don't have to do all of that Either way you're gonna win Do you like camping with flirty guy only if flirty guy Got flirty money What are the signs he won't be a provider if he's not paying for everything? Right now if you're dating him and he makes you reaching your pocket He's not gonna be the provider type If he pays for everything doesn't ask you for nothing You know Always wants to help out you know He's probably gonna help be a provider it and then if you mention Oh when I when I get married, I don't want to work look at his face if it looks crazy like He's not a provider. He looks if it looks relieved and happy Provider, okay Like someone's like my husband don't eat like he don't want me to go to work He do not want me to go to work if I went to work He would not be happy Not because like when I say I would cheat on him with a boss that was a joke He wouldn't want me to go to work because It would put a pressure and strain on the entire family like the kids They would suffer He would suffer because I'd be cussing everybody out when I got home And I would not be paying no bills I would be saving them to leave because I ain't finna work So he wouldn't want me to work believe me he he says you're better off at home You're not built for the corporate world Someone says I hate when guys offer to cook me dinner at their place what What a trap That's a red flag. Don't even show up. Just be like wait till the last minute So he cooked everything and be like, oh, you know, I got a better, you know, I got invited out to dinner by my friend So can I take a rain check? Say I got invited out for dinner. So can we take a rain check? I look Indian But I say I couldn't I could have some Indian in me, you know Some Indian Indian, you know from India. I believe I might have been Indian in a former life and Perhaps my cellular DNA is reflected Plus Yeah I laugh I laugh because it's funny to me Is it bad thing to order a $25 drink on your first date or should you be humble? If you want a humble lifestyle, you live humble. If you want extravagant lifestyle order three drinks Okay, how do you value yourself? If you're used to getting $25 drinks 20 20 $25 drinks ain't nothing order. I'm like You thirsty if you want to be humble then be humble like I wouldn't because When you go out they asked you out they invited you out They gonna pay for you you need to be comfortable you need to be happy if you order a $25 drink Drink it up and order another one drink it up and order another and they should be able to pay for it If they asked you out to a place that serves $25 drinks Okay For me I would go ahead and order drinks girl life is too short to be humble, right? Life is too short to be humble. I'm humble with a hundred fifty dollar glass of cognac Yeah, you can fake humbleness as long as you got money, right? Michael Jackson did it very well. You know, you can fake humbleness. You can be like drinking your hundred fifty dollar cognac and You're Bentley still sitting outside with your chauffeur and you can be humble all you want Because it don't matter then You're not losing anything by being humble if you're losing by being humble then didn't it matters, okay? So if you gonna lose because you're humble then you're working it in reverse the only supposed to be humble When you a have something to gain From other people that you don't already have you know what I'm saying so If you're gonna be rich And you're gonna be humble Like I'm humble. I'm drinking my water So people don't call you stuck up snobby Whatever whatever that's fine. They gonna call you that anyway not your face though And someone says never worship money. Yeah, I don't worship money. I worship the luxury that money brings like I like my time I like how My kids are benefiting from it, you know, I don't worship money itself money is a tool money is energy. Do you worship energy? You need it to live you need to function You need it to survive, you know I feel like the more Energy that you have the more you can do the more you can accomplish the more you can do in life the more you can branch out the more people you can help, you know if I were just Materialistic for bad reasons or greedy reasons like oh, I want to get plastic surgery. Oh, I want to get boobs and Done I want to get a this and this and that oh, I want to get this type of car Oh, I want to go, you know traveling. If I was greedy for that reason. Yes, that would be different but Me wanting a good life for my family and kids. It's not it's not a bad reason to want a man who can provide Okay, it's just not it's normal. That is normal. So You know guys don't think like women do in the future. They just want to grab some woman They can stick stick themselves in I don't want to say because we're on YouTube Get off and You know Eat they don't think about the children They have to raise the type of schools these kids are gonna have to go to living in the back part of town and Things like that. They don't think about that when they pick a woman. That's our job That's why we get to choose them in men. Don't choose women. We choose them in okay? So the next time You're on a date and your date is showing signs of cheapness brokeness unawareness Let that be the last date, you know Because they're not gonna benefit you or your future kids or anything they're not Okay Someone says they're Boy, you've been dating for almost four years now a boyfriend talks about future together But I'm sure he is not asking me out any time soon My parents are trying to get me married to this engineer who ain't rich Who ain't rich? Okay, so if whatever type of engineer they are I mean, are they young engineers and they just come out of school because they can they can start After they start making money that's the problem Why don't you go find your own man like go get on a website get on a website for wealthy men and go find one You know or go find someone that you're attracted to Don't waste your time with somebody you've been dating for four years and he ever asked you something That's too long You're wasting your youth by the time you figure out what you want You can be old wrinkly and nobody's gonna want to deal with you and you're gonna wonder why you know Go and do it now stop waiting for other people to do stuff I'm waiting for other people to introduce you stop waiting for this dude to commit go and find somebody You know what I'm saying? It's easy you just put yourself out there and don't be afraid and just have high standards and then Once someone meets them bam, it's done You have to know what you want before it can come to you. You know what I'm saying? You don't know what you want. How can it come to you? How will you recognize it? These would be these comments are hilarious. I Can't repeat some of them because there's too many bad words This guy says ain't nobody buying no pee anymore, you know Yes, they are Yes, they are go look online, baby. Go look online. There are rich men who are Trying to give their money away trying to give their money away not even for sex, but just for you to sit Next to them. Okay. I don't know what y'all are talking about Young men with no money can't afford to buy. That's why they're not buying these old men We've got all this money stacked up waiting on a young Tender to come along so they could throw the cash at them There's plenty of those out there like plenty like plenty like So many like y'all even understand cuz y'all are Not Y'all aren't women and y'all don't know all these type of guys are always in people's inboxes They're on dating sites. They're on all these sites and they're trying to give people money just here Here's some money, you know, y'all got it in reverse y'all don't understand You know a woman can live good single because there's men out there who will pay for her to go out with them You know or to go to the movies with them or to sit and talk to them on a phone or whatever like that There's sites out there with these guys looking for women just to talk to them And they pay them like $200 to meet them out for a drink just a drink They put in their PayPal account just bam come have a drink with me I'm so lonely. I'm so old. Please help me. You know, I was done when I was young. I never got married But now I got all this money to spend so let me spend it on a woman eventually you're gonna start spending your money on women when you get old and You don't have anybody you just you're gonna spend it on a woman You might not be spending it now, but when you get old you will be you gonna be looking for somebody young You don't have all this money saved up maybe if you did well in life or got your social security check And you're gonna give it away. Don't worry about it. You're gonna give it to somebody Men and y'all believe me look y'all don't believe me go to seeking arrangements calm There are old guys on there young guys on there rich guys mostly rich Saying I want to spoil you. I want to spoil you come You know Tell me your arrangement. What do you want? You know Y'all think women are desperate. We have so many options. Y'all is it's pathetic, but y'all think that we want broke man There's too many options out there So I'm not a feminist because I don't want to work. I want a man to take care of me but if I were a feminist I might Empower women to go out and work and be successful so they can take care of a broke man But I'm not or to get rid of a man and go work and they don't need a man I'm not saying you don't need a man. I'm saying you don't need a broke man. There's a difference There's a huge difference. Okay. I don't need no man. Nope Because I need my man. I don't need no broke man There that's better. So I'm not a feminist. I'm a realist Realist not feminist Get it straight if I were feminists. I'd be like, oh No gender roles equal rights. You do this. I'll do that. There's no man job. There's no woman job We should all be equal. No, that's not me You pay I play That's not very feminist so I don't know like I'm just telling y'all I Think I've been on here too long and I think I'm about to wrap it up Because it's been a while. Okay, so y'all have any questions y'all can put them down there in The comments and I'll answer a few before I go. Of course, I'm pro-lamin. What do you want me to be pro-man? I'm pro-rich man. Okay. Hmm my bag. Oh, um That's Kate spade. I haven't used that in a while But it goes to this outfit, so I might use it today Okay, anyways Dang, how do I transition to another man without cheating when I find somebody better? Get a sugar daddy Get a sugar daddy because at first they're not gonna expect you to do all these things, you know Especially if you get an old one, you know Then at least you'll be able to save money and transition and get out of it You know, um, or you can save money work the old-fashioned way and You can kind of let the other person know Look, I don't want to sleep with you until I'm totally free of this other person So if you could help me out like by giving me this much money, I can get my own apartment You know, and they'll be willing to help you because they want to sleep with you You know so put some of the burden on them, too Like, you know, I don't have to tell them you're dating someone You just like you know, I really want to get my own apartment and things like that and I really want to get out of the Situation I'm in I want to feel good and comfortable about this relationship and for me to do that I'm gonna need ABC and D name your demands if they can help you meet them Because they want to sleep with you great Okay, and then you can peacefully leave the other relationship You sound like you killed your ex-husband and cash out his policy I don't have an ex-husband darling only only been married once. I'm still married to that person. So Self-love starts with standards, okay Someone asked me to talk about self-love and doing better and like If you're if you love yourself and you have high standards and you only give yourself the best and you only eat at the Best restaurants and you only you know where the nicest clothes any man that approaches you is gonna have to come equally correct They're gonna have to be able to impress you by taking you to the best places taking you to the nicest restaurants you know Not offering you less than what you already have giving yourself So if you already have high standards for yourself, the only man that will kind of approach you That will take you seriously are gonna be men who can also do the same thing for you, you know That's why a lot of women say a lot of men are intimidated money. They won't come up to me I'm you know, I have a good job. I have a good career. They can't match you or they can't impress you That's why they want to impress somebody with less and You know, they want to impress them with their little chick Okay, if you're already making that much money if you're successful You've gone to college if you have a degree if you love yourself, you're gonna have to aim super high You're gonna have to go for somebody with twice as much money than you do because you're not a threat to them or their masculinity But if you're trying to find an equal, you know, who's on your level, he's not gonna want you because You're going to threaten his masculinity and you know, you make just as much money as him He wants someone to look up to him, you know, so I suggest going for someone, you know With a lot more than you focusing on yourself and getting through school, you know Making your life so that whoever comes to you is Basically an added bonus not something that you settled for, you know Get yourself together and then everything else will fall in place Okay Some of these comments are funny Okay, I'm not I'm not reading broke man comments Because no one cares like seriously nobody cares the the the most ignored person or broke men like we don't care what y'all think because No one's gonna listen to you. They're gonna talk over you in conversation You know, you can you'll be in the middle of a sentence and somebody more important with more money will start talking and they will over talk you and people will listen to them because They can't learn nothing from you They're not impressed by you So a lot of these fake dusties try to go read a book so they can have some impressive knowledge Because they don't have anything else to offer, you know, they don't have knowledge But they have all this knowledge, but they can't apply it They have all this dusty hotel knowledge but can't apply it and get paid Okay What good is it if you think if you don't know how to apply it, you know You can read all the books in the world You're gonna have a library Gonna have PDFs But if you ain't got no money as a result from all that knowledge, you just wasted a bunch of time Memorizing some words Okay, I'm just telling y'all Your grandmothers must be proud my grandma proud right now. Yes, she is I Believe my grandma is proud because You know, she worked very hard My grandma had nine kids But she had a man She had a husband who made lots of money Not enough for nine kids, but he was like he still made a lot of money so Me and my grandma We just like you know, she made sure she got She got what she needed Okay went with with friend She says my husband just agreed to let me be a stay-at-home wife. Yes See if you would never asked or demanded you would have never got it Asked her what you want Congratulations, you know, that's the work no more If I had my own apartment and was single, what would you require from a man you're dating before sex? What about What about world from him to you No, because men get off on that too. Mm-hmm. They can't even do that. A lot of women are fool They think oh, I'm gonna let this man give me oral men get off on that too. Y'all can't do that They have to pay for that too If I always say in my other videos if they have not spent a certain amount of money on you You shouldn't even be thinking about sleeping with them. You know, I say if they When men are more invested in you, they've spent a lot of time and a lot of money on you After they sleep with you, they're not gonna be so quick to leave because they have invested all this time and money into you You know, then I'm like dang. I spent $2,000 or $150 on our first date and you know every day that we've been on I've spent over $75-$200 I've invested at least a thousand dollars in this girl and I've spent a lot of time with her And she's kind of cool and I really want to sleep with her But you know, da-da-da-da, she won't let me and then when you finally let him He's gonna be so appreciative of it and so invested in it Like he doesn't spend a lot of money and a lot of time So he's not gonna be quick to ghost you and have to start all over with somebody else You're not gonna do that. But if you give it up too quick too soon, you're gonna get, oh, I got what I wanted. I didn't have to spend that much money I'm out Make sure he invests in you a lot Because that and also it's telling him that for another guy to take you from him It's gonna cost them a lot and it's gonna secure them more It's gonna give them more faith in you as a woman like oh, she don't just give it up to anybody She don't make them spend they don't have to be better than me to get her Oh, they gonna have to do this so it's gonna also make them feel better about you being faithful to them because once they get you After all this work, they gonna want to give you up to somebody else That's gonna get it real quick and they have to sit there and work Three months or two months or one month however long you've made them wait for this and pay Then I'm gonna do that Because they've invested in you If you give it up quick and let them do all that other stuff, they're gonna be like I don't got what I want Let me go see what else is out there So make them wait make them pay Think about this whenever somebody gives you something for free you don't value it You just throw it and toss it around as soon as you start paying for something and got notes on the car Some you know you keep it clean you keep it Wax you put you make sure you put in the right gas in it. You're you're treating it nice You know you're treating it good because you're paying for it But if something if somebody gave you a free car, you know, you wouldn't care you park anywhere Ding it up not wash it do all this kind of stuff and be like, oh, well, I don't I don't care I'll put the cheap gas in I don't care. I didn't pay for it. Anyway, you know Same thing with some people are saying don't have sex till you're married Yes, that's true If you lived in the old days or if that's part of your religion But in modern day and especially in America that's that doesn't work anymore, okay Gender segregation is the key Yeah, keep all the broke man over here the broke boys And keep all the women over here And keep all the rich men in the middle in between them so they don't have to see the broke man That way you can't see a woman because you can't afford to y'all stay on this side of town we still on that side of town Y'all don't have enough gas to get to this out of town Yeah Y'all put $2 in the gas tank $2 in the gas tank if you put $2 in the gas tank and you asking a woman out on a date You need to rethink that whole idea idea and rethink it just rethink Like I'm sorry like if a woman can make a lot of money more than you But you're upset at her because she wants you to pay for her To me that means you need to be doing better because she already thinks that you're supposed to be doing better So why aren't you doing better? You know what I'm saying? I don't know like if I were a man if I were a man big strong man supposed to be logical Masculine I would not want to be equal to an emotional, you know woman with boobs and Hormones and cycles and stuff like that. I wouldn't want to be equal to all of that I want I want to be who I was be a man get the job done get respect Dada, I wouldn't want to be on the same emotional level as a woman, you know, because that's not who you are You know, I can't I can't get with it. We have different roles different body parts different needs You want this body part you got to act like your body part Okay, you provide look provider giver Receiver Provider receiver. Do you want to be a receiver or a provider because I can I can find something To help you receive Okay, you want you want to go that path? I got you provider Receiver Let me show y'all 50 50 50 50 Nothing he gets none. Okay, 50 50 100 zero So now that I've given that demonstration you understand, okay? Because if you asking me for something if you're asking to receive anything from me You gonna have to receive it in every aspect every aspect So don't ask me for no money unless you gonna give up something Just like y'all I can do the same thing. Oh you asking me for some money. Okay. What's gonna cost you baby bend over You want something for me? I'm gonna need something from you. I don't see nobody come in. Oh, well Yes, they left they weren't comfortable with this Okay So you want to be the receiver men? I'm off for it. I will experiment. I will I will give you something I will give you something you will never forget. I will You know, I feel like some men want to experience what it feels like to be a woman and I think we can work that out Don't get used to it because it's a one-time thing so honestly If I were single and some guy came at me talking about 50-50 and I and I told him that like I'm sorry. I don't do 50-50. I'm just I'm the receiver. You're the giver, you know Unless you want me to give you something It's not gonna be no 50-50 in here. They got okay. It's like that. Okay. You're free. Okay. Yep. Bye That's how you get rid of them You show them the truth you show them the truth Sometimes you got to break it down to me because they just don't understand you got to break it down Look you got a penis. I've got a vagina. I'm a receiver. You're a giver I'm the socket you to plug our supply your energy. I supply your life. I supply everything you need without me There will be no reason for you Get it together Without the socket you don't need a plug, baby, you know I You are created for me Not the other way around you supposed to go out and do what I need you to do It's true just stay single guys you're too broke to date Stay single you're too broke to date your ambition is so low You will never get enough money to please a woman so invest in some lotion Some good movies because you can't afford a real woman. No, no, no You got this all you can That's it. That's all you got That's all you can get that if you if you love yourself get you some good lotion Luba-derm Don't get that dollar store lotion get some rash Somebody said bra Stay single guys. You don't want you don't want anything. You don't want You don't want a wife or kids. You don't want any of that. You know, it's no good for you. It's a scam You know, it's a scam. Don't do it save your Save your four-fig your salary. Don't aim any higher in life. You're good where you are. Yes You're perfect. Just how you are your average. Don't don't aim any higher. Don't don't try to please with it No, stay where you are Average don't do it You're gonna regret it. You don't benefit from it at all Like average is good, right? Think about this guys if a woman didn't push you to be the best you could be you would