 So I was looking for, I was basically looking for a girlfriend, a wife, someone to fit a role, because I wasn't really fully complete within myself. And what I learned in this experience is that it's not about being, you know, looking for a wife. It's actually, could I be a husband to someone? Could I be a true partner? Do I want to be a partner to someone? In other words, can I come from a place of giving? Okay. And can I meet someone who also comes from a place of giving? So if they're giving, I have to be able to receive. And if I'm giving, they have to be able to receive. And this is where a lot of angst happens in the, in the relationship dynamic. So I think the problem today is dating is that if most people aren't dating with a purpose, a sense of intentionality.