  Astra                                                                                                                                                                                                                              ᶮᵃᵗ ᵃᵗ ᶇᶦᵘʀʹᵕ ᵜ� ᶛᵗ ᵍᵜ�ativos ᵗᵖᶁ ᵈ ᶶ ᵃᵗ ᶜᵍᵤ ᵒᵗ ᵐᶉ ᴘᵀᵒᴕᵗ ᵒᵃᵐᴕᷕᴕᶮ ᵀ ᶜᵃᵘᵗᵒᶕ ᵔᶉᵅ ᶲᶃᵉᵩ ᵘᵍᵉ Ḡᵎ��ᵍᶕᶕ Polit dense ṇᅒ  verder                     ições but at long last the family adopt this child as one of them. Why did this church restart with you? Personally I think it's the era we are in. Things have changed, things have evolved over time. I think it was there. Like in the generation we are outgoing, even our grandmothers will take care of maybe the daughter's children. But right now they feel like it is your responsibility as a mother. You give birth to a child when you are young, it is your responsibility to bring it up. But you know, when you go to school, you watch your mother, your children and you go on. Yes. Now things have changed over time because everything is changing. The economy is going up. If for example, wherever you are six of you, you are six girls, you are going to have a child, and you are going to have a child. How will that feel? It is a burden. So I think it's the era we are getting in. It is giving birth to so many changes. Teacher, you are a teacher. People are exposed, and so many things. Let me say, he has black people doing things out of ignorance. But you see now people know, life is very difficult from every end. So people are straining. You find that, we are also brought up by single parents. You find that maybe your mother is a single parent. We also want to add the responsibilities. It becomes very difficult. And you see identity is very important. Identity? Very important. When I give birth today, it is very important that my child gets identified with the father's family. It was a mistake that our parents did but people are now teachers. I hear people, most mothers, they are taking care of their children's children. They are saying that, we are going to have a child. So it's like the mother has owned the child. The child knows that we are going to give birth. This is not my mother going to give birth. My mother is going to give birth. So the same woman that the baby is calling mom, is the same woman the child is calling mom. You see, that trick may not work for long. It's a trick. It's a trick of course. Because a child needs to know who the mother is. From a very tender age. I need to know that the son is my mother and so is my grandmother and so is my aunt. It is very important that you tell a child his or her relatives when they are still young. But you see, when a class 6 or a class 7 gives birth, it becomes very difficult. The mother has to accept and to adopt the child. But you see, it is good but not better. There is a better option for that. What is the better option? Identifying the child with the father's family. If possible, let the mother not take the child. Why not mothers? Why not mothers through the fathers of those children taking the children? Why is it always on the lady's side? Let the child go there so that he or she gets identified with that family. And she knows that that is not the root. It is now it is talking about this child give birth at a very tender age and the possibility is that she conceived with a young, with a minor who cannot take responsibility. And I think this is why they were being adopted to the family. But here comes a situation where this lady has given birth but she conceived with a broke man. A broke poor jobless man. You know the economic situation of our country. This guy cannot even feed himself. He works from city centre to give rye 45 where he stays. He doesn't even have something to eat. And now there you are with child support. Simu. See we treated this the boy who is not responsible. From my opinion I feel like before you give birth or the whole process of giving birth as a mother you are supposed to be fully prepared that when this kid is going to get here you are also going to be responsible with or without that man. I feel like we have put so much pressure on this man. For example a broke man who is jobless honestly speaking. Even if we want that child support how is he going to help the mother. Are you blaming the mother for being impregnated by a poor man. No I am not blaming the mother. I am saying the mother is supposed to be responsible herself with or without man. But let me ask. You are not talking. You are not talking. Where does a broke jobless man get the energy to swear to someone's daughter. You don't know how those people are energetic. Somebody is saying I read a book called The Bardance They are saying that is the only entertainment for the poor. So when that is all they can do they can do it. And then you see we are all sexual beings and you see it goes beyond our economic status. It does not know that. And if in any case those were richer never. Yeah They never fit in that. They never fit in that. So you find that people who don't have much have many kids. When many kids don't reach people. It is not the source of entertainment. They don't have tv. They sleep very well. Some people maybe you think it is not there. They are thinking of where to get the next meal. So it is just automatic that things will happen. But now it also can now poverty in the city. There are people who struggling in the city but as you said everybody is sexual. They have the feelings and all that. Now the child has come. You didn't protect as you are talking about self-set. I think you are lying in your job as a self-set indicator. I'll be back. The people are getting unwanted pregnancies. They are no unwanted kids. I don't know why I feel that a woman cannot get pregnant when she doesn't want. I don't know why I feel so. You see for a woman to conceive she must be ready for her child. Or let me say she must be in need of her child. Because there are so many ways of preventing pregnancy. You see we are talking about pregnancy. Those are two different things. And a child is a seed. A fruit of love. A seed of emotions. So when a child is when I want to conceive today I'll definitely conceive. When I don't want and I'm a woman I'm exposed. I know how to prevent myself. I won't conceive. And that explains why they are not supporting you but I still negate. Because I don't know how to understand something. Let's get back to deeply. Are you also the opinion that women only get pregnant when they want? No. Actually no. Because there are some people out there back in the village who do not have exposure. They don't know how to prevent. They don't even know about safe days. They are girls. Those are exceptional cases. No, they are there. Some men who is young can not even defend a reasoning ability. It's different. Some are not exposed how. Family planning is a river. It's said all over. About the radios. I have a question too. You want to mean back in your village there is no girl who got pregnant because they did not know about condoms or family planning methods. That is the exception of cases I'm talking about. They are there. I want to bring your debate back to the seat. Are you saying that every girl was being impregnated by a man or say accident. The man was not last born. It always been deliberate. What do you mean by accident? Did I break something? What do you mean by that? You know when you are maybe in a club and then things went out of hand and then you found yourself somewhere. That is some kind of influence of something. That is the exception of cases I'm talking about. This explains why my mother is not giving back right now. When she is with my father every day. A woman only conceives when she wants. I'm telling you the truth. So even when an accident came out. It's there. She said it there. That is why we should not overlook the fact that it is there. You said sex space whatever foundation you have. It is that space that you need to get there to those girls who are there at home. They don't have the exposure. So it is you, they are exceptional. That is why they don't have that knowledge about these things. So if we told them that you can prevent pregnancies I think we can cap such things. It's true. I'm fixated somewhere of the ladies who surprised you with the message that I have pregnant. I didn't see my previous a city lady. But you see most of us use it as a trap. We want to trap men out of it. The same way men can also use the pregnancy thing to trap a woman. Yes. How can a man use the pregnancy thing to trap a woman? They know that definitely when you get pregnant you want to go. You want to go. You are most likely to get married to him. So it's a trap. When things go south now they start making noise on social media. My baby daddy has refused to do this, this and that. Well in the instance they walk, they use them legs walking to that man's house. They go to pregnant. Nobody knew. Now when things are... And this time some people do that. Is it majority or just a few? Most of them are accidentally agreeing now. Most of them are deliberately looking for it but now they find themselves belitt. Do you agree that? Partly. It is there actually. That is why I was saying it is the responsibility of the person who is going to get pregnant to know that you are going to bring this kid. You are going to feed the kid. You are going to have a shelter for that kid with or without a man. Nine months is a lot of time to take care of your baby. Divlin, are you saying that girls should not depend on men to take care of their children? I am saying that women should not depend on men so that they can bring up their children. They should bring them up on their own. They should not be bothering men to marry. Especially jobless men. I support co-parenting. Every man who has a child out should be responsible. But this is a jobless man? Yes, very broke. He should make an effort but he doesn't have. You see that is now a different case. It is understandable. Now For example you are pregnant and your man is jobless. You want to tell me you are going to wait for that man until he gets money. Definitely. They don't want to put you in a spot for something. You are here to blame. I see you. You are in a child-bearing age. You can get a child. And then you find yourself pregnant. What will you do? Knowing that the man who has done this to you is also jobless. What will you do? Are you alone in the whole world? Are you saying that you should beg relatives to help you take care of your child? Why not? What if you are jobless and the man is also jobless? Should the child suffer because you cannot just speak out to get help? Will you make a WhatsApp group of everything he supports? But some relatives are very bad. Some even live in there. But not all. But they get tired of feeding you and your child. You have to go out of your way to look for a job. You will rather go and sweep someone's compound. You feed that child. It is true. But even the relatives are going to get tired. Honestly speaking, personally if I was maybe feeding my cousin who has a child, every time, Hey cousin, I get tired. Honest to everyone. Let me ask you a question. The father is jobless. And the mother is also jobless. So what do you do? And you have just given birth. You are not in a position to go out and look for a job with your condition. And you see also babysitting that child. What do you do? It is a bit hard. It is tricky. But now tell me about your relatives. Are you saying that your relatives can help you take care of your people? They have helped me. My mother has always been there for me. When things are difficult, you see it does not mean that they have been helping me all along. This is just something that has just happened abruptly. I have conceived. And the father to the unborn child is jobless. You see when you become open and I tell my mother this is what has happened. And I want to keep the pregnancy. The child is soon coming. Kindly help me. And you see during that pregnancy it comes with a lot of challenges. You are sick, the nausea and everything. Yes, you are moody. You don't want to see the run in the theater. And in that condition, who can employ you in that condition? Nobody. You just reach out, just talk, speak it out and people can hear you. Let us see this point deeply. Just this point of relatives. Now you are seeking solutions on what you can do if you are have a child with a poor man. I think poor is extreme. So, one of the solutions that I want both of you to agree or disagree is that you involve relatives to help you taking care of the child. You don't bother that man. That is about getting to teach a charity. Do we note that down? Are you agreeing? I think that is a short plan. It's not a long plan. If we are going to break it down, let us say that is a short plan. Honestly, we can't bother our relatives every time with our burdens. They can be there for us for the first three months when you have given birth but what happens after? After then you can go see. You will be the position now to go out. Go out and look for a job. So you agree partially that short plan relatives, go to them. Your mother will never forsake you. The first three months, mom and uncle. Yes, until. So do we say that we just leave this man alone is poor. Once you understand him, when he doesn't have money, where will he get the money from? Or let him also bother his relatives. Of his bother yours. And the man does not bother. In any situation, you also bother in him to bother relatives. You tell him. You go to your mother. But say yes. The man has not given birth. He can go out there and look for a job. Are you waiting for? Do you have to go to their relatives? Say it is jobless. It is jobless, broken jobless. Honestly, there are these jobs that people get per day. Like, Django is there. He is a man. And that Django is just there when you are talking about. But when you go out to look for it, you may take a whole week. And it is not a regular problem. And it is not a regular problem. It is not a regular problem. So, some day we are at lunch. When some guy was carrying a block this big, he is carrying about three of them in his shoulder. I am going to 7th floor. Going to 7th floor. And then he did that the whole day. I sympathize with this man. So don't be quick to tell to send your my friends to go to Django. I am just saying that these jobs they get in a day. You see, there is a amount of time job a week, a month. You can get these small jobs. They can get income. The problem now, I don't know whether it is influence or something. But it has been tuned that child upkeep must be paid more. No matter the situation it must be paid. Now this topic was inspired let me tell you by a celebrity called Djeshiti. He sent 150 to the girlfriend for child upkeep. And then the social media. Don't know whether this girl went and doing something. Social media came up roaring about it. See, like as we are talking now see, there is a lot of child upkeep coming her ways. You see, there is a lot of child upkeep because it is like there was pressure somewhere for child upkeep. All the people are there. See, there is a lot of child upkeep let us agree now on that. See, there is child upkeep. Anyway, here we have some books. Let them get that money for that. Now, let me tell you, let me ask you, when I have given birth today you see there is postpartum, depression and everything and then you have left all the burden to the mother and then the mother decides to keep quiet to bother the relatives as I was saying before resulted when the kids got depressed lf they have something come, they can now use it for their mom and the kid instead of these people who show like they have so much money they are dead bitches so they have a lot of money then it's christening but now if were broken and jobless more or less 300 bucks could be looked like you can use 150 for yourself that one, even I as a mother I can appreciate that and feel like you are not selfish you are at least to care you just don't have now it comes to a situation where people take to social media it's very common post, I think this is where this date came from you go to social media and post a man and say you are the child upkeep and then people especially if it's a celebrity people start mocking mocking that man every social, like everybody now posting you on those other pages like Kilimani Ma people are like this ladies warning ladies that if this man seduces you don't accept run run this guy will get you pregnant and then he will not be responsible let's talk about this I feel like men sometimes are being irresponsible like for example you have the money but you can't spare some for the mother of your kid but you can spare some to go out there get women to sleep with and you also have a sidekick or you also have another girlfriend and you are spending on that girlfriend yet here the mother of your kid is sleeping hungry maybe so that the small she has she can feed the kid it's the man who is supposed to be responsible you have some money spare some for your girlfriend or for your mother not your girlfriend you can forego the girlfriend part let's see spend much on the girlfriend let me send the baby mama something you know what you are saying the blame is what has brought contention the contention between mother-in-law and their daughter's signal they are competing for the son's love and affection and provision and all that are you supporting this girl what I am saying that first on what you asked before someone taking their issue to social media when it reaches that point it means that the woman is in serious depression let me tell you maybe she has talked to everyone nobody has offered that audience and that is the only place where all maybe the man has blocked everywhere how do you reach him through social media because at long last he will come to know that very good you see that a man gets you pregnant today he blocks you everywhere how do you reach him social media he just go to kill a man and put it in there especially celebrity but if he decides to pop a red normally it's like he do it in Yamaji but if he becomes tough you become tough now you meet up maybe he gets too much on boy child maybe this boy child has done this because he has no money communication you can talk to the mother tell her by the way I am missing a doll I am expecting this amount of money now I will go there and I will post because now you have blocked me you are not keeping your word what if I have not blocked you but I don't have money I should understand that you really don't have a man I will investigate and know whether you have money or not when you have money you will not give me and giving me false hopes I will still put you there okay let's get to when the child maybe gets a bit bigger class 1 class 2 maybe there has not been support there has not been support from the dad at all will you open up and tell your child you know baba koni so and so I will one day take you to your dad some people can see I will show you your dad when the right time comes maybe baba will be a bit hung up but because he is poor you don't want to associate the child with the dad is it right but you see that nothing will change the fact that is the father of your kids let the child know that so and so is my father and just be positive being that you have issues with the father you should not drag the child into it let the child and the father let them have their own time their nice time and it is okay to introduce your child to the father it is a right let him know him or her know that you have a dad somewhere this is your dad as somebody said and this pathetic thing pathetic thing here that is wrong and rude that is wrong and rude that is like telling your kid please disrespect your father and give you that chance to do that you should at least if you are able because we find like sometimes women have the money and the baby daddy is jobless I am in a stable job I can get some money ask the father out with the kid so that they can born let them have fun leave them for some time but you should do that it is nice so can connect they misintroduce it is wrong it is very wrong in whichever situation you find yourself in you have to maintain the highest level of social and emotional intelligence let your child not grow up knowing that you have issues with your father those are things that you can do behind the curtains when you are together just pretend even if it is a matter of faking just faking for the sake of that child there is also this situation here where the girls parents are very rich very rich very able but this is the place this is the guy called Kutri Voivo he is jobless and the parent is also poor so the parents are blocking this guy from reaching the child we had warned you several times before you got pregnant that get away from this poor we will infect you with poverty and then the child came after the child had a scar then this guy is blocked blocked from accessing in fact the child is very poor because he is poor you see every other parent will get better when a child gets pregnant when it is not yet time I think it is that bitterness that may make a parent speak but all in all it is not in order it is not in order but for me from where I come from you are told like listen to what your mother tells you don't overlook whatever she says because in one way or the other it is going to end up just like she warned you so it is only right to respect your mother and to listen to her but love is blind if you mean and we were talking about the people who are very hard to advise you did not say that number one of the list is Ayanga in love you cannot advise her but at least the consequences are there she was told your mother will tell you I told you, I warned you so at that moment you will be very you will feel like inferior, guilty you will feel that guilt pile up because you were warned but you did not listen when your mom tells you to stop dating a poor man you will stop immediately no, it is not about a poor man it is about that man if he sees he is not the best for the kid he will tell you your mother should not hide it from you even when we are introducing our process to our parents your parent can know this is the right guy this is not the right guy and when you are told it is only wise to listen because we have seen people their relationships crab just because you did not listen but if you listened I think we have three chances to fall in love with people if the first one fails second that will not fail teacher do you know me or something here about transferring fatherhood can you transfer the fatherhood of your child to another man with whom you are in love now maybe it is better a bit stable he can pay the milk money and all that so you tell your kid even though it is not a biological god but now you transfer the fatherhood because the other one awezi anampendani mehachana maybe the fun of the results one mehachana is that it is not responsible mama awezi to kulipa awezi a fund can you transfer the fatherhood awezi awezi awezi awezi part is funny that part is funny but when someone becomes irresponsible it becomes very difficult to live in such a person  constra braraka le dストダ约  Guo tsle bag nga woon li uchis li yi croz me yidharak sem do  futur ki yoi есп flush  wrestler was a screwdriver yesThey follow the picture of this kid when asked what it should be  sigma  więsi  supporting him є??   textile 5 apni chik la ordable what what වසන්writer' වතිය්‍ස්ලය ඥේුරාස්ලය දැන්පස්ලය ඔබ්න්න්කීමී මත්න්න් ඔබ්න්ක ක innerhalbිසන්න්න්න්න්න් මූන්න්න්න්න් තොීයෙනි ගහැය්න්න්න්න්න්න්න්  simplify                                                                                                                                                                                                                               firefighter                                                                                                                                                                                                                              loi  Länder  ада                                                                                                                                                                                                                         మూత్సినిమూత్సిసానినిటిని child only do well in life. A larger percentage. మూత్సినినినినినినినినినినిగానినినినినినినినినినినినినినిని. But when he just decided to put aside for his own benefit, his own gains, he will not even access that child.  Riflecomments