 easy way out to blame someone or to blame something for your circumstance. It allows you to sit back and believe that you have nothing to do with it, that there's nothing you can do. There's no fault within yourself. But guess what happens when you do that? Nothing. Dagnation, no change, no movement, and eventually bitterness. When you look at your role in a circumstance or a situation or whatever it may be, even if your immediate thought is that you have no role, you give yourself the power to change it and to improve it.