 What's going on you guys welcome to the single guy channel my name is Lloyd. I am not the single guy So today we are going to be talking about the five worst text messages to send a girl now Context is everything you can send some of these text messages and get away with it It's fine, especially if you're seeing this girl consistently or in a relationship with her I'm sure some of these messages would be okay for that But if you're in the dating phase and you send these messages consistently do not expect to hear from this girl again So we're gonna go through everything one by one They are ranked in no particular order. Let's start with the first one. Good morning Okay, if you're sending good morning text to this girl again and again, don't expect to hear from her for very long It's a weird needy kind of like nothing text to send It might sound cutesy at first. She might even think she likes it at first But if you send it a two or three times She's gonna think this guy is not the guy that I'm looking for. I mean come on guys You can do better. Also, this goes if you're saying things like happy Monday or just these nothing messages that you said in the morning It just makes you look bad, dude. I wouldn't send that. Yeah, sure if you're in a relationship or she really likes you You know sending her a good morning text every once in a while is great You know, I'll even send that to a girl that I'm seeing But if you're sending this again to a girl that you just started dating come on man There are better things to send than that. Thing two is I love you or it doesn't have to exactly be I love you It can be like I really like you. I think I'm falling for you All of those things if you're saying that really early on dude, that is not the right move And typically what I notice is that what a lot of guys will do is they'll say this from a place of scarcity If they feel like they're losing the girl if they're feeling really needy They'll send this message and guess what it comes off as needy if you send it in these circumstances What you want to do is if you do really like a person and there's been some time there for you to actually formulate feelings Like you know what I like this girl like this girl's cool. I enjoy hanging out with her. She's got cool interests We have fun together, you know If you come from a place of strength and you say that that's a great thing to send But not from a place of weakness, especially when the guy feels like they're losing them They do this thing called love bombing, which is where they just declare their feelings And then it's actually pretty manipulative and messed up Like it can actually keep the girl around for a little bit longer because there's some drama there and there's like You know then she starts thinking well, maybe I do really like him like guys haven't declared their feelings for me, okay? Don't do this. It's really messed up if you do this and on top of that It's not gonna keep the girl around for a very long time She's gonna realize you're weird psychotic and ultimately super needy. It's just not a good place to be I wouldn't send that message text message number three. Why are you not responding? If you have this text message, you're probably sending it because the girl's either ghosting you you're being too needy Or there's just something else happening where she had you have to feel like she responds to you right this instant Okay, it's never a good thing to be demanding that a girl responds to you All right, it just not just doesn't put you in a good place now There might be a chance where it's an urgent thing that you have to contact her maybe She's in trouble or something like that and you know you really want to you really need to make sure that she's okay Okay, maybe that's there's a circumstance where that might be okay But that would probably be something more for a relationship where there's some established connection between you guys If it's really early on the only reason why you're sending why are you not responding is from a selfish place? Okay, don't be selfish you're telling this girl that you're needed you're selfish You're probably not a person that she wants to see consistently or even hook up with thing number four is hey you up or just hey Okay, any of these like messages you're probably sending this when you're drunk You're probably sending this when you know you're on a dating app And you're just being lazy and you can't think of anything to say I mean come on like that's basically if you send a message where you're putting low investment into it Not a whole amount of time basically no thought and you're just seeing if they're up so you know they can you know Hook up or have sex with you or if they'll respond to your message You're telling your hey listen I kind of what I'm whatever's about you and I'm not gonna really put much effort into this and it's sending a Completely horrible message if you can't if the only message that you can send is a hey or what's up or you up? Don't send anything at all. Okay, and the fifth and final worst text message you can send a girl is a dick pic I Am continually confused about why this is such a big thing and why men continue to do in the first place Look man I've sent my dick to a number of different lovely ladies But it was by request and after we had already been sleeping together for a certain amount of time If you're doing this to a woman that you haven't slept with or haven't even met up with that's creepy That's weird. Don't ever do it. All right There's not a single reason why you would be doing that unless to get a crazy Weird reaction out of her and just like to mess with women. Okay, it's messed up. It's disrespectful I just don't think I really need to beat this dead horse anymore. Don't do it All right, so those are the five worst text messages that you can send a girl obviously There are equally bad messages that I could probably could have listed here But those are the five main ones that I've seen with my clients with my viewers in my channel And if you find yourself doing any one of these five, I'd recommend that you stop Immediately and if you think of any more that I could have included but didn't include in this video Please put them in the comment section below. I'd love to get a discussion about this and ladies if you're watching this channel I know a lot of women watch my channel to put some down that you get from men that you hate as well I'd love to hear your opinions about this too. All right. Thanks you guys If you may today and consider subscribing and come up with videos like this every single week And if you're interested in personal coaching as a form down below, please fill it out And if you're a good fit, we'll reach back out to you. 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