 3 things Narcissus can't accept, 1, Narcissus cannot accept problems, it's normal to experience problems and difficulties in life, it's normal to go through obstacles, but this is something that Narcissus cannot accept, when something goes wrong it triggers them to reflect on their shame and then they quickly shift the blame onto you, because they cannot accept blame or shame, they cannot accept problems, in their minds if they have caused a problem that means they're a bad person, because of this they do not hold themselves accountable for their actions, which means that they never change, they just keep doing the same thing again and again, while blaming everyone else for the consequences of their actions, they will even blame you for the effects of the abuse, for the effects of everything they do to you, as though you did it to yourself, because they lack empathy, they don't really care about how their behaviour affects you, they only care about how it pertains to them, what it says about them as a person, in their minds they think that if they have hurt you, that says something about them, that means they're a bad person, so then they have to deflect the shame, they have to make you feel like something is wrong with you, but they never have any interest in sharing your experiences, they're self absorbed, even when it seems like they're taking an interest in your ideas and with fortunes, they're just looking at how it reflects onto them, people are just mirrors to the Narcissist, they cannot see you, they only see a reflection of themselves, so if there's a problem, they feel like that means there's something wrong with them, which is why they cannot accept problems, too, the Narcissist cannot accept that they are not in control, Narcissists are very insecure, that is why they are always trying to control everyone and everything, they always have to be the authority, they cannot accept that they are not in control, instead they try to contain everything, so that it is under their influence and authority, they create a fake world where they control the narrative, they cannot accept that one day we are all going to die, which is something that people generally accept, we know that we are not in control of everything, we accept that, but this is something that Narcissists cannot accept, they cannot believe in God, because that would mean that someone is superior to them, someone has authority over them, the Narcissist behaves like they are God, as though everyone has to answer to them, as though everyone has to be what they want them to be, when people understand that we are all going to die, and when they believe in a God, it controls their actions and behaviours, it improves relationships, but the Narcissist cannot believe in a God, because that would make it very difficult for them to be Narcissists, they have to be the ones that are in control, they have to be the ultimate authority, they cannot believe in anything that has power over them, but Narcissists are people too, and they are restricted to the same limitations as we are, they cannot escape death, they have physical limitations, they are still human, they act like they are superhuman, and they want you to feel like they are larger than life, but it is a huge wake up call, when you finally see just how human they really are, they are actually very vulnerable, they are even more limited than we are, they experience far more difficulties than the average person, they make incorrect judgements, because it's all just an illusion, it's just another thing that they can't accept, and then they pull you into that dream world, free, Narcissists can't accept reality, they cannot accept truth, they cannot accept the reality of the situation, they will deny anything and everything that doesn't favour them, they will create an environment where it is easier for everyone to deny something, where it is preferable and favourable for everyone to deny it, they will make it seem like it's in your best interest, they always have to make it seem like it's for the benefit of everyone else, when really they are just indulging in their own selfish desires, when a Narcissist does finally have to face reality, that is when you will see just how vulnerable they really are, that is when you will see just how incapable they are of dealing with reality, and then you will understand why they have had to create this fake world, where everyone has to follow their false narrative, it will all make sense, because the truth is they just can't accept reality, they create this illusion as though they're in control of everything, but really it's just a situation that they create where you are dependent on each other, which actually ends up being damaging for both of you, because they can't manage it, they can't handle anything, they lack the ability, discipline and desire that is required to do something difficult, they can't accept the reality that one day this is all going to come to an end, they deny that fact until they finally die, thank you for watching, I hope this video resonates with you, please like, comment, share and subscribe, if you were delighted to mate, my paypal link is in the video description, coach the enquiries, you can email me at coachingatnarcsurvivor.co.uk, thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.