 Live in an independent life without them, they do what they do, they devalue you, they break you down, and then even when you try to get away, they start a smear campaign against you, they assassinate your character, they discredit you. All of these things why? To stop me from being free. God gave you your free will to make your own choices and decisions, the narcissist wants to take that free will away from you, the narcissist doesn't want you to have free will, they don't want you to have your God given rights, it's evil, it is, but I'm here to tell you that you do deserve to be free, you do deserve to be independent of the narcissist, but you don't have to worry about what they think about something, you shouldn't worry about what they think, because once someone has abused you, once someone has disrespected you, after that they should no longer be anything significant in your life, a person like that is not deserving of any significance, any importance. Once you realise your value, you realise what you're worth, and I'm not talking about money or success, I'm talking about that worth that comes from just being alive, if you are alive, you are worth something, you have value, you have usefulness, why? Because you are willing to share, you give, you contribute, there's value in that, but there is no value in the narcissist, someone who only takes, so yeah, they don't want you to find your freedom, they don't want you to be happy, they don't want you to make your own choices and decisions, they don't want you to have control over your own life, to where you can choose how you want to live, they don't want that, but trust and believe, people you give the narcissist full control of your life, you let them decide what you go to do, you let them decide what you think and feel about something, trust and believe that they will still blame you when things go wrong, they will still hold you responsible, and they will avoid any accountability, even though they had full control in that situation, there was nothing you could do from your own free will, you couldn't even breathe without them knowing, you couldn't think of nothing, without them having full control of that, and yet they will still find a way to blame you, it's crazy making, it's nonsensical, they're welcome to the world of the narcissist, they will blame you even when they had full control of a situation, they will still find a way to hold you as possible, maybe that's why I make these videos, because I hate seeing people being blamed for things they didn't do, so let me just reaffirm to you, everything is not your fault, you are not to blame for everything that goes wrong in life, sometimes other people are to blame, sometimes the narcissist is at fault, even though they may not accept that, they don't have to accept it for it to be true, the narcissist doesn't want you to be free, they don't want you to just move on and live your life without them, that's not what they want to see, but whether they like it or not, you have to free yourself, then they will be trapped in a prison of their own making, and they're not going to be happy about it, but you've just got to see it, that they brought it on themselves, they made their own beds and now they have to line it, anyway that's all I've got to say on this topic, I know this signal isn't too good here, but I hope this has been helpful for you, just here at the beach, it's a beautiful day today, a bit cold here, but still good