 Folks if the penis is going inside the vagina on a regular basis Then I would hope you built a fair amount of trust with one another and trust as I said in the very early Conversation here trust isn't just about fidelity trust is does this person have my best interest at heart you know Going all in in a relationship says I'm gonna do what's in the best interest for my partner for me for us The best you can there is no perfect way of doing this but do the best you can