 And if you leave, they lose control of you, so they will switch on the charm and they will love bomb you until you're back in their arms metaphorically or physically. And yeah, I mean, but they were used out your autism against you, so they could, yeah, they could put you in situations of like, loud noises, even though they know that you're really struggling with sensory issues and then they might blame you for the fallout, or they might invalidate it or shame you. And if you ever made a little mistake or a misunderstanding in a social situation, they will never let you forget it. It will be brought up time and time again for eternity.