 As soon as you do this the narcissist will come back. Many of you find yourself chasing after the narcissist trying to get their attention, trying to get their validation. You just want them to see you, to notice you, to understand you. But it's like the more that you try to get them to understand, the more that you try to get them to come back the further away they go. And that's just how it works with narcissists because then they feel like they've already secured you so they don't feel like they should have to do anything more. They don't see any reason to come back. They're busy working on their next target. So you have to make them feel like they don't know whether or not you are actually with them. And to do that you just need to focus your time and attention more on yourself. That's all that you really have to do because when you do that they will sense it. They will feel that your energy is slipping away and then they will try to get it back. They will re-engage you again because they sense that your energy, your attention is slipping away from them. And they want that back. So by that point they will have no choice but to come back to you. But as long as you're still focusing on them and you make them the main priority in your life, then they can just move on and forget about you and work on their next target. Because as far as they're concerned there's no mystery now. You are a puzzle that has already been solved. And yeah, they like the challenge. They like something that they can solve. And when you become that it makes them keep coming back to you because then they keep trying to figure you out. That's what makes them obsess. It's what makes them addicted to you. When you become this thing that they just can't figure out, this puzzle that they can't solve, it adds an element of mystery to you. And it makes it very difficult for them to just move on and cut you out. I've just checked in to the new apartment here. As you probably noticed, Nala is back. It's been about three months without Nala. But it's good to have her back. So here she is. And I've just been enjoying this view. The fireworks. I feel like I'm on top of the world up here. I'm going to be in this area for the next few days. Hopefully if the weather is good, I'll be exploring some beaches. And I'd like to take you there with me as well. So it should be a lot of fun over the next few days. But yeah, that's all you really have to do. If you want them to come back, if you want them to remember you, to notice you, to see you, that's all you really have to do. You have to stop thinking about them so much. Stop obsessing over them, wondering about what they're doing, who they're with. Just stop doing all of that. And focus on your own life. Just forget about them. Because as soon as you do that, they will sense it. They will feel like something is missing. They will sense that your energy is slipping away. And then they will try to get it back. Because they need that energy. They need positivity. They need your light. So of course naturally they are going to chase after it. Okay, that's it for this video. If you enjoyed it, please give it a thumbs up down below. And they will talk to you in another one very soon.