 All right, what's up you guys? This is Lloyd here with the single guy. I got my buddy, oh Evil Stifler Yeah, so Lloyd wanted to come into the park today. You have a little conversation about One thing that I always find that helps me get laid more than everybody else in the world is Persistence now perseverance and persistence are the key to success You know, it's really true. It's so true that you know, you miss a hundred percent of the shots You don't take okay. We've all heard that before but More importantly Persistence to hang into the set when you might think that it's over because you're not getting the feedback You want from the girl at the time because maybe her friends came in Maybe your conversations running a little bit of dry so Persistence works in two ways for me. The conversation runs dry. I'm gonna be switching over and trying to change scenery So, okay, I'm at the you know, I'm eating the dance floor we're dancing blah blah blah blah You can't say much on the dance floor because you're dancing you want to pray a little over to the bar to get a drink So hey, come on. Let's go over to the drink. You're getting a drink. You do the hey Where's it from? How's he doing the regular questions? You know Maintaining, you know a flirtatious relationship as you're trying to see where have she likes you or not and And then you know continuing on with your persistence of your questioning and how how you're How you're placing yourself into the position that she is okay with you being with her And so that way if her friends come up or whatever Another thing you might say all that well our friends are here So I'll see you later, you know, or she you know, she might be like hey, I'm all my friends just showed up Great, let's go over there and meet them walk over there with her, you know, yeah We want to jump in here live. Yeah, yeah, dude This is like like the the typical answer that you get from guys that give up really easily and don't get late Or like guys that are though. They'll come back to me and they'll say oh like her friends showed up or like Oh, she got in the cab and she She got she got in the cab and she went back to her place And it's like dude, why didn't you go meet her friends? Why didn't you go back to her place? It's when things don't go exactly the way people imagine them in their heads And well the way they imagine them is so narrow-minded like when you're going on you're meeting people like dude the complicated things Happened situations get crazy and you're gonna have to be able to be cool with them and figure out a way To get what she want out of it And that's if your goal is to go home with the chick that night then going to her place as opposed to your place Isn't really that big of a deal Her friends coming in and meeting them and then you get to talk to her after isn't that big of a deal But a lot of people get thrown off when exactly how they picture things going down if it doesn't go that way then they just give up and What we're trying to tell you right now is to not do that if things are gonna get thrown at you that you're not gonna see Every night you go out things happen that I've never pictured before happening But I've had similar things happen to me and I've still gotten the job done So it doesn't really throw me off and it doesn't throw evil sifflor off either a lot of the times that when I find like that situation where I meet some girls like we're at the bar hanging out and they go onto the dance floor and then we've you know So let's say that they haven't been in the dance floor. Yeah, they all want to go dance and I love dancing too But sometimes girls don't want to dance with you directly in front of their friends when they all met you It's one thing if you meet a girl in the dance floor or if you meet her by herself and you guys are going on dancing together But I've always find a lot of times when women go out to dance together and a group and they walk on the dance floor They kind of like to feel the dance floor out and like you know shake it out a little bit So they can get a little bit of attention from everybody So what I always find is cool is if you don't want to dance with them right off because like they don't want to dance with you And you don't want to fucking blow yourself out of the set by being like too aggressive on the one girl You know because otherwise her girlfriends be like alright, buddy, you know I might like block you out and they can block you out too, but also, you know buddy up with their friends Quality move always buddy up with their friends and stay a stand up that but if their friends are hot just like that Make sure that you know, you know that you're still coming back and giving us a little bit of attention to the one That you are actually into because you know girls get jealous just as easily as guys do They're all human so anyhow What I'm saying is when they're dancing on the dance floor and you don't have anything to say and you don't want to just kind of Give them a little space, but you don't want to lose them. This is perseverance step back for a second Go get a drink yourself from the bar But if it's a giant club, you know, maybe just step back and like you know act like you're talking to some random stranger Like turn around to a guy be like hey, what's up? You know like shoot the shit with him buddy up with somebody else for a second a You know you got two other girls You got to help you know find them guys for so don't pick some fucking nerd Who's gonna suck and ruin your shit if you're standing next to him like avoid that guy? Also, if you see some like you know try and find somebody who's in the similar mind frame as you That you know, you they won't suck So anyhow, the point of it is is back off from them for a second and then when you know They're done dancing or you can come back and be like hey, let's go get a drink at the bar And then you come back up for round two right and I'm not opposed to buying women drinks either I some people say it's stupid if a chick asks me to buy her a drink. I'll tell her no But yeah, it's the way they asked yeah, that's the way that so like I even buy me a drink like bitch fuck you Yeah, yeah, I'm buying you shit but if it chicks like Dancing we're talking, you know and like I'm getting you know, I love to buy a drink You know my fucking pleasure, you know cuz uh and and you know I always like to throw in like a little coming like come on by a drink no sex attached, you know What whatever I'm big on like disassociating myself with the end result, you know Kind of like it's cool. We don't have to do anything. You don't want to kind of thing. Yeah, or you know, if You walk them with a chick just living be like I'm gonna have sex with you We're not having sex to get out of your mind Yeah Subliminally just putting in little pokers to have fun and be be playful with it too And it kind of takes the ease out of the you know the monkey out of the What's the next time the elephant out of the room or some shit anyhow one bite at a time. Yeah, so yeah, there you go, buddy Okay, so all these little things that evil stiflers talking about when it comes to Persistence and getting women they're all just like little little nitpicks that they're gonna happen to you in the night when you're going out and you're going about your day and all what I think separates the the guys that are actually successful and the guys that just end up giving up is Is That well for well first of all the guys who do well They want it more than the guys that don't the guys that just kind of give up They didn't really want it to begin with how much do you want it? it's like when you go to talk to a girl and I think we're talking about this and I heard you took you were talking about this in one of your videos Yeah, that is watching it. It's like when you when you talk to a girl, you know Are you talking to her just to amuse yourself to get this quota of oh I talked to the girl? Okay, well, I'm good for the night then or do you actually want to are you actually attracted? Are you actually interested and how bad do you want it? You know and and are you willing to fight for it that means fighting your fighting yourself, too Because you're your own worst critic everybody is so you know I think that if you if you really want it then then you'll put it in your head that you want it You know and that'll be something that you can stick with but don't get it be a fucking psychopath and sociopath And if she's not into it, you know Don't push it on her and like you know obviously don't embarrass yourself because then that's gonna fuck up your self-esteem even more, you know and So yeah, I would just say that you gotta you gotta really want it if you want to go out and you want to meet a girl And you think she's really pretty don't hesitate, you know step first be there because women have like a split second hesitation If you the she looks at you smiles and you fucking look off to the side She's gonna look around to the next guy and smile, you know and and literally like I'm a little bit of a jaded fucker motherfucker for this because my my vision is not too good So I missed out on a lot of those opportunities. So I really judge body language also a lot, too But what are you talking about the body language earlier? What were you saying? So with with body language and posture I Basically, well the way I conduct myself is I kind of make sure that I'm standing up straight and I have good posture But if I have to lean over and like their body language. Oh, they're body language If she's turned in facing to me, then that's what I look for if she's looking around like trying to see what else is going on Like and she's giving me and I'm talking to her shoulder basically or you sometimes get that Then that's not good And I try and make sure that I'm getting her for her full face and her shoulders are are tilted So there, you know, I could I can I could see her her whole front And that's kind of the stuff that I looked for but I kind of wanted to get into Tell some stories about persistence. Do you want to talk about some stories? I have a couple right now that I get that I get a dish out So so I'll do I'll do one story that really exemplifies mine's kind of like a long game I think evil stuff like the one he might tell is like what happened over the course of a night But mine happened over like a couple weeks. It happened over a couple weeks. He's never been on that journey So I met this chick my buddy. He works at one of the strip clubs here We're at this we're at this party. This happened like a year and a half ago That's kidding Not anymore not anymore so so basically We're at this we're at this party was open bar and I'm just chilling and I'm talking to one of the strippers And she's like really hot. I'm really into her and we're kind of gelling. We're having a good time and I Try and get her number at some point. She's like you can't get my number I'm like why she goes I can't get my number out to customers and I'm like what that's silly like you should give me your Number she's like no and she walks away Find and find her again. I'm like hey, what's going on? We talked for a little bit seems like it's going well She's about to run off and I'm like hey you got just slimmer your number. It's gonna be cool. It's fine She's like nope can't do it runs off goes do goes to do her dance guys are throwing money at her She goes off with one of the dudes give him a lap dance. I'm like shit like Put all this work in and not get anything out of it So then she got she comes back. I start talking to her again. I'm like you gotta give me like just please Stuff that I'm saying something Even to listen to it. Yeah, and so but eventually she she's like I'm like all right Cool, so I take a pen and I put it in her hand I'm gonna just write it right it down really quick on my hand She writes her number down really quick on her on my hand And then I never see her again So then the next day I messaged her she doesn't really respond and then I messaged her again psycho I Persistence and then I'm saying and then I'm saying that I'm saying something funny And then she finally responds and then we talk for like we talk for like a week or something like that messaging back and forth She's kind of giving me not much and eventually I don't know how I did this But I convinced her to come out on on a date with me I think I did it while I while I FaceTimed her actually that was that was a pretty that was a pretty good move Because I got her on the phone as I'm because you know obviously if I wasn't getting any signals that she was interested in me I would have stopped I would have stopped a long time ago, but I knew she was interested She was just kind of being It seemed like it was a little bit of a play playing hard to get type stuff But she was also just trying to protect herself too Yeah, she's you know, she's working in an environment where like guys are trying to get at her constantly And so eventually I took her out on the date and she was like kind of being mean to me at the beginning But I was persistent and I was nice no matter what and then I ended up I ended up taking her home We ended up having a good time. It was great Sorry I'm literally like a fucking Yeah, exactly so the point being was that like you know I knew that she was interested and I didn't let a lot of people would be in this like oh well I guess I can't do it cuz she works there and I'm a customer She said Stuck to it the kids So I stuck I'm gonna stuck to it cuz because I liked her and also I mean she was giving me I could tell this chick was interested in me It was just the fact that she was like it seemed like she was vetting me a little bit and at the same time She was also I knew her position I knew kind of the stuff that she was in and I knew that if I did get I did get the phone number like something Good could happen out of it. So, you know, I was persistent, but I wasn't like obnoxious about it, too I wasn't like annoying or he got the FaceTime. Oh, no I went on a date and then and then I she was being kind of mean to me But like eventually at around 2 a.m. I brought her home and we ended up having sex and it was awesome Beautiful story. Yes So that was over the course of a couple weeks where you can be persistent and then evil stifler will tell you You want to tell the story what that happened to you? We go Yeah, it's a little it's a little long, but I'll tell it. So here's a quick one I'm sure it is. Yeah. So I walk into this restaurant. I see this hot chick. My buddies are there They weren't having the night that the chef thought I knew that was gonna work there So we we ended up leaving right went to a bar came out went back to my house to get a To get another jacket it was cold and on the way back to my house I walked by the restaurant and that girl was standing outside this time and I was like Hey, I saw you earlier for like two seconds when I was walking by and she was like, yeah, the two-second guy And I was like, that's me ha ha mr.. Two-second man, you know and And so then we had a little laugh and I was like, what are you up to? She's like, oh, we're gonna go this bar next door So we walk in the bar the girls walk in the bar and they go right to the bathroom and they come out And they were come running out of the bathroom like what the fuck so then like normally You know girls come in the bar with you and then they just walk right past me I'm standing on the one that's walked right past me go outside and I'm like the fuck like not bitch I was just talking to you like the shit ain't over yet. The fuck you going so then I roll up on my outside And I'm like, hey, what's up? Where'd you go? And they're like, oh, well our friend got in a fucking our friend got choked in the bathroom by this other chick She's like fucking choked her and so we're relieving because bitch almost fucking tried to fight my friend And I was like, oh fuck that bitch, you know We were finder will fuck her up So we're walking down the street sure as shit here comes a chick that choked one of the girl the girl that I was into her friend got choked and The girl like fucking grabs her that my girl grabs her and throws her on the ground and then like She starts punking this other chick was the coolest thing I've ever seen in my life She's like bitch don't fucking touch my friend fucking like slammed her on the ground bar throw awesome I was like holy shit. This bitch is badass right for real for real for real like she was that's my kind of girl and So then I start yelling at the girl on the ground. I'm like, yeah, I don't fucking choke people bitch You get you know like buddy enough with the girl that I was into and she's like, yeah Yeah, thanks. Thanks for having my back on that. I was like fuck that bitch So then I instantly had her back right so that was for persistence Perseverance number one right then they like over. Let's go to this club. So we go downtown We hop in the cab we all go to this club. We're partying. We're dancing here's the same situation I was just talking about they're on the go the dance floor and I'm like into this chick You know, we're having fun. We're dancing but her girlfriends are there too and she's trying to dance with them And her girlfriend is girlfriend just got choked so that was kind of like a big deal we had like now, you know to soothe her through her time of trauma and And so like, you know, I was persistent with that and there's like lots of other girls around Normally most guys would be like, I fuck this shit's too much too much of a hassle But I stuck in there I felt I fell back on the dance floor a little bit talked to a couple people does like I said and then and then they're like Oh, we're gonna go to this other club. So it's two o'clock in the morning. All the bars are closed It's a fucking Tuesday We go from that club we go to this other club It's not even know it's not even open but my friends own it so they open the door for us We party in there until six o'clock in the morning These other two girls that she was with they're getting all fucked up on I know it's what me and my girl We weren't into that so the end of the night comes and it the sun's coming up we're walking out the club on a fucking Tuesday and Going up on a Tuesday for real and so like so then we all we all hop in a cab And there's just three guys and there's three girls and me, you know And I'm I've been with my girl and the everybody else is all fucked up on miscellaneous drugs and whatnot And so the guys look what can we just get a ride home because it was kind of like on the way and I was like Well, what's up like you want to come back to my house? She's like I can't I gotta go to my girl. I got my dog at home I live in fucking I live out of town and I got to go to my girlfriend's house and I'm like, alright Well, what's up? Can I go with you? She's like, yeah, let's just drop off these guys first. I was like sweet So then I'm fucking persist persistence and perseverance and number four. All right fucking miracle number four I can only was supposed to you know perform three miracles to become a saint Four to four up in this bitch. So anyhow, so we get to the girls house We dropped off all the other guys and her girlfriend won't let me in the house It's fucking seven o'clock in the morning now. The sun is on the way up. It's fucking freezing cold I'm like, what are we doing here? I could have just got out of my house because we drove right by my house She's like, well, I was like, well that sucks. You want to just come back to my house She's like, all right Let's just go back to your house, but I couldn't take her to my house because I have my fucking friends sleeping in my fucking door And I was like and her girlfriend's like, no, no, she's gonna stay with me We're gonna call your own cab and you're gonna go home and I looked at him like fuck. Come on Like what the fuck like just send her home. She's all fucked up. She doesn't she's want somebody to hang out with So finally the girl was like, no, honey tells her girlfriend that the girl that got show She has tells her girlfriend. She goes, hey, like we're gonna go over to my house and And we're gonna I'm gonna take him home with me So we call another cab boom head up out of town go to this chicks house. She's a beautiful house. We get there Awesome house and hung out all morning long till like noon. It was great I don't want to get into details, but it was ever since this number five That was persistence number five was getting in the fucking cab with her and instead of just pointing out and going in my house Nope going 20 miles out of the fucking city to go home with this chick But that's how badass and hot she was and that's how much I wanted it And that's the story if you want it and you like her and you're cool and you can hang Hang hang in there. Don't be a fucking little bitch. Don't give yourself constraints constraints constraints Yeah, there's one there's one thing that I wanted to add before we end this and that's like I this is a lesson for me Because trust me as a guy who's like angry all the time Evil siffler didn't lose his cool when things were happening when things were getting thrown his way Oh, yeah, I could have been fucking he could as soon as you start getting all pissy and we're like fine Whatever girls walk right me in the bar. I could have gave up. Yeah, exactly as soon as you start getting pissy and mad Like it's no one wants to hang out with you when you start doing that. It's done. That's when you really lose That's when people, you know lose your lose your attraction for you That's when people start start losing interest with kindness That's what happens and the same thing that happened with me too. I was always being nice I never I never lost my cool in that in that matter And I was always like cool calm and like, you know still still very interested and still smiling so When that happens, don't lose your cool maintain Maintain your confidence and keep going. All right. Well, you know what guys? 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